INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('742c76e5-348c-432d-9297-fc0a1a52e40d','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 32 ：7月 2日 星期二&nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第六章 ： 跨出这三步，与人建立长远关系 （Page 171-175）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">三个部分的练习，除了避免落入工作狂与成功成功瘾的陷阱，所以须培养真正带来满足感的人际关系。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1）事先分配时间</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Marginal thinking , 每小時都以當下最理想的方式利用。作者每個月會找一個星期日下午，花一小時想像自己處於人生的盡頭，愛的人都在身旁。作者想著他們會對他說什麼。这也是往往考验当下是要培家人还是继续做工。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。做你的核心要务</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">做对方要的事情。不是方便自己。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3）聪明投资</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">把时间和金钱投资自己的脑袋和品行。做个有诚信的人。</span></p>','2024-07-01 21:06:00.476','2024-07-01 21:06:00.476',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 21:06:00.475',NULL,NULL);
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<p>核心的事就是所谓的大石头，把时间用在大石头上，成就感比较大。</p>','2024-07-01 21:22:08.586','2024-07-01 21:22:08.586',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 21:22:08.585',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8e644bb9-8a38-4ac4-8d3f-25db84d310cf','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>以重要的事情为首，而非紧急。不做表面功夫，了解什么自己的大石头。</p>
<p>品格永远是高效能的基础。</p>','2024-07-01 21:29:24.019','2024-07-01 21:29:24.019',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 21:29:24.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d1a56aa0-4d80-4fd9-9a7a-5451803c17af','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>一切都是最好的安排。</p>
<p>过往的经历，让自己不断的学习，修炼，与整合，造就一个更成熟的自己。</p>
<p>人活着就要&ldquo;感谢&rdquo;。</p>
<p>感恩不僅是人生幸福的重要元素，同時也是宇宙中最大的能量。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-07 02:26:25.49','2024-09-07 02:26:25.49',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 02:26:25.489',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1f973bb0-f9e4-4bfa-b8e9-68433126f811','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>1）事先分配时间 - 我想拥有更好的亲子关系，但是我一周都没有分配时间去陪伴孩子，那么这怎么能发生？</p>
<p>2）做你的核心要务 -&nbsp; 给对方想要的、需要的。 你的亲密伙伴到底想要的是什么？你知道吗？自己想要的是什么，对方知道吗？爱的五种语言：</p>
<ol>
<li>真心礼物 (Gift)：透過送礼物來表达爱</li>
<li>精心时刻 (Quality Time)：专属于爱人的陪伴时间</li>
<li>服务行动 (Acts of Service)：为对方做事情，比如帮忙分担家务、跑腿等</li>
<li>肯定言语 (Words of Affirmation) ： 说出正向和肯定的话语給对方听</li>
<li>身体接触 (Physical Touch)：以实际的肢体碰撞沟通彼此的爱</li>
</ol>
<p>3）聪明投资 - 为爱的人找出自己愿意为他做出的投资。例如作者告诉儿子：诚实、爱心与信念。</p>','2024-06-28 08:04:06.977','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6254233b-1e4e-4a5e-a8e5-3a08518a5596','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 2: 2/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">二）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.13~18</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">想要有一番作为，必要懂得排列人生的优先顺序。</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">谨记：</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「绝对不要让最重要的事，受制于无关紧要的事。」</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">首要的成就</span></strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">与品格有关，<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">次要的成就</strong>是外在的，如</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">人气、头銜、职位、名声、财富与荣誉。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">追求首要成就的人，心灵平靜、满足；追求次要成就的人则內心空虛。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">虽然人们多将力气放在追求次要成就，次要成就卻通常是尾隨著首要成就而來。</span></p>','2024-06-30 14:08:07.181','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d2f47dac-47e6-499a-86ca-f9ba43bdb794','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>跨出哪三步呢？事先分配时间，也就是确保每小时都以当下最理想的方式利用。第二就是做我们的核心要务，在这里有一个出名的商业典故叫Edsel Problem。当年福特汽车的管理层做了一些他们想要或需要的东西，而不是顾客或消费者想要或需要的东西。我们也可以解读成说我们必须给人想要或需要的东西，而不是看自己方便。第三就是聪明投资，如何聪明投资，投资在什么地方？作者就决定替他最爱的每一个人，写下三件事，接着反省自问自己是否协助了他们的人生，达成那些事。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 00:36:02.438','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c6a36def-3234-49e7-a9ef-9a7c44d2652d','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','51d2b0ec-c275-4372-b27e-2aefff3833d3','<p>这3个练习犹如 &ldquo;以终爲始&rdquo; 的概念，拟定自己的人生目标，而做好规划：</p>
<p>1）事先分配时间</p>
<p>2）做核心要务</p>
<p>3）聪明投资</p>','2024-07-01 00:53:10.984','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('276de3d1-96d1-4460-9182-a854792168f4','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','51d2b0ec-c275-4372-b27e-2aefff3833d3','<p>往内心寻求，认识自己，获得解脱。</p>','2024-07-02 01:26:15.92','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f950d952-9588-4bdd-be76-6a3a8512b55c','de62930f-49c3-4fc3-8239-0f97999e3c08','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>Cto B 是为了减少库存因长鞭效应<br>推出了客制化，让消费直接更厂家定了需求</p>','2024-09-30 05:58:47.326','2024-09-30 05:58:47.326',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-30 05:58:47.325',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('caf76146-17c8-42f2-b634-076775eb5bf8','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>拥有 良好品格/的人, 內心是富足的, 能夠獲得更高的成功率, 因為假如以內在的成功為基礎, 那是獲得幸福的泉源. 而一味追求外在的成功&nbsp; , 获取的快樂都是非常有限.</p>','2024-07-01 09:05:16.108','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4a1cb51a-9081-47ec-a925-38ded53c6ed7','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>铁達尼号的悲剧，提醒了我们：绝对不要让最重要的事，受制于无关紧要的事。</p>
<p>首要的成就是內在的，与品格有关。</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">次要的成就是外在的。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">品格比其他的一切更能代表我们。</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-28 09:02:49.414','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('71a65e72-631a-40d0-9163-c418dfaab8a1','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','9ec019e3-2781-4206-be53-c483ae61a027','<p>每一天都要活得像这是你人生中的最后一天。这样我们才会更加珍惜，好好利用时间。</p>
<p>如何培养真正能带来满足感的人际关系，需开始做以下的三个练习。</p>
<p>（一）事前分配时间，分配好培养关系的时间。</p>
<p>（二）做你的核心要务。定期列出需要加强关系的名单，再列出他们需要我提供哪些只有我能提供的事。</p>
<p>（三）聪明投资。替最爱的每一个人，写下三件事，协助他们在人生中达成。</p>','2024-07-01 09:14:53.965','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('232502d7-b091-4467-8422-716c7a453592','eacca2d3-609f-4e0d-8fcb-57d9b25c9fe4','2873165e-9cfb-4c47-b7a9-c94e7f96e55d','<p>I strongly agree on point number 18 "Sell on emotion &amp; dreams" as as a furniture retailer, our focus is on how our furniture can compliment our customer existing lifestyle and enhance their user experience instead of other physical related matter.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 12:19:59.272','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('21293ae6-7948-479b-9a08-afb806a224a9','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>把时间分配好，建立情感帐号。</p>
<p>然后专注于自己要做的&ldquo;大石头&rdquo;。</p>
<p>投资于自己是人生最重要的事。</p>','2024-07-01 13:45:01.435','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b6fd7551-2a58-4212-8e55-0777aea51fb1','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>深知美德与品格对一个人的重要性，于是更注重孩子的行为品德多于学业成绩。但对于青春期的孩子，育儿教养的过程中在不同的阶段面对着种种挑战。希望透过本书学习一二，了解更多。</p>','2024-07-01 13:59:53.473','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9290e442-c1d6-4fe9-8490-89ca1f23d888','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>是日已过，如少水鱼。</p>
<p>要好好珍惜每一天。</p>
<p>良好的人生方法，三部曲的练习。</p>
<p>1.事先分配时间，每小时都以当下最理想的方式利用。</p>
<p>2.做你的核心要务，做销售就是要卖顾客喜欢的东西，不是卖自己喜欢的东西。爱的关系是互惠互利的，必须给人想要的东西，不是迁就自己的方便。</p>
<p>&nbsp;3.聪明投资。投资如何成为最好的人，要点诚实、爱心、信念。</p>','2024-07-01 15:12:05.977','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4d05dece-8955-4fbf-a0a8-9600ed96b8d4','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>你还有多少次的感恩节？</p>
<p>这一问是提醒我们要珍惜在特定时间发生、一生难得有几次的难忘活动,劝大家要活得像是你人生中的最后一天,不可误以为自己有无限的时间,一直要到没时间了才后悔莫及</p>','2024-07-01 15:36:00.231','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('45748af1-0112-4261-b929-b46c2a3a0716','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>在追求成功的过程中，不要忘记自己的本质和内心的需求，而是寻求一种平衡的、全面的成功。</p>','2024-07-01 15:52:31.134','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('14b74a18-9e2d-46d0-9d13-65f678442d24','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>误以为自己时间是无限，结果蹉跎、浪费了不少，每次都到时间所剩不多才来懊悔</li>
<li>分配好时间，除了工作，还有哪些事或人是需要我们投入心思</li>
<li>定期列出需要加强关系的名单，并列出他们需要我提供哪些是只有我可以提供的事</li>
