INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d1ef7944-d999-4281-a544-8a8c47cbf743','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>每个人都有三个自我层面：公众的自我，展现外在形象与人格；私人的自我，在家人好友面前展现真实自我；以及私密自我，深藏内心深处，包含动机、倾向和习性。</p>
<p>每个人都有三个自我层面：公众的自我，展现外在形象与人格；私人的自我，在家人好友面前展现真实自我；以及私密自我，深藏内心深处，包含动机、倾向和习性。</p>
<p>也必要进行内在自我对话。探索了后，也需勇气面对和承担。</p>','2024-07-19 14:45:07.165','2024-07-19 14:45:07.165',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 14:45:07.164',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4066037c-b569-499b-898f-73b8336201e9','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 内在的三个自我：</p>
<p>1）公众的自我</p>
<p>（外在形象与人格）</p>
<p>2）私人的自我</p>
<p>（私底下与家人朋友相处时所展现的自我）</p>
<p>3） 私密自我</p>
<p>(深植于我们的還传基因，生活环境与社会制约的个人动机、倾向与习性）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 假如我们真实展现内在的自己，人们就会基于我们的真诚，，开始信任我们</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 当我们越了解自己，心胸越开放，就越能影响别人，因为别人会感受到你愿意敞开自己接受他人的影响与意见，手是别人也会开始对你敞开自己</p>','2024-07-19 14:48:40.026','2024-07-19 14:48:40.026',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 14:48:40.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('edc9a840-182c-487e-919d-bfdeca410566','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>自我检讨、反省与道歉为高尚美德，是自利利他品行。它不旦能搞好人际关系，并能影响他人，避开许多不必要的是非。</p>','2024-07-19 14:53:05.268','2024-07-19 14:53:05.268',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 14:53:05.267',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5438a97e-529b-4ba8-bdbe-b2353a849803','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>曾经一直觉得一个正直的人就是正正当当、有话直说的人，后来才明白其实这样子的人也是到处都得罪人。</p>
<p>从作者的角度来说，正直是谦卑的，也要勇气的。</p>
<p>勇敢的面对自己的不足，也谦卑不断的学习。</p>
<p>一个内心富足並愿意同理他人，也有勇气表達自己，这是一个有智慧的人格。我也想成为这样的人。</p>','2024-07-18 06:17:17.438','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3fb4f172-6f90-44a9-9ca6-7addd1e4e8ff','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>正直為我們的人生，帶來了很多好處，包括了智慧，拥有內在的安全感，有好的判斷力而不會有过度反應，正確且合理的看待事情，</p>
<p>富足心態，當安全感足來自內在，就不會對外界做比較， 對人產生富足的心，就不再擔心別人比你得到更多的功勞與成功，</p>
<p>統合綜合安全感 ，不是取决于別人對你的看法，r就和別人合作，而是从雙贏的思維，想出更好的點子。</p>','2024-07-19 14:22:12.756','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0095b833-0c73-49fd-9973-cfb4333f664d','424705de-c719-4f4d-9696-ba8fa0a211ca','2fcfdadd-560a-4bc9-b7e6-cfab6c3894ac','<p>用数据计算出来的个人可信度，可以为卖家和买家之间做了限额担保，免去了很多复杂的程序，让交易更为便捷。相信平台本身也肯定会有坏账vs盈利的一套计算数据分析。</p>','2024-08-29 18:52:49.87','2024-09-01 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-09-01 00:00:00.023','2024-09-01 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('76858ae7-da1f-46b0-998f-e0c81582a95c','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>人生只有生死，只有绵延。能活下来，能传下去，本身就是意义。抱着&ldquo;勤劳朴实，善解人意&rdquo;的目标过好当下的生活不愁没出路。</p>','2024-09-09 09:57:45.898','2024-09-09 09:57:45.898',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 09:57:45.897',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('07bc4710-0d7b-4782-904a-f5d090135169','6750a947-8ca4-421b-a38c-501100e33e52','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>在资讯时代，资讯流的确是趋势，但不代表这个趋势能永远不变</p>
<p>来的智能时代，认知其实也是一种企业赚钱方式</p>
<p>也就是说，未来很多人有可能会以认知付费来买单，让企业赚钱</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-16 11:16:26.716','2024-10-10 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-10-10 00:00:00.029','2024-10-10 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d0b2dbba-6f85-4ef1-82b6-e9ee8eea246b','2371bbf5-605e-4385-8822-344f5012ded2','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>麻煩是人生重要的線索，還有事过不去，还有人生功課沒修完，人生修練路上有時要「 那壺不開提那壺」 而麻煩是不開的那一壺，先得提，才能放下。</p>
<p>乱想都是我認為，小錯就是小錯，我認為無傷大雅， 別人未必如此感受，我認為的補償或許根本不是別人想要的。</p>
<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;證明自己最厲害是一種病，病因是缺乏自信，不知感恩，病徵是眼中沒有別人生命，在原地''打轉。證明自己厲害称之為愚痴。</p>','2024-08-29 04:30:53.811','2024-08-30 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-08-30 00:00:00.013','2024-08-30 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('926a7275-487d-41f2-a9c2-0221e8922b69','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>作者总结：用物、爱人、敬天。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">用物＝懂用物者得＂身＂；</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">丰盛的物资滋养身体，给日常生活带来舒适与喜悦。</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>愛人＝懂愛人者得＂心＂；</p>
<p>愛是幸福的震央。懂得愛人者不会缺愛，缺愛者内心只渴望被愛，通常不好好学习内观。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>敬天＝懂敬天者得＂灵＂；</p>
<p>感恩上天（宇宙）给于我们灵魂，我们才有等等的感受。对天地，需有敬畏之心，尊重生命，接受＂一切唯心造＂的安排。</p>','2024-07-19 15:34:40.132','2024-07-19 15:34:40.132',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 15:34:40.131',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9348f97d-01fc-4583-8448-dd0fb4b4323b','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','478843b9-e4b4-4090-81ad-cee1b2c570e6','<p>在家人好友面前展现真实自我</p>','2024-07-19 15:44:34.144','2024-07-19 15:44:34.144',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 15:44:34.143',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('92cee5dc-8733-4b1f-a33f-ccb91555e972','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。今日读后感悟总结篇：</span></p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">人生有起有落，坦然面對这一切。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">工作的成就与名利不代表一切，虽然大众都是那样的去标榜。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">除了工作，人的一生还有友情、亲情、爱情、宗教、兴趣、还有对社会的贡献。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">原来人的智力可以分为流体智力和晶体智力。</span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。 对新的读书会平台有这么反馈？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">暂时已经很不错了</span></p>','2024-07-19 15:29:32.078','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4ced86c7-e232-4f0a-9ec8-fd1fb7c93b48','f775b1cf-f18f-416c-8c73-22bac8ef7695','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 16：8月30日《新零售狂潮》第二章：数据赋能&ndash; 线上，线下都不能代表新零售</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">03 现金流：便携性 vs可信性（Page090-094）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">线上购买支付还是许多人觉得没有安全感。所以线下见面，还是会相对容易得到信任。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">但是这时代，你不喜欢线上还得喜欢。因为时代是向前走。学会保护自己。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-29 15:50:21.234','2024-08-30 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-08-30 00:00:00.013','2024-08-30 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3d78de05-af77-43fd-9951-fd6df9c6d7da','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>了解自己，控制自己、奉献自己</p>
<p>与内在的自我进行对话，了解自己，发挥自我意识、良知、独立意志、想象力的四大天赋</p>','2024-07-19 15:44:12.452','2024-07-19 15:45:37.384',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 15:45:37.382',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('60ed013b-373b-4324-b895-896983c5b5a9','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>用物，用勇气利用身边已有的事物</p>
<p>爱人，爱是一项动词, 爱身边的人</p>
<p>敬天，顺应着势，不逆天&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-19 15:46:45.415','2024-07-19 15:46:45.415',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 15:46:45.414',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3039a1d4-4b43-49ba-93e4-95df48727322','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','17135195-d32a-47cb-8da2-1ef2be7642e5','<p>每个人都有的三个自我：</p>
<p>公众的自我 - 外在形象与人格</p>
<p>私人的自我 - 私底下与家人朋友相处索展现的真实自我</p>
<p>埋藏在内心深处的私密自我 - 深植与我们遗传基因、生活环境与社会制约的个人动机、倾向与习性</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-19 15:55:03.239','2024-07-19 15:55:03.239',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 15:55:03.238',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('568d0f37-2e27-49d2-baef-267df6711993','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>把爱用在错的地方,踏上欲望跑步机,只会徒劳无功</p>','2024-07-19 16:01:13.731','2024-07-19 16:01:13.731',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 16:01:13.73',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a8e0fbd6-d499-4910-a295-59c8cdddc2ad','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>正直行为让我们说话更有说服力。</p>
<p>公司领导讲一套做一套的话，就难赢得员工的认同。</p>','2024-07-19 22:02:29.065','2024-07-19 22:02:29.065',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 22:02:29.063',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a568df3c-84c0-4df6-a773-32a0757ccbb9','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>Pg257 - 260</p>
<p>东西要来用的，爱留给人，敬畏的是自然。</p>
<p>看了这本书，给自己很多肯定与鼓励。</p>
<p>还有一些新的、有价值方向。生命真正的意义与价值，跟自己的关系，跟人的美好关系。</p>
<p>什么是不必要的关系，好好经营的关系。</p>
<p>有关读书平台：</p>
<p>蛮好的，自律自主，期待28/7; 交流会。平日自己读书，有机会聚会很重要。</p>','2024-07-19 23:34:05.854','2024-07-19 23:34:07.462',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 23:34:07.461',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0a7bd4b9-d8fb-44e9-913a-2b469ea41ec7','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>我把这本书重启人生献给我父亲！</p>
<p>年迈77岁人生还要面对人生中最大痛苦和挑战。他因糖尿病伤口在一个月内连续做了四次手术，整个过程非常煎熬&hellip;昨天终于听到医生的好消息，可能下个星期可以出院回家，终于脸上有微微的笑容！</p>
<p>重启人生这本适合我父亲面对截肢过的他希望能更勇敢面度第二人生和更加珍惜自己未来日子&hellip;能够接受和走出人生低潮，我们一家给予100%力量帮助他重启新人生！</p>
<p><br>祝福我父亲健康、顺利和平安面度接下来的种种不适应和挑战！</p>
<p>在阅读重启人生的当儿，同时看着父亲面对人生的挑战，让我对自己的人生需要更好好规划，珍惜当下！</p>
<p>祝福大家健康生活！</p>','2024-07-19 23:58:58.247','2024-07-19 23:58:58.247',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 23:58:58.246',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('db995b16-6347-4cf4-8636-9fcb19c9e3e7','923a66fc-40ff-4d11-8283-4c53bcfe4234','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>顺人性做事.让利益,生意可以长做. Referral programme 在企业上扮演十分重要的角色.顾客的一句话胜千语的广告.</p>','2024-09-09 12:05:46.339','2024-09-10 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-09-10 00:00:00.008','2024-09-10 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('676eb956-0599-468a-a55a-aded2b6ea781','edd95530-41e4-42a4-833d-ebd3b924a847','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>一无所有,其实是一种很棒的感觉.</p>
<p>没有什么可以失去,因此什么都不怕.</p>
<p>是这样吗？</p>','2024-09-28 15:00:13.731','2024-09-28 15:00:21.099',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-28 15:00:21.098',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2dc1b01b-7f80-4596-a0bf-e49e7ad86ca0','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>1.今日读了这本书后觉得不同凡响，以前我们都会在跑步机上一直走一直走，努力向前走，可不知道我们已经开始衰退了，我不敢面对，我们牺牲了我们的时间在工作上，而忽略了家人，朋友。当我们发现有了第二曲线，有的人勇敢做出改变，有的原地踏步，改变的人他们开始传授他们的智慧给年青人，让年轻人获益良多，然而他们也满足他们的生活，也受到尊重。他们有重生般，也得到了新的生活。</p>
<p>2.我觉得读书的平台很好，我们可以一边读书一边参考别人的意见。而且，它能事先把感悟写好，到了时间就自动化的上载上来，让我们感到很方便，也不必赶着要写出感悟。然而，它可以让我们一段一段的写，更好让我们详细阅读，和清楚了解书的内容。</p>','2024-06-21 04:01:31.146','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('427b9611-e6ef-4be9-a094-e5823b07caac','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>1)之前讀的很多本書，都能和這本書連接起來，整個人就覺得很神奇，但其實自己心裡明白，縱使是各個不同的表達，可是終歸離不開真理。順流，臣服，走出自己的&ldquo;以為&rdquo;， 學習用新的視角詮釋事情。我還想起了，孔子說的三十而立，四十而不惑，五十而知天命，這些，都和書裡的流體智力轉換到晶體智力雷同。</p>
<p>每個年紀，該有那個年紀的使命，我們要學習的，就是懂得順應天地，與天地合一，創造更大價值。佛教裡有句話說得很好，隨順因緣。懂得順應因緣不勉強，是一種智慧。</p>
<p>2）功能和使用上，暫時都沒有什麼問題。或許，可以把一些不錯的讀書分享，做一個分享頁面（也可以在首頁），在大家登入進來的時候可以看到。這樣即可以起到分享的作用，又可以激發其他人想看那本書的好奇心。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 13:09:21.035','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fbc9e607-3ac5-4d6f-8719-ae038cf69c82','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY 50</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> &ndash; 20/7/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">六）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">1) </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟总结篇：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; text-indent: .25in; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">人生的丰度，取决于你生命纵橫轴的交集。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; text-indent: .25in; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">纵轴是向死而生，橫轴是生活质量的展现。若二者相互映辉，无异于成就一条毕直的斜杆线；反之，一个大曲折。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; text-indent: .25in; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">孔夫子对自己一生的评述：吾十五而志于学，三十而立，四十而不惑，五十而知天命，六十而顺，七十而隨心所欲，不逾矩。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; text-indent: .25in; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">四十而不惑，恰如本书论及的晶体智力曲线。若能不惑，生命的橫轴将再次昂首闊步，促成新的向上曲线。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; text-indent: .25in; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><br><span style="background: white;">2) </span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">对新的读书会平台有什么反馈</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">？</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; text-indent: .25in; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">无</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">！</span></p>','2024-07-09 05:36:10.884','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>一开始对这本书没有兴趣，畢竟我不是什么成功人士，也还不够＂老＂，读到差不多要完的时候，才开始有感觉。</p>
<p>看到过去自己曾经很迷茫，现在也是迷茫，但是我知道自己的迷茫是会过去的，赚钱养家糊口是必做的，也同时间找到自己喜欢和热爱的目标，让职涯本身成为奬历。</p>
<p>没有太迟，去爱去恨去苦去哭去笑，去吧！做自己愿意的。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>2）</p>
<p>新平台，新的习惯，也带来了更多的自由空间，可以suka suka 一次过看一个星期的，然后快乐的去旅行。</p>
<p>也可以多读几本书了。</p>
<p>谢谢班长的用心，用心的人最美。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-12 06:10:37.142','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('055f86ec-75c8-4349-8c84-4819c7bcc49d','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','0a08fea5-5f22-4ee8-a6b0-7c46e27899cf','<p>Day 50 ：7月20日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》</p>
<p><br>🎯1) 今日读后感悟总结篇：</p>
<p>但愿自己真的可以像书上所说的每一个点，重启自己的人生。</p>
<p><br>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;2) 对新的读书会平台有什么反馈？</p>
<p>人生经历像一个简单的模型，晚年的痛苦、职涯到达顶点的职业声望。感谢Rina再度让我完成了一本完美的重启人生，也明白自己后续的路程该要转换。</p>','2024-07-15 13:55:42.131','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('524efa3b-74b2-4d7b-b33f-44dcbe810bcc','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','5c338adf-cc96-40a4-afe9-8fb6eae2e776','<p>清清楚楚、踏踏实实、勇敢的面对人生的下半场</p>
<p>这样的读书会模式很好，用自己的节奏去完成</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 13:04:51.371','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e196f2b1-a0f4-4b9e-b031-c8a52a012c3b','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>1.）知足常乐.感恩所经历和拥有. Everything happen for good reason.做好活好当下.做深大石头.向内求,向外修🙏.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>2.）get used to it for the new system.喜欢可以schedule reading.可以重看. Good effort 👍</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 04:55:38.756','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('11c8a7d9-6969-413f-91c1-35c3e3d6ab5e','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>正直的甜美果实</p>
<p>1. 智慧：<br>&nbsp; &nbsp;- 内在安全感带来更好的判断力，避免过度反应，让生活平衡<br>&nbsp; &nbsp;- 合理适度的观点看待事物</p>
<p>2. 富足心态：<br>&nbsp; &nbsp;- 内在安全感让我们不再与他人比较，拥有满足的心境。</p>
<p>3. 统合综效：<br>&nbsp; &nbsp;- 安全感不依赖他人的看法，可以与他人合作，产生双赢的想法。</p>
<p>4. 建立互信关系：<br>&nbsp; &nbsp;- 个人与组织正直品格，能与利益相关者建立信任。<br>&nbsp; &nbsp;- 信任关系是企业竞争力、弹性、质量等优势基础。<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">伦理与正直</span></p>
<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;真正的伦理与正直：<br>&nbsp; - 伦理应成为组织的核心价值，贯穿日常运营。<br>&nbsp; - 领导人以身作则，激发员工效仿，形成良好文化。</p>','2024-07-16 04:56:38.004','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cd223fe2-ebd7-43dc-be9f-d836a1a7fdfc','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>1.我现在的年龄就是作者所说的年龄。这本书给我了一些新的启发。虽然在公司上，是老板。观念上慢慢要改变成转换渠道，上班还是一样上班，只是慢慢去向第二曲线。</p>
<p>希望自己有勇气，能力，恒心去改变。</p>
<p>2.有了这个平台可以把握自己的时间写上心得报告。很有伸缩性。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-16 13:20:17.503','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c06e7c4e-d67b-424f-bd2b-2a68f8d0b81e','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>1) 读后感悟总结篇：</p>
<p>非常感恩，在流体智慧的末端、晶体智慧的开端，阅读了《重启人生》，让我可以提早做好身心准备，更好的迎接职涯后的另一个角色。</p>
<p>就如作者所说，我的人生下半场将以 &ldquo;教练&rdquo; 的身分继续下去，即不再是前线作战的球员，而是给予辅导/引导/督导/指导。</p>
<p><br>2) 对新的读书会平台有什么反馈？</p>
<p>非常好的平台，谢谢Rina的用心。</p>','2024-07-18 09:21:24.954','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('01f749ee-ae2b-42b7-9720-d1f3a90cbdf0','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>正直的甜美果实。</p>
<p>第一智慧。来自内在的安全感。会给我们有更好的判断力，生活平衡，能够说到做到，言行一致。</p>
<p>第二，富足心态。不去做比较。做好自己。世间事无好坏，全为思想使然。</p>
<p>第三，统合综效 凡事都从双赢思维着想。你好，我好，大家好。</p>
<p>第四，是建立互信关系。得到信任，信赖。这个是最重要的。</p>
<p>大企业的伦理训练有没有从原则正直的方向去拟定公司的宣言制度。谦卑和以勇气是关键。纯粹为面子出发一定会出问题。</p>
<p>当每一个人都能负起责任，已成为本性。而不是某个领导部门要求你做的事。团队已走向正轨。</p>
<p>好领导要以身作则，启发众人见贤思齐。</p>
<p>如果能让员工参与论理熟知的制定他们也会为自己言行一致。人人能以原则为信念，更有勇气遵循原则行事。</p>','2024-07-19 00:33:33.651','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f5e0588f-0922-470f-9db0-41b83e191804','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>1) 这本书给我蛮多的启发。我对人生接下来的阶段比较淡定。我一直没有详细去规划退休后的生活，我会开始比较具体的规划吧。或许，自己目前还是太忙着学习养育青春期的孩子。孩子进入青春期带来的挑战让我焦头烂额。也提醒我，我哪些方面可以提升自己。这也是第二曲线的一部分。没修好的人生功课，它始终会来。所以，第二曲线的确是让自己活得更好。</p>
<p>2）谢谢Rina的用心，这个平台已经有了可以互动的方法。只可惜，自己太忙，没花时间给反馈。希望下一本书会做到。我始终保持把笔记的目的是给自己的一个记录和整理。有时候是和自己过去的学习和阅读的一个连结。这是我强化自己学习的方法。所以，有时候写多了，很唠叨。</p>','2024-07-19 02:23:15.647','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8e4005ff-02e8-41be-94f5-32b6caca3dd3','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>《重启人生》</p>
<p>🎯&nbsp; 1） 今日读后感悟总结篇：</p>
<p>要坦然面對体力与能力的衰退。</p>
<p>以平常心看待得失与荣耀， 勇於斷捨離，維持正念与辅助他人，重启人生之旅，让自己的下半生过得精采。</p>','2024-07-19 06:01:30.604','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e13f2463-7aca-4756-a049-fc89eabf0d2a','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>正直带来的甜美果实：</p>
<p>1）智慧，带给自己内在安全感。 2）富足心态 - 世间事无好坏，全为思想使然。 3）统合综效 - 动机和意图是从双赢思维出发&nbsp; 4）与所有厉害关系人建立互相信任关系 - 这是最牛的能力</p>
<p>正直和伦理，应该是管理人的需要拥有的条件。让原则控制一切，不是让某一个人、政策所操控，在管理伦理上会遇到的风浪才会少一点。否则，很多事都是人为的。这是需要考验领导人的勇气。</p>','2024-07-19 03:25:23.559','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e13073f4-c728-4697-b0a8-53e6f0ff1936','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 50 ：7月20日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>🎯1) 今日读后感悟总结篇：<br>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;2) 对新的读书会平台有什么反馈？</p>
<p>启迪人心的智慧指南教导我重新设想余生。如何过得更有意义、快乐幸福的人生。</p>
<p>重新思考成功，不自我物化，戒掉对成功的瘾。</p>
<p>活好；思考失败、死亡，击败恐惧，好好活着。</p>
<p>认识自己：从追求外在成就，到发展内在的力量。</p>
<p>化脆弱为力量：勇敢示弱，生活中的爱会成长。</p>
<p>带着喜悦更深层的使命感，接受挫折带来的礼物。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>对新的读书会的平台反馈是，对我而言，新手需要阅读环境，很好的培养与纪律自己阅读习惯。可以向其他人学习。读了自在沟通与重启人生，对我个人成长很实用。</p>
<p>感恩大家</p>
<p>感恩好朋友Jeccy</p>
<p>感恩Rina</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-19 07:59:15.713','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>阅读《重启人生》，最大的认知就是晶体智力这个词汇，第二曲线，就是重启的含义在里面。人会随着年岁的增长，各方面的身体机能将会面临力不从心的阶段，如果过于着于过往世俗的事务和奖励，或执着于未来的不可面对的衰退，将是浪费现在的自己。第一次接触这些词汇：对成功上瘾、奋斗者的诅咒、世俗的成就瘾等词汇有点惊讶，也打开了我另外的认知。我觉得人来到这个世界，必有他要执行的使命和任务，每个人都希望自己活出生命最大价值，幸福就是活出有意义的生活。感谢遇见这本书，开启了我对人生后半场该有的思维和心态。</p>
<p>新的读书平台，很有创意，很有心思。唯一一个自己无法善用淋漓尽致的是离开了办公室的电脑，就无法随时看到其他人的分享。</p>','2024-07-18 05:32:18.754','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6fe69312-e23b-489a-87fc-d81a39f44da5','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>个人的成功指的是战胜自己。唯有遵循正直与原则的人，才有能力领导他人。</p>','2024-07-20 06:14:42.411','2024-07-22 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e1d8da69-f21b-4b36-9223-7a5ecbcb6866','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>人会有遗憾或许是因为没有尽全力。</p>
<p>我想留下什么给后世？</p>
<p>世界需要我做什么？</p>
<p>我擅长什么？</p>
<p>这些都是值得深思，并且定义了我的使命的问题。我真希望我可以做些什么！</p>','2024-07-23 14:52:24.409','2024-07-23 14:52:24.409',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 14:52:24.408',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f253ff01-70c7-4252-ab29-87297d4c11ca','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>追求首要成就取决于团队合作，团队的力量，永远比单打独斗的力量大。</p>','2024-07-28 05:41:15.256','2024-07-28 05:41:15.256',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 05:41:15.256',NULL,NULL);
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<p>从时钟思维转换成罗盤思维,把焦点从时间表转换成优先顺序</p>','2024-07-23 14:55:24.502','2024-07-25 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a985149a-7d74-48aa-82be-f56fac06a0f0','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="MsoNormal">Day20<span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>7<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>20<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》第二部</span> 12<span lang="ZH-CN">成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">真正的甜美果实</span>&ndash; <span lang="ZH-CN">应用与建议（</span>Page 114 - 120<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">第一个果实：智慧。内在安全感，会有更好的判断力，取得生活平衡。说到做到，言行一致。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">第二果实：富足心态。内在安全感才不会与外界做比较。你将人生视为不断向外擴张的聚宝盆。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">世间事物好坏，全为思想使然。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">第三果实：统合综效：双赢思维合作。带着找出最好选项的意图，秉持勇气与体谅，表达自己的想法或看法，来达到双赢合作关系。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">正直果实：与所有利害关系人建立互信关系。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">人人不仅以不变的原则为信念，更有勇气遵循原则行事。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">应用与建议</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">拥有全然正直的品格意谓着，听从自己的良知，遵循原则行事。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">面对沟通而感受输赢的局面，更需要智慧与勇气去表达自己的想法与看法。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">自从阅读了高效人士七习惯，开始在生活中，学习与获得统合综效的果实。</p>','2024-07-19 09:12:32.744','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>读书会平台已经习惯，简便操作，没问题。</p>','2024-07-19 10:11:17.35','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('084ae445-bc23-4537-96e4-79a4c689c17f','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>1）人会因为想给予更多而沦陷在名利与物质里，但如果把一切都专注放在它们上 就会导致错失。</p>
<p>2） 很好</p>','2024-07-19 10:33:59.016','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-19 12:22:30.698','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('27a03200-2385-4b08-8469-ca8c80b6b9db','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 50 ：7月20日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>🎯1) 今日读后感悟总结篇：</p>
<p><br>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;这本书让我又深一层了解自己。</p>
<p>里面有很多句新词句：</p>
<p>欲望跑步机。<br>戒掉渴望成功上瘾。<br>往小修炼，感恩小事。<br>示弱更有力量。<br>学会不恐惧，直视恐惧。<br>最有意义的人生，往往很痛苦。<br>钓鱼缐抛进新一天的落潮。<br>人伟大在于转变。<br>找到你的棉花糖。<br>工作本身就是奖励。</p>
<p>总结：<br>人必定会有遇到哀老，死亡，以及烦恼。生活就是修行，修行就是生活啊！老老实实在生活中修！活出生命最大的价值！快乐要多，悲伤要少！做自己热爱又有意义的事，就跳吧！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;2) 对新的读书会平台有什么反馈？</p>
<p>比之前用wasap 好用😅可以提前提交感悟！Good 👍👍👍👍👍。</p>
<p>旧方式也OK, 因为有当下的体验。哈哈</p>','2024-07-18 15:39:02.969','2024-07-20 00:00:31.332',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 16:00:00','2024-07-20 00:00:31.33',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8025eabd-00c3-4e31-8c0e-e2ecaee1a124','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>从走上教育这平台，在杏坛上35年，就是一个轨道走到尽头，从没想过要换跑道。就这样平平淡淡走完人生的上半场。有所得的是尽心尽力得教育了许许多多的学子。如说要重启这人生，应该是不会了。</p>
<p>读书平台养成了每天读书的习惯，而且是细读，感悟，阔展了思维。感恩Rina!</p>','2024-07-20 01:21:15.361','2024-07-20 01:21:15.361',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 01:21:15.361',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('299d5470-70c7-4a95-b06a-2f644204424a','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>做到正直，可带来的好处</p>
<ol>
<li>智慧 - 安全感来自内在，当你对事情有着成熟的判断，不陷二分法，就会&ldquo;说到做到，言行一致&rdquo;</li>
<li>富足心态 - 安全感来自内在，就不会一直与外界做比较。&ldquo;世间事无好坏，全为思想使然&rdquo;</li>
<li>统合综效 - 有着双赢思维的点子</li>
<li>与人建立互相信任的关系</li>
</ol>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-20 02:48:13.753','2024-07-20 02:48:13.753',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 02:48:13.752',NULL,NULL);
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<p>2) 平台有提醒功能，看得出Rina班长的用心。</p>','2024-07-20 04:17:54.874','2024-07-20 04:17:54.874',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 04:17:54.873',NULL,NULL);
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<p>时时刻刻的注意我爱,爱我的人的态度和思维.给于陪伴. Balance life.</p>','2024-08-30 00:38:48.344','2024-08-30 00:38:48.344',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 00:38:48.343',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c62b71e4-e8da-4146-b23e-c3664be2aa63','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','eae33eae-de50-4837-bc3d-f47b0e4b5d76','<p>感恩就在我徘徊在十字路口時感的迷茫能讀到《重启人生》，現今是如何把讀到的學以致用，去重新了解自己的價值，以新的领悟及正能量去面對生活！</p>
<p>這讀書平台可以讓我有規律讀完一本好書！也能逼自己分享讀后感.....谢谢Rina🙏 感恩.....</p>','2024-07-20 04:24:09.064','2024-07-20 04:25:16.664',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 04:25:16.663',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e1ab0d2d-a1e2-44ab-bcb0-0b3eae59ee72','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>勤劳朴实，善解人意。</p>
<p>虽然字字都明白，要做到真的要会很多东西。</p>
<p>做就对了。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-09 12:10:43.446','2024-09-09 12:10:43.446',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 12:10:43.445',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bb2fc398-a296-4dc9-9a8c-0f180c92f7b3','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>正直带来的好处：</p>
<ol>
<li>智慧</li>
<li>富足心态</li>
<li>统合综效</li>
</ol>
<p>时刻检视自己所做的每件事。</p>','2024-07-20 06:27:30.426','2024-07-20 06:27:30.426',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 06:27:30.425',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('55b5a72f-cec3-4608-b9dc-bedcbe5b7dda','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>虽说人生有选择，但我认为有个境界，比积极选择还高，就是向行云流水般，接受宇宙定律，无论是以什么形态存在，随着风向和地心引力往该去的地方去，在零时差的当下活出该有的生活、做该做的事，尽心尽力，就是自由自在，心有喜悦。不需要别人认可、不需要与人攀比、也不需要刻意影响他人。你要快乐，就有快乐。</p>','2024-07-20 09:06:23.541','2024-07-20 09:07:20.709',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 09:07:20.708',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ab278a76-e601-446d-83db-1e31a0930233','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>又回去再看一看在飞机上遇到的这位知名人士说的话，如果可以早点死......希望自己活到最后不会这么谁，不会后悔自己的这一世来了这么一趟。</p>
<p>感谢我在这一刻首先读到了这一本书。我们都要承认自己会衰老，我们在岗位也会有退下的一天，甚至可能比我们想象中更早被取代。然而，只要我们拥有富足心态，只要我们知道日后还可以转换人生跑道，放下&ldquo;欲望跑步机&rdquo;，做我们愿意做的，为谋求共同利益而奉献自己人生的，那就是人生最完美的片尾曲。</p>
<p>感谢这本书让我再次看见自己的慌张不安，但正在十字路口上，我知道修身修心的重要，更知道怎样让自己每一天稳步前进。</p>
<p>//////</p>
<p>我确实也喜欢whatapps的当下感觉。主要是手机让我随时进入阅读和写读后感，而不需要打开Apps。但凡事都有适应过程，只要对我们有意义的事，我不介意努力适应。感谢一切。</p>','2024-07-20 10:24:34.544','2024-07-20 10:24:34.544',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 10:24:34.543',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('08be663f-2bac-4d3e-abbd-d9b2f7bd69fc','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>你要探究你的心，胜过探究一切，因为一切果效是由心而发。由心出发的人，他会抛开执着，回归谦卑。在自省的过程中，他对自己与他人展现无比诚恳与真实的一面。如果你屈服于籍口，决定不处理眼前的难题，你的内心深知【我没有努力过】。接受巨大的挑战可为你免除拒绝许多小事的麻烦。</p>','2024-07-10 05:55:53.248','2024-07-23 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c91c8bd6-ceb1-4b11-9c7d-f10c93b8309d','8f19b5bd-1c4f-4562-8222-8aadb7c32faa','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>使用雙贏思維。在所想要的東西和別人想要的東西之間找到平衡。</p>','2024-09-28 11:45:28.43','2024-10-26 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-10-26 00:00:00.005','2024-10-26 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d4623b87-51e0-4f69-b869-6c9e4ca6c5e8','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>明白无常，人生第二曲线会过得更踏实和发下执着。</p>
<p>接受无常，更会珍惜曾经所错过的。</p>
<p>有爱与感恩经营每一天。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-20 13:23:52.334','2024-07-20 13:23:52.334',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 13:23:52.333',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5a4cec9b-926b-4a87-8bc8-65a90e2b5d99','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>正直可带来许多好处：</p>
<ol>
<li>智慧</li>
<li>富足心态</li>
<li>统合综效</li>
<li>与所有利害关系人建立互信关系</li>
</ol>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>不能在产品完成后，再要求品质，你必须从品质的观点检视自己所做的每件事。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>原则控制了一切，而不是由某些人、专案或政策所掌控。</p>','2024-07-20 13:30:50.083','2024-07-20 13:30:50.083',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 13:30:50.082',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0f2f1f2e-fa1a-459d-9d7f-b4cd56ab2865','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>带来美好成果的因素</p>
<p>1.智慧</p>
<p>2.富足心态</p>
<p>3.统会综效</p>
<p>4.建立互信关系。</p>','2024-07-20 13:51:38.499','2024-07-20 13:51:38.499',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 13:51:38.499',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dc47d417-689c-4d1c-8e04-2226e27c7a7c','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>内在智慧</p>
<p>富足心态</p>
<p>统合综效</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-20 13:59:47.173','2024-07-20 13:59:47.173',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 13:59:47.172',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('33fe7719-2793-4a8f-9090-8477f781d47f','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','478843b9-e4b4-4090-81ad-cee1b2c570e6','<p>智慧&nbsp;富足心态&nbsp;统合综效</p>','2024-07-20 14:08:19.4','2024-07-20 14:08:19.4',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 14:08:19.399',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a30f9caf-dd50-4523-86f6-19decaa73042','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">智慧与富足心态相结合，通过统合综效，与所有利害关系人建立互信关系，最终收获真正的甜美果实。</span></p>','2024-07-20 12:26:56.463','2024-07-20 12:26:59.098',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 12:26:59.097',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c83e815c-9439-4ad7-a3bd-0479301532da','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>1) 坦然接受自己的衰退，设法进入人生第二曲线，重启人生。</p>
<p>2）感谢新读书会平台，感恩Rina🙏</p>','2024-07-20 12:28:16.238','2024-07-20 12:28:16.238',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 12:28:16.237',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6a0c04d6-d20c-4353-91f0-61c23ac959c5','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<ol>