<li>列出可以帮助身边人成长，变成更好的人可做的事</li>
</ul>','2024-07-02 01:02:12.89','2024-07-02 01:02:12.89',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 01:02:12.888',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('38f2a8c2-7fde-426a-adaf-d73d85e56fe5','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>往往我们把事情重要性给颠倒了，忘记了优先顺序这回事。内在的品格比外在的名声来得重要。拥有良好的品格是扎根，随之外在的自然能成就个人。</p>','2024-07-02 01:06:37.631','2024-07-02 01:06:37.631',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 01:06:37.63',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3a79fc04-6ba2-4309-8dc9-b18bac55ab03','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day8：8月 25日 《活学》Part 1 人生最重要的事<br>第二章： 可以不一样1.半成品人生 &ndash; 3. 执念既地狱（Page054-059）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>觉知，接受，臣服<br>三者缺一不可<br>缺一活出半成品</p>
<p>人生只有一件事，就是活好<br>发生的都是好事，遇到的都是好人</p>
<p>执念即地狱<br>有人乱想开始，引发计较，人人拿起自己的一把尺，算自己的一本帐，损益从此不可能平衡。</p>
<p>人到底要让什么？难道不是让出自己的执念？因为它是一切对立相的源头，才可能重建人与人的连结，谁先做？除了自己还有谁？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Day9：8月 26日 《活学》Part 1 人生最重要的事<br>第二章： 可以不一样4. 管好念头 &ndash; 6. 放下评判心（Page060-065）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>人生重复最多次不是吸吸而是念头。管好念头。<br>想办法看见自己在想什么，是真正重要的好习惯。</p>
<p>找回真心，置心一处，就能启用；置于向处，且问初衷。这让我想到了问心无愧。</p>
<p><br>放下评判心，接受自己，接受别人，臣服当下，活在当下</p>','2024-08-26 15:37:23.623','2024-08-26 15:37:23.623',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 15:37:23.622',NULL,NULL);
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<li>最重要的事，是一直重复发生的事。（那些本来习以为常甚至不知觉的事情）</li>
<li>充实度过每一天，全力以赴每一项工作，就会迎来美好，大概是个 宇宙和人类的约定</li>
</ol>','2024-08-26 15:44:26.814','2024-08-26 15:44:26.814',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 15:44:26.813',NULL,NULL);
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<p>感謝是宇宙的大能量，感恩身邊的一切人事物，是人生解脫和突破的枷鎖，也是必修的功課。</p>','2024-09-07 03:03:19.326','2024-09-07 03:03:19.326',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 03:03:19.325',NULL,NULL);
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<li>事先分配时间：重要的关系。</li>
<li>做你的核心要务：对重要的关系做自己最擅长/只有自己能办到的事。</li>
<li>聪明投资：实现自我/帮组重要关系实现人生最重要的三件事。</li>
</ol>','2024-07-02 01:26:53.878','2024-07-02 01:26:53.878',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 01:26:53.877',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">作者用《你要如何衡量你的人生？》书里的内容整理出三个部分的练习。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。事先分配时间</span></p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">每个月找一个星期日的下午，花一小时想象自己处于人生的尽头，爱的人都在身旁。我想着他们对我说什么。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">然后回到当下，思考要如何分配接下来几星期的时间。我要如何运用本周的时间培养关系，好让临终时，刚才想象的事会成真？我可能会决定准时下班，把工作留在办公室，回家吃饭，饭后和家人看部电影。</span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。做你的核心要务</span></p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">我们必须给家人朋友想要与需要的东西，而不是自己方便或想要的。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">定期列出我需要加强关系的名单，然后在旁边列出他们需要我提供那些只有我能做的。</span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3。聪明投资</span></p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">替最爱的人的人生里需要做到哪三个品行，然后协助他们。</span></li>
</ul>','2024-07-02 01:27:28.852','2024-07-02 01:27:28.852',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 01:27:28.851',NULL,NULL);
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<p>1.事先分配时间<br>最后一天他们会对我说什么，<br>分配每周的时间培养关系，临终前，希望成真</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>2.做你核心的要务<br>我要给他人想要和需要的，不是我想给的，只有我能提供的</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>3.聪明投资<br>培养品德，写下三项，</p>','2024-07-02 01:47:48.034','2024-07-02 01:48:09.628',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 01:48:09.627',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c15bd3d6-d032-47b4-b80f-df8f16c64959','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>如何衡量你的人生？可以做三部分的练习。</p>
<p>1.事先分配时间</p>
<p>尽量每个星期花一小时的时间和家人在一起。或者准时下班，把工作留在办公室，回家吃晚饭，饭后和家人一起看电影或什么的都行。</p>
<p>2.做你核心要务</p>
<p>列出需要加强关系的名单。</p>
<p>3聪明投资</p>
<p>替最爱的人写下三件事，协助他们达成那些事。</p>','2024-07-02 02:13:13.768','2024-07-02 02:13:13.768',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 02:13:13.767',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ad56086c-e9d5-42b5-a281-d36a81b90b0f','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>管理好自己的念头，并以此为基础发愿去利益众生，那么他就是在实践一种高尚的目标和精神。一切自身的心念出发。</p>','2024-08-26 15:57:34.97','2024-08-26 15:57:34.97',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 15:57:34.969',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1f5c5c9f-0260-4376-ba3f-67028ca6627f','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','9070d9da-6428-4328-8983-4c4a65d0a468','<p>培养满足感的人际关系三要素：</p>
<ol>
<li>分配时间给最爱的人。</li>
<li>帮助他们完成核心任务。</li>
<li>投资培养他们的优秀品行。</li>
</ol>','2024-07-02 03:19:51.265','2024-07-02 03:19:51.265',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 03:19:51.264',NULL,NULL);
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<p>以下练习，除了避免落入工作狂与成功瘾的陷阱，也开始培养真正能带来满足感的人际关系：</p>
<p>1.事先分配时间。确保每小时都以当下最理想的方式使用。</p>
<p>2.做自己的核心要务。爱的关系不是阶层制，而是互惠制；必须给人想要与需要的东西，而不是看自己方便。</p>
<p>3.聪明投资。协助身边的人在人生中达成那些事，助他们一臂之力。</p>','2024-07-02 03:53:07.743','2024-07-02 03:53:07.743',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 03:53:07.742',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ed3dbaa3-2e2a-4531-bfff-81969a141cd9','a23c7b3f-a790-47ec-8808-c53feb120d20','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>读万卷书，不如行万里路；</p>
<p>行万里路，不如阅人无數；</p>
<p>阅人无数，不如高手指路。</p>
<p>高手指路，身轻如燕。</p>','2024-09-07 03:33:55.671','2024-09-08 03:41:45.383',NULL,'f','2024-09-08 00:00:00.021','2024-09-08 03:41:45.382',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e7c8c82f-3ba0-4f0a-97f7-1ae686257fbd','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','51d2b0ec-c275-4372-b27e-2aefff3833d3','<p>还有机会宗教信仰的寄托和辅助，是值得去接触和领会。</p>','2024-07-02 01:38:53.583','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0e9672b5-c070-43c5-918b-1c9648f1a15f','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>探究私密生活最棒的好处：拥有决定权，拥有决定自己要什么的能力。</p>
<p>唯有决定自己的目的，才算是真正开始生活。</p>
<p>目的与动机是我们深层渴望的根源，它創造了我们所有的一切。</p>
<p>当我学会了积极主动的態度探索私密生活，就启动了自我觉察、想像力与良知，同时开始练习运用自由意志，选择自己的目地。</p>','2024-07-02 04:09:43.323','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5331c359-dec1-4309-b872-c0b6293dc208','d318d0b8-590e-401c-a41c-a61489536fa9','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>真正的幸福就是要让生命更高贵，格局要打开。工作时，把公司标准放第一位，围绕服务他人（员工与客户）的原则，要引导所有员工参与公司的策划与发展计划，同时发挥自己的智慧，让大家舒服、开心的工作。</p>','2024-09-15 04:56:40.576','2024-09-15 04:56:40.576',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 04:56:40.575',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('206e89cd-4d8d-4bab-b034-57051256717e','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>能带人转化心性、走出逆境的,只有三种&ldquo;心&rdquo;：惭愧心、慈悲心和感恩心,这三颗心,用大白话说就不过是：对不起、我爱你、谢谢你,如此而已</p>
<p>自己庆幸有做到这一点,会时常对家人、朋友说对不起、我爱你、谢谢你</p>','2024-08-26 16:00:35.445','2024-08-27 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b7532f61-831e-47e8-bdd4-36e5ee7cf450','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「做你的核心要務」这个最重要</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 05:04:57.944','2024-07-02 05:04:57.944',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 05:04:57.943',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f5d740da-b1a8-4dd0-a042-b124d6c3f8d9','a4e05cbf-f836-4ea8-8fe9-e8be7e5a66fb','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>营销的漏斗公式是：</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">销售 = 流量 x 转化率 x 客单价 x 复购率</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-07 07:13:37.238','2024-09-07 07:13:37.238',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 07:13:37.238',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 05:36:15.091','2024-07-08 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
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<div>如何启动良好人生的方法；</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>1，分配时间：</div>
<div>花时间给自己珍惜的人和珍惜自己的亲人。</div>
<div>2，做你的核心要务：</div>
<div>给人信心，给人希望，给人欢喜，给人方便</div>
<div>3，聪明投资：</div>