<li>重起人生，是一本值得推荐的书，让我觉得人生的下半身也可以活的很精彩，转变很重要，接受，面对，看清自己。转型是我们的选择之一</li>
<li>很特别的方式，Rina 班长很用心去设计，感恩☺️</li>
</ol>','2024-07-20 12:30:25.042','2024-07-20 12:30:25.042',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 12:30:25.041',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4ea74d8d-58a6-4368-84d7-65eba9750788','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>正直需要勇气，勇气哪里来？以原则为中心。不必需要认同任何人，以自然法则为依归即可。然后，自己必须谦卑，谦卑的人拥有宽大的心胸，长远的眼界。</p>','2024-07-20 12:31:13.079','2024-07-20 12:31:13.079',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 12:31:13.078',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('597397e2-d884-4ad6-bbd6-64f348aa241f','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>先要承认自己的脆弱，才有机会重启</li>
<li>人本来就会衰老，会有被取代的一天，要承认这一点</li>
<li>放下追求名利、成功，这不代表了自我的价值</li>
</ul>
<p>===</p>
<p>我觉得要读到哪里对电子书不太友善，有些时候需要分成2天的，标题只写了cont&lsquo;无法猜测要读到哪里。&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-20 12:33:30.817','2024-07-20 12:33:30.817',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 12:33:30.816',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e7005287-2f14-4eae-b16d-557fc8dd866a','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>此书提供了让人于另一角度思考问题，同时认清中年后必然得面对的事实以及做准备等。</p>','2024-07-20 12:55:25.805','2024-07-20 12:55:25.805',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 12:55:25.804',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('774d3c0e-d07e-4843-987e-8663a9a4aa6f','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>正直为人生带来的好处：</p>
<p>1) 智慧～能有更好的判断力。</p>
<p>2) 富足心态～不与外界作比较。</p>
<p>3) 统合综效～能与他人合作，从双赢思维想出更好的点子。</p>
<p>4) 与所有利害关系人建立互信关系～值得信赖。</p>','2024-07-20 13:22:40.668','2024-07-20 13:22:40.668',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 13:22:40.667',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f124ed74-d8dd-4224-8734-165ff5a07a64','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','5e3f10f7-6730-45c8-bdb1-ff31e3f024ba','<p>感恩有机会阅读这本书，让我看见重启的力量。</p>
<p>倘若能够理解到生命的脆弱和曲线，我们就能活在当下。</p>','2024-07-20 14:16:26.727','2024-07-20 14:16:26.727',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 14:16:26.727',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('43369917-e074-41f4-a69c-49bb27ca18df','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>我们为自己负责，思言行举止不积极主动，很难会达到个人成功！建立好习惯以达个人成功。</p>','2024-07-20 11:47:49.792','2024-07-22 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('865bae7e-0dc4-45b7-84dc-4b5c6eb4de87','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p>1）今日读后感悟总结篇 ：不同的年纪就会有不同的风景，不同的年纪也有不同的心境，不必执着于年轻时曾经历过的成功，人生其实只是一场经历，世上每个人到最后都要面对死亡，还是得学习好好的把每个当下活好，这样就人生无悔了！每个人对成功的定义都不一样，其实还是得问回自己，到底想过怎样的晚年？ 才能明确的去重启自己的后半辈子人生！</p>
<p>2）对新的读书会平台有什么反馈？：暂时没有什么想法，只想感谢所有为这平台付出的队友们，您们真棒1</p>','2024-07-20 14:25:22.65','2024-07-20 14:25:22.65',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 14:25:22.648',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f3927392-68f7-4500-8399-4e465bc3b742','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>当领导为达目的不折手段，员工就学会察颜观色。推动伦理专案使员工变得敏感，不能扼止违反伦理行为。</p>
<p>企业的伦理困境与品质困境相似，必须一开始就将对品质的要求设计导入制程。当每个人负起个人责任，遵循伦理操守，伦理已经成为本性的一部分。</p>','2024-07-20 14:25:39.206','2024-07-20 14:25:39.206',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 14:25:39.205',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('89021e7d-67ae-4e93-8403-665dd3744d9e','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>花无百日红，生命无常，活在当下。珍惜眼前人。</p>
<p>成功不一定是拥有权力，金钱来衡量。最重要是内在丰盛</p>','2024-07-20 14:28:37.039','2024-07-20 14:28:37.039',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 14:28:37.037',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2f996a4a-ea9d-46de-a714-8baea4acf773','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day20：7月20日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">真正的甜美果实&ndash; 应用与建议（Page 114 - 120）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">真正的甜美果实</span></p>
<ol class="ol1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">智慧</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">富足心态</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">统合综效</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">以所有厉害关系人建立互相关系。</span></li>
</ol>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一人定国非常重要，monkey see monkey do &hellip; 只要守住原则做事，一切就会align ..</span></p>','2024-07-20 14:37:49.104','2024-07-20 14:37:49.104',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 14:37:49.103',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('22c5d7fe-448f-434c-a27d-65803290fce0','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>虽还没有步入中年，但是此书给了我的对自己人生后半部的感悟很大，一直以来对未来有很大的迷茫，也担心年龄增长，虽然这两年，心态上做了很大的调整，但是还是会有担忧，但此书给了我很大的激励，明白了，年龄真的不设限，也不要局限自己的能力，和可做的，生活的意义才应该在我们的关注圈！</p>
<p>人生岁月漫长，珍惜当下，活在当下，才不忘此生！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>===</p>
<p>新的平台不错，不用 WhatsApp，没有那么多的信息！但是不会特别去看他人的感悟！</p>','2024-07-20 14:42:11.828','2024-07-20 14:42:11.828',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 14:42:11.827',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ba7597e1-16bb-416f-8bfc-5bd0f5b105bf','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>The Fruits of Integrity:-Wisdom, Abundance Mentality, Synergy and relationships of Trust with all stakeholders.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-20 14:56:39.089','2024-07-20 14:56:39.089',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 14:56:39.088',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9cf721b8-d446-45f1-b1ba-aea057da9cc7','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>古人云：不經一番寒徹骨，焉得梅花撲鼻香！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>有许多历练的人在阅读之后更容易＂重启人生＂。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>非常感恩作者把自己的人生分享得那么彻底，同时让我们觉察许多自己的错误坚持，而离苦得乐。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>对于现代人接收的意识，在追求成功的方式比较难于达到各方面的平衡，而导致的忙、盲、茫，只会不断的＂用物＂来填补各方面的空缺，而且几乎接触到的每个人80％以上都是这么想、这么做的，加上多数长辈也是这么说，那样的教、如此一般的传承下来，结果很多错误的意识就变成对的了，一代传一代的被＂优化＂成一门独特快速达到＂成功＂的秘诀！！？？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>心理专家分析，在未来的30年，超过50％以上的人类因为缺爱的因素，都会面对心理上、精神上问题的折磨，从而探讨用＂爱＂来解决问题。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>感谢新读书会的平台，感恩Rina的贡献。期待这是个充满爱的平台！</p>
<p>大家一起加油！感谢各位同学的分享。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>感恩我们伟大的往圣先贤思想家（老子，释迦牟尼，孔子），早在2500多年前，就已经把正确的＂为人教育＂传承下来给后人。</p>','2024-07-20 14:36:35.667','2024-07-20 14:55:17.383',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 14:55:17.382',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ad9ec415-505b-4222-9faa-9b3316b299ba','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>智慧 - 自己有安全感，就不会再做决定时陷入犹豫</p>
<p>富足心态 - 安全感来自内在，不会计较，知足常乐，有就有，没有也罢了</p>
<p>统合综效 - 有着双赢思维的点子，有勇气表达，也谦虚聆听他人</p>
<p>互相信任</p>','2024-07-20 14:49:51.645','2024-07-20 14:49:51.645',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 14:49:51.644',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('58e7039b-2aa8-4500-a7c7-161f7efc4963','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>正直的甜美果实：</p>
<p>智慧</p>
<p>富足心态</p>
<p>统合综效</p>
<p>与利害关系建立互信关系</p>','2024-07-20 14:51:38.322','2024-07-20 14:51:38.322',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 14:51:38.321',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('db05e562-a65d-4035-8b14-3d49c9763e9b','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>富足心态，当我们的安全感是来自内在，我们就不会一直与外界做比较</p>','2024-07-20 14:57:50.309','2024-07-20 14:57:50.309',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 14:57:50.309',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fc64889a-e89f-4d63-87b8-79215cd4d432','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<p>重启人生真的是一本很棒的书，对自己曾经在事业最高峰的时候因一些因素退出工作而走入迷茫之中。然而这本书点亮了也看见希望，其实走到某个点是需要改变，承认和接纳脆弱，人生迈向第二曲线，重启服务和贡献社会，分享人生经验与智慧。</p>','2024-07-20 15:00:35.124','2024-07-20 15:00:35.124',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 15:00:35.124',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('378736a7-d379-464e-8d52-381283baf39c','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>正直能够带来的美好果实包括：</p>
<ul>
<li>智慧</li>
<li>富足心态</li>
<li>综合综效</li>
<li>与所有厉害关系人建立互信关系。</li>
</ul>','2024-07-20 15:02:00.974','2024-07-20 15:02:00.974',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 15:02:00.973',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5412c8f9-e2ef-4d2f-ab2e-f932846d3f37','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>1）人生的秘诀就是&ldquo;去爱,去做你愿意做的事</p>
<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;我们需要学习一套新的人生技能,一个新公&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;式,才能愈过愈美好</p>
<p>2）很喜欢蜕变读书会的&ldquo;logo",有毛毛虫蜕变成&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 美丽蝴蝶的启示</p>
<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;万事开头难,开始有点不习惯这样的方式读书,&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;很快就适应了新的读书会平台🙏</p>','2024-07-20 15:17:36.945','2024-07-20 15:17:36.945',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 15:17:36.944',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0bf83863-b1e6-4430-add8-0a10214fa01e','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>1）</p>
<p>每个人每个时间段都有其特定的任务。</p>
<p>少年时努力学习。</p>
<p>青年时为未来奋斗。</p>
<p>中年时可以继续奋斗，也可以守成。</p>
<p>老年时享受岁月。</p>
<p>在适当的时候做最适当的决定。</p>
<p>重启人生就是告诉大家，人可以活得不一样。</p>
<p>与其对抗岁月，不如顺应岁月的转动，去调整自己的步伐。</p>
<p>在人生当中，有两种智力：流体智力和晶体智力。</p>
<p>在流体智力曲线向上走的时候，尽情发挥，能攀多高就爬多高。</p>
<p>但到了流体智力曲线图开始往下走的时候，就要先接受事实的发生。不要逃避，要调整自己。</p>
<p>随着晶体智力的曲线的发展，找到自己觉得合适的方法，再度发挥自己的力量。</p>
<p>快乐幸福友爱地活着，才是人生的意义吧！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>2）目前的读书会平台，排版很友好。简单明了。</p>','2024-07-20 15:22:25.143','2024-07-20 15:22:26.711',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 15:22:26.71',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2e3af3d2-9ba1-4334-8bb2-65f7ac1b3c63','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>正直可为你的人生带来很多好处：</p>
<p>智慧、富足心态、统合综效、与人建立互信关系</p>','2024-07-20 15:24:08.407','2024-07-20 15:24:08.407',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 15:24:08.406',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2e7700e0-5ffd-4405-aa8c-67075c48eef2','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>如果心态一直维持在前半生的得到，将会是灾难。后半生应该前半生的总结</p>','2024-07-20 15:34:26.904','2024-07-20 15:34:26.904',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 15:34:26.903',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fcdb3529-5dd4-4055-9b2b-b937d3ff29ef','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','3bf587cc-973a-43cd-bcac-64b112cd922c','<p>活在当下，珍惜拥有的和身旁人。保持良好心态，去做和爱自己喜欢做的事。</p>','2024-07-20 15:41:25.159','2024-07-20 15:41:25.159',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 15:41:25.158',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fbd976c7-d756-4c4d-8d61-83cc8afda71e','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','17135195-d32a-47cb-8da2-1ef2be7642e5','<div class="flex flex-row justify-between gap-2">
<div class="flex flex-row gap-2 mb-2">
<div class="font-semibold flex flex-row items-center gap-2"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">正直带来的好处：</span></div>
</div>
</div>
<div class="text-xs sm:text-sm ml-[38px]">
<p>-智慧</p>
<p>-富足心态</p>
<p>-综合综效</p>
<p>-与所有厉害关系人建立互信关系。</p>
</div>','2024-07-20 15:42:36.52','2024-07-20 15:42:36.52',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 15:42:36.519',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b4a80bbb-3aab-415c-9438-4fe906136793','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>除了外在的改变，过程中也经历了内心的成长。学会了宽容、理解和珍惜，逐渐变得更加成熟和坚定。我深刻感受到内心的强大力量，以及它对生活的深远影响。</p>','2024-07-20 16:01:08.505','2024-07-20 16:01:08.505',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 16:01:08.504',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4276ccc7-ab0c-419a-bfa0-de1125a12501','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>柯维在7习惯告诉大家，要创造高效人生必须先建立个人成功，然后和团队一起创造公众成功。没有捷径。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-20 22:08:36.188','2024-07-20 22:08:36.188',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-20 22:08:36.187',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b00047f3-c06b-46b0-bf6c-bbc2aec6898a','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>&nbsp;重新設計自我，重新考慮自己的目標，找到人生的正確方向，以''原則為中心的價值体系，定义人生使命，必須願意承擔風險。在表達需要体諒和勇氣，在傾聽上要怀抱同理心的傾听，在行動上必須願意承擔風險，發揮創造力，教导他人离開舒适圏。 下决心走上終身学习的道路，除了在科技上和科学領域路上，潮流也需要與人文艺木教育方面進修。智商是非常重要的，我們同時要俱備理性與情緒智力，並聚焦於創造所加價值，持續学习，建立互信关係。</p>','2024-07-20 15:07:42.28','2024-07-21 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('647557cc-c037-436e-b9b2-dde94c1c689b','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>以服务他人为人生使命与国标,以及乐于做出持续贡献的人,才能获得首要成就</p>','2024-07-20 15:31:28.001','2024-07-21 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1e4bd29e-437b-4806-99f0-b65f760e7d42','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>以服务他人为人生使命与国标,以及乐于做出持续贡献的人,才能获得首要成就</p>','2024-07-20 15:31:28.001','2024-07-21 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1f709913-c061-4281-9d33-147180490d0b','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>21/7/24<br>成功槓杠：优先目标<br>我们必须先了解什么事优先目标与次要成就。<br>优先目标：人生，健康，家庭。也就是说别人无法代替你做的事情。自己有什么独特过人之处的天赋。<br>列如：家庭里孩子的父亲，另一半老公，孙子的公公，公司的领导人老板。</p>','2024-07-21 00:59:15.419','2024-07-21 00:59:15.419',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 00:59:15.419',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('05b8945e-5f5e-4503-8648-a7073b10970a','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>这个世界需要我做些什么？我能为其他人的生命贡献什么？</p>
<p>这两个问题我在2015年的时候就以八个字概括，过后就不断在生活中实践，这八个字就是&ldquo;金融为善，生生不息&rdquo;。我以陪跑教练自诩也出于这八个字。</p>
<p>过程中我以指纹测评科技了解了自己的天赋，理清了自己的人生方向，然后就开始重新设计自我，开展了我的第二人生的冒险。终身学习是一路走来最美的风景，广博的阅读则让我乐在其中。</p>','2024-07-21 03:17:34.742','2024-07-21 04:38:15.701',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 04:38:15.7',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('44aa15fb-b9cd-4b08-94f6-6cb844ab6f52','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>5.1 善根</p>
<p>人生的意义在于传承。个人、家庭、事业、人生，都为传承而存在，意义深远，是为初衷。</p>
<p>5.2 【做】才有影响力</p>
<p>用真诚与爱，&ldquo;愿意&rdquo;为大我（众生）奉献，踏踏实实行动起来，做我所说，说我所做。</p>','2024-09-09 12:51:46.896','2024-09-09 12:51:46.896',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 12:51:46.895',NULL,NULL);
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<p>请求和要求是有区别的。请求是不抱有强迫他人接受，是开放的。</p>','2024-11-07 15:36:34.399','2024-11-07 15:36:34.399',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-07 15:36:34.398',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bddec4a8-ecd7-4952-ac2c-73d15ae0b550','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>成功槓桿2：贡献</p>
<ul>
<li>以服务他人为人生使命与目标，以及乐于做出持续贡献的人，才能获得首要成就。</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>重新设计自我以因应新的环境：</p>
<ol>
<li>找到正确的人生方向（根据组织有益的愿景，以及原则为中心的价值体系，定义人生的使命）</li>
<li>必须愿意承担风险</li>
</ol>
<p>3个风险：</p>
<ul>
<li>在表达上（与利害相关人交谈时需要同时展现体谅与勇气）</li>
<li>在倾听上（用同理心倾听，以了解组织里发生了什么事）</li>
<li>在行动上（愿意承担风险，发挥创造力、教导他人、离开舒适圈）</li>
</ul>
<p>3. 必须下定决心走上终身学习之路（自我提升知识与技能，掌握新科技，多阅读，也可能需要朝人文与艺术教育方面进修）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>我们不只是要重视科学（理性），也要重视艺术（情绪智商），然后要聚焦于创造附加价值、持续学习、建立互信关系，以及不变的原则为中心。</p>','2024-07-21 05:17:16.889','2024-07-21 05:17:16.889',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 05:17:16.888',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a4e57830-35d4-4728-bfab-e654b4c5a559','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>重新设计自己，迈向以服务他人为使命和目标的人生，有三个方向：</p>
<p>1）找到正确的人生方向</p>
<p>2）愿意承担风险（表达上、倾听上、行动上）</p>
<p>3）下定决心走上终身学习之路</p>','2024-07-21 05:39:47.164','2024-07-21 05:39:47.164',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 05:39:47.163',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('22aafd0a-adf1-4a56-8e42-69193d5e1f16','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>我如何运用我的资源和我喜欢的事，满足这世界真正需要的。</p>','2024-07-21 07:17:29.338','2024-07-21 07:17:29.338',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 07:17:29.337',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6432f36f-42fa-4e9e-8244-7f59a70dc9f1','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>这个世界需要我做些什么？我能为其他人的生命贡献什么？其实自己本身对这些问题有疑问，总觉得自己都自顾不暇了，要怎么为其他人贡献呢？</p>','2024-07-21 09:01:34.177','2024-07-21 09:01:34.177',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 09:01:34.176',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('61b413e7-52df-4569-bb55-ad1e1bdbd933','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>以服务他人为人生使命与目标，以及乐于做出持续贡献的人，才能获得首要成就。</p>
<p>当全球经济不断改变，许多人进入责难模式，怪罪组织。应该做的是重新设计自我。</p>
<ol>
<li>找到正确人生目标</li>
<li>愿意承担风险</li>
<li>愿意终身学习</li>
</ol>
<p>要成为人生的艺术家的必 - 新一代的领导人需要理性和情绪智力，並聚焦创造附加价值。</p>
<p>要要将这个世界需要的与我们能给予顺利配对，要问3个问题：</p>
<ol>
<li>这个世界需要什么</li>
<li>我擅长什么</li>
<li>我如何利用现有的资源、我喜欢做的事来满足世界真正的需求</li>
</ol>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-21 09:08:37.031','2024-07-21 09:08:37.031',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 09:08:37.03',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 重新设计自我的三个方向：</p>
<p>1）找到正确的人生方向</p>
<p>根据对组织有的愿景和以原则为中心的价值体系定义人生的使命</p>
<p>2）必须愿意承担风险</p>
<p>在表达上同时展现体谅与勇气</p>
<p>在倾听上怀抱同理心</p>
<p>在行动上完成工作、满足需求、创造附加价值、为自己创造的价值留下记录</p>
<p>3）必须下定决心走上终身学习之路</p>
<p>必须负起自我提升知识与技能的责任</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>「这个世界需要什么？」</p>
<p>「我擅长什么？」</p>
<p>「我如何善用现有的资源，利用我喜欢做的事，满足世上真正的需求？」</p>','2024-07-21 09:13:02.165','2024-07-21 09:13:02.165',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 09:13:02.163',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('10810f25-be50-40a9-8c74-28c72109de8c','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>以乐于助人和贡献他人为生活目标。助人即是助己。</p>','2024-07-21 10:21:04.002','2024-07-21 10:21:04.002',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 10:21:04.002',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d0101b53-aee6-4705-b643-4aee2a9aecf7','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>&nbsp;為什麼無法获得成功？</p>
<p>因為不想為自己的人生負責</p>
<p>不願意付出時間和代價，定義個人的使命，人生观和信念。</p>
<p>雖然有個人的願景和使命，不願付諸行動。</p>
<p>想想退休時能留些什麼給后世，事實上退休必須面對很大的掙扎，只要坦然接受面對，好好規劃，這將是人生另一個重生的轉捩點。</p>','2024-07-21 09:19:33.249','2024-07-22 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('270b3b97-e0c2-4d37-bab0-52502b04161e','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>个人的成功指的是超越自己，最大的对手也是自己。离开舒适圈，</p>','2024-07-22 14:05:23.912','2024-07-22 14:05:23.912',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 14:05:23.912',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6cc700d4-4024-42a7-a557-57a9351ec4ac','1d0d6279-1e67-4bfe-8b29-69a6f635c3d0','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>不断学习</p>','2024-11-07 15:50:03.895','2024-11-07 15:50:03.895',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-07 15:50:03.894',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('25491cb2-0647-49ae-aa36-2fc2eaa41d81','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>需求端，你的才能，你的现状&amp;资源 如何帮助你在人生中平衡艺术 &amp; 商业的领导</p>
<p>到底什么事给后人是最有启发，且让这个世界越来越好的因子</p>','2024-07-15 13:49:35.107','2024-07-23 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d74256dc-87fe-498c-afd1-b4a45e46dcb2','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>我想我会留下对人真诚的态度！对生活要求平衡！用不停止学习！</p>','2024-07-20 12:05:05.528','2024-07-23 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('abe925b9-2f6f-448b-a0b3-bec3e60e690e','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>你想留下什么给后世？</p>
<p>其中包括为其他人带来方便、欢笑、学问及智慧。</p>','2024-07-21 07:05:58.139','2024-07-23 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6e188c19-c41f-4569-b68c-a7016782362f','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>保持创造的原则：<br>1.适时说&ldquo;不&rdquo;，不要理会紧急但不重要的事<br>2.随时把热切想表达的目标放在心上<br>3.努力让大家对你的创造力拥有信心<br>4.在创造性勇气与体谅他人之间取得平衡<br>5.同时以非常独立及积极互相依赖的模式运作<br>6.跳过框架，带上不同的思考帽，采取平行思考。</p>','2024-07-21 06:24:47.145','2024-07-26 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7877c615-c6de-4bd1-a2e6-077af4c02ea8','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>化解一个问题，以一周为单位<br><br>我们也需要感觉到：自己的人生与工作都是有意义的。</p>','2024-07-21 06:33:53.038','2024-07-27 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e2d16db9-623d-4ca5-80d4-108a4a25fe10','d6eaf5a7-d4ad-4694-8638-f4312c35187f','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>分清楚 请求 与 要求</p>
<p>提出了请求，他人未必需要答应</p>','2024-11-07 15:57:05.788','2024-11-07 15:57:05.788',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-07 15:57:05.787',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0b1fb521-4680-47b9-9047-76551b3696d2','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 21：7月21日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第七章成功槓桿2：贡献&ndash; 成为人生艺术家的必要（Page122 - 126）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">有原则的人，无论风雨，都能坚守自己内心的方向和方式，不会被利益、环烧所左右，能理解这个世界的方方面面。知道什么是珍贵的、什么是美的、什么是丑的、什么是善的、什么是恶的、什么是正确的、什么是错误的、什么是应该的、什么是不应该的，知道自己要什么。非常理性，也非常智慧。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">两个重要的问题：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1）这个社会须要我做什么？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2）我能为其他人的生命提供什么？（我擅长什么？）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3）我如何善长用现由的资源，满足世上真正的需求？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">领导以原则为组心,持续的学习，建立互信关系的组织。</span></p>','2024-07-21 10:34:09.742','2024-07-21 10:34:09.742',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 10:34:09.741',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5eb8697f-5ac0-44bc-ae42-eacad6e0ce7a','2371bbf5-605e-4385-8822-344f5012ded2','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">86</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">這裡學到</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">麻煩其實人生的重要線索</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">他的發生，只不過再告訴你</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">你還有試過不去</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">你還有人生過沒修完</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">這個線索，需要訓練自己的覺知才能洞察得到。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">88</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">說到這裡，我也同樣感到慚愧。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">上大學的時候常常半夜跟朋友鬼混之後才回家，母親就在陰暗的角落坐在那裡等我，因為太擔心，所以睡不著。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我回來之後看到還想罵他一頓。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">今時母親飽受皮膚過敏症狀的困擾，我應該想辦法幫助她。</span></p>','2024-08-30 01:09:17.455','2024-08-30 01:09:17.455',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 01:09:17.454',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2f7d11ec-adcb-4917-b12a-c931bf05a8e1','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>承担三风险:</p>
<p>1.表达上具体谅与勇气。</p>
<p>2.同理心的倾听。</p>
<p>3.发挥创造力、教导他人、离开舒适圈。</p>','2024-07-21 12:18:39.45','2024-07-21 12:18:39.45',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 12:18:39.45',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('efc7be03-5327-4ad8-922d-5d428d5324de','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>问自己，这个世界需要什么？我擅长什么？我如何善用现有资源，利用我喜欢做的事，满足世上真正的需求？</p>','2024-07-21 12:23:56.233','2024-07-21 12:23:56.233',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 12:23:56.232',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dbb6de7b-3761-4297-ac31-77954218f3eb','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>重新思考对自己设目标，成为人生艺术家，创造价值~</p>
<p>1. 人生正确的方向 ~ 有益的愿景，人生使命</p>
<p>2. 承担风险 ~体谅和勇气，同理心倾听，发挥创造力，教导他人，离开舒适圈</p>
<p>3. 终身学习 ~ 自我提升知识，技能，掌握新科技，广博的阅读觉察大环境主流</p>','2024-07-21 12:57:51.902','2024-07-21 12:57:51.902',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 12:57:51.901',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('09c2671a-fae8-4ddf-874d-74a5a5dd9d6b','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>全球化经济的模式，的造成人与组织、社会或政府，有了新的调整。避免进入责难组织模式，人需要重新设计自我，找到自己和组织的新的关系：</p>
<p>1）通过强大的外力、组织，找到正确的人生方向。</p>
<p>2）必须愿意承担三种险，为自己和他人创造价值：（一）在表达上需要体谅和勇气， （二）倾听和同理他人， （三）行动上，愿意承担风险，发挥创造力，走出舒适圈。</p>
<p>3） 必须下定决心走上终身学习之路</p>
<p>这样的关系的建立，面对庞大的环球的竞争，自己才能成为自己人生的艺术家，为自己，为这世界创造满足感。</p>','2024-07-21 13:07:06.249','2024-07-21 13:08:18.024',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 13:08:18.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('890bcecb-b7aa-41e2-92f6-43b78e6f6b75','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>随着时代的转变，我们也需要不断的自我更新，不断的自我提升。从新设定自我，首先需要：</p>
<p>找到真确的人生方向（时刻记住我们做人的原则）</p>
<p>必须承担风险（待人处事抱有同理心，不忘体谅）</p>
<p>下定决心走向学习之路</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-21 13:28:27.719','2024-07-21 13:28:27.719',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 13:28:27.718',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7da2280f-1658-487b-a5c0-e8d6ddc97a03','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>找到人生目标，承担风险 ，终身学习</p>','2024-07-21 13:44:05.721','2024-07-21 13:47:47.731',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 13:47:47.73',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a82ec8f1-4d9e-45ba-8145-706bd476683f','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>这个世界需要我做些什么？</p>
<p>我能为其他人的生命贡献什么？</p>
<p>-找到正确的人生方向</p>
<p>-必须願意承担风险</p>
<p>-必须下定决心走上终身学习之路</p>','2024-07-21 13:59:07.916','2024-07-21 13:59:07.916',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 13:59:07.915',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f1c55bba-498a-4bab-adfc-a6c4bdc7e924','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>拒绝改变自己也就错过了成为领导人的要件之一，即赢得个人的成功。赢得个人的成功就是战胜自己。</p>
<p>而很多人知道人生要超越自我并赢得个人的成功就必须战胜自己，但偏偏就是&ldquo;做不到&rdquo;，主要原因不外乎：</p>
<ul>
<li>不想为自己的人生负责，毕竟要负责很压力；</li>
<li>不愿意付出时间与代价，玩乐还是比较轻松的；</li>
<li>不愿意付诸实践，因为需要冒险与努力；</li>
<li>不具备追求个人成功的思维与技能。</li>
</ul>
<p>除了个人的成功，公众的成功指的是让其他人加入我们的行列，和我们一起成就共同的愿景。要达致公众的成功，挑战就在于：</p>
<ul>
<li>与配偶或合伙人之间没有建立共同的安全感；</li>
<li>没有学会授权；</li>
<li>没有设法让所有人共同创造一个互相支持的环境。</li>
</ul>','2024-07-21 06:54:58.369','2024-07-22 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5e362941-9b87-4fcb-9148-5aec74e2976b','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>成功不仅在于遵循正直与原则，实现个人成就，还在于激励和引导他人，共同实现更大的目标。阻碍个人成功的因素包括推卸责任、不愿定义使命、不愿离开舒适圈及缺乏终身学习的文化，而许多成功人士未能实现公共成功的原因是缺乏放手、不善授权和未营造支持性的环境和文化。要实现理想，必须重新设计自我，赢得个人和公共成功，形成共同的使命感，并在退休后选择继续努力造福后人。</p>','2024-07-22 13:54:32.392','2024-07-22 13:54:37.038',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 13:54:37.038',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('78f3aac4-b960-4e33-b7f2-373dcfb0a8ca','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>作出改变需经历痛苦挣扎，做出承诺，造福后人。</p>','2024-07-22 14:18:42.876','2024-07-22 14:18:42.876',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 14:18:42.875',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('28a68b46-ec9a-4f3b-b3a0-11bab5662269','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>贡献。奉献</p>
<p>以服务他人为人生使命与目标，持续做出贡献。才能获得首要成就。</p>
<p>三个方向，重新设计自我。</p>
<p>第一，找到正确的人生方向，做出对组织，人类有益的贡献。</p>
<p>第二，必须愿意承担风险。在表达，倾听，行动上都要为自己创造价值。</p>
<p>第三，必须下定决心终身学习。对自己负责任，自我提升知识与技能，掌握新科技，多阅读。</p>
<p>成为人生艺术家。</p>
<p>问问这个世界需要什么？我擅长的是什么？我可以做什么来满足他们的需求？</p>
<p>一个优秀的作曲家，不是他能够做很多伟大的作品。而是他发挥他的影响力，造就更多杰出的学生。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-21 14:13:55.365','2024-07-21 14:15:01.37',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 14:15:01.369',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal">Day 21<span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>7<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>21<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》第二部</span> 12<span lang="ZH-CN">成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">第七章成功槓桿</span>2<span lang="ZH-CN">：贡献</span>&ndash; <span lang="ZH-CN">成为人生艺术家的必要（</span>Page122 - 126<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第七章成功槓桿2：贡献&ndash; 成为人生艺术家的必要（Page122 - 126）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">以服务他认为人生使命与目标，以及乐于做出持续贡献的人，才能获得首要成就。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">提醒自己，我想为这世界留下什么？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">重新设计自我，三个方向-</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">首先，找到正确的人生方向。对组织的愿景，以及以原则为中心的价值体系，定义人生的使命。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">其次，必须愿意承担风险。愿意冒三种险：在与老板，同事以及其他利害相关时，需要展现体谅与勇气。在倾听上：需要同理心倾听。在行动上：必须愿意承担风险，发挥创造力，叫到他人离开舒适圈。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第三必须下定决心走上终身学习之路。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-21 14:24:24.218','2024-07-21 14:24:24.218',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 14:24:24.217',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9192ad34-3019-4aa5-9513-323515e9bba0','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>问自己能为他人做些什么。终身学习能够帮助每个人更好地跟世界接轨。</p>','2024-07-21 14:24:50.082','2024-07-21 14:24:50.082',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 14:24:50.081',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f8deb017-ba5b-43db-85f6-fb1432799e85','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>为了实现个人使命和目标并持续为世界做出贡献，我们应首先明确人生方向，结合组织愿景和个人价值体系定义使命；其次，勇于承担风险，在互动中展现同理心与勇气，鼓励创新和走出舒适圈；最后，坚持终身学习，不断提升自我，以应对未来的挑战和机遇。</p>','2024-07-21 14:43:27.402','2024-07-21 14:43:27.402',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 14:43:27.401',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('301cb4d1-8aed-4928-a0b9-478b3af892d3','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>无法赢得个人成功的原因。</p>
<p>1.不为自己负责。总把责任推给别人或环境。</p>
<p>2.不愿意付出时间与代价我为自己做规划。</p>
<p>3.不愿意行动。</p>
<p>4.没有成功的思维和技能。</p>
<p>不能赢得公众的成功,原因如下。</p>
<p>1.没有很好的建立共同的安全感。</p>
<p>2.不懂 不会授权</p>
<p>3.没有创造一个互相支持的环境</p>
<p>改革，退休或成功</p>
<p>自我作祟。我的接班人的成就不能比我高。</p>