<div>奉献、栽培、引导和传承。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>以免怠慢，要持有每天都是人生中最后一天的观念。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>','2024-07-02 12:17:26.244','2024-07-02 12:17:26.244',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 12:17:26.243',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第八章： 领导的修炼3. 事上练心 &ndash; 5. 归零即突破（Page242-247）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一颗真心，自然让人想跟他在一起，领袖气质就出来了。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">《孙子兵法》把这个五个道练好！道、天、地、将、法。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">先把心拉在一起，上有政策，下有对策，没有同心，家/组织/公司/国家都没有进步。格局、肚量不僅是修出来，而且是&rdquo;让&rdquo;出来。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">要成为领袖，不修没办法，千万别捨本逐末。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">这句话的意思是在成为领袖的过程中，必须注重内在的修炼与成长。如果忽略了内在的修为，而只追求外在的成功或表面功夫，那么很容易迷失方向，做一些表面看起来重要但其实并不关键的事情，等于是本末倒置。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&ldquo;修&rdquo;：指的是内在修炼，包括品德、心态、智慧等方面的提升。成为领袖不仅仅是拥有外在的权力和影响力，更重要的是内在的素养和胸怀。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&ldquo;捨本逐末&rdquo;：意思是舍弃根本、追求次要的事情。如果一个人过分关注表面成就或短期利益，而忽视内在成长和长期发展，就会失去方向和根基。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">因此，这句话强调，要成为真正的领袖，必须首先注重自我修炼，而不是急功近利或追求表面的东西。</span></p>','2024-09-25 15:45:41.068','2024-09-25 15:45:41.068',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:45:41.067',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 05:10:08.819','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>从外转至内</p>
<p>从第二曲线用爱出发，建立关系，分享智慧</p>','2024-07-03 14:29:11.291','2024-07-03 14:29:17.094',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 14:29:17.093',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 05:18:31.959','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">三种有利于自我肯定的练习：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">运用放松技巧种下肯定的种子&mdash;&mdash;进入阿发波状态下，植入肯定的意念，重新设定大脑／潜意识。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">运用重复性确保目标顺利达成&mdash;&mdash;重复在放松的状态下，做意象式的冥想，一再体验你想达到的目标。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">运用想像力与视觉意象，看见改变成真&mdash;&mdash;意象式冥想愈生动、愈具体，实现目标的动力就愈強。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">增強自我肯定的建议：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">试著透过写日记，來追踪自己朝向首要成就迈进的进度。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">日记里，自我问答如下的问题：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .5in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo2;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">a.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">你在哪些方面为了追求次要成就，牺牲了首要成就？</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .5in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo2;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">b.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">自问：</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">我认为什么才是对的？我坚信的道德信念是什么？我该怎么过我的一生？</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&rdquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">写下你对自己的探索。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">你需要改变哪些人生目标？写下你最有意义的人生目标，以及你打算如何实现这些目标？</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">试著写出一个好的自我肯定宣言。先写出你以往告诉自己的人生剧本，然后改写这剧本。你想肯定自己的哪个部分？你有哪些优点或过人之处？你能做出哪些有益的贡献？</span></p>','2024-07-02 05:14:47.774','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d67919ea-b4a1-4501-9e50-5e21bd3c391c','427944ca-335d-4f0b-b95a-8f4a5bfbf25c','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>公開坦承，但維持信仰，相信愛的力量，繼續服務他人。<br>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 衰退雖然痛苦，但那是必經的路，</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 05:41:36.187','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('25dc1b48-3ea6-4beb-b994-f55c678ba849','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','e92fa812-5847-46d0-9a60-632ef6e84ced','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">什么是良好人生的方法。可以用三个练习开始。</span></p>
<ol class="ol1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">分配时间：花时间给自己身边亲密的人</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">做你的核心要务：给身边亲密的人提供哪些只有我能做的事。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">聪明投资：协助我爱的人在人生中达成哪些事。</span></li>
</ol>','2024-07-02 05:34:48.089','2024-07-02 05:34:48.089',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 05:34:48.088',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 05:32:27.828','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 05:44:54.661','2024-07-08 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('503db5d5-7a20-4235-b058-6d3453c55eb3','baeb96f7-bad8-4ca9-892f-59dbea86575d','ebc94826-5eca-4369-a4c8-7941d6ce1957','<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">事上练心- 领袖之道，修心为重。领袖的样子会随着环境、时间、地点和遇到的人而有所不同，而一个领导者是需要随着这些因素改变，并担当起责任，自然的就是一个好领袖。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">权力与力量-放下权利，扩展力量，与人连接，方能发挥好领导的作用。事事以权为名，不得人心，凡事先向自己的内心关照，以自己的力量赋予别人力量，则能事半功倍。</span></li>
</ul>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">归零即突破-时时都要以空杯状态去面对新事物，方能不带负担地去面对一切。很多时候，我们带着过往的经验去办事，反而不能正常发挥，毕竟，时过境迁，不是每一件事都可以用同一个方法去处理的。</span></li>
</ul>','2024-09-23 11:48:12.55','2024-09-25 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-09-25 00:00:00.003','2024-09-25 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8895f789-f53c-4f24-a3d2-f1a5fe11f495','baeb96f7-bad8-4ca9-892f-59dbea86575d','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>归零，是让过去不成为负担，而是滋养。</p>
<p>把过往的辉煌灿烂放下，也是人生的智慧。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>只要有一颗真心，都能成为好领导。做好一个领导没有脚本没有秘籍，而是不断从事上去修心。肚量与格局奠定了领导的威信。</p>','2024-09-25 15:49:40.377','2024-09-25 15:49:40.377',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:49:40.376',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5d60bffd-5a9d-4ed1-bffa-26785aa5dadb','e4648b91-0e1e-47c6-a0cb-06f7abb5b725','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>心念转变,思想、语言、行为、习惯、个性,假以时日,皆依序转变,最后连&ldquo;运和命&rdquo;都能改.</p>','2024-08-26 16:12:36.7','2024-08-28 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-08-28 00:00:00.005','2024-08-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('75dadfeb-8fda-4659-a7b1-59614cc0c932','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','fd00afa6-39f6-4b3c-95b4-4d413e535fb9','<p>1.一切都是最好的安排, 是事情发生后的觉悟，是接受现实后的领悟，是跌倒爬起来后的恍然大悟。</p>
<p>2. 想到让我过不去的人，再说感谢他/她的话后，感觉好像真的有点释然。多说感谢的话相信会活得更轻松自在。</p>','2024-09-07 07:48:18.027','2024-09-07 07:48:25.001',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 07:48:25.001',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fcb19569-c04c-4925-9fd7-36142520664e','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>&ldquo;听话&rdquo;是需要功夫的，可不能在听别人说的时候，自己心不在焉，假装听，肚子里的意见一大堆。要学会用心倾听，练习不插嘴、不妄断、不心不在焉。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&ldquo;爱说话&rdquo;和&ldquo;会说话&rdquo;不同。爱说话是越说越兴奋，不顾及对方的感受。要学会别人不问就不轻易说，必需说就只说几句，而且要把心放在对方上面，留给他一些空间让他明白我们想表达什么，并且要确保我们说的话都是我们正在做的事。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>赞美也很重要，因为它能给对方带来温暖与支持，也能让我们发现对方的优点，往正面的方向想。</p>','2024-09-15 05:04:16.561','2024-09-15 05:06:01.018',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 05:06:01.017',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cc802969-2e20-437b-8a99-85cd0a3d3fbf','5da7e621-68d1-4f28-9636-630c86d9d4e5','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day33：9月19 日 《活学》Part3&nbsp; 跟人在一起</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第七章： 职场的修炼 &nbsp;1. 发愤忘食 乐以忘忧 &ndash; 3. 离苦得乐的药方（Page204-209）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">发怒忘食，乐以忘忧</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">甘愿受，欢喜做，才是一项重要的人生修炼</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人要能欢喜做，关键是重新定义自己的工作内涵，从中找到对自己和他人的意义所在。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">念头对了，感受就出来</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">心真事实，愿广行深</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">生命品质不在于成功，民就不在于光鲜亮丽，也不在于品味讲究，而在于真事实、愿广行深。只有新增运管人生才算没错过人才算何处的自己的好样子。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">心越用越真，愿越行越广。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">离苦得乐的药方</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原来苦不来自外在环境中的人事物，只来自内在的妄想和执着，能被自己的妄想和执着绑架，无法如实现因外在世界的无常，苦就是这样来的。要从苦中解脱，看来只能往自己的内在找答案，先从市里抽离，回到内在跟自己在一起，再从念头中抽离，找到那个更真实的自己。