<p>做个有原则的人，就是启动公司改革计划，让团队能够前进，能够更辉煌。</p>','2024-07-22 00:03:49.78','2024-07-22 00:03:49.78',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 00:03:49.779',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('96c34af7-f6cf-441b-bfba-bbce9d07999a','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>只有少数人能成功，因为大部分人都不愿意努力，没去做对的事，虽然他们都知道对错。没纪律，这是人类的劣根性吗？</p>
<p>个人成败自己负责。</p>','2024-07-21 21:17:51.764','2024-07-21 21:17:51.764',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 21:17:51.764',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5178673f-3b29-4378-a5ff-fcee524666d1','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>让其他人加入，建立一个相互支持的团队，并且共同实现公司愿景的文化，而不是自己孤军奋战，想要独享其成。</p>
<p>对自己的成功负责。</p>','2024-07-21 22:44:15.896','2024-07-21 22:44:15.896',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-21 22:44:15.895',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('87e38477-ba8a-43db-97e7-df7ac591bde2','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>个人的成功</p>
<p>- 拒绝改变：许多人知道需要改变，但拒绝这样做，从而错过成为领导者的机会。<br>- 战胜自己：个人的成功在于战胜自己。只有遵循正直和原则的人才能领导他人。</p>
<p>四个原因：<br>&nbsp; 1. 推卸责任<br>&nbsp; 2. 少数人愿意付出<br>&nbsp; 3. 逃避风险<br>&nbsp; 4. 缺乏思维和技能</p>
<p>赢得公众的成功</p>
<ul>
<li>定义：让他人加入你的行列，实现共同的愿景。</li>
</ul>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>退休或重生？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>&bull; 内心挣扎：一位公司领导人在面对是否进行内部改造时，经历了内心的挣扎。</div>
<div>&bull; 两种选择：继续改造公司或光荣退休。</div>
<div>探究内心</div>
<div>&bull; 自我反醒 &amp;&nbsp;谦卑与清醒：通过自省，领导人变得谦卑和清醒，最终决定为公司做出贡献。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>结论</div>
<div>&bull; 愿意付出代价：勇敢面对挑战</div>','2024-07-16 05:21:40.718','2024-07-22 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
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<p>想要安逸过完退休还是做出改变为下一代人铺好路</p>
<p>挣扎与要不要做和承担风险的可能性<br>，这个就要看那人要的心想要贡献还是庸庸度过<br><br></p>','2024-07-22 03:49:48.492','2024-07-22 03:49:48.492',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 03:49:48.491',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e7c0f7ae-e1ec-44fb-bd73-ae575fdac520','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>为什么有这么多人无法赢得个人的成功？</p>
<ul>
<li>不想为自己的人生负责，而是把责任推给别人或环境</li>
<li>只有少数人愿意付出时间与代价，定义个人的使命、人生观念或信念</li>
<li>许多人虽然拥有个人愿景与使命，却不愿付诸实行，因为这需要冒险与努力，并被迫离开舒适圈，让他们因此转而追求次要的目标</li>
<li>他们此刻不具备追求个人成功的思维或技能，而家庭或企业文化中也没有终身学习的典范，就连个人的成功都有困难了，遑论公众的成功</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>公众的成功：让其他人加入你的行列，和你一起成就共同的愿景</p>
<p>很多成名的人无法做到的原因：</p>
<ul>
<li>虽然他们拥有个人的安全感，与配偶或合伙人之间却没有建立共同的安全感</li>
<li>他们没有学习授权 (delegation)，因不想交出控制权，更不想把功劳拱手让人</li>
<li>他们没有设法让所有人共同创造一个互相支持的环境，也没能建立一个有利于实现愿景的文化；相反的，他们只是坐在那里，把责任推卸给公司的主管与其他人，情况反而变得更糟糕了</li>
</ul>','2024-07-22 05:08:52.685','2024-07-22 05:08:52.685',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 05:08:52.684',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ad78ec05-8afc-4860-8a42-f1525b78b0ce','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>成效描述的是结果；效率描述的是过程。</p>','2024-07-22 12:27:45.378','2024-07-24 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0bd0d445-6e36-4d61-b637-a9c19bfff680','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>做好个人的成功，才能最好公众的成功。首先做个对自己人生负责人的人。认真去付出时间思考自己不同阶段的人生目标，然后一步步去调整和实践。至于公众的成功，那是连合起共同的人脉，打造共同利益，帮助他人实践他们的愿景，这也是自己的人生价值。</p>','2024-07-22 10:52:58.107','2024-07-22 10:52:58.107',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 10:52:58.106',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a2d1dd6c-8d02-435e-8c96-c6c6b0138c30','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="MsoNormal">Day 22<span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>7<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>22<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》第二部</span> 12<span lang="ZH-CN">成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">个人的成功</span> - <span lang="ZH-CN">退休或重生（</span>Page 126 - 131<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">拒绝改变错过了成为领导人的要件：赢得个人成功</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">唯有遵循正直与原则的人，才有能力领导他人。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">四个无法赢得个人成功的因素-1。把责任推给别人或环境。2。只有少数人愿意付出时间与代价，定义个人的使命，人生观或信念。3。不愿为自己的愿景与使命付诸实行，不愿离开舒适圈。3。不具备追求个人成功的思维或技能，而家庭或企业文化中也没有终身学习的典范。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">赢得公丛成功指的是让其他人加入你的行列，和你一起成就共同的愿景。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">为何如此多功成名就的人无法赢得公丛的成功。值得我们思考的三个原因；</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">一。他们想驶出海外，却把錨抛在港口里。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">二。没有学会授权或不愿充分授权。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">三。他们没有设法让所有人共同创造一个互相支持的环境，也没有能建立一个有利于实现愿景的文化。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">想实现自己的理想，就必须重新设计自我，并赢得个人与公丛的成功，最后形成共同的使命感。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">退休或重生？当你退休，你希望留下什么？</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">人生的选择-光荣退休、不做任何有必要做且可造福后人的事，或是努力为后世留下一些恒久的功绩？</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-22 11:50:40.8','2024-07-22 11:50:40.8',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 11:50:40.799',NULL,NULL);
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<p>也看过这样一段文，自己成功，未必是成功，当你带着一群人，造福后人，大家都成功了，你才是真正的成功。</p>','2024-07-22 12:20:25.354','2024-07-22 12:20:39.925',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 12:20:39.924',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('17e97388-6075-4bdb-8c2f-5875d60a3f6f','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 一个人的成功：战胜自己，唯有遵循正直与原则的人，才有能力领导他人</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 这么多人无法取得成功的四个原因：</p>
<p>1） 不想为自己的人生负责</p>
<p>2） 不愿意付出时间与代价，定一个人的使命、人生观或信念</p>
<p>3） 不愿为个人拥有的愿景与使命付诸实行，不想离开舒适圈</p>
<p>4） 此刻不具备追求个人成功的思维或技能</p>
<p><br>～ 赢得公众成功：让其他人加入我的行列，一起成就共同的愿景</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 许多功成名就的人无法通过这项考验的三个原因：</p>
<p>1) 虽然拥有个人安全感，与配偶或合伙人之间没有建立共同的安全感</p>
<p>2） 没有学会授权，不想交出控制权，更不想把功劳拱手让人</p>
<p>3) 没有设法让所有人创造一个相互支持的环境，没能建立一个实现愿景的文化</p>','2024-07-22 13:14:20.591','2024-07-22 13:14:20.591',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 13:14:20.59',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('071f57d5-a212-46ac-80e4-f5e538ed1c4c','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>在重新设计自我，成为自己人生的艺术家。出发点：个人的成功和赢得公众的成功。</p>
<p>个人的成功指的是战胜自己。这包括了：1）为自己的人生负责， 2）定义个人的使命、人生观或信念。 3）为个人的愿景和使命，付诸行动。4）具备追求个人成功的思维或技能，具备终身学习的能力。</p>
<p>要做到这几点是需要遵循正直与原则。</p>
<p>赢得公众的成功：让其他人加入你，与你一起成长，建立共同安全感，学习授权他人、创造互相支持的环境。</p>
<p>另一点：找出退休后自己想为后人留下什么？我能留下什么？我能为他人做些什么？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-22 13:22:31.906','2024-07-22 13:22:31.906',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 13:22:31.905',NULL,NULL);
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<p>赢得公众的成功就是可以带领或和别人一起永远共同的愿景。不具有赢得公众的成功的人一般都是自私和不正直的人。</p>','2024-07-22 13:31:04.472','2024-07-22 13:31:04.472',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 13:31:04.471',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('683dab91-4a3a-4fba-b56c-98aff77d1a90','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>what legacy do i want to leave? &nbsp;The answer is " Search your own heart with all diligence, for out of it flow the issues of life."&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-22 13:58:19.343','2024-07-22 13:58:19.343',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 13:58:19.342',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0f2a1133-bc82-4f1b-b97f-bfd3f3de966f','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>要赢得公众成功，先问自己能为公众贡献什么？</p>
<p>能够真诚的帮助他人，指导和分享资源和经验，让接班人青出于蓝，是一个伟大的领导者退休前留给后人最大的宝藏</p>','2024-07-22 14:22:45.323','2024-07-22 14:22:45.323',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 14:22:45.322',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4db01da1-8706-4c39-a53b-77b6e9dee2e3','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 22：7月22日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">个人的成功 - 退休或重生（Page 126 - 131）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">改变是痛苦的，然而我们有选择权不去改变，不改变有代价要付出。只有达到个人成功才能赢得公众的成功。彼此的信任和才能授权，团体才能成长。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">退休或重生，只要有机会继续活下去，就是赚到，而且是要想留什么价值给世上。不要留白。</span></p>','2024-07-22 14:59:24.194','2024-07-22 14:59:24.194',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 14:59:24.193',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('af97db26-f649-4380-8214-58ab47ae0e2e','7ba9697c-c804-4352-86a2-8e8ad55ef6d1','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">Day 26</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：</span><span lang="EN-MY">9</span><span lang="ZH-CN">月</span><span lang="EN-MY">9</span><span lang="ZH-CN">日《新零售狂潮》第三章：坪效革命：从人的角度理解新零售</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">转换率：提高转换率，找对社群很重要（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page140-146</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：<br>在網絡時代，社群經濟可以創造無限的可能，提高轉化率。</span></p>','2024-09-09 13:01:34.037','2024-09-09 13:01:34.037',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 13:01:34.036',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0968a977-8c1a-44e6-a068-4f99ea57d50c','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>个人成功条件:</p>
<p>1.自我改变</p>
<p>2.依循正直与原则</p>
<p>3.有自我负责人生的心态</p>
<p>4.愿意付出时间与代价：使命、人生观、信念</p>
<p>5.卖践</p>
<p>6.具追求成功的思维或技能以及终身学习。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>赢得公众成功所需:</p>
<p>1.与他人、组员一起成就共同愿景</p>
<p>2.让他人有安全感</p>
<p>3.受权</p>
<p>4.与大家一同创造互相支持的环境。</p>','2024-07-22 15:06:15.818','2024-07-22 15:06:15.818',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 15:06:15.817',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0c0d98ed-87c1-4806-989a-e66af550e7e2','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>首要成功好像从来不是为了自己。 就算来到退休的门槛， 也不退缩。 每个时刻都是重生之日。我们需要自省，我可以付出什么代价？就算来到这个阶段，探究内心，我们想留下什么给后世。</p>','2024-07-22 15:06:55.248','2024-07-22 15:08:43.107',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 15:08:43.106',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('761f1548-8fab-4893-bd6d-7db1b05db42d','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','17135195-d32a-47cb-8da2-1ef2be7642e5','<p>个人的成功需要付出相当大的觉悟，克服自己的内心并做出改变。</p>
<p>而赢得公众的成功是以次为基础，带来更多人创造共同的愿景</p>','2024-07-22 15:46:49.799','2024-07-22 15:46:49.799',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 15:46:49.798',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8149fd0a-0b39-43e4-bb2d-d2063484b222','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>問自己一個最尖銳的問題：你想留下什麼給後世？然後真心反思。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-22 21:13:17.598','2024-07-22 21:13:17.598',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 21:13:17.597',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6725d278-b958-47e8-9dd8-2724364128b9','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>我想要为后人留下什么？这是很好的问题。</p>
<p>我要为后人留下最好的身教，以个人在家庭、事业、个人和社会的成就及贡献做为最佳的参考。</p>
<p>必须清楚自己穷一生要达到的终极目标，以终为始。</p>','2024-07-22 22:15:06.163','2024-07-22 22:15:06.163',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-22 22:15:06.162',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a4d6f977-fe9e-4c79-be5a-5fff2f34d3a4','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>我将留下什么给后人？</p>
<p>我对世间的贡献是什么？</p>','2024-07-23 15:27:36.472','2024-07-23 15:27:36.472',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 15:27:36.471',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('040ad0fa-ad3a-4e2a-8f80-24464a98f4ac','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>你想留下什么给后世？</p>
<p>不接受挑战而选择避开重大项目贡献的人可以有无数理由去合理化自己的决定，但是到头来， 内心深知&rdquo;我没有真正努力过&rdquo;， 这个后悔和遗憾感会是我们一辈子的肉中刺。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-23 15:27:47.512','2024-07-23 15:27:47.512',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 15:27:47.511',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a934db5b-2611-438f-9a95-c1048d56d0b5','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>问问你的内心，做任何事，任何选择，甘之如饴。即便是贡献大家，利人利己，也一样甘之如饴。日后遇到困境，不作半点埋怨。做到吗？</p>','2024-07-23 15:28:49.711','2024-07-23 15:28:49.711',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 15:28:49.71',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2e720895-d4d8-4bc3-b2fd-5280684a2660','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>什么是最重要的事？</p>
<p>每个人都很公平，有24个小时，就看你怎样利用，怎样看待时间。生活有时暂时失去平衡。是可以接受的，但是常遠来说一定要保持生活的平衡。</p>
<p>处理事情重点在于效率，</p>
<p>与人互动重点在于成效。</p>
<p>所以要与人达成双赢。我们就要不疾不徐，双方有相同见解。然后付诸实踐。</p>','2024-07-22 15:19:49.286','2024-07-24 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4eb89270-37fa-4ce4-b496-a3d20f5e36ff','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','478843b9-e4b4-4090-81ad-cee1b2c570e6','<p>高效率不等于高成效</p>','2024-07-24 15:37:57.219','2024-07-24 15:37:57.219',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 15:37:57.218',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2a44ca6b-b5f3-478e-8931-d4b7be0bfe48','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>時鐘讲的是效率与速度。</p>
<p>罗盘代表着指引了我们的方向，目的，愿景。观点平衡，也象征着我们的良知，发挥着内在监督和导航。</p>
<p>要了解到人永远比事更重要。我们要把自己的良知和崇高的愿景价值摆在第一位，对人</p>
<p>真正的领导者会对重要的事做出反应。但不会一定会对紧急的事做出反应。</p>
<p>一个人要达到更高的成就。就是要有创造力。怎么才有创造力呢？就是要有内在的自由，力量和纪律。才能做出明智的选择。</p>
<p>小心自己成了实践的受害者。</p>','2024-07-22 15:29:50.219','2024-07-25 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('edca4001-92b6-400e-804c-215d3c9d7fb2','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>放下自尊心，学习谦卑。不管在什么情况之下，面对别人的赞赏，把功劳以及掌声让给他人。在别人斥责时，反求诸己。这样对于自我提升和智慧有相当大的帮助。</p>
<p>知己知彼，才能统合综效。要先理解别人要什么，才能给出别人要的东西。然后别人就会给予我们渴望的事物。</p>
<p>穷则变，变则痛。变得过程是非常痛苦的环节。</p>
<p>我们需要做的是如何在每次变化的过程中将痛苦降到最低。然后学习每次的经验并加以改良。这些过程就是我们创业解决问题的标准模型。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-22 14:09:11.278','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9ab9a73a-e1b5-492d-8534-91255014cd0d','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>在探究内心的过程中，我们需要谦卑与勇气。谦卑将让我们对自己与他人展现无比的诚意，勇气则让我们勇于面对挑战，冒险而进。这样才算真正的努力过。</p>
<p>个人的成功将激发公众的成功，而最后我们还是的问自己一次：这一生，我们想留下什么给后世？</p>','2024-07-21 11:01:41.99','2024-07-23 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('60967d44-6b24-4802-8b62-e4480e01b995','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>&nbsp;我們要探究自己的內心,勝過探究一切,一生的結果皆是由心而發. 在深思與內心反省過程中, 想想自己該如何重新出發, 向适合自 己身心灵的目標前進.&nbsp;</p>
<p>想一下人生在世, 自己的人生真實意義是什么？ 在短暫的人生中,我可以留下 什么痕跡呢？ 還是只為了衣食行過得茫茫然！</p>','2024-07-22 06:59:07.4','2024-07-23 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7fc7789a-886b-4128-8b3a-ae86b9b77eab','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>成功不仅在于个人成就，还在于耐心地激励他人共同实现目标。要实现理想，需要坚持正直与原则、定义使命、走出舒适圈、终身学习、有效授权和营造支持性环境，并在退休后继续耐心地造福后人。</p>','2024-07-22 14:40:09.296','2024-07-23 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('db6546c9-a3e3-4938-8e9a-738227caef10','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>一切唯心造。探究自己的内心。</p>
<p>你想留什么给后人？</p>
<p>这种借口可能会阻碍你。</p>
<p>1.这个是一个具有政治敏感性的议题。</p>
<p>2.长命功夫长命做，暂时搁下吧。</p>
<p>3.要有立竿见影的好处。杀鸡取卵。</p>
<p>4.改革不成功是别人的错。</p>
<p>5.享受自己拥有的成就,辛苦的东西让别人做。</p>
<p>真正问自己要留下什么给后世.</p>
<p>名流青史。遗臭万年。万人敬仰。</p>
<p>选择在我！</p>','2024-07-22 15:04:35.052','2024-07-23 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b03b1b00-bd34-41d4-9b5f-5e7400db42c4','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>你这一生想做的任何事,都可能是向内心深处探究的重要课题,基本上就是个人的成功激发的公众成功</p>','2024-07-22 15:29:48.506','2024-07-23 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('35caf857-89cd-42a1-98fc-52583412866b','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>&ldquo;你要探索你的心，胜过探索一切，因为一生的果效是由心出发&rdquo;</p>','2024-07-23 02:55:16.088','2024-07-23 02:55:16.088',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 02:55:16.087',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4c179157-1b9c-473e-bb44-4b90fd51c743','2371bbf5-605e-4385-8822-344f5012ded2','d6196801-88ad-4794-856b-fa61ef4faf4d','<p>怕麻烦，那很多"麻烦"就存在,不能解决。</p>','2024-08-30 04:04:14.539','2024-08-30 04:04:14.539',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 04:04:14.538',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6b6af181-5e1b-45e2-93a9-d5134f74d152','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>你想留给后人什么？这样就会出现疑惑一定要留给后人什么东西吗？如果只是一个普通人并不是要做领导呢？<br>这就要看人的心正不正直如果是领导<br>你这辈子到底有没有正正努力过我觉得应该深思</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-23 03:30:02.663','2024-07-23 03:30:02.663',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 03:30:02.662',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1e8e63de-6c34-456d-8ad7-ba64b6fdf152','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>自我反省和对未来的贡献。</p>
<p>内心的重要性，通过自省，迎接更具挑战性的职业生涯。</p>
<p>探究自己的内心，思考自己将留下什么贡献，这种探究会带来自我改造的欲望，但也会遇到阻力。</p>
<p>找到自己的目标和方向，成为一个能够对世界做出贡献的人。</p>','2024-07-23 04:59:22.425','2024-07-23 04:59:22.425',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 04:59:22.424',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0714a571-2332-485a-a5f6-7a07cd47e88c','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>内心深知&ldquo;我没有真正努力过&rdquo;，而这个认知会是自己一辈子的肉中刺。现在自己的内心一直以来都深知，但真的要让这个认知变成自己一辈子的肉中刺吗？</p>','2024-07-23 06:06:47.574','2024-07-23 06:06:47.574',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 06:06:47.573',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5384106c-4422-4861-88b4-1c9223ec6873','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','be5b7e97-d65c-43f6-ba7f-0ffd13533f1a','<p>勤劳扑实，善解人意。</p>
<p>带着爱做的才有影响力。</p>','2024-09-09 13:10:49.136','2024-09-09 13:11:15.768',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 13:11:15.767',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('98a6d8cf-755f-4c15-b6e9-9c52391f9101','4de45b0d-c587-46fa-b5e6-5a927464637d','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>互相性的原则就是如果对方没有赢，自己也不算赢。将输赢的单向关系，转变为互相、互惠的关系。如何形成互惠关系？</p>
<p>第一，先指望自己，並坦诚面对自己。改变自己的行为与态度。当我们越尊重自己，我们就会越喜欢别人。</p>
<p>第二，创造亲近连接。在亲子之间、顾客与供应商形成连接。只要连接形成，是自私不起来的。你会越关心对方，会为彼此做出额外的事。</p>
<p>第三，分享知识与资讯。懂得分享，分担问题与挑战，了解对方，寻找方法协助彼此。</p>','2024-07-23 04:35:11.146','2024-08-05 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-08-05 00:00:00.024','2024-08-05 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('83cad9da-f883-47f2-a392-592ee682a2d8','edd95530-41e4-42a4-833d-ebd3b924a847','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>这一部分让我反思，很多人在达到一定的成功后，往往会陷入一种&ldquo;成功恐惧症&rdquo;，担心自己无法保持成功，害怕失败。这种心理会让人裹足不前，甚至限制了进一步的突破和成长。成功后的恐惧其实源于对失去的害怕，而不是对未来的追求。作为领导者，重要的是要学会面对这种恐惧，把注意力转向持续的成长，而不是停留在过去的成功上。唯有不断学习、创新和挑战自己，才能摆脱这种恐惧。</p>','2024-09-16 11:18:14.844','2024-09-28 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-09-28 00:00:00.016','2024-09-28 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('019702ed-d2c7-476d-984c-bd2a91579a87','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>将时钟思维转换成罗盘思维，优先对自己重要的事，而不是紧急的事。</p>
<p>对自己做出承诺并兑现，将可以强化自己的正直品格。</p>','2024-07-23 06:45:42.193','2024-07-25 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8eedabd0-0490-431a-a58f-e31e0bebbb9c','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>让对方感觉他很重要，在尊重上获得个人尊严。让他感觉自己很有价值贡献，从而提升工作效率</p>
<p>上级对下属的相对有应的态度，会让下属对所产生的态度反应在客户身上。连锁效应</p>
<p>在我们最脆弱之时，学习不让自己受伤，从。与其等别人来爱我们，不如学会先爱人</p>','2024-07-23 14:26:51.893','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b399d465-6f9c-4808-a4f3-44793c0adbff','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>凡事努力过，必留下痕迹。</p>
<p>谋事在人。</p>','2024-07-23 08:43:34.138','2024-07-23 08:43:34.138',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 08:43:34.137',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f112af17-ceda-4f06-928a-a3a152f10a00','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>探究自己的内心，过程中也许会回归谦卑，清醒过来，我要把健康与智慧传递给身边的人</p>','2024-07-23 09:18:56.385','2024-07-23 09:18:56.385',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 09:18:56.384',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f206248d-d184-42b2-a9f7-3f57477bee94','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>抛开执着，时常为自己进行内省，回归谦卑。不为自己的自私与懒惰找借口，好好的为自己计划自己什么方面可以为后世贡献。</p>','2024-07-23 10:06:46.272','2024-07-23 10:06:46.272',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 10:06:46.271',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3d8e0c2b-28ac-40df-a2ff-b959477e5176','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>你想留下什么给后世？这个问题不容易。自己修好了吗？我能为他人贡献些什么？我想当我面对家族后代，我又是个怎么样的奶奶？</p>','2024-07-23 12:50:43.694','2024-07-23 12:50:43.694',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 12:50:43.693',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2d166fdf-bafc-46dd-bf21-1a57139a3c18','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>人应有爱心，有使命感。在为他人的同时，其实也有利于自己。</p>','2024-07-23 13:01:15.532','2024-07-23 13:01:15.532',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 13:01:15.531',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b2dee523-819d-42a7-a25a-5595caa8469f','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 23：7月23日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">探究你的耐心&ndash; 应用与建议（Page 131 - 135）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">你想留什么东西給后世？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">价值。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人不在，什么带不走。只有活着时为社会做有意义的贡献。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">知识，传播知识。只有有了知识，实践它，社会才会更好。</span></p>','2024-07-23 13:31:15.918','2024-07-23 13:31:15.918',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 13:31:15.917',NULL,NULL);
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<li>勤劳朴实，顺天应人。不怨天尤人，积极活下来，传下去，本身就是意义。</li>
<li>光说不练没有用，直接做出个榜样，做出个结果，做才有影响力。</li>
</ol>','2024-09-09 13:21:23.102','2024-09-09 13:21:23.102',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 13:21:23.101',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('36375e36-1e5f-41fb-8dde-c646cce0456b','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>23/7/2024<br>大家都把人生比喻为时钟（功能）那么重要，因为考量到速度与效率（作用）。<br>以上的功能与作用惟有达到成效才是优点，成效比喻为罗盘，为我们指引正确的方向。所以，要把思维转换成罗盘思维。</p>','2024-07-23 14:13:54.581','2024-07-23 14:13:54.581',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 14:13:54.58',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0eb57dc2-4920-498e-9d98-349b8ad20382','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="MsoNormal">Day 23<span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>7<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>23<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》第二部</span> 12<span lang="ZH-CN">成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">探究你的耐心</span>&ndash; <span lang="ZH-CN">应用与建议（</span>Page 131 - 135<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">圣经中的诗篇：你要探究你的心，胜过探究一切，因为一生的果效是由心发出。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">我将留下什么给后人？</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">要知道为什么要改变？要不然会有藉口，若你屈服于藉口，决定不去积极理眼前的难题，内心深处深知（我没有真正努力过）而这个认知会使你一辈子的肉中刺。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">你想留下什么给后世？</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">一生想做任何事，都可能是内心深处探究的重要课题。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-23 14:18:31.05','2024-07-23 14:18:31.05',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 14:18:31.049',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('04f3d157-b9f5-413e-be43-05f0bbbfafb5','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>我想留下什么给后世？真心反思，并努力不懈坚持到底。</p>','2024-07-23 14:18:38.72','2024-07-23 14:18:38.72',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 14:18:38.719',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('daf1e675-ee02-443f-9ddd-a90a91fb8f0d','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>《好》是《最好》的敵人。</p>
<p>熱爱的投入自己最重要的事，而且有勇气拒绝其他的事。</p>','2024-07-23 09:04:27.518','2024-07-25 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9e6553af-c345-4542-83aa-906cde1ebe67','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>6个原则，确保我们有创造性自由。</p>
<p>1.管理的本质是忙碌，领导的本质是创造。优先处理重要的事，不是紧急的事。</p>
<p>2.随时把这些想达成的目标放在心上。知道什么是重要与不重要的事。</p>
<p>3.努力让老板或自己内心知道对创造力产生信心</p>
<p>4.自我实现的人会同时发挥勇气与创造力。更能够在勇气与体谅之间取得平衡。</p>
<p>5.团队非常重要。可以借助队友的优点来辅助自己的缺点。从依赖别人。.到独立然后再到互相扶持，互相依赖共同成长。</p>
<p>6.跳脱框架学习不同的思考,逃离概念的牢笼。</p>','2024-07-23 14:05:14.07','2024-07-26 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9c0ea1f5-8037-4870-80ae-dac760616228','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>为一个人服务，即也是为所有人服务。</p>
<p>要为大众服务，先从一人服务开始</p>
<p>很多感受往往会先从小到大，由内而外，从低做起</p>
<p>当我们能影响一人的举动，这一人被影响的程度就会扩散到另一个人身上。从而扩大影响力。</p>
<p>这就犹如每件事物的频率对接，让万物相吸。</p>','2024-07-23 14:23:17.346','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('61ef2bab-987c-472b-ab43-34b09bcd0742','1c7008c3-d2c3-45c1-875e-f1c51bfb9597','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>如何建立互惠关系？</p>
<p>第四，考虑到与所有利害关系的人的关系。人与人之间应该是供应者与顾客的关系。员工与顾客没有谁比谁不重要，所以要很好的处理他们的需求。</p>
<p>第五，关怀第一线人员。客服人员是第一线人的致胜关键。他们应该得到相互原则的待遇。提供下属很好的待遇与关怀，鼓舞他们与奖励。</p>
<p>第六，选择慈悲，而非一报还一报。别人和我们一样需要爱、理解与慈悲。</p>
<p>建立在原则之上的交易，自然会产生好的结果。善行永远不会白费。</p>','2024-07-23 07:45:05.576','2024-08-06 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-08-06 00:00:00.011','2024-08-06 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fbf1ed03-b153-484b-bbed-f0178c697dba','edd95530-41e4-42a4-833d-ebd3b924a847','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<ul>
<li>当得到了，很容易会陷入恐惧失去的心态。这或许是因为人在面对无常不够坦然或在得到后不懂得珍惜。</li>
<li>英雄式领导特质：自觉、才智、爱心、英雄豪气</li>
<li>千金难买我愿意，因为愿意是只能用愿&ldquo;心&rdquo;来换的。人生的所有大小事都在修着我们的愿力。</li>
</ul>','2024-09-28 15:00:58.621','2024-09-28 15:00:58.621',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-28 15:00:58.62',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2f845224-6a48-4ce6-bb72-19892e3dd8cb','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>生命平衡不是说任何一刻必须得平衡，在不同时刻，我们专注于选定的项目上，可以暂时不去理会其他项目，这是暂时的失衡。当重要任务完成后，我们才在其他重要工作努力。</p>
<p>平衡的标准是以长期角度来评估，不是看短期表现。</p>','2024-07-23 21:34:19.342','2024-07-23 21:34:19.342',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 21:34:19.341',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('df00362f-1e94-4c6a-acdf-db5087d6b51a','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 24: 24/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">三）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.138~142</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「重点不在于为行程上的事项排定优先顺序，而在于为你的优先目标排出时间表</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">.<span lang="ZH-CN">」</span>_<span lang="ZH-CN">柯维</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">如果你的生活充斥著「致命分心物」，像是工作上的琐事、赌博，以及过多休闲娱乐，你就需要起用成功杠杆，專注在真正的优先目标上。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">从別人处了解自己，问其他人</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">:&ldquo;<span lang="ZH-CN">我有什么独特之处？我独有的天赋是什么？什么是只有我能做、別人无法代劳的事</span>?&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">人在人生中必须做的重要的事，取决于个人独特的天赋与能力。遗憾的是我们往往无法做出独特贡献，因为总是被其他紧急事件给耽搁了，使得真正重要的工作始终无法开始或完成。</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">如何才能发挥个人效能</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">?</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">一问：在我的人生中有什么责任？我最关心的人是谁？</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">二问：我所有的人际关系或责任，未來应该发展成什么状态？</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">效率与成效是不同的兩回事。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">成效描述的是结果；效率描述的是过程。</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">假如你想要以效率处理与人有关的重要议题，最后很可能得不到任何成效。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">我们不能用处理事情的方式与人相处。处理事情的重点在于效率，对人互动的重点在于成效。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">成效取向的做法不仅适用他人，也适用于你自己。不该对自己的人生採用效率取向。［例如使命宣言绝非一时半刻就能够写出來的（效率取向），你需要一直进行內在对话，直到你觉得自己找到了答案（成效取向）。］</span></p>','2024-07-06 05:13:22.504','2024-07-24 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f3d06b9a-f781-497d-b38c-d98f24907a54','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>效率与成效是不同的两回事</p>
<p>成效描述的是结果；效率描述的是过程</p>','2024-07-22 15:38:05.367','2024-07-24 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3e1985fe-f6df-48bc-a077-3827b601c452','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>先把重要项目处理好如健康、家人关系、学习、朋友同事关系等。还有有效能把事做好。</p>','2024-07-22 15:56:20.993','2024-07-24 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('938de4cd-8d79-462e-a671-134352f98f3e','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 你在人生中必须做的重要的事，取决于个人独特的天赋与能力：</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 我有什么独特之处？</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 我独有的天赋是什么？</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 什么事只有我能做的？</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 在我人生中有什么责任？</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 我最关心的人是谁？</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 我所有人际关系或责任，未来应该发展成什么状态？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 「效率」与「成效」是不同的两回事，成效描述的是结果；效率描述的是过程</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 处理事情的重点在于效率，对人互动的重点在于成效</p>','2024-07-23 03:11:00.594','2024-07-24 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('405b1202-2a95-4c4d-b5e3-463d0e16bf21','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>你採取的是效率取向，還是成效取向？如果你採用效率取向</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-23 03:59:25.293','2024-07-24 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3785046b-7e9a-451b-a9c3-4c065e3104c7','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>处理事情的重点在于效率，与人互动的重点在与成效。</p>