</span></p>','2024-09-19 14:43:32.842','2024-09-19 14:43:32.842',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 14:43:32.841',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dd0c3aaf-0859-45b2-b3af-99fff1912fd3','c176d961-5acb-4135-aede-d960ce4b556c','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 43：9月26日《新零售狂潮》第四章：短路经济：环节愈短，效率愈高</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">用鱼塘构建C2C（Page217-223）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">C2b2B2b2C变成C2C</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">只要C2C的链条更短、效率更高。要注入更多的社交属性。在人多地方如校园、住宅区、办公园区建设社区。</span></p>','2024-09-25 16:01:37.007','2024-09-26 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-09-26 00:00:00.006','2024-09-26 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b313f376-4140-4672-bee8-547e14551af1','3bd16092-efcd-4fc4-aa79-9b38ac2d4a46','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>企业文化是企业的灵魂，它决定了企业成员的行为方式和思维模式。领导者的任务不仅是制定规章制度，更要让企业文化在团队中生根发芽。文化的力量在于它能够改变人的性格和行为，形成一种自然而然的规范，而不是外部的强制。文化生根的过程，是通过长期的坚持和领导者的榜样作用，让企业的价值观内化为每个成员的行为准则。一个真正强大的企业，不是靠制度来约束人，而是靠文化来引导人。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-16 11:22:48.407','2024-10-01 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-10-01 00:00:00.007','2024-10-01 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d3833401-9e4d-41fb-8b22-33778fd5fdc8','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p><br>7. 逆境的三句【咒语】</p>
<p>&ldquo;对不起，（原谅我），谢谢你，我爱你。</p>
<p>修炼惭愧心、慈悲心、感恩心。</p>
<p>8. 【叫停】的机制</p>
<p>&ldquo;踩刹车&rdquo;、&ldquo;停损点&rdquo;。是为了调整状态，停止让事情继续恶化、专牛角尖。公司开会、家庭关系都需要有这个机制。</p>
<p>9. 【爱自己】的方式</p>
<p>找到方向（为什么而活、为什么而做），以助人（服务大众）的（爱）心，帮助别人的生活更加美好，心里会很充实，生活变得有意义。</p>','2024-08-26 23:53:58.026','2024-08-26 23:53:58.026',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 23:53:58.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('32aa3976-e0db-4071-a7a0-dc8bfb795aff','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','a1b3cb7c-f3c4-4ffb-82dc-fe72e7a3628c','<p>活到人生下半場，要活得像這是人生中的最後一天，活出內心的滿足感。如何培養真正能帶來滿足感的人際關係？</p>
<p>一、 事先分配事間</p>
<p>分配時間給所愛的人以維持健康人際關係</p>
<p>二、做你的核心要務</p>
<p>專注為心愛的人， 身邊的人，顧客給與實際的幫助和服務。</p>
<p>三、 聰明投資</p>
<p>用愛心和真誠培養平行優秀孩子，助他們成功。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 06:20:10.257','2024-07-02 06:20:10.257',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 06:20:10.256',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5def106c-2ff3-4250-adad-7e735a2a93c7','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>人这一生，最常做的事就是&lsquo;等&rsquo;，等来等去，到最后等到的是&lsquo;遗憾&rsquo;。为了避免犯这种過錯，還是要事先分配時間给家人，不要一味只想到工作。</p>
<p>依計劃去實踐应该做的事，而不是只是空談。</p>
<p>培養孩子有優秀的品行，要诚實， 有爰心与信念。</p>','2024-07-02 06:52:00.254','2024-07-02 06:54:17.11',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 06:54:17.109',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d59bd93d-7b24-4d20-ba37-7762d4678fb5','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>避免落入工作狂与成功隐的陷阱，开始培养真正能带来满足感的人际关系的3部分联系：</p>
<p>1.事先分配时间</p>
<p>2.做你的核心要务</p>
<p>3.聪明投资</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 07:00:00.812','2024-07-02 07:00:57.279',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 07:00:57.278',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f8d8c171-3666-4abe-9417-d188f2e3a9f8','892a8813-7a5b-49d6-bfdc-f153249b9364','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>正面的情绪產生正能量，正面的影响。</p>
<p>爱、希望、信念、大笑、信心和求生意志让卡森斯病情好转。</p>
<p>求生意志力与想像的力量，能够釋放体内的强大自癒力。</p>','2024-07-02 06:50:10.769','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9547d43f-6865-41a8-b9c3-b66d149d2f1f','3b2990e1-0c0e-47de-892b-6be51ad350d0','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>原来想像力的力量这么强大。</p>
<p>太多时侯我们总想着过去，太过倚赖回憶，太爱想当年，卻太少运用想像力，花太少时间想像其他的可能性，就像开车只盯着后视镜看一样。</p>','2024-07-02 07:08:39.983','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('488e6aa2-fdce-46aa-b606-9aeeb7d2d04e','8339f16e-03cd-4d3a-9230-ce25708648b7','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>你必須發揮耐心以培育穩健的品格，從零開始，每天遵循有效的原則一點一點進步的人，會逐漸擁有愈來愈強大的影響力，然後成為良好品格的典範，最後成為他人的精神導師與老師。他們成為變革推手與轉化動力，為自己的家庭、組織或社群，打破負面行為的循環。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 05:47:52.784','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ba641b4d-99fe-4f34-880b-4c5cb0fba8a2','8339f16e-03cd-4d3a-9230-ce25708648b7','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 9: 9/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">二）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.52~56</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">将品格视为获得长远成功的关键因素，成效虽然缓慢，影响卻深远。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">那些为了短期效果而不择手段者，终究是只能自食惡果；技巧无法勝过品格。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">要善于从他人的回馈中知悉自己在待人处事上予人的品行感觉，从而知道自己需要在品格培养方面如何下功夫；特別是那些利害关系人的回馈。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">荣格认为，人类要发展到晚年阶段，才能达到个体化（</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">individuation</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">），也就是人类个性的彻底整合。人类必须经历不同的个体化阶段。&mdash;&mdash;譬如</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">孔子说的：而学，而立，不惑，天命，顺，不逾矩。</span></p>','2024-07-02 08:21:27.769','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
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<p>无法在多重角色之间取得平衡-你不可能一方面忽略家人，每天工作十八小时，另一方面又期待拥有幸福的家庭生活，这是不可能的。人生是无法分割的整体。解决方法：第一坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态，但从长远的观点看待情况。</p>','2024-07-02 07:04:13.83','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
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<li>通常喊累的时候是因为心累不想努力了所以负能量发射就会觉得自己很累。但如果不言累继续发功努力，能把潜力发挥出来，不只不会觉得累还会觉得热血沸腾冲劲十足，无论日常或工作都能把事做好。</li>
<li>努力很重要但如果把努力用在错的地方显然就会把事做得没那么好，那就是为什么有清晰目标更重要，而设立清晰正确的目标靠的就是智慧。智慧可以是天赋也可以是学习得来，但也如作者所说，天生有的智慧如果不学也等于没有。而学习智慧，最直接很最快的方式，就是高手指路。多阅读多思考接近的巨人越多，成功之路有高手指路就不会迷路。</li>
</ol>','2024-09-07 08:10:42.09','2024-09-08 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-09-08 00:00:00.021','2024-09-08 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
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<p>苦，是因为执念。禅修，诵经都是让人心定神闲的方法，从执念中学会放下。</p>','2024-09-19 14:55:03.735','2024-09-19 14:55:03.735',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 14:55:03.735',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9571275d-5a3c-41a3-9da9-ae6e74d5101a','baeb96f7-bad8-4ca9-892f-59dbea86575d','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>归零是一种放下，</p>
<p>让身上不要有那么多的包袱，</p>
<p>这样才可以继续往前行走更长远的路途。</p>','2024-09-25 15:55:21.274','2024-09-25 15:55:21.274',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:55:21.273',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-23 08:54:26.482','2024-08-27 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cc885ef7-bb75-4a6a-9f8c-a774092fc927','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>人们常做一些没有意义且无关紧要的小事，而不去做真正重要的事。</p>
<p>专注于自己的首要成就，次要成就将会尾随首要成就而来的。</p>','2024-07-02 08:31:08.209','2024-07-02 08:31:08.209',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 08:31:08.208',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2411cdbb-ea3b-478f-bf5f-d704ff201d18','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 32 ：7月2日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 跨出这三步，与人建立长远关系 （Page 171-175）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>在这一刻当读到你还剩下多少次的感恩节？瞬时让我静下来思考，这一生难得有几次难忘又珍贵的活动值得我去珍惜。</p>
<p>从这一课题跨出这三步，与人建立长远关，我开始学习为了避免落入工作狂与成功隐到陷阱，必须开始培养真正能带来的满足感的人际关系。第一要事，事先分配时间，要事第一。第二做核心要务。我们在人际关系中可能多年没去练习爱人的能力。爱的关系不是阶层制，而是互惠制，你必须给人想要与需要的东西，而不是看自己的方便。第三聪明的投资。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 09:29:16.69','2024-07-02 09:29:16.69',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 09:29:16.689',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('225eee8a-c782-45f0-8cfd-41b230e8dae6','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>追求首要成就的人，可获得心灵的平静与满足，这是内心空虚，追求次要成就的人无法得到的</p>','2024-07-02 09:53:23.107','2024-07-02 09:53:23.107',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 09:53:23.106',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('397d389f-f512-4427-bc4d-011768cadb36','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>每个人每一天都有二十四个小时，有的人觉得时间不够用但有的人却觉得时间过得很慢。</p>
<p>人需要清楚自己的角色和位置，如果时间只给了工作就会对家人疏忽或让自己没了娱乐。</p>