<p>如果采用效率取向，会在限定的时间把疑问想出答案。但如果用的是成效取向，那就会与内心对话，直到找到答案为止。多与自己的内心对话。</p>','2024-07-23 06:26:13.626','2024-07-24 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('caab50e2-f90e-45b6-bb9d-b47958ceb8f3','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>「高品質決定」和「 有成效的決定」 是兩回事.</p>
<p>做出了高品質的決定, 如果沒有下定决心, 就不會有成效, 成效描述的是結果, 效率描述的是過程, 兩個是互輔互成的.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-23 07:43:33.388','2024-07-24 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b7431aa4-930f-4feb-a680-6caea11b6970','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>什么是最重要的事？</p>
<p>做好现在目前最重要的事情，就是最重要的事。</p>
<p>人生在某个时刻总会有失衡，人生本就如此，有些事情得先放下，就专注做自己最重要的事。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-23 08:59:04.534','2024-07-24 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e0f47d89-8d76-4192-9762-99206ef9c653','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>此时此刻什么事情是最重要的，就把它做好，其它过后。</p>
<p>人生中必须要做的重要事，取决于天赋和能力，透过取得平衡过程发挥自己的效能。人际关系/责任，未来发展。</p>
<p>高品质的决定 vs 有成效的决定，是两回事。效率=过程， 成效=结果。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-24 00:51:39.687','2024-07-24 00:51:39.687',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 00:51:39.686',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('60c1c915-2f97-4eae-947b-20b1d071936b','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>高效不等于高成效。处理事情的重点在效率，与人的互动的重点在于成效。所以，&ldquo;高品质的决定&rdquo;和&ldquo;有成效的决定&rdquo;差异就在执行，在人的能有效的把事情办好。</p>
<p>简单的说，把人与人的关系搞好，事情好办。</p>
<p>生活里不可能时时都能保持平衡。若失去平衡是为了做该做的重要事件，就该这么去做。</p>','2024-07-24 01:20:53.428','2024-07-24 01:22:43.299',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 01:22:43.298',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('90536235-6bcb-4b71-9975-131283cef761','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>平衡是动态，不断变化。</p>
<p>高效率 vs 高成效。</p>','2024-07-24 02:59:25.807','2024-07-24 02:59:25.807',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 02:59:25.806',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('995c6e1a-2198-4af3-a65f-9f37b6cbc966','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>不要把紧急和重要混为一谈</p>','2024-07-25 09:46:21.254','2024-07-25 09:46:21.254',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 09:46:21.254',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b502e133-7055-4824-ae22-015e819d5680','4de45b0d-c587-46fa-b5e6-5a927464637d','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>我们要创造相互关系，让彼此连结<br><br>1.要先指望自己先改变，不要指望别人为我们改变<br>2.创造亲近关系<br>3.分享知识与资讯<br>4.要考虑到大家的利与害的关系</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-04 13:39:50.912','2024-08-05 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-08-05 00:00:00.024','2024-08-05 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e9a5a30a-3e85-45f1-b6c5-d5e6d99134e0','503da337-e7ab-4c77-866e-fd79b50d7a48','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>欠缺差异性，我们就只能有自己的观点、经验和价值观。限制了创造性。综合效果让成绩更加丰富，开启无限可能性，形成文化免疫，不怕文化分歧。</p>','2024-08-08 14:17:52.245','2024-08-08 14:17:58.097',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-08 14:17:58.096',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b45e82d4-b928-441a-8def-517f41eb1c12','2371bbf5-605e-4385-8822-344f5012ded2','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>麻烦是人生重要的线索，它的发生，是告诉你还有事过不去。把麻烦解决了，你会发现你赚翻了。</p>
<p>我认为的事，未必是别人认为的。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-30 05:01:09.878','2024-08-30 05:01:09.878',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 05:01:09.877',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c2dd4301-c5ed-490d-9dfc-f39f37840e29','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>Day 23：7月23日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</p>
<p>探究你的耐心&ndash; 应用与建议（Page 131 - 135）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>面对挑战时，我们很多时候会找各种借口逃避问题。但这样不能从根本上解决问题。若你决定不去积极处理眼前的难题，会有个问题，那就是你内心深知&ldquo;我没有真正努力过。&rdquo;</p>
<p>我们要问自己&ldquo;我想留下什么给后人？我对世间的贡献是什么？&rdquo; 把这个当作自己的目标，往这个目标前进，留下特殊贡献给后世。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Day 24：7月24日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</p>
<p>第八章成功槓桿3：优先目标高效率不等于高成效（Page138 - 142）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>成功槓桿3：优先目标</p>
<p>高效率不等于高成效。</p>
<p>你可能做出了一个高品质的决定，但如果你没有下定决心执行，就不会有成效。你必须下定决心，高品质的决定才能展现成效。</p>
<p>成效描述的是结果，效率描述的是过程。</p>','2024-07-24 04:54:21.224','2024-07-24 04:54:21.224',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 04:54:21.223',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b952a5c1-2b2a-4905-b00e-01e2a40e0905','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>高效率不等于高成效。做出高品质的决定固然重要，但只有坚定执行，才能取得成效。成效是结果的体现，而效率则是过程的衡量。</p>','2024-07-24 07:52:46.489','2024-07-24 07:52:46.489',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 07:52:46.488',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d5bd7659-f38a-4302-86e9-499e27a764a7','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>高效率不等于高成效，成效描述的是结果；效率描述的是过程。</p>','2024-07-24 08:26:50.782','2024-07-24 08:26:50.782',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 08:26:50.781',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5b110d8b-5a37-462a-97c6-07c432331a75','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day23：9月9 日 《活学》Part 2 最高效能的人生<br>第五章： 家族重修课1. 善根 &ndash; 2. 做才有影响力（Page142-147）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>善根</strong><br>勤劳朴实，顺天应人。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>做才有影响力</strong><br>带著爱的能量的做才具有真实的影响力</p>','2024-09-09 13:21:49.338','2024-09-09 13:21:49.338',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 13:21:49.337',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('114c9165-6b88-478b-a2ec-3b73ecd27931','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>与人互动时，没有不重要的事，全都是大事。服务他人是首要成就的精髓。</p>
<p>抓住多数人心的关键，就是先抓住其中一个人。只因，人类灵魂最深的渴求，是获得肯定，得到重视、珍惜与理解。</p>','2024-07-30 15:22:16.353','2024-07-30 15:22:16.353',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 15:22:16.352',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7f1e5db1-cd84-456b-b8bf-187f8c2319b1','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>如果我们没有下定决心执行，就不会有成效。必须下定决心，高品质的决定才会展现成效</p>','2024-07-24 10:30:07.024','2024-07-24 10:30:07.024',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 10:30:07.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f8e708fe-3a63-4d33-b939-6f8e19c67406','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>高效率不等于高成效。效率就是你把一项任务做完，高成效就是你不仅把任务完成，而且还可以很完美。</p>','2024-07-24 10:11:01.542','2024-07-24 10:33:19.103',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 10:33:19.102',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1ab3f11b-25f9-4c8e-ab64-2ed76deca0d9','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="MsoNormal">Day 24<span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>7<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>24<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》第二部</span> 12<span lang="ZH-CN">成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">第八章成功槓桿</span>3<span lang="ZH-CN">：优先目标高效率不等于高成效（</span>Page138 - 142<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">将焦点从次要成就被我们视为优先的事物移转到首要成就食物。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">如果生活充斥著致命分心物，就需要起用成功杠杠，专注真正的优先目标上。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">什么是你人生最重要的事？</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">当遇到挑战可以先问自己的良知😀</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">什么是只有我能做，别人无法代劳的事？</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">你在人生中必须做的重要的事，取决于个人的天赋与能力。遗憾的是我们往往无法做出独特贡献，因为总是被其他紧急事件给耽搁，使得真正重要的工作始终无法开始或完成。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">急事要缓办，欲速则不达。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">高品质的决定 VS 有成效的决定</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">高品质决定需要下定决心执行。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">效率是结果VS 成效是过程</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">我们你能用处理事情的方式与人相处。处理事情的重点在于效率，对人互动在于成效。假如你想速战速决的处理人的事，你的进展将会很慢，因为你会听不见人家真正告诉你的事，也不会明白他人眼中胜利指的是什么。采取双赢思维，设法让彼此共同决定采取对的解决方法，并承诺付诸实践，才能比较快达到目的。<br><br></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-24 11:32:44.994','2024-07-24 11:32:44.994',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 11:32:44.993',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('34fca746-0a8c-4f9d-aa15-782fe26415ea','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>&ldquo;要非常清楚优先目标，才能永远保持在正確的轨道上。&rdquo; 人有时会迷失，但如作者所说的执行，就不易偏离。</p>','2024-07-24 13:40:58.398','2024-07-24 13:40:58.398',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 13:40:58.397',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('12516508-b079-454e-bf56-312f93aee62b','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>24/7/24<br>有局时间管理格言：我不受制于时钟的效率，只接受良知这个罗盘的主宰。<br>应该把人放在第一为先，事情放在后。这就是以人为本。</p>','2024-07-24 13:50:08.189','2024-07-24 13:50:08.189',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 13:50:08.187',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('72d484d1-dd23-457f-bbf6-9ff754129793','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>真正的领导者会对重要的事做出反应，打不一定会对紧急的事做出反应。</p>','2024-07-24 12:27:05.145','2024-07-25 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('66119d5c-ff0c-4794-a586-ce8558569c3a','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>还清最后一文钱，让自己在他人牢笼中走了出来，成为他人的自由人。从中不被标签，以既定印象来跟我们沟通。</p>
<p>勇敢与谦卑的结合，产生了 道歉 &amp; 原谅的举动。透过真诚的认错，可以让对方真实感受到我们的蜕变，也寻求双方的共赢</p>
<p>一旦我们谦卑的对待他人，他人必将也敞开心胸与我们达成共赢未来</p>','2024-07-24 04:45:27.166','2024-08-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('350fa19e-8994-494e-9ac1-107be5a2c902','f0c3b9ed-5019-4e59-9fee-aa06c12a29f4','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>多元性应该获得更多创造性、创新的思考方式，以及正面的结果。复制更多的自己，只会压制了团队中其他人的才能与天分，产生负综效。他们应该建立一个互补团队，拥有共同目标，容许不同角色、看法、方法与途径存在，则可以使每个人充分展现才能，释放真能量。如果两个人的看法完全相同，其中一人必定是多余的。</p>','2024-07-24 03:33:56.284','2024-08-07 00:00:00.028',NULL,'f','2024-08-07 00:00:00.027','2024-08-07 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('782079c2-c865-4e1e-a937-e7d16615e2f1','4278520a-b40d-41be-9394-959e8d143d04','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>&ldquo;老司机未必懂车&rdquo;意味着经验不等于真正的理解。表面经验并不能代表对事物本质的掌握，深入思考和学习才能揭示核心原理。</p>','2024-10-05 10:59:23.25','2024-10-06 00:00:00.003',NULL,'f','2024-10-06 00:00:00.002','2024-10-06 00:00:00.002',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fb70d57d-f96d-4f29-89d0-04bedf4470ef','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>从次要成就转移到首要成就，在生活中识别并专注于最重要的目标。</p>
<p>在面临重要决定时，如何找到生活的平衡点</p>
<p>高效率侧重于过程，而高成效则关注结果。</p>
<p>在人际关系和个人使命的制定中，成效导向比效率导向更为重要。</p>
<p>在追求成功和个人发展时，要坚持优先考虑最重要的事务，而不是被琐事和紧急事务所左右。</p>','2024-07-24 13:51:31.638','2024-07-24 13:51:31.638',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 13:51:31.637',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('32d7d090-cc09-494f-b67e-38c423641380','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>处理事情的重点在于效率，对人互动在于成效。高效率不等于高成效，成效描述的是结果；效率描述的是过程。</p>','2024-07-24 14:17:52.589','2024-07-24 14:17:52.589',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 14:17:52.588',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('864afc86-69f8-40c4-bd30-66ab1167a9b6','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>一时的生活工作不平衡是很正常的，专注目前最重要的项目， 可以暂时不去理会其他的project， 但要时刻问自己我最重要的角色是什么？ 什么是被丢了也没关系的，可以被取代的？</p>','2024-07-24 14:38:45.082','2024-07-24 14:38:45.082',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 14:38:45.081',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dedc3851-67ab-422f-bdeb-af0f7bd8675f','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>The key is not to prioritise what''s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-24 14:46:03.736','2024-07-24 14:46:03.736',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 14:46:03.735',NULL,NULL);
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<p>效率讲求的是过程；成效是看结果。</p>','2024-07-24 14:59:17.504','2024-07-24 14:59:17.504',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 14:59:17.503',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('587cacc0-7a00-4323-a0f0-0c336929b78c','ad8c4066-78af-4d4e-bc60-f6c3004f08f4','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 24：7月24日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第八章成功槓桿3：优先目标高效率不等于高成效（Page138 - 142）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">什么是最重要的事？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">问良知。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">高效率不等于高成效</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">如果没有下决心去执行，就不会有成效。当下决定后，才会有成效。成效是结果，效率是过程，</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">所以楼梯要放对，才不会弄错结果。</span></p>','2024-07-24 15:24:56.652','2024-07-24 15:25:00.35',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 15:25:00.349',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1">必须要下定决心去执行，才会有成效</p>','2024-07-24 15:57:15.333','2024-07-24 15:57:15.333',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 15:57:15.332',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('124d42a5-4684-4df2-8e98-cdc1624bfaca','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>做对事肯定比把事做对更重要。</p>
<p>人比事重要。</p>','2024-07-24 21:07:07.295','2024-07-24 21:07:07.295',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 21:07:07.294',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('282deea9-620e-4c59-aaa3-96dbff0a358b','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>兑现承诺，对自己。</p>
<p>&ldquo;好&rdquo;是&ldquo;最好&rdquo;的敌人。</p>','2024-07-24 23:09:06.421','2024-07-24 23:09:06.421',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-24 23:09:06.42',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b7591bc7-3102-44e2-930e-881100f166ce','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>人比事重要：<br>无论我们在为什么事情努力，都别忘了人的存在<br>比如：我们希望让家人幸福快乐，所以努力的工作，但我们却往往在努力工作的时候，却忘了家人。<br><br></p>','2024-07-21 06:14:04.283','2024-07-25 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a7d23a99-ddca-4742-abb9-8d7bbf260dbf','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>从時钟思維轉換成羅盤思維, 把焦點从時間表轉換為優先順序, 清楚自己應該追求的目標是什么？ 才能保持在正確的軌道上.</p>
<p>要想培育正直的人格, 要兑現自已做出的承諾, 不要把緊急和重要的事混為一談,真正對重要的事做出反應, 但不一定要對緊急的事做出反應.</p>','2024-07-23 14:00:01.993','2024-07-25 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9a127f07-b520-4317-a8a7-55c37faaf7a3','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>先达到成效，再到达效率。在面对选择。错的方向，是无法换到最终的目的和效率。而我们的良知就是发挥内在导航和监督的罗盘。</p>
<p>所以，作者提出&ldquo;我不受制于时钟的效率，只接受良知这个罗盘的主宰。&rdquo; 这才是真正的高成效。</p>
<p>在面对紧急事件，需要注意的是自己的反应是否由反射性、紧急性反应主导。这两者都会乱了阵脚。最好的成效来自内在的导航和创造力，而不是糊里糊涂地被时间制约，进入&ldquo;救火&rdquo;模式。</p>','2024-07-24 01:53:15.019','2024-07-25 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('493dad0e-41a8-4af8-8c74-d429960f90ce','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>把时间用在对的地方，跟随心中的羅盘前进。把时间用在重要不紧急项目我们就会有多时间了。</p>','2024-07-24 15:07:43.923','2024-07-25 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dd6b5d01-f099-4cd7-a9ac-d39de29eebfa','f775b1cf-f18f-416c-8c73-22bac8ef7695','818bb03e-4271-4e7a-a918-07cdd48a8614','<p>对于传统线下零售的现金流的短处，后来慢慢的被行动支付所取代。</p>
<p>网络上的现金流，还是缺乏可信性。</p>','2024-08-30 07:51:30.386','2024-08-30 07:51:30.386',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 07:51:30.386',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('be18e854-7af9-4d00-ad9a-399e73a88509','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>25/7/2024<br>创造性的自由的六个原则<br>1. 适时说不：不要理会紧急但不重要的事<br>2. 热切达成目标<br>3. 让老板欣赏自己的创造力产生信心<br>4. 在创造性勇气与体谅他人取得平衡<br>5. 同时以非常独立与极度互赖的运作模式<br>6. 跳出框架，，平行思考</p>','2024-07-25 13:47:31.326','2024-07-25 13:47:31.326',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 13:47:31.325',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f48a876b-5b5d-447e-84c8-57d6d7cfd451','503da337-e7ab-4c77-866e-fd79b50d7a48','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>成功者的秘诀是：养成习惯，去做败者不喜欢做的事。我们要有共同的目标、共同的愿景以及相同的使命，就能容忍差异，这些差异会成为我们的优势。多元性的弹性是有范围的，也就是最好建立在原则之上。</p>','2024-07-25 03:40:11.471','2024-08-08 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-08-08 00:00:00.006','2024-08-08 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('62f151a2-2058-4a26-ad1f-6ef2b84a5a0a','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>良知和罗盘一样，为我们指引了方向（目的、愿景、观点与平衡）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>要培育正直的品格，就要学会兑现对自己做出的承诺。</p>
<p>聚集于重要的事：</p>
<p>先规划一周的计划，再规划每天的计划</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&ldquo;你必须决定，对你而言最重要的事是什么，然后愉快的、毫无愧疚的带着微笑与勇气，拒绝其他的事。要做到这件事，你必须心中有个热切想追求的目标。「好」往往是「最好」的敌人。&rdquo;</p>','2024-07-25 04:16:55.434','2024-07-25 04:16:55.434',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 04:16:55.433',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d36a5ea3-673e-429f-8dd2-e362ba6a50c2','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>真正的領導者會對重要的事做出反應，但不一定會對緊急的事做出反應。由反射性、緊急性反應主導的生活方式，只會導致壓力與過勞。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-25 05:20:22.568','2024-07-25 05:20:22.568',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 05:20:22.567',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d3341e3f-be79-4f77-83fa-5f4d546df068','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>此刻主宰你的人生，以及你熱切想達成的目標是什麼？可能是一個攸關生死的計畫，需要你關注的關係，或是你的個人目標。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-25 05:37:24.96','2024-07-27 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('91070675-66f6-49db-8b1e-667697061843','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>婚姻與家庭關係的連結，本質就是犧牲。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-25 07:53:09.438','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9df6cb8f-af3a-4522-b001-02c9648e8e9c','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>领导力和个人成长需要在效率与道德之间取得平衡，注重长远目标和人际关系。真正的领导者会优先处理重要而非紧急的事务，重视人比事更重要。创造力源于内在的自由、力量和纪律，避免成为既定实践的受害者，从而保持对自我和世界的深刻理解与创新。</p>','2024-07-25 11:48:00.418','2024-07-25 11:48:00.418',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 11:48:00.417',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d00cd451-e25e-4b75-b3e7-c8b36ea00ecc','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>真正的领导者会对重要的是作出反应，但不一定会对紧急的事做出反应。这真的很值得我们去内省的一句话。认定自己的目标。</p>','2024-07-25 12:48:17.358','2024-07-25 12:48:17.358',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 12:48:17.357',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2ae56f4c-5861-42b4-b788-21f6b78d3191','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>人与人之间的连接由心开始。人们渴望得到肯定、重视、珍惜与理解。</p>','2024-07-30 15:36:55.505','2024-07-30 15:36:55.505',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 15:36:55.504',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('946211a2-9824-4ea9-b625-ede44a41f4a8','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="MsoNormal">Day 25<span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>7<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>25<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》第二部</span> 12<span lang="ZH-CN">成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">丢掉时钟，拿起罗盘</span>&ndash; <span lang="ZH-CN">拥有热切想达成的目标（</span>Page 143 - 147<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">丢掉时钟，拿起罗盘唯有当你先打到成效，速度与效率才是优点。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">成效的象征和罗盘一样，在你人生中的每个时刻发挥内在监督者与导航系统的作用。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">要从时钟思维转换成罗盘思维，你要把焦点从时间表转换成优先顺序。要非常清晰自己的优先目标是什么，才能永远保持正确的轨道上。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">人比事更重要向自己做出承诺并于以悦现，将可大幅强化你的正直品格。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">人的关系比时间表更要紧，因为你把良知以及更高崇的愿景与价值观摆第一。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">我不受制于时钟的效率，只接受良知这个罗盘的主宰。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">将一周的计划遵循着使命，角色，与目标的脉络，采取行动。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">拥有有热切想达成的目标</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">发挥创造力，作出贡献。挤出时间或善用时间进行创造性工作。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-25 12:32:58.116','2024-07-25 12:32:58.116',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 12:32:58.115',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9f874b1e-8682-4d3e-b2f0-de04c7bba074','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<ul>
<li>成效就如罗盘，指引方向（目的、愿景、观点和平衡。要从时钟思维转换成罗盘思维。</li>
<li>人比事重要， 人的关系比时间表来的重要。不限制于时钟的效率，只接受良知（罗盘）的主宰</li>
</ul>','2024-07-25 12:51:48.15','2024-07-25 12:51:48.15',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 12:51:48.149',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3a0ab8af-b42d-4955-a41d-52e0d080e2eb','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>丢掉时钟，拿起罗盘，就是要我们从追求速度的思维转向追求优先顺序的思维。</p>
<p>快，不一定就有成效，要快得有路，这样的快才有成效。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-25 13:13:48.514','2024-07-25 13:13:48.514',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 13:13:48.513',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9e41f5f5-6af1-4224-8e25-dd5a7acfe554','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>不必快，不必用时间去赢得所有的东西。不必以快慢做标准。眼前的目标是你最想、最能做什么事，什么事你做了让你最自在最快乐。<br>记得，把时间先留给自己，才可以作出创造力的事。</p>','2024-07-25 13:43:21.425','2024-07-25 13:43:21.425',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 13:43:21.425',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4acce6af-fd39-44a2-a2fd-0e4f07de6432','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','478843b9-e4b4-4090-81ad-cee1b2c570e6','<p>发挥个人的创造力</p>','2024-07-25 15:36:07.577','2024-07-25 15:36:07.577',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 15:36:07.576',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eb4b3963-ed95-4a71-8616-d55a42c76035','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>管理的本质是忙碌；领导的本质是创造力。</p>','2024-07-25 12:14:20.302','2024-07-26 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('523ed897-2ddd-457f-a242-45a87b23e87d','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>想像力的力量比知识的力量更大的。</p>
<p>积极能量让＂心想事成＂。</p>
<p>自己的人生和工作都是有意义的。</p>','2024-07-25 09:20:49.22','2024-07-27 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b1dabc59-2946-4fbd-80d1-03139751323e','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>想象力的力量比知识的力量更大。</p>','2024-07-25 12:31:42.504','2024-07-27 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9dfcfae6-a668-469f-a209-df22cb71c9e2','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>人是不需要透过与别人的关系获得安全感，而是从内在正直的人格获得安全感。</p>
<p>那么，最重要的是自己看见了自己，看见秘密花园里的自己。这才是真正为自己负责任。</p>','2024-07-31 08:36:29.05','2024-08-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c0208464-bdaf-4b2f-a26c-ddf9ba6a7e76','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>修补一段关系需要很努力，也需要时间，无法强求。破镜是不是真的可以重圆？其实很难。重新愈合也会有裂痕。但不努力就没有希望。我也相信缘起缘灭，努力了，就不强求。</p>','2024-08-02 14:28:03.204','2024-08-02 14:28:03.204',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-02 14:28:03.203',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f8bc359d-9f52-44b9-a774-2a819b461512','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>把时钟思维换成罗盘思维，把焦点从时间表转换成优先顺序，在任何时刻，都要清楚自己应该追求的优先目标是什么？</p>
<p>我不受制于时间的效率，只接受良知这个罗盘的主宰。</p>
<p>真正的领导者，会对重要的事情做出反应，但不一定会对紧急事情做出反应。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-25 14:04:56.09','2024-07-25 14:04:56.09',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 14:04:56.089',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('50d01b24-85fd-462f-aac0-efabd49595a7','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 25：7月25日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">丢掉时钟，拿起罗盘&ndash; 拥有热切想达成的目标（Page 143 - 147）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">懂得说对不起是有勇气。有时的确不容易，但是，肯放下面子，如果是自己错，放下身段，可以把关系做好，</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">热情对自己设定的目标是很重要。做事没有热情是不会有创新。</span></p>','2024-07-25 14:31:31.789','2024-07-25 14:31:31.789',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 14:31:31.788',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8c1d3a44-72e8-45c9-9557-585a6df23818','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>适时说不，热切达成目标，拿岀信心让老板看见自己的价值，在体谅与激进中取得平衡，时时刻刻保持独立清醒之余也高度与人配合，跳岀框架展现跨界思维，这些都是能让创造力自由发挥的练习与基础。</p>','2024-07-25 14:41:05.683','2024-07-25 14:41:05.683',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 14:41:05.682',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1558869c-ebf2-4baa-b2ce-bca5d6a34bae','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>良知使我们懂得分辨轻重缓急。提升罗盘思维使我们更有效能管理自己。</p>','2024-07-25 14:45:48.574','2024-07-25 14:45:48.574',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 14:45:48.573',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('660dc668-eae5-41aa-91e5-ede63f4922e6','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>真正的领导者会对重要的事做出反应，但不一定会对紧急的事做出反应</p>','2024-07-25 15:03:57.985','2024-07-25 15:03:57.985',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 15:03:57.984',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c9b86c21-1ff6-4386-8eee-4aef7b3e5f97','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>由反射性、紧急性反应主导的生活方式,只会导致压力与过劳。真正的领导者会对重要的事做出反应。</p>','2024-07-25 15:04:43.861','2024-07-25 15:04:43.861',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 15:04:43.86',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5fb91c82-69b1-438c-8393-94cbb6cfea5d','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>真正的领导会对重要的事情做出反应，但不一定会对紧急的事作出反应</p>','2024-07-25 15:10:27.221','2024-07-25 15:10:27.221',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 15:10:27.22',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d0f7510f-93a6-4aea-b172-ce6c4a174b3a','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>从时钟思维转换成罗盘思维，把焦点从时间表转化成优先排序。记得人比事重要！</p>
<p>真正的领导者会对重要的事情做出反应，但不一定对紧急事做反应；</p>
<p>成就的最高境界，就是发挥个人的创造力，成就只有我们才能做出的贡献！</p>
<p>Annie</p>','2024-07-25 15:15:22.981','2024-07-25 15:15:22.981',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 15:15:22.98',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0b5d1f46-87d3-4e4d-85dd-423327453d39','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>在生活和工作中，方向和价值观比时间表和效率更为重要</p>
<p>1. 罗盘思维</p>
<p>2. 人比事重要</p>
<p>3. 反应重要而非紧急</p>
<p>4. 规划和优先排序</p>
<p>5. 保持创造力的自由</p>
<p>6. 学会说&ldquo;不</p>
<p>通过这些原则，能够更好地管理时间和精力，保持创造力和目标导向的生活。</p>','2024-07-25 15:21:24.97','2024-07-25 15:22:27.576',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 15:22:27.575',NULL,NULL);
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<p>思考帽是很好的方式，能够让大家更理性的去思考。我用过，效果很好。</p>','2024-07-25 21:10:40.002','2024-07-25 21:10:40.002',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 21:10:40.001',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第三章： 从认错开始 &nbsp;4. 怕麻烦才麻烦 &ndash; 太多我认为（Page086-090）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">麻烦的是自己的念头。在源头处找到麻烦的根由而化解之。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">太多的【我认为】让自己看不到的，是某些人承受了自己太多的缺点、却没有享受到自己的优点的半点福。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">要把惭愧心视为人间至宝，愿能时时生起，成为知过能改的动力。</span></p>','2024-08-30 08:33:19.389','2024-08-30 08:33:19.389',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 08:33:19.388',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('29bf54ca-6ac9-4cbb-8abd-b961729c5b67','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>自我牺牲的领导风范。要记得团队作战比单打独斗好。身为领导要牺牲一点点自尊或企图心要为全体福祉服务。</p>
<p>人与人的关系可以有牺牲而达到 ，付出爱，释放善意，礼貌，謙遜，耐心，原谅，服务，关怀，教导照料。</p>
<p>领导必须拥有务实与道德的观点，充满和解精神与智慧。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-25 23:00:53.29','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2ce60be8-ac86-4ca9-a3e2-05a41846e1d9','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>抛开个人私心，以正开放。和真诚的态度。</p>
<p>受过伤的人容易抓紧过去的伤痛不放。学习上下把过去的经历当做借镜，不带入任何情绪。</p>
<p>团队的或者团员们需要牺牲自尊心，展现天地放下自我意志。不可太过武断。了解别人。寻求互惠，正直和拥有富足的心灵。</p>
<p>领导以新方式全新的权力来领导。</p>
<p>1.明智的应用自觉想象力，独立意志与良知。</p>
<p>2.花更多的时间从事重要但不一定紧急的事。60%！</p>
<p>3.持续学习，改善与进步。</p>
<p>4.建立双赢与伙伴关系的网络。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-25 23:14:14.877','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d14dfb6e-5a97-46f4-ba9c-cd21bb8a72da','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>服务就是先学奉献自己。</p>
<p>抓住多数人心的关键就是先抓住其中一个人。与人产生连接。</p>
<p>与人沟通的时候，人在心在。聚焦放人而非事情。关系而非时程表。成效而非效率。个人领导而非资源管理。</p>
<p>当关系建立过后，一切都好办事。</p>','2024-07-25 23:26:42.898','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8a79b974-0d3e-4264-84fb-934f8a77e4f6','e1d92763-ac0e-4904-9eb0-a8f6043d7792','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>于他人背后说三道四，不但无助于问题解决，反而是制造更多问题的根源。</p>
<p>见义勇为为他人说话，往往能避免事情的发生，同时自己也易受到认同。</p>','2024-08-04 13:45:42.076','2024-08-04 14:23:31.123',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-04 14:23:31.122',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('22a585bd-1a7f-4e0c-865e-f1094d05919e','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>六个原则，保有自己的创造性自由：</p>
<ol>
<li>适时说&ldquo;不&rdquo;，不要理会紧急但不重要的事。</li>
<li>随时把热切想达成的目标放在心上。</li>
<li>努力让老板对自己的创造力产生信心。</li>
<li>在创造性勇气与体谅他人之间取得平衡。</li>
<li>同时以独立与极度互赖的模式运作。</li>
<li>跳脱框架，带上不同的思考帽，才去平行思考。</li>
</ol>','2024-07-24 09:37:39.473','2024-07-26 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cd88ef37-3b0a-41b3-9184-184ca12f18ca','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>保有创造性自由的六大原则：</p>
<p>✅适时说不</p>
<p>✅放目标放在心上。</p>
<p>✅证明自己创造力</p>
<p>✅勇气与与体谅的平衡</p>
<p>✅独立与互赖模式</p>