<p>如果把时间分配好就能充沛的处理工作也能给与家人陪伴或娱乐。</p>','2024-07-02 10:14:38.945','2024-07-02 10:14:38.945',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 10:14:38.945',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8f4b242c-9f49-4a95-a1d4-2f0c53b67ac4','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<p>人生里有许许多多的是等待我们</p>
<p>也有等不到的</p>
<p>7habbit 里的四项格！把时间规划好来</p>
<p>不要错过了在后悔</p>','2024-07-02 11:30:12.324','2024-07-02 11:30:12.324',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 11:30:12.323',NULL,NULL);
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<p>与其使命抵抗职涯衰退的趋势，不如抓住美好的机会，走向喜悦的泉源，懂得爱人与被爱，从第一曲线转换到第二曲线。</p>','2024-07-02 09:12:09.326','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('77860b3d-9d39-4221-8720-abe9bf144d25','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>品格是成功重要的因素，它就像&ldquo;成功食谱&rdquo;里，必须要放的材料。无论是智商有多高，还是得需要品格来支撑，才能深入民心。</p>','2024-07-02 12:11:29.721','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a93fc1a0-0a64-40f7-af80-b541f8b02d17','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','0ba622c5-da0b-42e9-8968-0d6797029f3c','<p>放下功名利禄，重新调整人生目标，在&ldquo;林栖期&rdquo;阶段觅得智慧，藉此打败执着造成的痛苦。</p>','2024-07-02 09:21:18.156','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('252bffd7-b111-4c85-b93c-c80530166c26','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>人的生命的四個階段, 第一階段是学习的青春期.</p>
<p>第二階段是成家立業, 累積財富, 追名遂利, 永遠都無法滿足現況, 而感到疲累不基, 拼命追遂的高峰期</p>
<p>第三階段就是林樓期, 从高峰期走下, 此時就要學會重 振人生目標, 放下身份名利的追求, 開始遂步入人第二曲線, 淡泊名的名利.</p>
<p>來到人生最階段, 看淡名聞利祿, 開始遂步放下身上的枷鎖, 往內心探索, 認識自己, 當內心平靜后, 會發現內心里頭有一直等着自己的寶藏.</p>','2024-07-02 08:59:30.151','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3013d491-3e0a-4daa-9910-e64276a7c4f3','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>开始明白身外的一切, 不過是虛花假景, 它導致我們心灵上的空虛, 唯有把握當下, 珍惜僅有的生命, 透過信仰去尋求內在所需, 才能達到真正的快樂</p>','2024-07-02 09:10:57.623','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a3c9f2bf-3887-409e-8410-561b7f031a66','fe863a09-a43c-41df-8c10-cebc6a28d034','0ba622c5-da0b-42e9-8968-0d6797029f3c','<p>克服一路上的阻碍：<br>1. 保持开放的胸怀，接纳一切可能；<br>2. 向能者看齐；<br>3. 抽出时间进行冥想、祷告、阅读与修炼。</p>','2024-07-02 09:27:21.373','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1e01f11b-d61f-4e7e-8d23-e1b3b8085712','3b2990e1-0c0e-47de-892b-6be51ad350d0','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>我们花太多时间留恋过去，花太少时间想象其他的可能性。</p>','2024-07-02 12:36:34.989','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('10da29be-6e76-431b-bf9e-bdf5dd80f18d','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','fb3be631-8f71-4db1-adec-776df52da27c','<p>我们一定要安稳自已的心，不被外因影响心情，保持好状态，有时可以停一停再继续。</p>','2024-08-07 13:24:59.863','2024-08-27 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('63cbe2a7-0128-4081-8398-3a5f8db36250','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>修惭愧心（对不起）</p>
<p>修慈悲心 （我爱你）</p>
<p>修感恩心（谢谢你）</p>
<p>适当时,不时的叫停,给自己空间,不说话,不想.</p>
<p>爱自己不生气</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-27 00:02:51.989','2024-08-27 00:02:51.989',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 00:02:51.989',NULL,NULL);
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<p>是另一半、钱、家庭、工作、名利、娱乐、敌人/朋友、宗教或自己？&nbsp;</p>','2024-10-05 15:08:33.658','2024-10-05 15:08:33.658',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-10-05 15:08:33.657',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('367c4bc6-da3f-4bcc-859b-3d272687a950','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<ol>
<li>事先分配好时间 - 不做让自己身心疲惫的耗力行为</li>
<li>做我的核心要务 - 练习爱一个人</li>
<li>聪明的投资 - 投资于未来</li>
</ol>','2024-07-02 13:13:13.775','2024-07-02 13:13:13.775',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 13:13:13.774',NULL,NULL);
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<p>惭愧心 - 对不起</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">慈</span><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">悲心 - 我爱你</span></p>
<p>感恩心 - 谢谢你</p>
<p>感恩这世界带給我们的所有际遇。。！！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-27 00:08:27.225','2024-08-27 00:08:49.803',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 00:08:49.803',NULL,NULL);
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<p>如何更好的平衡人生？ 【加强人际关系】这主题下功夫</p>
<p>1）事先分配时间</p>
<p>2） 做你的核心要务</p>
<p>3）聪明投资</p>','2024-07-02 13:12:28.489','2024-07-02 13:13:31.607',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 13:13:31.606',NULL,NULL);
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<li>絕對不要讓最重要的事，受制於無關緊要的事</li>
<li>重視內在的品格和長遠的成就，而不是被表面的成功所迷惑。</li>
<li><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">真正的成功來自內在的品格和首要成就，而不是外在的次要成就</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">追求表象的成功可能帶來一時的榮耀，但無法提供持久的內心滿足和真正的幸福。</span></li>
</ul>','2024-07-02 13:19:45.683','2024-07-02 13:21:44.421',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 13:21:44.42',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">从前，虽然消费者需要货比三家很费时和费力，但也无法阻止他们去比较。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">但自从网络的崛起，只需要搜一搜，不同地方的价钱都出现了。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">那么因为资讯流的高效性，网路就可以取代线下传统零售了吗？答案是没有。中国在在2017年的线上零售额只占有15%。</span></p>','2024-08-27 00:13:21.547','2024-08-27 00:13:21.547',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 00:13:21.547',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9cbef030-8b07-44ac-bb58-ac676dfa6884','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>在有限的时间里，最重要的还会是虚无的名利吗？我们生命中最重要的人始终才是依归。分配时间和他们建立良好的关系，专心的为他们付出和做出一个良好的榜样，这才能让彼此的关系升华。</p>','2024-07-02 13:33:02.032','2024-07-02 13:33:02.032',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 13:33:02.032',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3d886a5e-ab0e-4965-9238-ef2758d51eb4','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>把重心放在重要的事情上，不要被别的东西影响</p>','2024-07-02 15:57:08.632','2024-07-02 15:57:08.632',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:57:08.631',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('161ee0eb-5d83-4b16-aa81-fdc7a078578d','a904e147-bc6a-4807-86ca-bfc40db264af','364a752e-ec1b-4e2b-ba8a-fc446c704627','<p>Other than putting SMILE all the time, I must write down consistent follow up scripts.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-03 14:31:56.398','2024-07-03 14:31:56.398',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 14:31:56.397',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('71d71e81-9ef7-4b68-a33b-215193c2f2eb','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>懂得爱与被爱，迈向第二曲线。</p>','2024-07-03 14:45:38.298','2024-07-03 14:45:38.298',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 14:45:38.297',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bf02eeab-4ff5-4d06-a6f6-c232cd605020','892a8813-7a5b-49d6-bfdc-f153249b9364','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>拥有健康的私密生活，第一关键是自我肯定。自我肯定不容易，因为人受到社会镜像影响非常大。人是活在群体里，大家都希望获得他人的认可。作者提出五大好的自我肯定的特征：1）以第一人称清楚表达自己， 2） 给以正面的肯定， 3）只谈现代式表达，不翻旧账或贩卖焦虑。 4） 具有视觉性，可看清楚的意象。不是想象的、虚构的。 5） 带有个人情感的去表达。我在表达的时刻和自己或对方是有连结的。</p>
<p>自我肯定，可以帮助人释放情绪。负面情绪是对身心有害。人类的心灵是随行药剂师。适当缓解负面情绪，获得正面情绪带来的影响，这是一种自我疗愈。</p>','2024-07-02 13:50:07.159','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0b07d658-3284-4464-b96a-0176bfb1a741','9fb1f442-8e2e-4672-8718-cf1fa7cebf0e','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 11: 11/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">四）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.62~66</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">雨果：改变你的看法，但坚守你的原则；让你的树叶隨季节变換，但让你的根穏穏扎在地底下。</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">以原则做为生活的中心，因为那些不证自明的原则永远主宰了我们的世界。若无法遵守原则而行，你的组织就会因为价值观扭曲而生病。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">这个世界存在著</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「普遍为真」、「永恒不变」、「不证自明」的真理／原则，这些原则不会因为时空的迁移而改变。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">科学与科技几乎改变了一切面貎，但主宰人类天性的基本法则恒常不变，不论时光如何流逝。</span></p>','2024-07-02 13:49:55.767','2024-07-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
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<li>一切都是最好的安排，不是指发生当时的那些事，而是指当事人透过不断修正和觉察后，募然回首时内心发出的那局：啊，原来如此！</li>
<li>感谢是宇宙中最大的能量，是人生解脱和突破的钥匙。人只有在感谢的状态下，才能真正得到，否则别人给得再多，也收不到。越感恩的人，得到越多。</li>
</ul>','2024-09-07 08:28:23.271','2024-09-07 08:29:01.924',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 08:29:01.923',NULL,NULL);
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<p>我也意识到，生活中我们常常追求成功，却忽视了内心的感受。成功的定义不应该只是外在的成就，而是内心的满足和与他人的连接。比如，有时候我在工作中太过于追求结果，反而忽略了团队的合作和沟通，导致了不必要的压力。</p>
<p>另外，放下过去的成功经验，重新开始也是一种智慧。就像我有个朋友，总是怀念过去的辉煌，结果在新的挑战中屡屡受挫。学会&ldquo;归零&rdquo;，让过去成为滋养，而不是负担，才能更好地面对未来的挑战。</p>','2024-09-25 15:56:18.781','2024-09-25 15:56:18.781',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:56:18.78',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dd80c62d-7c52-4161-8dfc-931a1339d1b7','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','0a08fea5-5f22-4ee8-a6b0-7c46e27899cf','<p>Day 32 ：7月2日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 跨出这三步，与人建立长远关系 （Page 171-175）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>①&nbsp;<strong>事先分配时间</strong></p>
<p>－思考要如何分配接下来几星期的时间。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>②&nbsp;<strong>做你的核心要务</strong></p>
<p>－爱的关系不是阶层制，而是互相绘制。必须给人想要与需要的东西，而不是只看方便自己的。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>③<strong> 聪明投资</strong></p>
<p>－诚实、爱心与信念。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>替自己最爱的人，写下三件事接着反省：是否协助他在人生中达成那些事？是否把时间、金钱、力气、情感、专长，用在培养优秀的品行？是否身体力行，替他做了示范？是否需要采取新策略，助他们一臂之力？</p>','2024-07-02 13:50:59.193','2024-07-02 13:51:50.861',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 13:51:50.86',NULL,NULL);
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<ol>
<li>秉持要是第一妥当分配时间在核心要务上并善用正念活在当下。</li>
<li>设定价值观、把资源投资在提升自己品格上。</li>
</ol>','2024-07-02 14:01:10.229','2024-07-02 14:01:10.229',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 14:01:10.229',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ad9c0f31-0435-4400-a1f6-9042e0abab35','9c0a5f1b-3482-4551-af97-14ef8563c2a8','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 12: 12/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">五）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.67~71</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">我们必要自觉地让自己的角色、目标、计划与行为，以原则为依归。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">那些按照自己的意思或社会期待建立价值体系，並且根据自己的价值观（而不是原则）发展出个人的使命与目标，往往成了我行我素的人，骄傲的独立行事。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">我们的自我觉知、良知、独立意志与创造性的想像力，区分了人类与动物的不同，同时帮助我们分辨现实与假象，使自己的人生与主宰生活品质的法则步调一致。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">自我觉知促使我们检视自己的思维模式，检视自己的想法，察觉社会为我们写的剧本，以及将刺激与反应明确分开。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">良知帮助我们觉察自己的行为或打算做的事是否违背正确的原则。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">独立意志指的是我们有能力做出反应，能够决定要做出什么反应的抉择能力。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">创造性的想像力是无限的，它关乎现在与未來，充满潛力、愿景、使命与目标，著眼于此刻之外，放眼所有的可能性。</span></p>','2024-07-02 14:05:48.528','2024-07-12 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
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<p>即使在线上完成的现金流流量发展的那么恐怖，中国过内在2017年的线上零售额为5.5兆，也才占了总额的百分之十五，未来发展的空间还很大。</p>','2024-08-27 00:25:25.079','2024-08-27 00:25:25.079',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 00:25:25.079',NULL,NULL);
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<p>坪效 = （人流量X购买率X客单价X回头率）/ 店铺平方面积</p>
<p>这两点都可以用来衡量人的业绩效率。</p>','2024-09-07 09:40:17.568','2024-09-07 09:40:17.568',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 09:40:17.567',NULL,NULL);
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<p>就算【对】，还是担【不起】，就算知道【对不起】还得有慈悲，有智慧，才能做到。</p>','2024-09-15 05:44:20.641','2024-09-17 00:00:00.031',NULL,'f','2024-09-17 00:00:00.03','2024-09-17 00:00:00.03',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">二手车市场的终极模式（Page223-226）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">二手车市场的终极模式-怎么样B和b的C2C短路终极模式。整个平台要建立在信任。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">信任有了，模式就离成功不远了。</span></p>','2024-09-25 16:09:28.53','2024-09-27 00:00:00.028',NULL,'f','2024-09-27 00:00:00.027','2024-09-27 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6d131b73-7d06-4e86-a58b-3ec5991a1776','290fa633-6870-4ef2-9cde-6a1ee2e397d3','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day 4 9月19日 (星期四）📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;<br>😇第一章 041页 - 045页<br>&nbsp;<br>读后感悟 ：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>要生活发生较小的变化，专注于自己的态度和行为。</p>
<p>要生活发生实质的变化，就要靠思维转变。</p>
<p>行为和态度是大树的枝叶，思维方式是大树的根基。</p>
<p>抓住了根，才能为生活带来实质的进展。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>原则:&nbsp;<br>* 是思维方式的中心<br>* 是不容动摇的自然法则<br>* 是人类行为的指南针<br>* 不是实践<br>* 不是价值观</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>看清事实是我们日常生活重要的一环。</p>
<p>"地铁"和"灯塔"的故事说明了原则法则和思维转换。</p>
<p>要正确而高效地生活，思维方式就要符合原则的自然法则。&nbsp;</p>
<p><br>🌹让我们一起在《7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯》里培养杰出的自己！</p>','2024-09-19 15:06:43.694','2024-09-19 15:35:33.566',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 15:35:33.565',NULL,NULL);
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<p>愿意是要用愿意换来的.</p>
<p>愿意只能用&ldquo;心&rdquo;,心是一股生命的能量,当它一旦启动,就生生不息的流动,产生一股共振的磁场.一个有愿力的人,他的心有强大的共振磁场,会转动周围的人,让他们的愿心一同启动,一个环境中,愿意的人越多,磁场共振越强,转动不愿意的力量越大---心能转境</p>','2024-09-29 14:20:13.488','2024-09-29 14:37:15.583',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-29 14:37:15.582',NULL,NULL);
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<p>想着我可以而不是如果</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-30 06:17:03.927','2024-09-30 06:17:03.927',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-30 06:17:03.926',NULL,NULL);
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<p>当自觉状态不好时，快快刹车，冷静一下，调好心态才再开机。</p>
<p>常对自己说要爱自己多一点，才能去爱别人。爱自己不是念头，而是结果。它是一个人用全然觉知和愿意，去经历人生的酸甜苦辣。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-27 01:31:45.204','2024-08-27 01:31:45.204',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 01:31:45.204',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d91b1ed3-ce31-46f3-b0bb-d40d002d9084','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 2 ：7月2日《成功哪有那么难》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">前言。成功的首要 - 追求表象的成功，逃避自己的本质（Page 13- 18）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人生的优先顺序不可以颠倒。把不重要的事情先做，那目标不可能达到。这一切跟自己原则是什么有关。作为人，何谓正确？简单和心理平静才是最重要。</span></p>','2024-07-02 14:18:30.732','2024-07-02 14:18:32.815',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 14:18:32.814',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8fc354e8-80b3-4e17-8c9a-aaaf2aac3f93','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>&nbsp;- 绝对不要让重要的事情，受制于无关紧要的事</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 次要成就通常会尾随首要成就而来，脚踏实地、按部就班的做事情，就算没飞黄腾达也可获得心灵上的平静与满足</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 若不以内在成功为根基，外在的功成名就还是一场空</p>','2024-07-02 14:18:48.798','2024-07-02 14:18:48.798',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 14:18:48.797',NULL,NULL);
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<ul>
<li>事先分配时间 -&nbsp;<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">思考要如何分配接下来未来幾個星期的時間.</span></li>
<li>做我的核心要務 -&nbsp;<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">爱的關係不是階層制，而是互相惠制。必須给人想要与需要的东西，而不是只看方便自己的.</span></li>
<li>聰明投資 -&nbsp;<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">誠實，愛心與信念.</span></li>
</ul>','2024-07-02 14:20:34.95','2024-07-02 14:20:34.95',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 14:20:34.95',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 14:23:17.514','2024-07-02 14:23:17.514',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 14:23:17.513',NULL,NULL);
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<p>【重启人生】</p>
<p>跨出这三步，与人建立长远关系</p>
<p>生命的最后一天的思考。</p>
<p>如何衡量自己的人生?</p>
<p>3个练习：</p>
<p>1️⃣事先分配时间</p>
<p>给自己和所爱的人相聚</p>
<p>2️⃣做你的核心要务</p>
<p>需要加强关系的名单，然后列出他们需要我提供哪些只有我能提供的事。</p>
<p>3️⃣聪明投资</p>
<p>人生最希望做到的事。</p>