<p>✅think out of the box&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-25 03:47:09.602','2024-07-26 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8bb9232a-1e89-4275-a5a2-85982d66d9e4','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>另一個人對你的重要性，或是你們共同的目標對你的重要性，會決定你是否重視這個人所重視的事。因此，即使你認為某個活動不是那麼重要，也不值得你關注，但如果你很重視你和這個人的關係或是共同努力的目標，那麼這件事對你而言一定很重要。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-25 05:23:27.365','2024-07-26 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b77a82d1-6d78-4e44-a8db-04a422564867','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>六個原則：</p>
<p>1） 适時說「 不」 不要理會緊急但不重要的事.</p>
<p>2） 隨時把熱切想達成的目標放在心上.</p>
<p>3） 努力讓老板對你的創造力產生信心.</p>
<p>4） 在創造性勇氣與体諒他人之間取得平衡.</p>
<p>5） 以非常獨立與极度互賴的模式運作.</p>
<p>6）跳脫框架戴上不同的思考帽採取平行思考.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-25 06:02:25.653','2024-07-26 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ca4c6bce-d802-4409-98fb-a614d7cdd429','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>26/7/2024<br>优先目标可以是重要到生死存殁关头，只有成功，不许失败。<br>必须做到自己可以掌控创造力的致胜环境。</p>','2024-07-26 00:32:05.461','2024-07-26 00:32:05.461',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 00:32:05.46',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0899289c-ab1e-484d-8082-4cca80f5a790','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>专注做重要不紧急事项，勇往目标前进。还有借力才能更有效发挥作用。</p>','2024-07-26 00:41:00.933','2024-07-26 00:41:00.933',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 00:41:00.932',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('88d34e97-f6d9-4f4d-895e-7e3dbc5ecec1','f775b1cf-f18f-416c-8c73-22bac8ef7695','2fcfdadd-560a-4bc9-b7e6-cfab6c3894ac','<p>网络的现金流主要是提供便捷性，也非常合适小额和高频的支付场景。线下的交易，往往可信度会来得更高。<br>电商线上交易的最大障碍是现金流信任度的问题，PayPal 和支付宝的出现也以担保交易解决了互相信任的问题。</p>','2024-08-30 09:04:42.576','2024-08-30 09:04:42.576',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 09:04:42.575',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9e62c1d8-77f0-4d54-a41e-6db163f9547f','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 26: 26/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">五）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.147~152</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">保有创造性自由的六个原则与方法：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">适时说</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">「不」，不要理会紧急但不重要的事。</span></strong><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&mdash;&mdash;管理的本质是忙碌；领导的本质是创造。优秀的企业最重要且优先的要务是追求经济效益，而非时间效益。其高阶主管至少把六成的时间花在真正的优先要务上；重要但不一定紧急的事，例如做好准备、防患未然、建立使命、规划、建立关系、创造、再创造，以及授权。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">「急事总是令人难以抗拒，卻会耗尽精力。</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">若从长远來看，急事在一时之间获得的重要性就伝消退。我们在失落之余，会想起被抛在一旁的要务，並意识到自己成为了急事这名暴君的奴隸。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">」</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">隨时把熱切想达成的目标放在心上。</span></strong><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&mdash;&mdash;心中有件熱切想要做的事，就比较容易放下紧急但不重要的事。然而，重要的是，学习如何区分重要与不重要的事。因此，你需要建立一套坚定的准则。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">努力让老板对你的创造力产生信心。</span></strong><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&mdash;&mdash;某件事情是否重要，端乎关系中的人对你的重要性，或者你们共同的目标对你的重要有多大。程度越大，那么这件事对你而言一定很重要。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">在创造性勇气与体谅他人之间取得平衡。</span></strong><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&mdash;&mdash;自我实现的人会同时发挥勇气与创造力。若不勇于面对其他人，你的下场是无法引起別人的注意，就是沒有感受到你的強大动力与决心，也就不会对你有任何特別的期待了。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">同时以非常独立与极度互賴的模式运作。</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&mdash;&mdash;</span></strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「集结众人长处，透过组织让缺点变得微不足道。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">」欠缺互賴的思维与技能，将难以度过市场力量的考验。沒有支援、補给、统合综效，我们的优点会成为失败的原因；我们的缺点会被凸显出來，因为缺乏其他人的优点來補強。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">跳脫框架，戴上不同的思考帽，採取平行思考。&mdash;&mdash;</span></strong><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">学习</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">《六顶思考帽》中的建议：整理你的思维，一次只採用一种思考模式，而非试著同时进行所有的事。</span></p>','2024-07-26 00:35:32.666','2024-07-26 00:49:02.132',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 00:49:02.129',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7120db83-8af9-471c-8162-41cf97a7d885','7ba9697c-c804-4352-86a2-8e8ad55ef6d1','818bb03e-4271-4e7a-a918-07cdd48a8614','<p>要提高转换率就得找对社群。要懂得借别人的力量来提高自己的价值，达到双赢的效果。</p>
<p>客单价：更透析数据，更洞察用户</p>','2024-09-09 13:44:31.365','2024-09-09 13:44:31.365',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 13:44:31.364',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('22a566ad-a58c-4381-b009-a0f1e8da8d40','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 28: 28/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">日）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.157~162</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">团体作战比单打独斗好。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">统合综效的本质是团队工作&mdash;&mdash;每个愿意贡献最好的点子而不爭功劳。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">牺牲奉献的心态是人与人之间产生连结的要素。你无法与某个实体（家庭、团队、公司）连结，你只能与人连结。牺特意谓着敬畏。<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">敬畏的心有了，连结就会产生</strong>。</span></p>','2024-07-26 01:01:13.509','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('737c4625-ec6d-4b78-8fce-bad51a376db2','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>不是双赢就免谈！</p>
<p>统合综效创造更好的解决方案。</p>
<p>这还行得通吗？鼓起勇气时不时检视自己，放弃那种思维模式，创造新点子。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-26 09:11:26.928','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('26b20895-8751-47b4-94c2-27c493b7d5e6','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>牺牲可使人与人之间产生无与伦比的连结，本质就是牺牲。其实心里一直有个疑问，就是如果我为对方付出了对方却不珍惜怎么办，不过想通了，先付出了再说，而不是一味等着对方付出。先舍后得。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-26 05:06:57.041','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('027f4fb6-94eb-4046-927a-4375d5095979','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>曼德拉的謙卑，和解精神，以及温和性情值得尊敬。</p>
<p>想想我这一来世，能为社会贡献什么吗？</p>','2024-07-26 06:06:32.902','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fd8c031b-bf60-4093-8bc4-283abf0a4ade','3bafad78-87f9-450b-afc0-e220abf44043','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>每天学一点新东西，可使你在职场保持最佳状态与重要性。确保你学习与成长的动机，是基于服务大众的渴望。如果不创造持续学习的文化，让知识工作者持续提升技能与更新科技技术，企业就会丧失竞争力。训练员工的成本很高。不过，在现今动盪的大环境中，不这么做的成本会更加高昂。</p>','2024-07-26 03:14:04.957','2024-08-09 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-08-09 00:00:00.021','2024-08-09 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('42fb0d67-6424-439c-869f-41016305658a','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 26：7月26日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">六个原则保佑，你的创造性自由&ndash; 原则六跳脱框架（Page 147 - 152）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则与方法</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则一：适时说【不】，把时间花在真正优先要务上。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则2；随时把热切想达成的目标放在心上</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则3；努力让老板对你的创造力产生信心</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则4；在创造性勇气与体谅他人之间取得平衡</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则5；同时以非常独立与极度互赖的模式运作</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">集结丛人长处，透组织让缺点变得微不足道。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则6；跳脱框架，戴上不同思考帽，采取平行思考。整理你的思维，一次只采用一种思考模式。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">采用逻辑思维</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>','2024-07-26 11:37:02.25','2024-07-26 11:37:02.25',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 11:37:02.249',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c2307982-492c-4eda-9e48-8a2b5f047764','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>跳脱框架，戴上不同的思考帽，採取平行思考。整理我们的思维，一次只采用一种思考模式，而非试看同时进行所有事情</p>','2024-07-26 11:59:28.921','2024-07-26 11:59:28.921',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 11:59:28.92',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4bf2027f-72e6-49ff-93a7-8fdea1ba8348','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>6个原则，</p>
<ol>
<li>适时说&ldquo;不&rdquo;，不理会紧急但不重要的事，去关注重要的事，才能脱离长久以来救火的状态</li>
<li>把热切要达成的目标放在心上</li>
<li>努力让老板对你的创造产生信心</li>
<li>勇于展现个人信念</li>
<li>集聚众人长处，让团队发挥长才</li>
<li>整理思维，一次只采用一种思考模式，而非进行所有的事</li>
</ol>','2024-07-26 12:56:51.488','2024-07-26 12:56:51.488',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 12:56:51.487',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('41516c54-5099-4a09-b44d-6becfe120948','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>6个原则，保有你的创造性自由</p>
<ol>
<li>适时说&ldquo;不&rdquo;，不要理会紧急但不重要的事</li>
<li>随时把热切想达成的目标放在心上</li>
<li>努力让老板对你的创造力产生信心</li>
<li>在创造性勇气与体谅他人之间取得平衡</li>
<li>同时以非常独立与极度互赖的模式运作</li>
<li>跳脱框架，戴上不同的思考帽，采取平行思考</li>
</ol>','2024-07-26 13:38:39.833','2024-07-26 13:38:39.833',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 13:38:39.832',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e3c86490-d27a-4fa4-ba13-1bdc30e3c25c','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>人比事重要，指南针方向也远比时间表所列岀的大小事项来的更重要。</p>','2024-07-26 13:44:46.524','2024-07-26 13:44:46.524',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 13:44:46.523',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2fc0c7f9-d4dc-49e9-b6d8-e9689bf61521','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>保持创造性自由的方法包括：学会说&ldquo;不&rdquo;以专注于重要任务，设定清晰目标，赢得他人信任，平衡勇气与体谅，兼具独立性和团队合作能力，以及通过有序思考来解决问题。</p>','2024-07-26 13:54:33.417','2024-07-26 13:54:35.653',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 13:54:35.653',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('44d4182b-15f5-406f-aa6f-0a88303e0d62','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>选择优先出来重要的是，而不是紧急的事。</p>
<p>锁定自己的人生目标</p>
<p>创造力的重要性</p>
<p>成熟定义为在勇气和体谅之间取得平衡</p>
<p>团队精神很重要</p>
<p>采用逻辑思维，而非乐观思维</p>','2024-07-26 14:00:15.323','2024-07-26 14:00:32.524',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 14:00:32.523',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('27df9686-0272-4a5a-8bce-1f3e6cdc0a63','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 26：7月26日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">六个原则保佑，你的创造性自由&ndash; 原则六跳脱框架（Page 147 - 152）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">六个原则保有你的创造的性质由；</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1）懂得说不-紧急但不重要的事</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">专注Q2</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2）把热切想要达成的目标放在心上</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">要停下想一想</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3）努力让老板知道你的刨造力</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">4）有勇气去体谅，还有能够取得平衡点</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">5）统合综效-把组织缺点变得微不足道</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">6）带上不同的思考帽，采取平行思考- think out of the box&hellip; 采用逻辑思维，而非观思维，新的模式。给价值！</span></p>','2024-07-26 14:06:13.935','2024-07-26 14:06:13.935',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 14:06:13.934',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('253993fd-8ea0-4822-a9d5-4181150e1424','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>记住这六大原则，以保持创造性。</p>
<p>可以尝试每次处理事情都放入六大原则去思考。从多面向建立处事思维，不必守住框框。</p>','2024-07-26 14:19:01.709','2024-07-26 14:19:01.709',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 14:19:01.708',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1a92f9e0-b601-4386-a522-6ca24ec14b59','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>六个可以让我们保有创造性自由的原则：</p>
<ol>
<li>适当的时候要学会说&ldquo;不&rdquo;，拒绝被困在紧急而不重要的事情里；</li>
<li>随时把热切想达成的目标放在心上；</li>
<li>努力让老板对我们的创造力产生信心；</li>
<li>在创造性勇气与体谅他人之间取得平衡；</li>
<li>同时以非常独立与极度依赖的模式运作；</li>
<li>跳脱框架，戴上不同的思考帽，采取平行思考。</li>
</ol>','2024-07-26 14:27:09.344','2024-07-26 14:27:09.344',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 14:27:09.343',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e9c4dd16-cef9-44d6-982f-75a8501fd016','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>保创造自由的六原则：</p>
<p>1.懂得适度拒绝</p>
<p>2.日标常掛心上</p>
<p>3.展现创造力并让人信心</p>
<p>4.具勇气与体谅</p>
<p>5.能自立并懂互賴</p>
<p>6.跳出框架：採用罗辑思考。</p>','2024-07-26 14:31:57.905','2024-07-26 14:31:57.905',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 14:31:57.904',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d7f1e103-be63-4362-b9a4-097803abcec4','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>有人跟我分享过：创造性工作所耗的能量比执行日常工作的十倍。</p>
<p>如果身为领导者不&ldquo;清空&rdquo;日常工作，便无法有更多的空间去发挥创意和思考策略。</p>
<p>为保持创意脑袋，应该把时间花在重要而非紧急的事。</p>','2024-07-26 14:34:50.844','2024-07-26 14:34:50.844',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 14:34:50.844',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d4148706-b84f-4b79-bb57-b054f238b053','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>做错了就得承认错误。诚心的道歉会让对方感受到并接受。心里的道歉与言行上一致。</p>','2024-08-02 14:37:16.774','2024-08-02 14:37:16.774',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-02 14:37:16.773',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d05cc50a-48b5-4617-ae33-5d63753e27d8','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">六个原则保有你的创造的性质由:</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1）懂得说不-不理会紧急但不重要的事</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2）把热切想要达成的目标放在心上</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3）努力让老板对你的刨造力有信心</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">4）在勇气与体谅之间取得平衡点</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">5）以非常独立和极度互赖模式运作</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">6）带上不同的思考帽，采取平行思考</span></p>','2024-07-26 14:35:16.9','2024-07-26 14:35:19.722',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 14:35:19.721',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dac7b961-47b7-4661-a2d2-605e7dc7f7cd','2371bbf5-605e-4385-8822-344f5012ded2','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>3.4 【怕麻烦】才麻烦</p>
<p>经常会把&ldquo;认真做事&rdquo;当成是&ldquo;麻烦&rdquo;。转个念，认真做事其实是在帮助/成全他人。这样&ldquo;麻烦&rdquo;就等于积功德。</p>
<p>3.5 太多【我认为】</p>
<p>该做的事不要因为太小而不做，更不要因为可以轻易&ldquo;补偿&rdquo;而错过了认真做。会后悔莫及。</p>','2024-08-30 09:10:42.913','2024-08-30 09:11:12.943',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 09:11:12.943',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b3c7ee0f-b7dd-473a-b617-49e5877bbaf6','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','e82c399f-31e2-4808-afd9-9cfa1e2fe798','<p>善根：勤劳朴实，顺天应人：勤劳朴实，善解人意。</p>
<p>只有持续性的，出于灵魂深处的，带着爱的能量的做，与说完全吻合时，那样说才具有真实的影响力。</p>','2024-09-09 13:54:36.108','2024-09-09 13:54:36.108',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 13:54:36.108',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b8cced1e-55f7-4131-a2c3-cdb8fa8cb004','7ba9697c-c804-4352-86a2-8e8ad55ef6d1','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 26：9月9日《新零售狂潮》第三章：坪效革命：从人的角度理解新零售</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">转换率：提高转换率，找对社群很重要（Page140-146）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">转换率：提高转换率，找对社群很重要</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一群有共同兴趣认知价值观的用户更容易组团形成群风效应在一起互动交流协作感染的过程中，对产品品牌本身产生反哺的价值关系。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">客单价：更透彻数据，更透彻用户</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">客单价是一个消费者在一个商家一次能买多少东西。买的越多客单价就越高。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">所以要提高课单价的方法就是要透彻数据还要洞察用户。</span></p>','2024-09-09 13:55:17.425','2024-09-09 13:55:17.425',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 13:55:17.424',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9b08e82b-5458-428c-8887-038ad5f9f248','7ba9697c-c804-4352-86a2-8e8ad55ef6d1','2fcfdadd-560a-4bc9-b7e6-cfab6c3894ac','<p>提高转换率，必须要找到&ldquo;对的社群&rdquo;，适合的消费者可以从共同兴趣，认知和共同的价值观组成。</p>
<p>提高客单价，可以从大数据，更洞察用户，提升&ldquo;连带率&rdquo;来消费更高的客单价。</p>','2024-09-09 13:57:52.003','2024-09-09 13:57:52.003',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 13:57:52.002',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7a3e4177-c8f0-4f6e-8e62-ca8218a97e93','418f5975-7d9d-4737-b31d-57b8649c87d2','ebc94826-5eca-4369-a4c8-7941d6ce1957','<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">活得比父母大-现代社会因为资讯发达、资源丰富，当代年轻人往往能轻易的获取信息，导致很多孩子比父母厉害、更有成就的现象出现。懂得尽孝的孩子，必然能理解父母的不容易及时代的鸿沟，对父母的认知及格局给予谅解及尊敬，并时时抱以感恩之心去对待父母。</span></li>
<li class="li2"><span class="s2">尽孝即进化-真正的孝，是对父母的&ldquo;是&rdquo;加以放大，时时怀有感恩之心；而对于父母的&ldquo;不是&rdquo;、则对其加以改进，圆满他们的&ldquo;不是&rdquo;，让父母应以为傲。</span></li>
</ul>','2024-09-09 13:59:13.481','2024-09-13 00:00:00.016',NULL,'f','2024-09-13 00:00:00.015','2024-09-13 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('39b29a86-5dc2-45b9-8201-22f29d068bb9','0b245c09-dc25-4adf-acdc-37c11b906084','096533a6-8241-410e-8ea7-94387ad03857','<p>谁也无法说服他人改变，因为我们每个人都守着一扇只能从内开启的改变之门，不论动之以情或晓之以理，我们都不能替人开门。</p>
<p>七个习惯的简要定义：<br>1. 积极主动：采取行动，为自己过去，现在及未来的行为负责。<br><br>2.以始为终：所有事情都经过两次的创造，先是在脑海里酝酿，其次是实质的创造。<br><br>3.要事第一：把要事放在第一位。<br><br>4.双赢思维：双赢思维是一种基于互敬，寻求互惠的思考框架与心意。目的是分享更多的机会，财富与资源。<br><br>5.知彼解己：诚心去了解及倾听别人，便能开启真正的沟通，增进彼此关系。知彼需要仁慈心，解己需要勇气。<br><br>6.综合综效：创造第三个方式，既非按照我的方式，亦非遵循你的方式，而是创造第三种更好的办法。<br><br>7.不断更新：在身体，精神，智力，社会及情感的层面上，不断更新自己。</p>','2024-09-24 11:56:48.378','2024-09-24 11:56:48.378',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 11:56:48.377',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('97b0c31d-7d91-4106-8727-e819f1577cad','fd52586d-4120-4c6a-a1dd-6179fa248308','224ada56-b4c4-4cee-9baf-0badc4b884c6','<p>制度性强制让全球顶尖好手们集体沦为乌合之众，巴菲特主张：面对现实，把问题想清楚，然后排除众议</p>','2024-10-01 08:29:04.463','2024-10-04 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('14246dad-f47a-4144-b342-8c5264206a5b','35963149-4ef0-4f2b-bbee-bdabe0e08b6e','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>人生的真正价值在于体验，而不是理论或设想。没有体验的人生，像是一张白纸，缺乏深度和意义。领导者和企业家不应只停留在计划和策略的层面，更应该勇于亲身参与、感受和体验生活中的每一个细节。只有通过实际的体验，我们才能获得真正的智慧和洞察力。这让我反思，工作和生活中，我们要多去行动，拥抱变化和未知，不要害怕失败，因为每一次经历都是宝贵的财富，丰富了我们的人生和视野。</p>','2024-09-16 11:34:07.524','2024-10-12 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-10-12 00:00:00.006','2024-10-12 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eb751ca6-4d03-4c92-a30c-5649506f7843','2d6f2269-12b4-4b7b-869c-831cd0cd380b','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>人生的终极智慧或许在于重拾童年的那种单纯与好奇心。童年代表着无忧无虑的心境，充满了对世界的探索和热情。随着成长，我们逐渐被责任、压力和复杂的思维所束缚，失去了对生活的简单感知和天真的视角。作者提醒我们，回归童年并不是退步，而是重新找回那份纯粹的心境，将这份童心融入到生活和工作中。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-16 11:34:55.24','2024-10-13 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-10-13 00:00:00.009','2024-10-13 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aaea1878-ae77-4d15-a530-1ef196b53017','8f19b5bd-1c4f-4562-8222-8aadb7c32faa','59926472-a7df-4e83-b8b7-27f37f6867d7','<p>富足的心態：人类幸福的關鍵。要感覺到處充滿着成功的機會。精神境界是一種真正的財富，也獲得公眾領域的基礎。</p>','2024-10-26 11:25:47.615','2024-10-26 11:26:08.495',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-10-26 11:26:08.494',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aea0e681-5c2f-4b56-bed5-ba492355489e','f775b1cf-f18f-416c-8c73-22bac8ef7695','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">传统交易都是一手交钱，一手交货。可信性很高，但少了一些便捷性。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">网路购物的出现，给我们带来资讯流的高效性，展示资讯的方式更快、更全、更便宜了。但也带来了不信任的问题。</span></p>','2024-08-30 09:56:42.627','2024-08-30 09:56:42.627',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 09:56:42.626',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('18851b95-ffef-4704-a2cf-eb8c9a6b076b','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>六个保有自己的创造性自由的原则与方法。</p>
<p>原则1：适时说「不」，不要理会紧急但不重要的事。</p>
<p>原则2：随时把热切想达成的目标放在心上。</p>
<p>原则3：努力让老板对自己的创造力产生信心。</p>
<p>原则4：在创造性勇气与体谅他人之间取得平衡。</p>
<p>原则5：同时以非常独立与极度互赖的模式运作。</p>
<p>原则6：跳脱框架，戴上不同的思考帽，采取平行思考。</p>','2024-07-26 14:45:28.172','2024-07-26 14:45:28.172',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 14:45:28.171',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eea3b2e7-5d38-494c-b8c4-fe8c8b82a531','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则（一）：适时说&ldquo;不&rdquo;，不要理会紧急但不重要的事，那么就会离开&ldquo;救火&rdquo;状态。。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则（二）：随时把热切想达成的目标放在心上。专注。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则（三）：努力让老板对你的创造力产生信心。才有机会去执行。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则（四） ：在创造性勇气与体谅他人之间取得平衡。那么你获得的自由比你预先的多。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则（五） ：同时以非常独立与极度互赖的模式运作。共生、双赢的思维。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则（六）：跳脱框架，戴上不同思考帽，采取平行思考。整理你的思维，一次只采用一种思考模式，而非试着同时进行所有的事。</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-26 14:58:48.892','2024-07-26 14:58:48.892',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 14:58:48.891',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5451861d-9e25-433b-b9a1-aa6c0755b782','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 六个保有创造性自由的原则</p>
<p>1）适时说不，不要理会紧急但不重要的事</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 紧急不等于重要</p>
<p>2）随时把热切想表达的目标放在心上</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 当心中有件热切想做的事，就比较容易放下紧急但不重要的事</p>
<p>3）努力让老板对你的创造力产生信心</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 没有发挥创造力的自由，就是你需要发挥创造力来面对的挑战</p>
<p>4）在创造性勇气与体谅他人之间取得平衡</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 成熟被作者定义为在勇气与体谅之间取得平衡</p>
<p>5）同时以非常独立与极度互赖的模式运作</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 集结众人长处，透过组织让缺点变得微不足道</p>
<p>6）跳脱框架，带上不同的思考帽，采取冰芯思考</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 整理你的思维，一次只采用一种思考模式</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 采取创造性思维，而非批判性思维，采用逻辑思维，而非乐观思维</p>','2024-07-26 15:59:58.361','2024-07-26 16:00:21.334',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 16:00:21.333',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e30771ea-e0d5-4e72-8add-ce227c62ecdb','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>把一天的工作量视为重要性，会太过短视。</p>
<p>短视永远解决不了大事</p>
<p>把工作安排成一周的时间表，我们才能从长远之下去规划什么是重要的事，什么是突然很紧急的事</p>
<p>我们很长会被紧急的事，耽误了重要的事。人生一直在处于忙碌之中。而忙碌遮盖了我们在长远之际所要进行的大事。</p>
<p>学会做好重要不紧急的事，比起做些紧急不重要的事来的事半功倍</p>','2024-07-22 13:55:35.064','2024-07-27 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9b1dbe08-1646-46ba-ad08-4633ba6d8768','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>创造性活动包括</p>
<p>反省</p>
<p>计划</p>
<p>下决心</p>
<p>准备</p>
<p>防范未然</p>
<p>增进关系</p>
<p>我们解决问题是会除掉某个东西。但是如果处于创造模式就会试图注入某个东西。</p>
<p>最重要是心中有一个意念，意向。想象力的力量比知识的力量更大。</p>
<p>时时提醒自己，自己的人生与工作是有意义的。</p>','2024-07-25 22:48:07.405','2024-07-27 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('21667c69-e1b3-4bb5-9271-7d6c952328af','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 27: 27/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">六）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.152~156</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">最要紧的事往往受最不要紧的事情宰制。</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">因此，必要为自己设置一个成长与前进的循环：以一周为一个周期，聚焦于创造性活动，如反省、计划、下决心、准备、防患未然，以及增进关系。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">要学会在一个更大的脉络中化解问题，而不是试图除掉某个东西。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">我们不能用处理事情的方式与人相处。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">重要但不紧急的活动很容会被排除在每日计划之外。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">每周计划可帶给你较长远的观点，使你比较容易在个人使命、角色与目标的脉络中行动。</span></p>','2024-07-26 00:48:43.235','2024-07-27 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
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<p>想象力的力量比知识的力量更大，所以需要用创造力模式去处理事情。</p>','2024-07-26 04:42:22.933','2024-07-27 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('577ddc16-d8df-4291-921c-8f5146b6d7c6','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>牺牲意味着敬畏。在平凡的日常活动中悄悄服务他人，会连接人们的灵魂，并唤起人际关系中投桃报李的动力。</p>
<p>过去的牺牲模式无法迎合未来需求，我们需要透过伙伴关系做到进一步授权。我们需要透过新的思维与技能建立互赖关系，以形成这种伙伴关系。</p>','2024-07-26 15:14:15.988','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9d7cc8be-4d8e-485b-b299-e4c4d14f5155','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>当我们愿意把自己的命运交给团队，或是任何互赖的合作行动，我们其实就是在冒险，因为我们不确定结果会怎样，我们很可能会因此而受伤。当不带私心的放手一博，才有可能创造新的可能。</p>','2024-07-26 15:17:21.038','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1a4b842c-99de-4270-b624-5bbf15d87061','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>&nbsp;回顧自己的人生時間 , 可能會意識到最要緊的事, 往很受最不要緊的事牽拌.&nbsp;</p>
<p>「 好」 往往是「最好」的敌人, 我們常被急事牽扯, 而無法有創造性的自由.</p>
<p>我們也需要知道自己的人生, 和工作是有意義的, 假如是人際關係出現問題, 要做的不是設法解決問題, 而是要和對方溝通, 一同尋找, 能夠共同努力達成目標.</p>','2024-07-26 06:02:02.964','2024-07-27 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eaf0aa38-4263-4a32-92b6-c8d9340729ca','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>最要紧的事往往受到最不要紧的事情制约，&ldquo;好&rdquo;往往是&ldquo;最好&rdquo;的敌人，急事往往会骑劫我们创造性的自由。</p>
<p>基于此，我们必须拥有创造导向，而不是解决问题导向的态度。这两者的差别就在于，解决意味着&ldquo;去掉&rdquo;某些东西，创造则是&ldquo;注入&rdquo;某些东西。我们只能邀请人们接受一个共同的愿景与目标，然后让他们自己管理自己。</p>','2024-07-26 14:36:21.592','2024-07-27 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029','2024-07-27 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('388a0722-d9f1-4209-9f98-e297a101e10c','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>27/7/24<br>牺牲奉献<br>以书中内容所说，惟有牺牲小我自己对他人的奉献，才更有意义。比如母亲对家人，孩子的无私奉献，不求回报。<br>那国家领导人可以为人民贡献什么？<br>公司领导人可以为团队一同成长，进步？<br>奉献都是与人有关，以人为本。</p>','2024-07-27 00:49:28.907','2024-07-27 00:49:28.907',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 00:49:28.906',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2be30a0e-21b0-469b-83a7-865c2b99bb4a','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 27：7月27日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">化解一个问题，以一周为单位&ndash; 应用与建议（Page 152 - 156）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">当自己与工作是有意义，自然会积极主动去面对一切问题与挑战。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">要用化解一个问题，以一週为单位。要反省、计划、下决心、准备、防患未然,以及增进关系。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">采取创造力导向心態，才能真正解决问题。</span></p>','2024-07-27 02:58:53.447','2024-07-27 02:58:53.447',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 02:58:53.446',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ada8dfb4-804e-44a2-bed9-df4eae1fbd92','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>以每周为单位专注重要不紧急项目，清楚了解此项目到重要性，把非重要项目拒绝门外，爱惜自己和把握时间快速行动。</p>','2024-07-27 03:32:10.242','2024-07-27 03:32:11.043',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 03:32:11.042',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('30239554-2606-4641-ba27-5e709700eeb7','2371bbf5-605e-4385-8822-344f5012ded2','77c4137c-93ad-42c0-8165-382807fec821','<p>人类总习惯性地把最坏的一面展现在亲近人身上， 皆因总&rdquo;认为&rdquo;他们一定能理解自己，就这样理所当然地&hellip;. 当中对亲人少于陪伴也一样。<br>对我来言，去除这&ldquo;我认为&rdquo;是门难功课。领悟了，久而久之又重蹈覆辙。</p>','2024-08-30 10:16:01.069','2024-08-30 10:16:01.069',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 10:16:01.068',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d0b003fe-30da-4150-998d-81ae178376b0','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>在启动成长与前进的循环，要先有创造导向的思维，才来解决问题导向的思维。后者会制造局限。</p>','2024-07-27 09:00:21.748','2024-07-27 09:00:21.748',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 09:00:21.748',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d9ef8de4-50e5-46db-a4df-e8741f6a64f9','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>创造导向 vs 解决问题导向。</p>
<p>集中力量让事情实现。</p>','2024-07-27 09:29:30.77','2024-07-27 09:29:30.77',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 09:29:30.77',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('43d542df-d9b5-4bb5-b0e8-40bce6827d95','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>愿意牺牲的人，不计较的人反而会得到更多！更重要发自内心深处想要付出更多&hellip;正面心态！</p>','2024-07-27 04:38:39.55','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('17f0972c-0adb-4875-bf04-c6b1c5152b9c','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>如果一个人在团队里只想获得，没考虑付出和牺牲， 在团队里和人的关系很难建立连结。在团体活得，成功是仰赖于统合综效，每个人愿意贡献最好的点子。如何做到？这是需要学习新思维和技能来建立互赖关系，形成伙伴关系。</p>
<p>家庭和婚姻的连结，本质是牺牲。越亲密的关系，牺牲和奉献度是越高的。</p>','2024-07-27 09:10:43.408','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2b9e0427-ef1e-4e6a-acd5-d97a156b7bbf','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>唯有牺性不爭功勞,因為團体作戰,比單槍獨戰好,為全体的福祉服務,大家都可以从中受益,而且人與人之間的連結才會存在.</p>
<p>在任何組很,唯有務實和道德的观點,决定自己的未來,個人的牺牲,,採取負責任的温和路線,奉獻自己的所能.才能達到圓滿.</p>','2024-07-27 09:28:16.473','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7cd6c82d-37c8-4b3a-bfce-7c5c7061be19','4de45b0d-c587-46fa-b5e6-5a927464637d','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>步骤一，先要求自己，再来要求他人。不指望别人给与我们任何东西，而是我们先付出那些别人能收益的事项。诚实面对自己的不足是最实际的做法</p>
<p>步骤二，创造亲近的连接，获得双赢思维，我们或许会比我们的客户更了解对方所需要的东西</p>
<p>步骤三，分享知识 &amp; 资讯。让对方从我们这里收益</p>','2024-07-28 07:13:23.978','2024-08-05 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-08-05 00:00:00.024','2024-08-05 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4937d686-d824-4c0d-a7a0-4b041d3799d7','e1d92763-ac0e-4904-9eb0-a8f6043d7792','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>拒绝参与别人背后评论的话题，因为这将是我们陷入小人举动。</p>
<p>想想当我们背后议论他人之时，身边在场的人会如何看待我们。</p>
<p>谁需要我们的真诚建议，做个计划给予回馈，看看对方的反应如何以及我们的感觉。</p>
<p>预期为很多人努力，不如把自己奉献于一人，会来的更有价值</p>','2024-07-28 07:06:00.328','2024-08-04 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-08-04 00:00:00.031','2024-08-04 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8e42c8dd-5d39-48e7-bd90-aeeed55ee6e0','5cf52694-7969-491f-8ea7-ac2f5e07db61','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>员工必须为自己的事业发展负起责任，而不是推给组织。员工应该根据组织所需而规划个人事业与发展。我们也需要进行个人的一般进修，每天抽出一两个小时的时间进修。我们可以多阅读商业与管理书籍，和参加线上课程。</p>','2024-07-27 04:05:07.71','2024-08-10 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-08-10 00:00:00.006','2024-08-10 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d6a44943-b38b-41e5-8927-092efb0d1607','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>26th July</p>