<p>我最爱的每一个人，写下三件事，接着反省：是否把时间、力气、情感、专长、金钱，用在培养那些优秀的品行。身体力行，示范榜样。是否采取新的策略?助他们一臂之力。</p>','2024-07-02 14:33:49.625','2024-07-02 14:33:49.625',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 14:33:49.624',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f30d666b-89db-487a-94c7-034f5c9a4f83','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>&ldquo;重新排放铁达尼号上的躺椅&rdquo;是用来形容人们去做人生中没有意义或无足轻重的小事,而不去做真正重要的事.也就是倒置了人生的优先顺序</p>','2024-07-02 14:37:53.952','2024-07-02 14:37:53.952',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 14:37:53.951',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c898d728-6d03-4ed8-928d-7e481069482e','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>我们是否重视表象的成功而倒置人生的优先顺序？这里也提到成功的人生是不在乎物质回报，以责任、荣誉、正直、坚忍、自我牺牲和服务为主轴的人生。</p>','2024-07-02 14:43:16.436','2024-07-02 14:43:16.436',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 14:43:16.435',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('753f11e7-000d-4a2a-ac99-cd2ff3afa019','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>成功，不是外在的名位，成功是回到内心本质里头那些可贵的情操&mdash;&mdash;诚实、真诚、爱、尊重等。<br>外在的成功是虚妄的，不长久的；但正面的品格可以让成功更为永恒，那才是大家认同的。</p>','2024-07-02 14:43:54.298','2024-07-02 14:43:54.298',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 14:43:54.297',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d93b2e25-31c9-43f2-966d-dc1dd808709f','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>懂得爱人与被爱，一起走向喜悦的泉源。</p>','2024-06-26 11:43:11.56','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5faa066b-2b9a-46fe-9e58-4c5852a27d00','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>印度学说的人生四个阶段。</p>
<p>第一阶段学生期。就是学习</p>
<p>第二阶段，家居区☞就是创立事业，累积财富，成家立业。但是人就会执箸于金钱，权利，性爱，地位等等世俗的报酬。</p>
<p>第三阶段林棲期☞也就是退隐进入山林。就是要从公司责任慢慢转向投入心灵、深度智慧、晶体智力、教导和信仰。也就是第二曲线的形而上背景。</p>
<p>最后一个阶段就是遁世☞最后性灵阶段，这个阶段就是完全投入开悟的果实。</p>
<p>我是谁？認识自己。往内心寻求。当我们的心平静下来就会发现很多宝藏在里面。</p>','2024-07-02 14:31:29.521','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('82b8963e-9bd3-4934-a83b-b3bb06b74762','d9d04546-5364-4033-b6d5-84c818816a2f','9e7d5703-4213-4a84-8d5d-7a5acf2a9891','<p class="Nb h_n"><span>Day 10 </span><span class="Lg honor-time">9月26日 (星期四）</span><span>📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>第2章 075页 - 78页 7个习惯概论。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>读后感悟：-</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>过去我只在公众领域下功夫</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>个人领域没有打好根基，导致自己的树倒下。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>比如欠债，带不好团队，没有经营好家庭等等</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>导致自己很忙。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>忙到头来一无所有。</span></p>
<div class="Nk h_n Ai">
<div class="Nl h_n Al">&nbsp;</div>
<div class="Ni h_n As">
<div contenteditable="false"><img src="content://com.hihonor.notepad/root_path/data/data/com.hihonor.notepad/notes/90a2fc53%24c75d%244c74%24b1e1%2434373c58a709/acbca1a1%24d2d2%244e3c%248d94%24eca82019b0a6_1440_1920_1727302683762.jpg"></div>
</div>
<div class="Nl h_n Al">&nbsp;</div>
</div>
<p class="Nb Ai h_n"><span>这张图，让我一目了然自己过去没有做对的地方在哪里</span></p>
<p class="Nb Ai h_n"><span>总是没有把要事做好</span></p>
<p class="Nb Ai h_n"><span>一直去做琐碎的事。</span></p>
<p class="Nb Ai h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb Ai h_n"><span>下定决心阅读写作是要事，其余的是琐事。</span></p>
<p class="Nb Ai h_n" data-h-fragment="[encoded data, 5852 characters]"><span>除了工作，只做跟阅读写作疗愈自己有关的事。</span></p>
<p class="Nb Ai h_n">&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-25 22:21:46.008','2024-09-25 22:21:46.008',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 22:21:46.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f1ae68d1-4526-413c-b481-e0c4fad90fda','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="MsoNormal">Day 2 <span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>7<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>2<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">前言。成功的首要</span> - <span lang="ZH-CN">追求表象的成功，逃避自己的本质（</span>Page 13- 18<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">人生因一连串错误的决定给连累也搞错了人生的优先顺序。绝对不要让最重要的事，受制于无关重要的事情。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">柯维博士认为，首要成就就是伴随个人贡献而来的收获。首要的成就是内在的，与品格有关。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">成功的生与首要的成就有关，是一种不在乎物质回报或现实处境，以责任、荣举、正直、坚忍、自我牺牲与服务为主轴的人生。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">首要成功的成就的人乐于服务的道德观，为他们赢得他人的爱与忠诚。</p>','2024-07-02 14:59:51.679','2024-07-02 14:59:51.679',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 14:59:51.678',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('18c42a68-fd51-40d0-b4d3-30a94b96f181','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>没有品德的成功不是真正的成功。这种成功往往昙花一现，容易失去他人信任支持。</p>','2024-07-02 15:03:30.768','2024-07-02 15:03:30.768',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:03:30.768',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3f7224e6-2af9-485d-976b-35d21e113cf5','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day10：8月27 日 《活学》Part 1 人生最重要的事<br>第二章： 可以不一样 &nbsp;7. 逆境的三句咒语 &ndash; 9. 爱自己的方式（Page066-071）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>逆境的三句咒语<br>惭愧心，慈悲心，感恩心<br>＝对不起，我爱你，谢谢你</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>面对苦，心不随境转，心能转境。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>爱别人，来自爱自己，爱自己，来自修行。对自己更满意，更喜欢自己，就表示做对了。</p>','2024-08-27 02:16:43.323','2024-08-27 02:16:43.323',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 02:16:43.322',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8c42a394-7775-4b79-8e51-ee10860cbdee','eacca2d3-609f-4e0d-8fcb-57d9b25c9fe4','b39b0560-2afe-40f2-bd69-0114180ed19e','<p>Day 18 2/7/24 Onion Marketeology - Chapter 5 Conversion Rate</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Highly Visual Menus Or Visual Merchandizing Display (Page 089-094)</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>🎯Thoughts after reading：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>good design can catch customer''s attention to purchase</p>
<p>Love the grip with emotion, especially relevant in service industry&nbsp;</p>
<p>Site tour as well really important for customer to get the feel for the environment first before deciding&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 15:05:44.096','2024-07-02 15:05:44.096',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:05:44.096',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('65acf4fd-b14e-4cb5-819b-285f07f87216','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>Things that matter most must never be at the mercy of things that matter least. primary greatness is the kind of success that come from contribution. &nbsp;&ldquo;what you are shouts so loudly in my ears that I cannot hear what you say"</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 15:06:49.563','2024-07-02 15:06:49.563',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:06:49.562',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fe090ba5-50d4-40df-b436-f2b294f9112c','f71bead1-7e54-4779-b2af-a97b5b3816a8','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>身为领导，需有勇于承认错误的勇气，虚心待人，以身做则，成为下属的榜样。当下属要离职的时候，相信一切随缘，确保彼此每有任何误会，，诚心的祝福对方有新的发展。世事无常，也许会再有机会一起工作。要成为一个出色的领导，也需要言行一至，不能光会说而每有行动，那是无法的到下属的信任的。</p>','2024-09-25 22:16:26.445','2024-09-25 22:17:03.731',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 22:17:03.73',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0e1bbd21-c37a-4dd1-abb2-b4a5c2bbe21a','eacca2d3-609f-4e0d-8fcb-57d9b25c9fe4','364a752e-ec1b-4e2b-ba8a-fc446c704627','<p>Educate clients on why and how on the products. Customer normally will buy based on emotions , so we got to learn to understand that. Focus on their emotions.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 15:18:49.521','2024-07-02 15:18:49.521',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:18:49.521',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8198139e-2738-4b4f-9d36-c7e278802349','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','5e3f10f7-6730-45c8-bdb1-ff31e3f024ba','<p>你还有多少次感恩节？</p>
<p>哇！这句话我再次思考。。。我们需要分为3部分的练习，第一，事先分配时间，定时定点的和家人2亲人友人连接。第二，做你的2核心要务，这是7 habit有一直强调的 priority..第三，聪明投资，这里的投资的定义不同，是希望他身边的亲人的人生做到哪三件事？</p>','2024-07-02 15:21:39.473','2024-07-02 15:21:39.473',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:21:39.472',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3e06799f-c836-44ee-9880-2251e8e2f592','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>人生真正的优先顺序是什么？这是一个很普通，也很值得我们深思的问题。书中提到的重新排列铁达尼号上的躺椅，隐喻了人性偏好心口不一，本末倒置的一种惯性。习惯性的把最不重要的事，摆在第一位。这也是日常生活中无数人无法有所成就的主要原因。本来该努力学习提升能力的时间，我们却往往都用来追求所谓的工作与生活的平衡。</p>