<p>六个原则，保有创造性自由：</p>
<p>1. 适时说&ldquo;不&rdquo;：不理会紧急但不重要的事，专注于重要但不紧急的事，避免被紧急事项牵制。</p>
<p>2. 心存目标：时刻记住热切想达成的目标，这样更容易拒绝紧急但不重要的事。</p>
<p>3. 让老板信任你的创造力：建立良好的关系，让老板信任你的创造力，从而获得更多创造自由。</p>
<p>4. 在勇气与体谅之间取得平衡：勇敢表达个人信念，同时体谅他人。</p>
<p>5. 采取互赖模式：建立互赖团队，发挥团队的优势，弥补个人的不足。</p>
<p>6. 跳脱框架，采取平行思考: 整理思维，一次只使用一种思考模式，跳脱常规，激发新点子。</p>
<p>避免被琐事牵制，专注于长远重要的目标，进而实现更大的创造成果。</p>
<p>27th July</p>
<p>要化解一个问题，可以以一周为单位进行处理：</p>
<p>1. 回顾和反省<br>2. 计划和准备<br>3. 创造性思维<br>4. 设立愿景<br>5. 创造性导向<br>6. 共同目标<br>7. 长期计划</p>','2024-07-27 10:51:01.975','2024-07-27 10:56:58.21',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 10:56:58.209',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('57d5931e-565c-45da-8ecc-d16496274e76','31deecbb-97df-4ba5-8122-4fb86ecf7c0d','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>先进的文化理念能够实现美好生活的愿望，也能让人懂得尊重与爱他人。</p>
<p>幸福很简单，但想达到各个方面的幸福还是需要功夫的。对那些方面有具体的指导标准，就会对幸福的概念更清晰。</p>','2024-08-30 12:50:10.497','2024-08-30 12:50:10.497',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 12:50:10.496',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c97fc312-732a-48f6-a23c-8e44c26629c7','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian;">化解一个问题，以一周为单位</span>:</p>
<p>聚焦于创造性活动 -反省、计划、下决心、准备、防患未然以及增进感情。</p>
<p>要化解问题就的有创造的导向。当我们在解决问题时，就会试图除掉某个东西。当我们在创造模式，会透过另一种思考架构&lsquo;另一个观点化解问题。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-27 11:04:52.1','2024-07-27 11:04:52.1',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 11:04:52.099',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('98500065-b142-4731-9205-81506ac2c34d','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>谦虚不谦卑。</p>
<p>以德服人。</p>','2024-07-29 11:01:02.806','2024-07-29 11:01:02.806',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 11:01:02.805',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dd9a952c-3012-43a2-9f52-5dfb5cad92ed','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>当你解决问题时候，你会试图除掉某个东西。当你处于创造模式，你会试图注入某个东西。你任然必须解决问题，但你会透过另一种思考架构，另一种观点，在一个更大的脉络中化解问题。</p>
<p>采取创造性思维，而非批判性思维。采取逻辑思维，而非乐观思维。</p>
<p>这真的是值得学习的思维。</p>','2024-07-27 12:20:22.524','2024-07-27 12:20:22.524',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 12:20:22.524',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ddc5b68e-9faf-48fe-b816-6890aa81715a','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>creative orientation vs problem-solving orientation. 带不同的想法，观念，甚至不同的有色眼镜去看同一样事情，结果往往都会不同。创造性导向的思维可以带出比解决问题导向的思维可多可能与不同的解决方案。</p>','2024-07-27 12:26:53.46','2024-07-27 12:26:53.46',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 12:26:53.459',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7d54e580-33ab-43c7-a6a9-d906a69691c9','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>创造性思维：比赛开始前，假如你在心中创造一个胜利的意象，然后集中所有的积极能量让这件事发生，不为自己可能遇到的问题而操心，那么你就处于有利的位置，可创造正向的结果。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>想象力的力量比知识的力量强大。</p>
<p>人们想要也需要感觉到，自己的人生与工作是有意义的。</p>','2024-07-27 12:38:01.331','2024-07-27 12:38:01.331',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 12:38:01.33',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('99aa6ccf-7322-4bc1-a23f-95ef31b01434','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;Day 27：7月27日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">化解一个问题，以一周为单位&ndash; 应用与建议（Page 152 - 156）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">聚焦于创造性活动，例如反省、计划、下定决心、准备、防患未然、以及增进关系。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">创造导向重要过解决问题导向，创造导向会试图注入某个东西，解决问题导向会试图除掉某个东西。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">创造一个胜利的意向，集中所有的积极能量让事情发生。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">采取创造力导向心态，才能真正解决问题。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">想象力的力量比知识更大。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人们想要也需要感觉到，自己的人生与工作是有意义的。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-27 12:45:08.797','2024-07-27 12:45:08.797',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 12:45:08.796',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aa18301d-7ef7-4e96-8aa2-36402b1e04f8','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>善于规划一周，给自己时间沉淀、反省、思考。</p>
<p>遇到问题的时候，可以利用&ldquo;想象力&ldquo;，带着正面思考去解决问题，成功是自己去创造出来的。这个我是相信的。</p>','2024-07-27 13:13:18.982','2024-07-27 13:14:03.282',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 13:14:03.281',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1e17a820-e97c-4ccb-8145-6979eea2463d','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>保持创造性自由的方法包括：学会说&ldquo;不&rdquo;以专注于重要任务，设定清晰目标，赢得他人信任，平衡勇气与体谅，兼具独立性和团队合作能力，以及通过有序思考来解决问题。</p>','2024-07-27 13:21:58.017','2024-07-27 13:21:58.017',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 13:21:58.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5604a4c0-0e6f-459f-8859-1841ddb11c0b','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>抛开个人私心，团队合作需要牺牲和谦逊。</p>
<p>杰出领导者为员工和组织牺牲自尊，重视互相尊重。</p>
<p>建立转化性伙伴关系，先了解他人，寻求互惠。</p>
<p>团队成员需放下旧思维，采用互赖和统合综效。</p>
<p>领导者应寻找新的权力来源，以品格和服务为基础。</p>','2024-07-27 11:06:45.509','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7b458240-9045-4439-8b65-065670969656','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>有能力为家人、朋友、客户等等服务是一种福气！</p>
<p>还有珍惜和不带任何回报的心态！</p>','2024-07-27 11:25:45.873','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d47624d0-0e5c-4fd0-be57-bc5b4fc39a17','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>有时候因为一些服务态度不好而影响一整天的心情或者更严重的事打消学习的念头。这是不止得的事情，别把别人的错误来惩罚你自己！学会把自己的EQ 情绪智商调高更能胜任低情绪智商的人！</p>','2024-07-27 11:46:08.914','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('be4a7192-0cf2-49c5-a835-5b73f5ac9bbf','2371bbf5-605e-4385-8822-344f5012ded2','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>我之前也经常想不被麻烦/给别人造成麻烦，所以很多时候都会选择把想给对方提出的建议或想要对方帮忙之类的话让自己吞下去，或者对方给我制造麻烦时也不怼回去。但作者说的对，麻烦的发生就是在提醒我们，我们还有事情过不去，我们还有一些必须修炼的人生之路。我觉得，是时候修炼&ldquo;不怕麻烦&rdquo;，勇敢让对方帮我，勇敢拒绝对方！</p>','2024-08-30 12:56:52.701','2024-08-30 12:56:52.701',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 12:56:52.7',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cd298907-b34f-43bf-987c-24a6bffe4900','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>值得省思：</p>
<p>1.最重要的事往往受最不紧要的事宰制。</p>
<p>2.以一周为期限，聚焦于创造性活动(反省、计划、下决心、准备、防患未然、增进关系)。</p>
<p>3.干心中创造成功意象并集中所有力量让愿景成真。</p>','2024-07-27 13:24:28.481','2024-07-27 13:24:28.481',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 13:24:28.481',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e53ded3b-272e-4b69-8946-c81e00deb915','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>脑海中的画面/结果引导思维与行动，想象力可以使预设的结果变为真实。<br>善用创造性思维来解决问题，以目标结果为导向，问题可以不再是问题。</p>','2024-07-27 13:39:47.585','2024-07-27 13:39:47.585',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 13:39:47.585',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('24ee35f5-7569-4f7b-a843-36dd92a5449f','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>启动一个成长与前进的循环，就是以一周为一个周期，聚焦于出一个计划/反省/促进关系等。</p>
<p>不管发生什么事情，解决问题时，要用好的的能量，促成好的结果。~ 创造力导向心态。</p>
<p>想象力的力量比知道的力量更大。</p>','2024-07-27 13:44:20.572','2024-07-27 13:44:20.572',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 13:44:20.571',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4f78174e-4776-4a7a-acd2-432cd2e332b8','d7ea920d-8ed2-49d2-b4eb-fba3a2609e71','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>制造商最在乎的不是毛利率，而是利润绝对值，所以无论什么条件都有得谈。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>新零售并非线上和线下之争，而是高效和低效之争。叶国富的名创优品，就是一个典型的案例。</p>','2024-09-24 11:58:15.623','2024-09-24 11:58:15.623',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 11:58:15.622',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('73bf7229-3a76-4d0e-b0b8-5787c0b44f5d','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>以一周的时间去对自己做改善，反审，改进</p>','2024-07-27 14:44:04.858','2024-07-27 14:49:39.997',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 14:49:39.996',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2260ed6a-e640-42b9-9ea3-1769d7d0c412','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>以一周为一个周期，聚焦于创造性活动，例如反省、计划、下决心、准备、防患未然以及增进关系。采取创造力导向心态、才能真正解决问题。</p>','2024-07-27 14:50:25.254','2024-07-27 14:50:25.254',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 14:50:25.253',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d676c3d3-2143-4e3f-998e-d7844dbc9b7a','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>采取创造性思维,而非批判性思维</p>
<p>采用罗辑性思维,而非乐观思维</p>
<p>采取创造力导向心态,才能真正解决问题</p>','2024-07-27 15:34:51.292','2024-07-27 15:34:51.292',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 15:34:51.291',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('da796017-676b-4c94-8d28-29881a38ebdf','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>生命的品质取决于自己的选择，并非别人的选择或是自身的处境。</p>
<p>犯错就应该说对不起，道歉。但有几个人能做得到？应该学习还清最后一文钱。</p>
<p>以谦卑的心认清自己必须为问题或错误负责，并用真心和灵性，言行一致的表现出来。</p>
<p>不要口是心非，敷衍别人。因为人家是看得出感受得到的。看看自己有没有筑起防卫墙？为自己辩护解释或推卸责任。如果有这样的心态是达不到负责任和改错的效果。</p>
<p>人往往会依据我们对他的方式或不定成为那样的人。不要把人家定型或贴标签，如果你是有影响力的或者是领导，这样会对他造成伤害。</p>','2024-07-27 16:19:25.745','2024-08-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f02752ba-3cbc-47ca-bc50-adbbe230c7de','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>许多企业无法进步的主因是不如如何管理创造导向以及运用想像力工作的人。这是因为那些企业把管理定义为控制，而我们无法控制有创创造力的腦袋</p>','2024-07-27 15:51:34.827','2024-07-27 15:53:53.178',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 15:53:53.177',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bb0dfa9d-ddf3-4693-9d04-215c3f4822f5','981ffecc-c880-41a4-9436-0c672a8c85cb','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 当你解决问题时，你会试图除掉某些东西，当你处于创造模式时，你会试图注入某个东西。你仍然必须解决问题，但你会透过另一种思考构建、另一种观点化解问题。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 想象力的力量比知识的力量更大</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 对于创造导向，以及应用想象力工作的人，是很难被管理的，我们唯有邀请他们接受一个共同的愿景与目标，然后让他们自己管理自己。</p>','2024-07-27 15:56:00.415','2024-07-27 15:56:00.415',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-27 15:56:00.414',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('663bc77b-de1d-45fe-98bf-db6a312b91af','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>己欲达而达人，这句话让我们深刻体会要成就自己，必先成就他人。在家庭中夫妻关系，在亲子中的关系，在君臣中关系，前后辈关系，都需要透过协助他人来达成自己的成就。这是第一原则，也是主宰这世界的唯一真理。</p>
<p>不要抱着私信面对，为组织好，我们是组织的当中，我们也会收益。</p>
<p>倘若每个人都能秉持这样价值观，国家复兴，企业蓬勃发展，家庭和谐必定发生。</p>
<p>人人为我，我为人人。这是不必但的定律</p>','2024-07-22 14:00:42.707','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('46efb764-5880-40cf-b56b-23410699b612','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 28：7月28日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第九章成功槓桿4：牺牲奉献&ndash; 想想你能为组织做什么（Page 157 - 162）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">牺牲奉献</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">放下自己的身段，来迎合他人的需求。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们能做些什么？为彼此提供帮助与服务？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">身为领导如果在一个挑战的环境下，你还能够处处为组织做些什么？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">要达到以上帮助他人，必须做很好的聆听者。看看彼此能够创造什么有益的事情。双赢思维和统合综效。</span></p>','2024-07-28 05:19:23.345','2024-07-28 05:19:23.345',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 05:19:23.344',NULL,NULL);
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<p>为了得到首要成就，就必须牺牲自己奉献给他人。就好像一个妈妈，牺牲自己的睡眠时间，一大早为孩子准备早餐，让孩子们与妈妈感情融洽，认为妈妈是可以信任、依赖的。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>我们需要透过伙伴关系做到进一步授权：</p>
<ul>
<li>与通路的上下游合作，包括供应商、经销商与顾客，与所有利害关系人建立坚实的伙伴关系</li>
<li>在公司内部进行跨功能合作</li>
<li>让不同的业务一同合作，当我们不只跨越功能，还跨越业务线进行沟通，将能创造统合综效</li>
</ul>','2024-07-28 07:29:49.702','2024-07-28 07:29:49.702',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 07:29:49.701',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cb3577dc-df8d-4610-b20b-082e757d0a03','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>成功槓桿需具备：</p>
<p>1.懂得付出爱、牺牲、服务关怀、教导、照料等。</p>
<p>2.我們需要與通路的上下游合作。</p>
<p>3.我們需要在公司內部進行跨功能合作。</p>
<p>4..我們需要讓不同的業務線一同合作。</p>
<p>5.我們需要與現存和潛在的競爭對手合作。</p>
<p>如果不把餅做大,只是互搶餅吃,每個人都會成為輸家。</p>','2024-07-28 11:34:47.745','2024-07-28 11:34:47.745',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 11:34:47.744',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a57ed7e2-6915-4717-84f7-b5381f444f8a','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>为别人牺牲是十分大的情感帐户存款，难怪影响力那么大！</p>','2024-07-28 12:17:26.079','2024-07-28 12:17:26.079',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 12:17:26.078',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b6710d55-28e8-4e9b-835b-d35d50b30528','2371bbf5-605e-4385-8822-344f5012ded2','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>在工作和学习上，的确你觉得麻烦的，如果你选择不处理，日后他可以变得更麻烦。与其嫌他麻烦，不如选择改变心态/心性。太多的我认为，只不过是我们为自己在找借口，不肯承认错误，如果永远都停留在我认为，我们永远都不会进步，只会觉得别人不认同我就是错。</p>','2024-08-30 12:57:20.229','2024-08-30 12:57:20.229',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 12:57:20.228',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e7ad7cda-e6df-4f65-ace0-04f14e0b74f4','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>补 27/7</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">保持创造性自由的六大原则：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1️⃣ 适时说不，不要理会紧急但不重要的事</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2️⃣随时把热切想达成的目标放在心上</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3️⃣努力让老板对你的创造力产生信心</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">4️⃣在创造性勇气与体谅他人之间取得平衡</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">5️⃣同时以非常独立与极度依赖的模式运作</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">6️⃣跳脱框架，戴上不同的思考帽，采取平行思考</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">好 往往是最好的敌人</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">创造性的想法比解决问题的导向模式更重要</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">28/7</span></p>
<p class="p1">随时随地奉献，无需高调做事，当受益者知道后反而会更珍惜，更尊重你</p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">懂得付出爱、牺牲、关怀、教导与照料，才是一个成功的领导者</p>','2024-07-28 12:24:23.252','2024-07-28 12:24:23.252',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 12:24:23.251',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('addd8202-0222-4054-a9be-2b7f19dd3cd5','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>不问别人能给你什么，先问自己能贡献些什么。怀有奉献的心，人与人之间的连接才会存在。</p>','2024-07-28 12:34:30.435','2024-07-28 12:34:30.435',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 12:34:30.434',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bdb8b3f4-4e32-4e8e-a5a1-516fc70fc298','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>追求首要成就仰赖的是统合综效，每个人愿意贡献最好的点子。</p>
<p>我们无法和实体连结，只能和人连结。所以，要以更多的爱、善意、礼貌、谦逊、耐心与原谅对待他人。</p>
<p>我们要放下自我来迎合他人的需求，能为彼此提供什么帮助与服务。</p>','2024-07-28 13:11:32.672','2024-07-28 13:11:32.672',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 13:11:32.671',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('355412bc-a00d-4c1c-b757-c63b3d3341f1','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>团队合作比单打独斗更能产生有价值的成果，因为没有人能独自完成一切。真诚的奉献是人际关系的基础，用爱与善意对待他人，会收获同样的回报。作为领导者，应该理解并满足团队需求，鼓励合作而非独占功劳。只有共同努力，才能满足不断增长的需求，避免大家都成为输家。</p>','2024-07-28 12:37:58.09','2024-07-28 12:38:22.791',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 12:38:22.79',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0f4622ef-f0e5-4b3d-870c-62a510b39e45','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>28/7/24美丽星期日<br>人人都有习气，傲慢，私心，自私自利，自我，把我放得很大。玩弄手段，竞争，比较。最后大家难以真诚相待合作，互不信任，不能达到双赢思维。<br>惟有秉持真正原则，赢的信赖，勇于倾听，才能创造统合综效，从控制转成服务及牺牲，谦卑。<br>1. 明智的自觉，想象力，独立意志及良知<br>2. 永远选择重要但是不是紧急的事<br>3. 持续学习，改善与进步<br>4. 建立双赢的伙伴关系网络</p>','2024-07-28 12:47:08.342','2024-07-28 12:47:08.342',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 12:47:08.341',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1de3b9b9-83e8-4db8-a9f7-fe1ea1b2a375','6763357d-93b0-4762-8330-91fab5a98a48','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>时间的管理是人生大事，，因为世间有诸多的不公平，唯一公平的事，每一个人都有当下的「这一刻」，我们可以在当下选择要怎么样的活下去。</p>','2024-09-24 12:05:41.549','2024-09-24 12:05:41.549',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 12:05:41.548',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d8fa25c8-9e63-4a2b-864d-9513d1811feb','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>牺牲自尊心，展现谦卑，彻底放下自我意识，是专业工作者需要的牺牲。</p>
<p>全新的权利来源：</p>
<p>1.明智运用自觉、想象力、独立意志与良知。</p>
<p>2.花更多时间从事重要但不一定紧急的事。</p>
<p>3.持续学习、改善与进步。</p>
<p>4.建立双赢和伙伴关系的网络。</p>','2024-07-28 08:59:19.441','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('55565c31-7ea9-4bdf-860c-30d960511f1a','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>先去了解别人，同时寻求互惠。</p>','2024-07-28 11:22:39.433','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ca93171b-8b94-440c-9e04-7a7a7dc078ec','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>人人都希望自己被看见。</p>','2024-07-29 21:28:34.337','2024-07-29 21:28:37.303',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 21:28:37.302',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c5ff21d4-3fe2-4097-a4cc-19c45811104a','1c7008c3-d2c3-45c1-875e-f1c51bfb9597','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>学会爱自己，你会更爱别人。</p>
<p>让自己在任何时候都相处的自在，与别人相处时也会感受到自在的感受</p>
<p>勿以善小而不为，勿以恶小而为之。这也是一种生活中繁琐小事的乐趣。学会正直面对人生，我们必将能更加接受对方正面的反馈</p>','2024-07-28 07:18:14.986','2024-08-06 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-08-06 00:00:00.011','2024-08-06 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1022c704-83d6-4713-ab6a-d27d0da2d7c9','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>退步其实是向前。</p>
<p>我为人人， 人人为我。</p>','2024-07-28 14:06:55.052','2024-07-28 14:06:55.052',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 14:06:55.052',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3dc9f7c2-eddd-41d7-82c5-a519293e3d10','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>懂得付出爱，贡献，牺牲，教育，教导，善也会传出去</p>','2024-07-28 14:21:09.368','2024-07-28 14:21:09.368',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 14:21:09.367',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7e32a37e-555b-49c8-bff1-c7543043f19d','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>放下自我自尊，反而能得益于反馈。人与人之间的连接才能成型。</p>','2024-07-28 14:37:14.458','2024-07-28 14:37:26.639',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 14:37:26.638',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a643eb19-9881-4013-a8f5-9cf3d3d1bdeb','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>只有表现出牺牲自我，才可以拉近人与人之间的连接。我们不是要独立行事，而是用互赖关系形成重要的伙伴关系。</p>','2024-07-28 14:48:17.749','2024-07-28 14:48:17.749',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 14:48:17.748',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b6cb7f7c-8689-486f-a556-06737c359c9f','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>牺牲可使人与人之间产生无与伦比的连结。当我们以更多爱、善意、礼貌、谦逊、耐心与原谅对待别人，就会促成别人以同样的方式回报我们。</p>','2024-07-28 14:55:48.532','2024-07-28 14:55:48.532',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 14:55:48.531',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0ee50dab-6c2e-4457-b2c8-f879cad00d63','f775b1cf-f18f-416c-8c73-22bac8ef7695','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>通过整合线上线下数据、优化支付系统和应用技术，企业可以在提升便携性的同时保障现金流的可信性，从而增强新零售模式下的竞争力与运营效率。</p>','2024-08-30 13:02:29.264','2024-08-30 13:02:29.264',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 13:02:29.263',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5cf14e81-7d69-4f52-9911-8e02a54d30eb','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','478843b9-e4b4-4090-81ad-cee1b2c570e6','<p>放下自我自尊，反而能得益于反馈</p>','2024-07-28 15:02:58.559','2024-07-28 15:02:58.559',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 15:02:58.559',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5841951a-8fac-4d23-82a7-bb98e2eb40ed','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>除非怀有牺牲奉献的心，否则人与人之间的连接就不会存在。</p>','2024-07-28 15:13:15.703','2024-07-28 15:13:15.703',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 15:13:15.703',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8805dc7b-eb48-4f92-954e-ed5182d8b776','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>自我奉献与牺牲的精神可以促进关系，前提是那些牺牲都是心甘情愿的付出。</p>
<p>利他主义的团队，不会因为个人的功劳或私利而伤害团队的利益。</p>','2024-07-28 15:53:23.133','2024-07-28 15:53:30.289',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 15:53:30.288',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5ad3d8a4-b667-4606-9030-507903f2ae9c','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 统合综效：每个人愿意贡献最好的点子，而且没有人想争功劳</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 怀有牺牲奉献的心，人与人之间的连接才会存在</p>
<p>（当我们放下自我来迎合别人的需求，就会促成别人以同样的方式回报我们）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 形成伙伴关系是创造首要成就的关键，除非大家愿意一同合作，不为自己的点子居功或愿意牺牲形象，否则将难以迎合市场中不断成长的需求</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 与通路的上下游合作</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 在公司内部进行跨功能合作</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 让不同的业务线一同合作</p>','2024-07-28 16:00:04.278','2024-07-28 16:00:04.278',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 16:00:04.277',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eb7d1ec0-9a7b-4f02-939b-e427bcb9c75e','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>谦卑就是放大别人，放小自己。这种人生态度能赢得别人的尊重，建立团队需要这些。</p>
<p>我喜欢作者提及的权力的来源的概念：从地位转为说服，从魅力转为品格，从控制转为服务和牺牲，从自负转为谦卑，从证书资历转为持续学习与进步。</p>','2024-07-28 21:53:37.062','2024-07-28 21:53:37.062',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-28 21:53:37.061',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('be4f83bf-8a5b-48f7-a6c6-18e672ed2fd2','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>要建立转化性的关系，关键在于要有意愿放下自己原有的想法及技能，采取互相依赖的思维系统，先去了解别人，共同寻求互惠。人们需要先获得安全感，才能形成共同的愿景。<br><br><br></p>','2024-07-25 23:35:25.954','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('58444c33-5af8-4f39-8e99-47da4af5300e','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>愿意牺牲自己而方便他的人会有，但是不多！一般上要我们以身作则先&hellip;自己先无私付出&hellip;他人被感动了，华人都传统美德，你投我以桃，报之以李！家人之中会无限奉献&hellip;</p>','2024-07-27 11:13:45.275','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('547c6c0a-3643-4023-a9ae-569d637da199','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>杰出的领导人会为员工与组织，牺牲自己的自尊心，放下自我意识。</p>
<p>团队里，我们要学习秉持真正的原则。需要有谦卑的心，才可以放下自己珍惜的思维。</p>
<p>全新的权力来自：</p>
<ol>
<li>明智运用自觉、想象力、独立意志和良知</li>
<li>花更多时间在重要但不一定紧急的事</li>
<li>持续学习、改善与进步</li>
<li>建立双赢伙伴关系</li>
</ol>','2024-07-28 13:28:53.388','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0b5454a0-2849-4296-8469-778746da8197','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>以人为本，时间，耐心。</p>','2024-07-29 23:59:42.667','2024-07-29 23:59:42.667',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 23:59:42.666',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0b743b0b-1e34-4a9c-8e1d-5a4c459007ed','fd52586d-4120-4c6a-a1dd-6179fa248308','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>企业的最高境界不仅是追求短期的盈利和成功，而是要具备长远的价值，让别人愿意&ldquo;买下&rdquo;你的公司。巴菲特作为投资大师，他关注的不是一家企业的表面利润，而是企业的长期价值、文化、诚信和未来的可持续性。领导者应当把企业打造成值得长期信任和投资的品牌，而不是为了短期利益而牺牲长期发展。当我们说&ldquo;把公司卖给巴菲特&rdquo;，实际是希望企业能够在各个方面&mdash;&mdash;从管理、财务到文化和社会责任&mdash;&mdash;都能具备让投资者信任的品质。</p>','2024-09-16 11:26:05.881','2024-10-04 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fce50a9e-f7f5-4614-b21f-95c2d82d7571','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>人性：生存和繁衍。</p>
<p>道德：群体的繁荣。</p>
<p>法律：道德底线。</p>','2024-12-02 12:27:35.024','2024-12-02 12:27:35.024',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 12:27:35.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6d7ebff2-bfc2-445b-9d8a-cc90e979d8b3','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>Pg 33 - 37</p>
<p>是非对错的底层逻辑</p>
<p>学李白，也要学习杜甫。</p>','2024-12-05 14:52:26.715','2024-12-05 14:53:02.615',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 14:53:02.614',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('43b314a0-e599-4f62-a1fb-2bb537233049','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>在偏離主軸的會議中，將它拉回正軌的確是非常高難度的溝通。</p>','2024-12-06 07:43:38.33','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7b823448-fc30-427b-94e2-f64ddaa58a1e','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>&nbsp;任何互動性的話動,都是要有冒險的,使自己處于一個可能受傷的處境,放手一搏,以更開放的態度,和他人溝通,不帶任何私心.不要执着于自己的意見,放下原有的思維與技能,採取互賴的思維和統合綜效的技能,先去了解別人,同時尋求互應.團圓必須是正直拥有富足的心灵,才不會有互相比較競爭和猜疑,因為他們的安全感來自內在.</p>
<p>來自根植於品格的來源</p>
<p>1） 明智的運用自覺想像力, 獨立意志和良知.</p>
<p>2） 持續学习改善與進步</p>
<p>3） 花更多的時間从事重要, 但不一定緊急的事</p>
<p>4） 建立與保持和伙伴雙贏的网絡</p>','2024-07-28 03:19:39.008','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('739f9385-d6ef-47d1-82e7-3c180c458f04','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">29/7</span></p>
<p class="p1">放下自尊心，谦卑的去建立双赢，统合综效的团体意识；</p>
<p class="p1">以奉献的心，不惧牺牲的去帮助他人和组织一起取得首要成功</p>','2024-07-28 12:20:35.07','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('85c15977-2a50-4453-a0f7-55e9eddf8d80','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>伙伴关系是需要付出和牺牲换来的。只有真心诚意才可以取信他人。<br>领导也要学会放下自尊心，表现谦卑，才可以建立和属下的关系。<br>放下自我是最难的。只有谦卑，富足心态，勇气和自省，才可以发挥高效能的原则。当遇到困境，回到自然法则。正直和良知教我们分辨清楚。</p>','2024-07-28 14:57:34.642','2024-07-29 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012','2024-07-29 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0a8a5585-e578-4aea-b507-8df4cb8bd714','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 29: 29/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">一）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.163~168</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">与人相处，是一种冒险，因为你把自己置于一个可能受伤的处境。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">放下仇恨，诚意相待，是一种牺牲。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;<span lang="ZH-CN">沒有牺牲，就得不到转化。有沒有做出个人牺牲，是交易关系与夥伴关系之间最大的区別。</span>&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;<span lang="ZH-CN">要有效在团队中工作或是与团队合作，我们需要放下自我意识，展现谦卑；我们需要基于互相尊重的精神，与彼此建立关系。</span>&rdquo;</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&mdash;&mdash;<span lang="ZH-TW">这意谓着採取互賴的思维与统合综效的技能，还有知彼解己的心态。</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">全新的权力來源：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">明智的运用自觉、想像力、独立意志与良知。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">花更多时间从事重要但不一定紧急的事。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">持续学习、改善与进步。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">建立双贏与黟伴关系的网络。</span></p>','2024-07-29 01:15:52.18','2024-07-29 01:15:52.18',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 01:15:52.178',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 12:36:31.485','2024-12-02 12:36:31.485',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 12:36:31.484',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('89507a1c-074b-4c14-a13b-1796c4df6f1e','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>与人互动时，没有不重要的小事，全部是大事。百分之九十的人非常在意人与人的互相接触，而接触的结果会进一步影响他人</p>','2024-07-30 14:44:55.576','2024-07-30 15:02:13.193',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 15:02:13.192',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a24bbc3b-0ed1-4faa-a28e-3b73861d54c9','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 32: 1/8/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">四）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.183~188</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">成功摃捍</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">6</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">：责任心</span></strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;<span lang="ZH-CN">一个人最终性格的养成，掌握在自己手中。</span>&rdquo;<span lang="ZH-CN">＿安妮．法兰克，《安妮日记》作者</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">负起责任是获得首要成就的重要关键，特別是面临情況不顺利的时候。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">不为自己辩护、解释、防卫或推卸责任，承担起自己该负的责任，然后从对方心中的牢笼走出來。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">拒绝承担自己该负的责任，导致对方对你产生防卫心和不信任感，于是你被关进对方心中的牢笼&mdash;&mdash;<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">他为你貼上的情感标签构築的牢笼</strong>。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN">人们往往会根据你对待他的方式或是你对他的认定，成为那样的人。</span></strong>&rdquo;</span></p>','2024-07-29 02:05:15.258','2024-08-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
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<p>失去的信用，光靠口頭道歉是換不回，必須多做一些，展現展現你的誠意。清還所有的債，要以謙卑的心，認清自己必須為問題負起責任，既使對方可能有錯。</p>','2024-07-31 14:51:17.834','2024-08-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('65aa5683-1c84-412a-b1c6-7a200212ea9b','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>追求首要成就的人明白，生命的品质取决于自己的选择，而非别人的选择或是自身的处境。</p>
<p>面对困境时，我们可以选择以谦卑的心，负起应负的责任，而非千方百计地将这责任化成各种搜证，将责任推卸出去，把对方关进自己心中的牢笼。</p>','2024-07-31 16:02:59.076','2024-08-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0078ba23-a998-487a-bd99-33f6cd7f9a7a','b7ca4e64-6571-4f11-9db4-26c42320291a','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>成功杠杆7：忠诚</p>
<p>我很喜欢书中的校长面对投诉的做法，和他对舍监的信任。有事当面说，然后与所有当事人一起解决，就是一种双赢。</p>
<p>不在别人背后道人长短，不说出若被当事人听见、会令自己觉得不好意思的话。</p>','2024-08-03 06:56:06.645','2024-08-03 06:56:22.724',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-03 06:56:22.723',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f66ab27a-a55d-4ff3-ab22-ee9beb2668ae','e1d92763-ac0e-4904-9eb0-a8f6043d7792','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>展现忠诚的方法：</p>
<p>1️⃣为无招架之力的人辩护</p>
<p>2️⃣预期讨论并征求允许</p>
<p>3️⃣讨论后致电说明开会情况</p>
<p>4️⃣想想不在场的顾客</p>
<p>5️⃣提及某个人的背景或事件的脉络</p>
<p>6️⃣下次开会时，给这个人一个机会，解释或辩护他的立场或处境</p>
<p>7️⃣指出这个人的优点</p>','2024-08-03 00:41:46.401','2024-08-04 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-08-04 00:00:00.031','2024-08-04 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cb97decc-7f26-49e3-be28-7cd5e48d5c3d','4de45b0d-c587-46fa-b5e6-5a927464637d','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>成功杠杆8 ： 相互性 - 你给予什么，就会得到什么</p>
<p>先指望自己，并诚实面对自己。安全感是自己给的，而非外在寻求。</p>
<p>创造亲近连结，双赢思维。</p>
<p>分享知识与资讯，也分担问题与挑战， 了解对方，寻求方法协助彼此。</p>
<p>考虑到与所有利害关系人的关系。大家都是重要的。</p>','2024-08-05 13:04:05.077','2024-08-05 13:04:05.077',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-05 13:04:05.076',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('956ff35a-e21a-49cc-8966-22eb987e4f22','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>与团队合作时，要抛开自己的私心，展现谦卑。</p>
<p>团队成员必须了解并运用高效能的原则，进行合作。这些人必须是正直且拥有富足心灵的人。他们不会一直互相竞争与比较，或觉得需要玩弄政治手段，因为他们的安全感来自内在。他们必须寻求&ldquo;不是双赢就免谈&rdquo; 的选项。他们也必须值得信赖。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>统合综效不只是合作，还能创造出更好的解决方案（双赢 - 第三选择），代表人们在表达观点与意见时，需要基于勇气倾听。真心的互动才能创造统合综效。</p>','2024-07-29 02:19:56.899','2024-07-29 02:19:56.899',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 02:19:56.898',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7f303237-42cd-404f-96e2-54fc5cd7c606','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>29/7/24<br>成功槓杠5：服务<br>人与人之间的互动，没有不重要的小事，全都是大事。<br>最起码的是基本的礼貌尊重对方开始。让对方得到存在关怀感。<br>因为人类灵魂最深的渴求是获得肯定，得到重视，珍惜与理解。</p>','2024-07-29 02:23:34.696','2024-07-29 02:23:34.696',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 02:23:34.695',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3dc4c179-54a1-46fd-b661-fa110c8d7b0a','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>放下仇恨，诚意相待，是一种牺牲。</p>
<p>可以把自己交给别人，也是冒险的可能性</p>
<p>坦诚和别人相对了，</p>','2024-07-29 03:15:28.382','2024-07-29 03:15:28.382',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 03:15:28.381',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b8b16a5f-8676-443c-bfe9-1815bcfeba26','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>人类灵魂最深的渴求,是获得肯定,得到重视,珍惜和理解</p>','2024-07-30 15:01:32.197','2024-07-30 15:01:32.197',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 15:01:32.197',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4ba0c414-1dfe-4a9c-b3c6-a16421b4f5eb','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>一个人的养性最终落在有没有责任心</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-01 06:06:15.413','2024-08-01 06:06:15.413',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 06:06:15.412',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('507c5559-956b-4440-ad47-6db5fb2c947a','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>先想象再试着运用出来</p>','2024-12-02 14:35:25.814','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a0b36e9b-a679-4c46-ac50-47a34e269d27','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>在一个团队里，要有谦卑的态度，尊重他人的意见，采取互赖的思维与统合综效的技能。就像一幅拼图，大家要有相同的画面，才能一起凑起来。</p>','2024-07-29 12:03:01.87','2024-07-29 12:03:01.87',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 12:03:01.869',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b026a619-da97-4eaa-8fd3-38397e1f617b','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">抛开个人私心</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">杰出领导者会为了员工与组织，牺牲自己的自尊心、展现谦卑。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">先去了解别人，同时寻求互惠。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人们需要先获得安全感才能形成共同的愿景。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">难度最高的牺牲</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">所有的团队成员需要放下不够完善的思维模式，学习秉持真正的原则。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">放下自己珍视的思维，是难度最高的牺牲。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一原则为中心，拥有品格力量，放下试图抓住权力与控制的意图，不再把别人视为达成目标的工具。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">全新的权力来源</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">今日的团队领导人必须寻找新的权力来源。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">权利的来源正在转移：从地位转为说服，从魅力转为pinged，从控制转为服务与牺牲，自负转为谦卑，从证书资历转为持续学习与进步。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">权力必须来自根植于品格的四个来源：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。明智地运用自觉、想象力、独立意志与良知，加以负责任。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。花更多时间从事重要但不一定紧急的事。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3。持续学习、改善与进步。运动领导人定期取的行动结果与回馈意见，然后进行必要的修正与改进。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">4。建立双赢与伙伴关系的网络。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们的所有关系都需要团队、伙伴、统合综效与互赖的精神。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">牺牲的先决条件是谦卑处于良知。</span></p>','2024-07-29 12:27:15.524','2024-07-29 12:27:15.524',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 12:27:15.523',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('038d87ef-06bb-4bd4-8de7-e244062a58e7','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>必须接受的现实，没有牺牲，就得不到转化。有没有作出个人牺牲，是交易和伙伴关系之间最大的区别。牺牲就是放下自尊心，展现谦卑彻底放下自我意识，互相尊重。另外就是建立转化性的统合综效，也就是先去了解别人，同时寻求互惠。</p>','2024-07-29 13:00:32.393','2024-07-29 13:00:32.393',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 13:00:32.392',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('95d3f3ef-e44d-437d-9601-d50b6ea23479','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>要建立转化的夥伴关系，关键在於要有意願放下原有的思维与技能，採取互赖的思维与统合综效的技能，先了解别人，同时寻求互惠</p>','2024-07-29 13:22:17.545','2024-07-29 13:22:17.545',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 13:22:17.544',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('67d1be11-947a-459d-a4e7-fc0246ca2a28','1a55b11d-b61b-458e-9652-a72046c3912a','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>先不要打断人先听完，这样人家才会把你的话听完</p>','2024-12-08 15:33:53.037','2024-12-08 15:33:53.037',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-08 15:33:53.037',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a7a0c52c-6ede-4777-b749-146373e743dc','4de45b0d-c587-46fa-b5e6-5a927464637d','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>5/8/2024<br>成功槓杠8：相互性<br>惟有通过他人的爱与关怀，才能明白自己的美好与价值。<br>（John Joseph Powell）<br>就是如何做到双赢局势。</p>','2024-08-05 13:08:54.25','2024-08-05 13:08:54.25',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-05 13:08:54.249',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4211cdd5-0cb9-4691-8486-e14144a320fc','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>愿意去修炼好自己，是步入谦卑的道上。那些私心、操弄他人，让过去经验局限自己、武断等都会因为愿意朝向谦卑这路上而化解。那么，这才能去建立转化性的伙伴关系。转化性的伙伴难求。自己的先开始。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-29 14:06:11.774','2024-07-29 14:06:11.774',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 14:06:11.773',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('56fae593-ff09-450f-bbee-d8e00a2c16c2','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>没有牺牲，就得不到转化。牺牲的先决条件是谦卑，需要基于互相尊重的精神，与彼此建立关系。</p>','2024-07-29 14:42:31.147','2024-07-29 14:42:31.147',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 14:42:31.147',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d87cf32e-84eb-4ffd-a8d4-88b8fa13374e','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>好的权力来源于：</p>
<p>1.明智的運用自覺、想像力、獨立意志與良知。</p>
<p>2.把时间与精力花在重要的事上。</p>
<p>3.持續學習、改善與進步。</p>
<p>4.建立雙贏與夥伴關係的網絡。</p>','2024-07-29 14:44:59.869','2024-07-29 14:44:59.869',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 14:44:59.868',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('427ee7e8-e926-478b-930f-50c8fb18c7a6','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>与人互动，都是大事。</p>
<p>人与人之间的互动，都希望对方能够记得自己的名字，这表示我有把你放在心里，而这个是会进一步影响他人。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-29 03:18:04.088','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('540a81e1-b435-4cd4-883b-c0a3670c1638','b7ca4e64-6571-4f11-9db4-26c42320291a','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>不要在暗处说他人坏话，当他不在场时，所说的话都没什么意义，因为这不是好的回馈给与对方，因为对方完全无法知道，而如果不小心传到了对方耳中，那会极度难看</p>','2024-08-03 08:22:52.054','2024-08-03 08:36:41.068',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-03 08:36:41.067',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('39effa82-c521-4b00-8f60-9b6c3765d2f1','8d4725c7-e7e2-4493-9300-a19c24873038','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>自以为是，傲慢，总耍一些小聪明，这些不道德的风气都需要被改善。</p>
<p>客观看待每一件事和每一个人。</p>','2024-08-15 12:55:11.429','2024-08-15 12:55:11.429',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-15 12:55:11.428',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('78885833-3b71-4c22-a8a8-0a3a8abbe7ff','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>杰出领导者应放下个人私心，展现谦卑，优先考虑员工和组织的利益。他们通过提供安全感形成共同愿景，放弃对权力的渴望，转向说服、服务、谦卑、持续学习等新的权力来源。这些权力来源根植于自觉、独立意志和良知等品格力量。领导者还应专注于重要事务，持续学习和进步，建立双赢的伙伴关系，强调团队合作和互赖精神，以实现真正的牺牲和谦卑。</p>','2024-07-29 15:46:47.124','2024-07-29 15:46:47.124',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 15:46:47.124',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c924654e-555e-4f68-80a2-8e48fd5fe6c3','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 若没有个人牺牲，你得到的只是交易性的结合，而不是转化性的伙伴关系</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 要有效地与团队合作，我们就必须牺牲自尊心，展现谦卑。必须彻底放下自我意识、放下原有的思维与技能，先去了解别人，同时寻求互惠</p>
<p><br>～ 我们必须值得信赖，让我们沿着为中心，就会拥有品格力量，也就能赢得他人的信赖</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 全新的权利来源：</p>
<p>1）明智的应用自觉、想象力、独立意志与良知</p>
<p>2）花更多时间从事重要但不一定紧急的事</p>
<p>3）持续学习、改善与进步</p>
<p>4）尽力双赢与伙伴关系的网络</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 牺牲的先决条件是谦卑</p>','2024-07-29 15:47:28.708','2024-07-29 15:47:32.425',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 15:47:32.424',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('42fbfc2c-7362-47e9-ba74-2765e824393e','6597b6e6-9823-4259-b756-bc3ed5b0a8e4','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>抛开私心、谦卑待人、先聆听他人，再赢得他人的信赖，互惠关系才会产生。</p>','2024-07-29 15:57:09.934','2024-07-29 15:57:09.934',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-29 15:57:09.933',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('142f5e83-f7e7-4829-8caf-3af2f492f645','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 30: 30/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">二）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.169~174</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">［</span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; background: white;">成功槓桿</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">5</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; background: white;">：服务</span></strong><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">德蕾莎修女：</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;<span lang="ZH-CN">当來到生命的尽头，我们的功过不是取决于拿了多少张文憑、賺了多少鈛、做了多少伟大的事，而是「我肚子饿了，你给我东西吃；我沒衣服穿，你给我衣服；我沒有住处，你收容了我」。</span>&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;<span lang="ZH-CN">捉住多数人心的关键，就是先捉住其中一个人。</span>&rdquo;<span lang="ZH-CN">这个人，你得叫得出他的名字，因为与人互动，沒有不重要的事，全都是大事。&mdash;&mdash;因为「人类灵魂最深的渴求，是获得肯定，得到重视、珍惜与理解」。</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">关心某个人是个有效的方法，因为这种思维模式聚焦于人，而非事情；它聚焦不关系，而非時程表；它聚焦于成效，而非效率；它聚焦于个人领导力，而非资源管理。</span></p>','2024-07-29 01:32:03.761','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
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<p>待人就是要以禮貌和尊重, 因為人與人之間的互相接触的結果, 會進一步影响其他人.&nbsp;</p>
<p>人类灵魂最新的渴望, 是获得肯定, 得到重視、 珍惜和理解.</p>','2024-07-29 05:02:54.852','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('59811a9f-15d5-4428-a641-6c63482d511b','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>与人互动时，没有不重要的小事，全都是大事。</p>','2024-07-29 13:57:09.689','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4dc2a430-018f-4d48-bb82-13b86f1b68b5','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>真心关怀一个人，能抓住他的心，让他心甘情愿的和你携手同行</p>','2024-07-29 14:02:00.283','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015','2024-07-30 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('40629b28-2f6f-42ca-bb09-a0aecafc633f','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>人与人之间就要有连接互动，希望获得认可，肯定，重视，得到理解，珍惜</p>','2024-07-30 03:36:49.122','2024-07-30 03:36:49.122',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 03:36:49.121',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e612ba40-545c-4c9a-bde9-f92129c1bb64','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「百分之九十的人非常在意人與人的互相接觸，而接觸的結果會進一步影響他人」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-30 03:52:35.5','2024-07-30 03:52:35.5',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 03:52:35.499',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-30 03:57:07.332','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-30 04:00:43.463','2024-08-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('edb65868-c8c1-4142-9287-14a3108203a7','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「自尊心常阻礙我們還清最後一文錢，但最後還是要向人低頭，表達自己的遺憾與歉意，並尋求原諒。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-30 04:20:50.574','2024-08-02 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-30 04:24:13.158','2024-08-03 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-08-03 00:00:00.025','2024-08-03 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-30 05:29:30.91','2024-08-04 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-08-04 00:00:00.031','2024-08-04 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
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<p>抓住多数人心的关键，就是先抓住其中一个人。</p>
<p>人类灵魂最深的渴求，是获得肯定，得到重视、珍惜与理解。人们都希望你叫得出他们的名字，希望每个人是真心关心他们的，包括公司与业务代表。与人互动时，没有不重要的小事，全都是大事。而关心一个人就足以满足他人的渴求了。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-30 06:08:15.555','2024-07-30 06:08:29.642',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 06:08:29.641',NULL,NULL);
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<p>人类灵魂最深的渴求，是获得肯定，得到重视、珍惜与理解。</p>','2024-07-30 07:01:12.923','2024-07-30 07:01:14.746',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 07:01:14.745',NULL,NULL);
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<li>经常对事不对人，看来也该学学对人不对事。</li>
<li>知道自己在&lsquo;忙&rsquo;什么，活在每个当下，则不会白忙活一场。</li>
</ol>','2024-09-24 12:08:26.661','2024-09-24 12:08:34.016',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 12:08:34.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>我们想追求什么，就会看到什么。假如我们寻找美好的事物，往往就会在别人身上看见美好的特质。</p>','2024-07-31 07:52:51.055','2024-07-31 07:53:43.275',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 07:53:43.274',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('047f0b10-3402-4867-8208-15672f1e5707','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>与人互动时，没有不重要的小事，所有的事情都是大事。服务是一种非常个人的原则，需要先奉献自己。大多数人非常在意人与人的接触，这会进一步影响他人。</p>
<p>抓住多数人心的关键是先抓住其中一个人。每个人都渴望被肯定、重视和理解。当你承认他人的存在并调整你的传达内容时，你是在告诉他们：&ldquo;你很重要。&rdquo;</p>
<p>关心某个人是有效的方法，因为这种思维模式关注的是人而非事情，关注的是关系而非时间表，关注的是成效而非效率。在充满关怀的文化中工作会让一切不同。一个关怀的团队和领导可以创造一个让人感到被重视和支持的环境，从而促进更好的服务和互动。</p>','2024-07-30 08:09:30.185','2024-07-30 08:09:30.185',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 08:09:30.184',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2e64c38c-1567-49a5-b8da-7c2021043107','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>与人互动时，没有不重要的小事。人，都渴望连结、被看见、被重视、获得肯定、珍惜和理解。在互动的那一刻，我在你眼里不是路上的甲乙丙丁。那么，接下来才能谈服务他人。</p>','2024-07-30 08:23:48.627','2024-07-30 08:23:48.627',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 08:23:48.626',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4bb4024a-d150-4723-ab76-b1ea0cc69092','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>&nbsp;产生关怀之心的三种方法</p>
<p>1. 雇用：<br>&nbsp; &nbsp;一家大型航空公司通过观察应试者在别人做简报时的反应，来评估他们是否具有关怀他人的能力。</p>
<p>2. 训练：<br>&nbsp; &nbsp;某组织通过高难度任务测试团队精神，发现团队成员的合作和关系导向能力。</p>
<p>3. 培育:<br>&nbsp; &nbsp;通过发展强大的企业文化和社会规范，培养服务伦理，鼓励对他人展现善意、尊重和关怀。</p>
<p>连锁反应<br><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">公司对待员工的方式会影响员工对待顾客的方式。通过培养内在安全感，即使在被忽视或冒犯时，仍能对他人展现善意和耐性。</span></p>','2024-07-31 11:56:18.051','2024-07-31 11:56:21.033',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 11:56:21.032',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2b9958d1-a712-48c4-8c54-b13259e766c8','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>不需要成为一个只会反弹的人，可以学习不让自己受伤害，可以根据基本原则，从内在培养安全感。即使别人对我们不好，我们仍然可以对别人好。</p>','2024-07-30 07:17:18.317','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ee973ca3-7c64-474d-b7a1-a316553fe761','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>聚焦与人，而非事情；聚焦与关系，而非时辰表；聚焦与成效，而非效率；聚焦个人领导力，而非资源管理。</p>','2024-07-30 08:07:55.287','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('622269bc-1b1e-4752-835b-0fefced2dfd9','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>培养服务伦理最有效的方法,是在文化发展出力量强大的社会规范</p>','2024-07-30 15:15:38.972','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0be9d8af-72e8-49ab-a7a4-76da42bef75e','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>不要透过别人的关系获得安全感，而是从自己内在正直的人格获得安全感，这样可以变得更愿意敞开自己，并忠于自己，使自己看起来更亮丽自信。</p>','2024-07-30 08:22:03.96','2024-08-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('37223ab2-d662-442c-a814-6b8840aff63a','e1d92763-ac0e-4904-9eb0-a8f6043d7792','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>什么都不说是一定很轻松的，但是，如果有机会为他人辯护，或者大力支持自己珍视的信念与价值观，需要很大的勇气，但这是必须的。</p>','2024-08-01 06:50:56.632','2024-08-04 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-08-04 00:00:00.031','2024-08-04 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ae2d9d65-930e-44d3-b611-0edeeb488efa','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>负起责任是获得首要成就的关键。面对困难时，逃避责任只会让自己成为受害者，而真正的成功者懂得生命质量取决于自己的选择。</p>
<p>一个企业高管曾表示，他最担心的是与员工和儿子的关系，他意识到需要改善自己的态度，并通过真诚的道歉和实际行动来修复关系。</p>
<p>要还清&ldquo;最后一文钱&rdquo;，即完全承担责任并真心道歉，才能重建信任。这需要一致的行为和持续的努力，而不仅仅是口头道歉。练习这一原则可以显著改善人际关系，使彼此重新建立在诚实和信任的基础上。</p>','2024-08-01 07:26:36.875','2024-08-01 07:26:36.875',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 07:26:36.874',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('01281ea8-506e-4fb0-b22a-77a0ee31ce92','b7ca4e64-6571-4f11-9db4-26c42320291a','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>心胸远大的人论想法。</p>
<p>市井小民论事件。</p>
<p>心胸狭窄的道人长短。</p>
<p>讲是非是很兴奋的，也是最伤人的。</p>
<p>不想别人伤害自己，自己先别伤害别人。</p>','2024-08-01 06:39:06.69','2024-08-03 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-08-03 00:00:00.025','2024-08-03 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dca203fe-cd23-4976-bc68-0de8ae1a4004','a18bcf95-91c2-48d1-a23a-f684c02107aa','224ada56-b4c4-4cee-9baf-0badc4b884c6','<p>人生最舒服的阶段，不是外在的物质或成就，而是内心的丰盈。懂的接受自己、接受别人、接受所发生的一切，才能安然生活</p>','2024-08-16 01:25:37.656','2024-08-18 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-08-18 00:00:00.019','2024-08-18 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eea7242b-1082-4c01-9c89-2b49fe02777e','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 30：7月30日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第十章成功槓桿5：服务&ndash; 为一个人服务为和有效（Page 169 - 174）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">服务是个极度个人的原则，必须先奉献自己。服务他人（减轻他人的负荷）是首要成就的精髓。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">直到我知道你多关心我，我才会关心你懂多少。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">与人的关系，就必须有基本的礼貌与尊重。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">在乎每一个人的名字，不容易，但是这是导致交易或失败的主因。与人互动时，没有不重要的小事，全都是大事。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">为一个人服务为何有效？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">抓住多数人心的关键，就是先抓住其中一个人。人类灵魂最深的渴求，是获得肯定，得到重视、珍惜与理解。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">关心的思维模式聚焦于人、而非事情；聚焦于关系，而非时程表；他聚焦于成效，而非效率；它聚焦于个人领导力，而非资源管理。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">仆人式领导</span></p>
<p class="p1">当来到生命的尽头，我们的功过不是取决于拿了多少张文凭，赚了多少钱、做了多少伟大的事，而是【我肚子饿了，你给我东西吃；我没衣服穿，你给我衣服；我没有住处，你收容了我-】德蕾莎修女</p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-30 09:55:18.855','2024-07-30 09:55:18.855',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 09:55:18.853',NULL,NULL);
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<p>I don''t care how much you know until i know how much you care.</p>
<p>The deepest hunger of human soul is to be recognised, valued, appreciated, and understood.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-30 12:25:14.443','2024-07-30 12:25:14.443',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 12:25:14.442',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('74cc9a0e-60a4-45bb-bf4b-0ace342f5ae4','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 30：7月30日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第十章成功槓桿5：服务&ndash; 为一个人服务为和有效（Page 169 - 174）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">当來到生命的盡頭，我們的功過不是取決於拿了多少張文憑、賺了多少錢、做了多少偉大的事，而是「我肚子餓了，你給我東西吃；我沒衣服穿，你給我衣服；我沒有住處，你收容了我」。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&mdash;徳蕾莎修女</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">很佩服她的精神。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">每个人都须肯定、得到重视、珍惜与理解。我们应该注意身边的人，多赞美，多肯定。这也是是一种精神上的服务。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">People don''t care how much you know until they know you care,</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">多做情感帐户。</span></p>','2024-07-30 13:21:50.521','2024-07-30 13:21:50.521',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 13:21:50.52',NULL,NULL);
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<p>人类灵魂最深的渴求，是获得肯定，得到重视，珍惜和理解。</p>','2024-07-30 13:42:26.132','2024-07-30 13:42:26.132',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 13:42:26.131',NULL,NULL);
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<div>产生关怀之心的三种方法：</div>
<div>1. 雇用：可以测试面试的新应征者。让他们互相各自做简报，就可以看出有些不理会他人的简报，只关心自己，没有同理心，这些都是非常负面。</div>
<div>反之却是认真，专注及支持，用心关怀的听他人的简报。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>2. 训练： 给员工非常高难度挑战的训练，看看他们是否能在限定的时间完成任务。在这些训练中就可以看出员工能不能团结共同完成共同目标的的任务。训练后的回馈是由其他团队成员给于评语，这就可以发觉自己去私心是如何对待身边的同事。</div>
<div>3. 培育：把公司组织打造成强大的良心的企业文化，因为大环境可以影响个人的改变。那才是最强的企业来自最强稳的企业文化。而且可以让团队工作时感觉开心，幸福，安全。那企业就可以永续发展经营。</div>','2024-07-30 13:46:43.204','2024-07-30 13:46:43.204',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 13:46:43.203',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('711a327c-067e-402e-a19a-d9b62bfd20f2','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>与人互动时，没有不重要的小事，全部是大事。关心某个人是个有效的方法，因为这种思维模式聚焦于人，而非事情；它聚焦于关系，而非时程表；它聚焦于成效，而非效率；它聚焦于个人领导力；而非资源管理。</p>','2024-07-30 14:38:04.144','2024-07-30 14:38:04.144',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 14:38:04.144',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('98a8b09b-86ac-4707-a302-2d8bd5311f8e','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>&ldquo;直到我知道你关心我，我才会关心你懂多少。&rdquo;<br>每次我努力记得每个同学的名字的时候，他们会感动；但那些被我忘记名字的同学，他们也会感到失望。<br>想要谢谢人，要说出来。语言的表达，还是很重要的。不要以为人家会懂，他不是你肚子的虫。</p>','2024-07-30 14:38:30.331','2024-07-30 14:38:30.331',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 14:38:30.33',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f23efa5c-67e5-47e0-a362-89519ad784c3','2c183d18-68cc-418e-8bd6-0c606594a97a','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 与人互动时，没有不重要的小事，全都是大事</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 90%的人非常在意人与人的互相接触，而接触的结果会进一步影响他人</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 抓住多数人心的关键，就是先抓住其中一个</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 人类灵魂最深的渴求，是获得肯定，得到重视、珍惜与理解</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>（之前看过一个旅行博主分享他在美国的经历，内容大致上是说他在那发现很多当地人都很亲切。他举的其中一个例子是当他在当地银行办事的时候，突然就与那家银行的保安聊了起来，聊天内容大致上是保安对博主的一些关心和慰问。当然这样的情况也不止出现在银行的保安身上，还有在其他场合、其他环境遇到的多数人都会做同样的事。这个视频让我很有启发，感觉这与作者提到的关心和重视有点相似！之前看到这个视频后，我把这方法用在招待顾客上，效果还不错，有拉近自己与顾客的距离，但我从没想过可以试着用在与下属的相处上，感觉这个方法不止可以鼓励下属跟着关心顾客，还可以拉近自己与下属之间的关系，之后会尝试看看！）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-30 15:42:45.304','2024-07-30 15:57:25.255',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 15:57:25.254',NULL,NULL);
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<p>连锁反应。</p>','2024-07-30 23:14:28.053','2024-07-30 23:14:28.053',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-30 23:14:28.052',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c0ac39f0-e714-4590-8701-1d6770387c46','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>培养关怀的心。</p>
<p>1.在聘请和筛选员工时，看看他们有没有专注。支持，还有关怀他人的能力和性格。有没有展现同理心.</p>
<p>2.训练员工团队的精神。团队之间要合作。以自己的优点补助别人的缺点。我们要学的是关系导向，不是任务导向。</p>
<p>3.培育在公司的文化发展出强大的社会规范，時时对人展现善意，尊重，关怀，创造美好的感觉和气氛。</p>
<p>连锁反应</p>
<p>您的动作和态度，会在不知不觉中影响他人。尤其是处在脆弱的状态，别人的语气会产生微妙的信息和转变，对自己会造成伤害。</p>
<p>记得在公司里你怎么对待员工，员工就会怎么对待客户。</p>
<p>三好：存好心，说好话，做好事。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-27 15:55:53.367','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cfcabbdf-3cf2-475e-8998-7a10c95fc4b2','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>聚焦于人，而非事情；聚焦于关系，而非行程表；聚焦于成效，而非效率；聚焦个人领导力，而非资源管理。产生关怀之心，具备同理心，合群，坚强的心态，不让自己受伤害而伤害别人。</p>','2024-07-31 12:38:54.152','2024-07-31 12:39:47.98',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 12:39:47.98',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e4cd038d-0334-48b2-bc2f-d1f2b4e032f8','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>补充昨天的point：</p>
<p>关心某个人这种思维模式是聚焦于人，而非事情；聚焦于关系，而非时程表；聚焦于成效，而非效率；聚焦于个人领导力，而非资源管理</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 要培养团队对顾客产生关怀之心的三个方法：</p>
<p>1）雇用</p>
<p>2）训练</p>
<p>3）培养：培养服务伦理最有效的方法，是在文化中发展出力量强大的社会规范</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 当我们处于脆弱的状态时，别人的语气透露出任何微妙的信息或转变，都可能使我们受伤</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 连锁反应：公司对待员工的态度与员工对待顾客的态度，有直接的关联，这就是连锁反应</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 我们追求什么就会看到什么。假如我们寻找美好的事物，往往就会在别人身上看见美好的特质。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 我们不需要成为一个只懂得反弹的人，我们可以学习，不让自己受伤害，根据基本原则，培养你在安全感，纵使别人不爱我们时，我们仍然能爱别人</p>','2024-07-31 15:57:58.819','2024-07-31 16:01:01.03',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 16:01:01.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7e0ecf54-9eb1-4b11-8afe-bbf15630d0bf','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>为自己责任就是成就的重要关键。</p>
<p>失去的信用，口头道歉是不足夠的，还必须做出行动。</p>
<p>我之前有个老扳说：当你失去客户的信任时，你需要兩倍或更多的时间和力气来招回他。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-31 09:21:35.652','2024-08-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8615d579-457b-4673-973c-3f8541cb2bbd','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>选择与责任感。</p>','2024-07-31 14:48:14.551','2024-08-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('73221aca-4c54-45a6-ab51-75ad91ec325f','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>人们在遭受重大伤害后，常会退缩并封闭自己，成为世嫉俗、猜疑心重或爱挖苦嘲笑别人的人。</p>
<p>不要筑起防卫的墙，因为通过内在正直的人格可以获得安全感，不必因曾遭到拒绝而封闭自己，否则将失去接受爱与信任的机会。</p>
<p>许多企业领导人被法律思维束缚，认为道歉可能暗示自己有错，但真诚的道歉能化解歧异、修复关系，避免问题恶化。</p>
<p>修补关系时，承认自己的错误并真心道歉是关键，不能仅靠改变态度和行为。道歉需全然真诚，否则只会加深猜疑与不信任。通过真诚的道歉，我们不仅能脱离对方的心灵牢笼，还能启发对方也承认错误，从而重建信任与合作关系。</p>','2024-08-01 07:33:39.486','2024-08-02 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4aa8ccc2-3702-414a-a31c-83165f07b590','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>修补关系需坦诚承认错误并承担责任，因为道德权威源于领导力。受伤者常封闭自我，失去信任，单纯改变行为不足以重建信任。我们必须真诚道歉并请求原谅，而非操弄手段。象征性道歉无法赢得信任或原谅，完全的道歉和弥补错误能释放对方心中的怨恨，创造新的沟通机会。尽管自尊心可能阻碍，但最终需表达遗憾和歉意，寻求和解，个人性格养成取决于自我反思和真诚行动。</p>','2024-08-02 13:11:05.009','2024-08-02 13:11:05.009',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-02 13:11:05.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b382b997-21ca-4c41-b287-ea1ce5aae6b0','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day23：9月9 日 《活学》Part 2 最高效能的人生</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第五章： 家族重修课1. 善根 &ndash; 2. 做才有影响力（Page142-147）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">勤勞樸实、顺天应人</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">这八句话像稻盛和夫的敬天爱人。如果善解人意的人。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">不要只会讲，讲到天下无敌，不会有人买你单。做才是最有影响力。</span></p>','2024-09-09 14:20:05.683','2024-09-09 14:20:05.683',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 14:20:05.682',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">-<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN">产生关怀之心的三种方法</span></strong>-</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">雇用</span></strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">时，著董的是此人有否关怀他人的能力或性格，如认真听別人做简报。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">训练</span></strong><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">时，考察员工的协作能力，而不是偏向于任务导向或关系导向。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">培育</span></strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">时，最有效的培养服务伦理的方法是在文化中发展出力量强大的社会规范。</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&hellip;&hellip;<span lang="ZH-TW">仆人式领导的精神教导大家，要对他人展现善意、尊重与关怀。</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">当你处于脆弱的状态，別人的语气透露出任何微妙的讯息或转变，都可能使你受伤。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">我们必须学习不让自己受伤害，拒绝自我疏离。</span></p>','2024-07-29 01:49:04.25','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>以僕人似的領导精神, 教导大家要對他人展現善意, 尊重和關怀. 公司對待員工的態度, 有直接的關連, 就是連鎖反應,</p>
<p>我們不需成為只懂得反彈的人,我們可以學习不讓自己受傷害, 可以根据基本原則,培养內在安全感, 就算別人不愛我們時, 仍能愛人, 當別人對我們不好时, 仍能向他人表現善意, 當別人對我們不耐煩你, 仍能向他人發揮耐性.</p>','2024-07-30 07:56:21.075','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>以僕人似的領导精神, 教导大家要對他人展現善意, 尊重和關怀. 公司對待員工的態度, 有直接的關連, 就是連鎖反應,</p>
<p>我們不需成為只懂得反彈的人,我們可以學习不讓自己受傷害, 可以根据基本原則,培养內在安全感, 就算別人不愛我們時, 仍能愛人, 當別人對我們不好时, 仍能向他人表現善意, 當別人對我們不耐煩你, 仍能向他人發揮耐性.</p>','2024-07-30 07:56:21.078','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>2） 训练 - 任务导向 + 关系导向之间有个平衡点</p>
<p>3）培育 - 从文化中发展强大的社会规范</p>
<p>公司里是什么样的文化，那土壤就培养生命样的员工。</p>','2024-07-30 08:32:06.256','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>通过培育，以僕人式领导模式，对他人展示善意，相互尊重与关怀，拥有永续经营优势：</p>
<p>从内在培养安全感，学习不让自己受伤，根据基本原则，在面对他人的评价或负面情绪的时候：我们依然心怀善良，展现善意。</p>
<p>千变万化的云，不变的是天空，就像是外在的变化，不变的却是平静的心境。</p>','2024-07-30 09:11:59.788','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>太多的我认为是造成看不到自己的缺点的原因。</p>','2024-08-30 13:30:39.836','2024-08-30 13:30:39.836',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-30 13:30:39.835',NULL,NULL);
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<p>书中建议的七个习惯，也是本书的核心，需要不断从復实践，復习，练习，长年累月的沉淀修復，相信，自己必定有所收获吧。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-24 12:29:10.695','2024-09-24 12:29:10.695',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 12:29:10.694',NULL,NULL);
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<p>公司对员工的态度，与员工对待顾客的态度有直接的关联。这是连锁反应。</p>','2024-07-31 09:54:40.23','2024-07-31 09:54:40.23',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 09:54:40.229',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5db7da3e-dca6-40af-aded-109527b81644','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>人难免会有犯错的时侯，但愿意改变和诚意道歉，天空往往会再晴朗。</p>','2024-08-01 13:01:54.797','2024-08-01 13:01:54.797',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 13:01:54.796',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fe02abee-528f-4108-a43a-1024bc81b77f','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>责任心<br>一个人的最终性格的养成，掌握在自己手中。</p>','2024-08-01 12:54:22.342','2024-08-01 13:02:54.964',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 13:02:54.964',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p2"><span class="s1">产生关怀之心的三种方法&ndash; 应用与建议（Page 175 - 181）</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">聚焦于人，而非事情；聚焦于关系，而非时程表；聚焦于成效，而非效率；聚焦个人领导力，而非资源管理。</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">1）每个人都是有价值，不要人比人，你是独一无二的。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">2）连销反应-将心比心。老板对员工好，员工对客户好。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">3）自己内在要强大，才会有安全感。即使别人不爱你，你也可以有智慧去面对他。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">学耐心、学接受一切的发生。</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-31 13:28:59.816','2024-07-31 13:28:59.816',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 13:28:59.815',NULL,NULL);
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<p>对别人客气是对自己的尊重。</p>','2024-07-31 14:03:03.302','2024-07-31 14:03:05.309',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 14:03:05.308',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">产生关怀之心的三种方法</span>&ndash; <span lang="ZH-CN">应用与建议（</span>Page 175 - 181<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">产生关怀之心的三种方法</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。雇佣</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">展现专注、支持态度，天生具有关怀他人的能力或性格</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。训练</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3。培育</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">内在培育安全感、成为仆人式的领导者。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们想追求什么，就会看到什么。假如我们寻找美好事物，就会在别人身上看到美好的特质。</span></p>','2024-07-31 14:12:47.857','2024-07-31 14:12:47.857',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 14:12:47.856',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1b4e6d40-6501-4080-ae81-64aa6b4228a7','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>很多时候我忽略了连锁反应对他人造成伤害。同时也被伤害。</p>
<p>学习仆人式的领导，了解这些来自我们对自身愿景的体认。</p>
<p>也要成为懂得反弹的人，根据基本原则，从内在培养安全感，不让自己受伤。</p>','2024-07-31 14:20:07.5','2024-07-31 14:20:07.5',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 14:20:07.499',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4eff87b3-95e6-4abc-93f8-5a6d6c1c4beb','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>公司如何对待员工，会反应出员工对待客户的态度 ~ 连锁反应。</p>','2024-07-31 14:37:18.972','2024-07-31 14:37:18.972',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 14:37:18.971',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cca60820-1d7d-4afd-ab19-70b896d0aa54','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>连锁反应</p>
<p>不以为意的一举一动、嫌弃的表情能让他人看在眼里，记在心里甚至造成影响。做出这些微表情的人或许也得到同样的待遇。「公司对待员工的态度，与员工对待顾客的态度有直接的关联。」</p>','2024-07-31 14:59:06.173','2024-07-31 14:59:06.173',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 14:59:06.172',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6739957a-19dc-41b9-bb34-fc315fa48848','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>就像连锁反应一样，顾客受到怎么样的对待，也反映出员工是如何被上司或雇主的对待。</p>','2024-07-31 15:01:09.058','2024-07-31 15:01:09.058',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 15:01:09.057',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('941b5fa3-828c-4e9c-bf20-5efee7400726','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','c972a3d9-d06c-4c0c-9a05-5fe06761f12c','<p>产生关怀之心的三种方法，</p>
<p>1）雇佣</p>
<p>2）训练</p>
<p>3）培育</p>
<p>公司對待員工的態度與員工對待顧客的態度有直接的關聯，這是連鎖反應。</p>','2024-07-31 15:02:32.433','2024-07-31 15:02:35.502',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 15:02:35.501',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4de4bfbd-eb72-4622-9179-6132d65b3ecb','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>好领导要素：</p>
<p>聚焦於人,而非事情;</p>
<p>聚焦於關係,而非時程表;</p>
<p>聚焦於成效,而非效率;</p>
<p>聚焦個人領導力,而非資源管理。</p>','2024-07-31 15:10:48.544','2024-07-31 15:10:48.544',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 15:10:48.544',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dd30723d-d534-4049-b1d6-a75be2e35c14','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>要培养对顾客有关怀的心，可以从三方面下手：</p>
<ol>
<li>雇用</li>
<li>训练</li>
<li>培育</li>
</ol>
<p>当我们处于脆弱的状态，别人的语气透露出任何微妙的信息或转变，都可能使我们受伤。我们不需要成为一个只懂得反弹的人，我们可以学习不让自己受伤害，根据原则努力培养内在安全感就好。</p>','2024-07-31 15:23:41.831','2024-07-31 15:23:41.831',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 15:23:41.83',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1a805daf-938a-4e09-82d4-ccf4ec9ace90','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>公司文化影响的层面不只是公司，而其倍增效果是从员工到员工的家人朋友。</p>
<p>对他人友善、抱有服务之心，可以引导正面的循环。</p>','2024-07-31 15:53:23.552','2024-07-31 15:53:23.552',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 15:53:23.551',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('491a34cd-8a1a-4b0f-ac0e-1a73bff57768','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>道歉是弥补过去错误的必要对策。已经发生的事情往往无法改变，但是道歉可以减少它造成的伤害。</p>','2024-07-31 22:47:44.086','2024-07-31 22:47:46.156',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-31 22:47:46.156',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8317c187-791f-413b-86e6-e02d94518b69','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>失去的信用，光靠口头道歉是换不回的，你必须多做一些，展现你的诚意。</p>','2024-07-31 13:12:19.819','2024-08-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aa68c798-1ce0-4458-95d6-67d2e06f504f','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>负责任的人受人尊敬受人信任。承认错误是负责任的做法，值得赞扬和给予原谅！还清债务才能有机会重新借贷，这个简单的道理！</p>','2024-07-31 00:32:44.256','2024-08-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009','2024-08-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('29fcba24-20f4-4227-b5cd-e053abff60ae','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>每个人都有缺点和做错事情，真心诚意道歉，相信都会化险为夷。也因此可能把关系搞好，拥有新的机会把某事做好。</p>','2024-08-02 08:29:15.14','2024-08-02 08:29:15.14',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-02 08:29:15.14',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('31ab8bfd-1fc9-4350-bd15-54fbc6dd2a1a','4de45b0d-c587-46fa-b5e6-5a927464637d','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>如果对方没有赢，自己也不算赢。</p>
<p>先指希望自己，诚实面对自己。</p>','2024-08-01 07:17:58.738','2024-08-05 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-08-05 00:00:00.024','2024-08-05 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2dc0bd23-196c-4649-b01d-81020ebf3e90','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>成功杠杆6：责任心</p>
<p>要以谦卑的心，认清自己必须为问题负起的责任，即使对方可能也有一部分的责任，并出于真心与灵性上的让步，向对方坦诚道歉，对方会感受到你话语中的真诚。但我们要言行一致，别人才能看见我们表里如一。</p>
<p>不用为自己辩解、解释、推卸责任，只需要将最后的债偿还，然后从对方心中的牢笼走出来。</p>','2024-08-01 05:04:58.096','2024-08-01 05:04:58.096',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 05:04:58.095',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cd73b1b4-0413-40cb-b8bd-c16ff2d827ec','7c1698a2-259f-4269-b384-2d6b8308f955','257784b6-4e0d-4767-ad9e-6c9c79e29683','<p>1）企业传承 ～ 几年前先生回来公司与我一同打拼、那个时候的我忙着证明自己很厉害，没有去看到先生的情况、实在惭愧。后来觉察了自己的自大，赶紧学习谦卑，如今也与先生配合良好。同时也收获了 &ldquo;无为而治&rdquo; ，现在不需要像以前过度忙碌，却让企业也能有所成长。</p>
<p>2）一个人越往上修炼是需要修真实的自己，完整但无需完美的自己。我也有些缺点，我以前觉得不用改，那是保留真实的我的一部分，但在企业要往可持续性发展走的当儿，我发现我自己不够用了、需要把我的那几块短板给补上。所有你跳过的终究是要补回去的。</p>','2024-08-30 13:39:23.446','2024-08-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-08-31 00:00:00.004','2024-08-31 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5866959a-4f67-4bd0-8343-65296cacd4dc','b7ca4e64-6571-4f11-9db4-26c42320291a','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">Day 34: 38/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">六）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - p.1195-201</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">第</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">12</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">章</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">成功槓桿</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">7</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">：忠诚</span></strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">爱莲娜．罗斯福：</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN">心胸远大的人谈论想法，市井小民谈论事件，心胸狭小的人道人长短。</span></strong>&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">拥有首要成就的人是忠诚的。忠诚並非毫不质疑的愚忠，而是拒绝在別人背后对他加上刻板印象或标签，或在暗地里谴责他&mdash;&mdash;导因于对他人不切实际的期待而忽略每个人都只是凡夫俗子。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">忠诚的终极考验是</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">：在別人不在场时仍忠于对方。</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">（诚恳或建设性的批评有助于自己坦然面对他人。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">）</span></p>','2024-08-01 01:41:32.996','2024-08-03 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-08-03 00:00:00.025','2024-08-03 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a7271952-f3c4-4cf0-86b3-f9a1c2799139','e1d92763-ac0e-4904-9eb0-a8f6043d7792','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">Day 35: 4/8/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">日）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - p.201-207</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">抓住多数人心的关键是先抓住其中一个人。&mdash;&mdash;细节决定一切！</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">展现忠诚的七种方法</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">:</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">为无招架之力的人辩护&mdash;&mdash;被放逐的人、处于劣势的人、地位较低的人、少数族裔、代罪羔羊。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">预期讨论並征求允许。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">讨论后致电说明开会的情況。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">想想不在场的顾客。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">提及某个人的背景或事件的脉络。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">下次开会时，给这个人一个机会，解释或辩护他的立场或处境。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">7.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">指出这个人的优点。</span></p>','2024-08-01 01:51:17.771','2024-08-04 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-08-04 00:00:00.031','2024-08-04 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">第</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">1</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">3</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">章</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">成功槓桿</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">8</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">：相互性</span></strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">John Joseph Powell</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">：</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&ldquo;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">有一件事是确定的，唯有透过充满愛与关怀的另一人的反映，我们才能明白自己的美好或察觉自己的价值。</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">相互性是首要成就的要素之一，你给予什么，就会得到什么。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">若相互性关系建立在相互了解的基础上，自然会产生连结，双方也会形成互惠关系。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">步骤一：</span></strong><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">先指望自己。要改善关系，不要指望別人先改变，也不要指望有捷径可抄。先指望你自己，並诚实面对自己。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">步骤二：</span></strong><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">创造亲近连结。&mdash;&mdash;秉持双贏思维。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">步骤三：</span></strong><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">分享知识与资讯。</span></p>','2024-08-01 02:10:16.16','2024-08-05 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-08-05 00:00:00.024','2024-08-05 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">步骤四：</span></strong><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">考虑到与所有利害关系人的关系。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">步骤五：</span></strong><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">关怀第一线人员。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">步骤六：</span></strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">选择慈悲，而非</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「一报还一报」。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">相互法则就和地心引力一样，效力永恒不变。一旦违反，必得承担苦果。在生命中的每一刻，我们都在承担自己平日所作所为的后果。</span></p>','2024-08-01 02:10:50.388','2024-08-06 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-08-06 00:00:00.011','2024-08-06 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>我媽從小沒受什麼教育生，了我這麼一個長孫，明天想打電話給我媽問一下，他對我的期待是什麼？我對他的意義又是什麼？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-09 14:22:11.53','2024-09-09 14:22:12.812',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 14:22:12.811',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3835c599-4a00-45bb-84bb-9c0a981c89bd','2a8f76a4-e708-4320-801b-dedb66d88142','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>以原則為中心，讀了這章節，始終有點模糊，抓不到重點。因為原則也是從對各個中心的平衡或偏重點來的，其實這麼理解的。</p>
<p>或許，是我的認知導致我受限在這個理念的理解。</p>','2024-09-26 13:04:38.834','2024-10-06 00:00:00.003',NULL,'f','2024-10-06 00:00:00.002','2024-10-06 00:00:00.002',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4540b4a0-105e-4cc7-a8a3-ceb31851a41f','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 32：8月1日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第十一章成功槓桿6：责任心&ndash; 练习还清最后一文钱（Page 183 - 188）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">负起责任是获得首要成就的重要关键。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">生命的品质取决于自己的选择。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">还清最后一文钱</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">谦卑的心，认清自己必须为问题负起的责任，即时对方可能也有一部分责任。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">真诚对话。一旦心中的情感户口已经透支，失去信用，，你唯有向对方全面並明确的承认自己的缺失或错误，对自己的行为与道歉的内容一致，维持一段时间，才能还清最后一文钱，然后从对方心中的牢笼走出来。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">练习还清最后一文钱</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">从内在正直的人格获得安全感，就不需要筑起防卫的墙。</span></p>','2024-08-01 08:48:21.808','2024-08-01 08:48:21.808',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 08:48:21.807',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('93fe0414-930c-4313-be33-212ea443a220','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">补 31/7</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">产生关怀之心的三种方法</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1️⃣雇佣 时，看她有段专注听别人的简报，是否只关心自己</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2️⃣训练 - 给他们一个高难度的；</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3️⃣培育 - 要用僕人士领导精神去帮助培育更小的baby junior</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">1/8</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">担起责任的好领导才是会受人尊重的好领导</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">要懂得谦卑，换位思考出身设想</span></p>','2024-08-01 13:14:26.74','2024-08-01 13:14:26.74',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 13:14:26.739',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0c41f2de-5912-4872-95db-859828e6617f','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>自我内省，承认错误，勇于负起责任比什么都重要。</p>','2024-08-01 13:18:49.104','2024-08-01 13:18:49.104',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 13:18:49.103',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d557d5d9-60c2-414b-9936-d51ba27a0dd3','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>[ 还清最后一文钱 ] 以谦卑的心，认清自己必须为问题负起责任，承认自己错误，并向对方坦诚道歉，言行一致。</p>
<p>不要标签他人，他人往往会根据你对待的方式成为那样的人。</p>','2024-08-01 13:35:33.403','2024-08-01 13:55:37.171',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 13:55:37.17',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('29a91540-8e5f-4c71-ac92-97997e5d3a6d','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>以谦卑的心真诚道歉、坦诚错误，直到还清最后一文钱。</p>','2024-08-01 14:12:39.339','2024-08-01 14:12:39.339',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 14:12:39.338',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('98a5b2b5-174e-47f3-a3ba-8d0dac7da125','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="MsoNormal">Day 33<span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>8<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>2<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》第二部</span> 12<span lang="ZH-CN">成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">抛开法律问题，真诚道歉</span>&ndash; <span lang="ZH-CN">应用与建议（</span>Page 188 - 194<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我错了，真诚道歉，化解歧异，疗愈关系。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">修补关系的六个重点</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。向自己坦承，为问题负起责任。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">领导人的力量主要来自道德权威。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。人们遭受重大伤害或羞辱后，会退缩并封闭自我。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">受伤的人会产生受害者心态，把其他人关进自己心中的牢笼，拒绝放别人出来。又为了避免受到更多伤害，会将其他人认定为恶毒，不公平或没有同理心的人。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3。光是改变行为无法让我们走出牢笼，因为对方再也不相信我们了。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">4。唯一的解决方案通常是，向他们承认我们犯的错误，同时道歉並请求原谅。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">寻求和解时，明确告诉对方我们做错了什么，不附加任何藉口、解释或辯护。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">5。全然的真诚，不是被当作操弄性工具来使用，只是为了挽回关系。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">象征性的道歉，无法为你赢得被人对你的信任或原谅。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">6。还清最后一文钱不仅可以帮助我们脱离对方的心灵牢笼，拥有新的机会与他人沟通，并影响他人，启发别人承认错误与下定决心。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">自尊心阻碍我们还清最后一文钱，但最后还是要向人低头，表达自己的遗憾与歉意，并寻求原谅。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一个人最终性格的养成，掌握在自己手中。安妮，法兰克</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>','2024-08-01 08:50:18.569','2024-08-02 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3ab2fc05-d62c-402a-90f1-5775e3a2e622','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>修补关系六个重点：</p>
<ol>
<li>向自己坦诚，负起责任</li>
<li>要明白遭受重大伤害的人会退缩並自我封闭</li>
<li>光靠改变不能让我们走出牢笼，得到对方的信任</li>
<li>唯一方法是承认错误並请求原谅</li>
<li>必须出于全然真誠，不能当着是工具来挽回关系</li>
<li>还清最后一文钱让我们脱离牢笼，可以展开新的关系，启发别人承认错误的决心</li>
</ol>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-02 13:48:52.791','2024-08-02 13:48:52.791',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-02 13:48:52.79',NULL,NULL);
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<p>说人是非者就是是非人呢！</p>','2024-08-02 13:25:37.722','2024-08-03 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-08-03 00:00:00.025','2024-08-03 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7e61d3db-3438-4ca0-8485-3f6edb3e6718','4de45b0d-c587-46fa-b5e6-5a927464637d','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>这世界的人若都了解人活在这个地球上是&ldquo;彼此相互依存&rdquo;的，那人与人之间的关系就多了许多善意，这世界就平和多了。要建立这种相互关系，以下六个步骤是我们可以选择的。</p>
<ol>
<li>先指望自己，并诚实面对自己，而不是他人。我们与自己的关系，会影响我们与他人的关系；</li>
<li>创造亲近连接，关键在于双赢思维；</li>
<li>分享知识与资讯；</li>
<li>考虑到与所有厉害关系人的关系。</li>
</ol>','2024-08-04 15:44:07.038','2024-08-05 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-08-05 00:00:00.024','2024-08-05 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('519988f4-0724-4f7b-a4ee-a6c11a3f87cb','e1d92763-ac0e-4904-9eb0-a8f6043d7792','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>忠诚的客户、朋友、上师相信你的人品、当你不在时能维护你，他们会用多种方式展现对你的忠诚。我们要避免加入任何一些组群批评不在场的人。</p>','2024-08-03 12:07:26.037','2024-08-04 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-08-04 00:00:00.031','2024-08-04 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3aa77f31-62c0-45c4-a55b-c695c198bfc4','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 32：8月1日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第十一章成功槓桿6：责任心&ndash; 练习还清最后一文钱（Page 183 - 188）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">不要为自己建立防卫的墻。如果自己能夠从内到外正值的人格就能获得安全感，根本不需要建立防卫的墙，只要自己愿意敞开自己的心，并且忠于自己，这会让自己看起来如此魅力。如果不再接受别人你的好，那就是自己建立无形的墻壁，使自己得不到爱。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">如果自己错了，勇于承认自己的错误，更得到尊重。</span></p>','2024-08-01 14:17:25.341','2024-08-01 14:17:27.764',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 14:17:27.763',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0634cd77-f734-4366-a4b8-63f0d69d0608','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>一个人最终性格的養成，掌握在自己手中。</p>
<p>追求首要成就的人明白，生命的品质取决於自己的选择，而非别人的选择或是自身的处境</p>','2024-08-01 14:27:23.438','2024-08-01 14:27:23.438',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 14:27:23.437',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0c942df1-4876-43a7-906c-07cb542db41d','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>完完全全地用谦卑的心来扛下自己问题的责任。</p>','2024-08-01 14:34:33.479','2024-08-01 14:34:33.479',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 14:34:33.478',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6e703bd8-6067-41a1-8a13-62c48a9c4d13','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>我们常会感到冒犯别人或被冒犯。因此感到受伤，但是能为问题负起应该承担的责任还清最后一文钱。我们就可以走出心中的牢笼。</p>','2024-08-01 14:36:53.06','2024-08-01 14:36:53.06',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 14:36:53.06',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('518b2c50-26eb-4565-88c4-d06f7dc8ce0c','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>"还清最后一文钱&rdquo;，字句浅白但其意义深远！</p>
<p>如果我们不真诚不言行一致地将功补过，道歉也只是字面上的意义而已。</p>
<p>只有当自己彻底承担所有责任并为之奋斗改进，才能重新赢取对方信任。</p>','2024-08-01 14:45:44.488','2024-08-01 14:45:44.488',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 14:45:44.487',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e200b48c-8325-4a75-b823-e2bffbc37a79','9528f841-7269-4eb3-af6b-c4b5b670bd90','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>如果不懂物理和化學基礎，創新常常被誤認為混搭。</p>
<p>創新的秘密就在於「為什麼」和「第一性原理」。</p>','2024-10-01 23:41:27.561','2024-10-01 23:41:28.985',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-10-01 23:41:28.984',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('49aa217d-953e-4b27-8429-6b76d2830e68','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 还清最后一文钱：只是还钱很显然是不够的，必须还清最后一文钱才行</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 因为失去的信用光靠口头道歉是换不回的，必须表里如一地多做一些，展现你的诚意。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 假设只是对对方好一点，却始终不承认自己的责任向对方道歉的话，也不能够算是还清最后一分钱，因为你已经被关进对方心中的牢笼，对方对你已经产生防卫心自然还是会对你不信任，哪怕你已释出善意改善了行为与态度</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 人们往往会根据你对待他的方式或是你对他的认定，成为那样的人</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 还清最后一文钱 = 表里如一 + 真诚的道歉 + 一段时间的好表现&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-01 15:42:08.324','2024-08-01 15:44:17.452',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 15:44:17.451',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3c686352-0c70-4b5f-a203-09706148c85b','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>很多人说负责人，可是怎样叫着负责人，负责是把职务履行到底。<br>承认错误、敢于担当，也是负责任。</p>','2024-08-01 15:30:17.885','2024-08-01 15:30:17.885',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 15:30:17.884',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1156105d-edf3-4735-be25-b1c6c5d25b9e','a137dbe8-0e51-4e5c-a64d-cd43e8fcb9aa','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>逃避人生的责任,将自己的处境怪罪于他人或环境的人,注定永远是个受害者</p>','2024-08-01 15:37:26.536','2024-08-01 15:37:26.536',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 15:37:26.535',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cc3499c5-14d0-478e-967e-0209f0e99e05','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>道歉能解冲突，真诚十分重要。</p>','2024-08-01 22:11:35.354','2024-08-01 22:11:35.354',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-01 22:11:35.353',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c72d25f3-f87e-451b-a6db-c9d87e8b01e7','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>在企业界，只要有人愿意先承认「我错了」，许多问题可以迎刃而解。我们的道歉要坦承、承认、真诚和请求原谅。</p>','2024-07-20 04:37:42.835','2024-08-02 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1a9fbfa1-6b54-4b67-9f85-9cfe8f2bcc77','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>当别人请求我们原谅的时候，我们之间的关系产生了什么样的化学作用？把这个过程记录下来，然后经常练习，优化成提升人际关系的方式</p>
<p>我们是否对人产生怨恨？消除这种感觉，最好的方式就是将自己受害者的标签拿掉，因为谁的损失越大，错就在谁的身上。原谅自己，放过自己也是消除怨恨的方法</p>
<p>向他人道歉，透过日积月累的原则把一切事务做好，真诚与自己。一切美好就会向你而来</p>','2024-07-24 04:50:07.042','2024-08-02 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('acc3c776-c414-47b9-b955-1370f29aaab4','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 33：8月2日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">抛开法律问题，真诚道歉&ndash; 应用与建议（Page 188 - 194）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">能有勇气去道歉，还要真诚的道歉。对方不是傻的，对方可以感觉到你的真诚的表达是自己不对。对方可以给你第二次机会。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">每天反省，每天修心，让自己进步一点点。</span></p>','2024-08-02 13:47:20.07','2024-08-02 13:47:35.696',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-02 13:47:35.695',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('327a0795-b559-4551-b4f6-cade85db9445','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>修补关系靠六个重点，自我坦诚自己也可能有错，必须明白受伤害的人会退缩与自我封闭，改变行为並不能马上获取信任，寻求原谅，真诚地寻求原谅，最后必然了解到自我下放才能有踏岀牢笼並得到解放。</p>','2024-08-02 14:16:14.697','2024-08-02 14:16:14.697',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-02 14:16:14.696',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('24ffb968-02e6-41a5-936f-ca288364b460','b7ca4e64-6571-4f11-9db4-26c42320291a','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>不在别人背后道人长短，不说出若被当事人听见、会令自己觉得不好意思的话。</p>','2024-08-02 12:15:44.67','2024-08-03 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-08-03 00:00:00.025','2024-08-03 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3c5f7bbe-72a2-4042-8ad4-1ac392936bd6','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>在商场上，如果要真诚的道歉还要考虑到法律的问题。这样就不能是最真诚发自内心的了。所以需要找超越法律思维的律师。</p>
<p>我错了，我向你道歉，我想要补偿你。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>修补关系的6个要点。</p>
<p>1.对自己坦诚。为问题负起责任。领导人主要来自道德权威。如果失去了道德权威，就没有公信力。</p>
<p>2.受伤或羞辱过后，人们就会退缩并封闭自我。</p>
<p>3.我曾经信任他，看看现在的下场，人就会把自己枷锁在心中的牢笼。</p>
<p>4.承认自己犯错。并道歉和请求原谅。真正的道歉是明确告诉对方自己做错了什么。不附加任何借口解释或護。</p>
<p>5.真诚的道歉。不是操弄。我只是为了挽回关系。如果不是发自内心的真诚想改变自己。迟早会重蹈覆辙。</p>
<p>6.还清最后一文钱可以帮助我们脱离对方的心灵牢笼，拥有新的机会和他再沟通。启发别人承认错误和下定决心。放下自己的自尊心。因为这个会阻碍我们向人低头，表达遗憾与歉意。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-28 23:16:53.033','2024-08-02 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
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<p>承认错误并不代表输了或是失败，而是让各种问题可以迎刃而解。</p>','2024-07-30 08:33:16.658','2024-08-02 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e210ce79-5b76-468e-8d4c-5c7182d33ebf','a409255c-64ed-4d2f-97da-9988630813b7','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">Day 33: 2/8/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">五）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - p.188~194</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">古希腊语的「敌人」（</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">enemy</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">）与「陌生人」（</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">stranger</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">）是同一个字「</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">xenos</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">」。从个人层次了敌对的一方，他们就不再是陌生人了。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">修補关系的六个重点</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">我们可能要向自己坦承，至少要为问题负起一部分责任。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">人们遭受重大伤害或羞辱后，会退缩並封闭自我。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">光是改变行为无法让我们走出牢笼，因为对方再也不相信我们了。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">唯一的解决方法通常是，向他们承认我们犯的錯，同时道歉並请求原谅。</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&mdash;&mdash;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">明确告诉对方我们做錯了什么，不附加任何藉口、解释或辩护。</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&hellip;&hellip;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">只是试着和解，但心里郤有所保留，（且认为对方也应该感到逃憾，）那么这个和解行为只是表象的、不真诚而且具有操弄性。</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&rdquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">象征性道歉</strong>］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">这个方法必须出于全胨的真诚，不是被当作操弄性工具來使用，只为了挽回关系。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">在多数情況下，还清最后一文鈛不仅可以帮助我们脫离对方的心灵牢笼，拥有新的机会与他人沟通，並影响他人，启发（並非强迫）別人承认錯误与下定决心。</span></p>','2024-08-01 01:14:39.111','2024-08-02 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01','2024-08-02 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