<p>在人生追求成就的顺序上，首要成就的追求就是属于应该要优先追求的，但许多人却偏偏选择先追求次要成就那偏向注重外在标签的成就，殊不知那是舍本逐末的方式。</p>','2024-07-02 15:25:12.579','2024-07-02 15:25:12.579',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:25:12.578',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('89ae0656-e75c-4893-987e-c4ff1f9959b3','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>人生可以是加法，唯有时间是减法。</p>','2024-07-02 15:27:49.793','2024-07-02 15:27:49.793',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:27:49.793',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f55a85c2-1f6b-4329-8eda-d2e8a1d5cda9','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>序文：<br>活出独一无二的幸福人生<br>敢敢追求自己人生最想要做的事，每个人都有自己的神奇潜能。<br>领导力的最佳定义是透过沟通，帮助他人清楚了解自己的价值与潜能，使他们自己尽情发挥。<br>每个人都拥有无穷的价值与潜能去完成自己的使命。<br>这世间有无数受苦之人有许多问题，深受困扰，对人生不满与失望，通过阅读，了解，应用这本书的精华，可以为你带来真正的疗愈，获得勇气与自信，继续前进，做出贡献，并且找到幸福。</p>','2024-07-02 15:28:00.201','2024-07-02 15:28:00.201',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:28:00.2',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3a055a3c-54af-4366-8d09-bbf49d55254b','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','3bf587cc-973a-43cd-bcac-64b112cd922c','<p>与人建立长远的关系, <strong>分配时间, 做你的核心要务,&nbsp;聪明投资.</strong></p>','2024-07-02 15:32:04.359','2024-07-02 15:32:04.359',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:32:04.358',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('10cb8adb-fba6-4790-b882-1b8f7b25d9e0','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>你还剩多少次感恩节？</p>
<p>你要如何衡量你的人生</p>
<ol>
<li>事先分配时间</li>
<li>做核心要务</li>
<li>聪明投资</li>
</ol>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 15:39:14.564','2024-07-02 15:39:14.564',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:39:14.563',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6404acd3-2ee3-4226-b74a-fd8c111a8904','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','51d2b0ec-c275-4372-b27e-2aefff3833d3','<p>一直期习惯往外求得内心的满足和认同感，还不如从心出发，从自己得到实际的满足感。</p>','2024-07-01 01:00:53.791','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f1260d5f-cc95-412f-9eb2-090affc6156f','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>练习以下三点，不让自己落入成功成瘾带来的恶果：</p>
<p>事先分配时间 - 把时间预先分配给你爱的人</p>
<p>做核心要务 - 想想什么东西是只有我能提供，对方又需要的</p>
<p>聪明投资 - 帮你爱的人实现他们人生最想做到的三件事</p>','2024-07-02 15:42:56.154','2024-07-02 15:42:56.154',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:42:56.153',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6ff02101-f186-4c68-9ae8-190c20acdd4b','46d25138-8e19-4278-bc6a-95b10ed0c564','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day34：9月20 日 《活学》Part 3 跟人在一起</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第七章： 职场的修炼 &nbsp;4. 如同孩子一样&ndash; 5. 培养同察力（Page210-215）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">如同孩子一样</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人生最大的功课，就是通过不断地努力，赢得荣誉，地位、钱威，然后还能随时放下，像孩子般的活在当下。能完成这功课的，不必等死后，生前就已在天国 里了。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">让有成就的人放下成就感，正是如婴而乎的关键。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">进入幼童的世界，就能体会到人我两忘、身份消失，心灵相通，活在当下，充满爱的能量&hellip;的狂喜滋味。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">做为如同孩子的量表：一、你能全能自在的陪伴孩子，进入他们的世界吗？二、你长把工作中的你带回家，还是能把如同家人的你带入工作？三、你经常在说，还是更常用心的听和看？四、当别人视你如无名小卒、不假辞色时，你仍然泰然自若吗？五、你能不追求任何目标，仍然觉得人生有滋有味吗？六你可以不需任何特定条件就在日常生活中真心开怀吗？七、你常感觉充满的爱想要分享和付出吗&hellip;.？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">越如同孩子越不难，不是孩子越不不难。只不过我们穿戴了太多世俗追逐的华服，浪内在的小孩透不过气来才离天国越来越远。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">培养洞察力</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">洞察力不仅是成就卓越，同时也是人生幸福的根基。越人自主性体验多样环境变化的孩子，越有可能养成洞察习惯。用童真的眼光，不要拘束的本性来重新体验世界</span></p>','2024-09-19 15:08:49.972','2024-09-21 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-09-21 00:00:00.01','2024-09-21 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
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<p>圆满人生，算的总帐，而不是日益多少，更是日损了多少。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>面对缺点，接受不完美的自己，处理，也放下。</p>','2024-08-27 03:10:40.372','2024-08-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-08-31 00:00:00.004','2024-08-31 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第四章： 更好的自己 &nbsp;10.一切都是最好的安排！ - 11. 感谢的力量（Page132-135）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一切的发生都是最好的安排。每当一些事情的发生就是要让我不断地修正和觉察后心里会发出那一句哦，原来如此。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">感恩不仅是人生最大的幸福，而且也是宇宙最大的能量，所以呢，人生如果在感谢的状态下才能真正的得到，否则别人给的再多，也收不到。越感恩的人呢，也会得多，因为他不仅最能&rdquo;收到&rdquo;，让别人想给更多，连老天都会想要给更多。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">记住了。敬天爱人。人活着，就要感谢。</span></p>','2024-09-07 10:15:31.46','2024-09-07 10:15:31.46',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 10:15:31.459',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第六章： 还在学活好 &nbsp;4. 学听话 &ndash; 6. 学赞美（Page176-181）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">不听话的人，心中只有我，没有人，一定会活得很累。要学听话。用心聆听，不&rdquo;心不在焉&rdquo;，好好听别人说的每一句话。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">学说话</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1）别人不问，不轻易说</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2）必要说时，只说几句话</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3）说话的时候，整个人都在，而且把心放在听着身上。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">4）说话留下很大空间，让听着自己去想明白。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">5）所说的每一句话都是自己正在做的。</span></p>','2024-09-15 06:50:45.19','2024-09-15 06:50:45.19',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 06:50:45.189',NULL,NULL);
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<p>人往往会提出问题：&ldquo;你们是怎么做到的？---&gt; 其实他们真正想问的是，&ldquo;有没有能快速让我脱离现状、摆脱痛苦的诀窍？&rdquo; --&gt; 人们越是依赖立竿见影的解决方法，越是加剧了问题潜在的隐患。解决问题的方式正是问题所在。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>爱因斯坦（Albert Einstein）曾说：&ldquo;重大问题发生时，依我们当时的思想水平往往无法解决。&rdquo; 我们需要新的、更深层次的思想水平，即基于原则的思维方式，它能正确引导我们实现高效能，改善人际关系，解决深层问题 --&gt; 以原则为中心，以品德为基础 ==&gt; <strong>&ldquo;由内而外&rdquo;</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>&ldquo;由内而外&rdquo;的意思是从自身做起 - 从自己的内心做起，</strong>包括自己的思维方式、品德操守和动机 。。。 只有先信守对自己的承诺，才能信守对他人的承诺。个人魅力置于品德之上，妄图在自我完善之前完善人际关系都将徒劳无功。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>由内而外是一个持续的更新过程，以主宰人类成长和进步的自然法则为基础，是螺旋向上的，它让我们不断进步，直到实现独立自强与有效的互赖。</p>','2024-09-23 12:22:25.462','2024-09-23 12:23:28.541',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 12:23:28.54',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('336999c7-a343-4bfd-910b-89acf7d04830','edd95530-41e4-42a4-833d-ebd3b924a847','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day42：9月28 日 《活学》Part 3 跟人在一起<br>第八章： 领导的修炼11. 成功后的恐惧症候群 &ndash; 12. 不是英雄 就别领导（Page259-264）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p><br><strong>成功后的恐惧症候群</strong><br>成功像一面魔镜，所有的影像都在其中自动被美化，让人眼花缭乱，看不清真正的自己。这情况造成功的恐惧症。<br>治疗这恐惧症，可以假设我们依然一无所有，从"心念"上归零。一无所有就不害怕失去。从零点上向前行，每一寸的成果都非常鼓舞。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>不是英雄 就别领导</strong><br>英雄/领导4种特质 :<br>1。自觉 self awareness<br>2。 才智 ingenuity<br>3。爱心 love<br>4。 英雄豪气 heroism<br>四不可缺一</p>','2024-09-28 12:58:32.617','2024-09-28 12:59:01.68',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-28 12:59:01.679',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ffc6addb-d27d-47b0-bc6d-1b654f35ba84','e20502a5-2a9a-4ff2-80f5-ce23f1be73a5','59926472-a7df-4e83-b8b7-27f37f6867d7','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">無論是直接控制的，間接控制和無法控制的問題，解決的問題都控制在自己手里，我們可以改變習慣 手段和看法，而這些都屬於影響圈範圍。</span></p>','2024-09-29 14:24:20.617','2024-09-29 14:24:22.105',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-29 14:24:22.104',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('28067f1e-f842-4a9c-92c3-57a7f529a1b1','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>与人建立长远关系</p>
<p>让自己对时间的流逝有个概念。还剩下几个感恩节？提醒自己，时间不等人，时间一直在流逝。留给我们的时间不是那么多。</p>
<p>如何衡量自己的人生？</p>
<p>1）事先分配时间：找出自己觉得重要/在乎的人事物，把时间优先安排给她们。</p>
<p>2）做核心要务：列出需要加强关系的名单，为他们提供只有自己能提供的事。</p>
<p>3）聪明投资：找出自己人生中想要完成的事，专注并如何把那些事完成。</p>','2024-07-02 15:44:14.58','2024-07-02 15:44:17.524',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:44:17.523',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ddb8dd16-e38f-4cc5-b73c-cf2406b808c2','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','17135195-d32a-47cb-8da2-1ef2be7642e5','<p>感悟：</p>
<p>-专注于真正重要的事情，而非毫无意义的小事</p>
<p>-专注于发展内在成长，而非表面的成就等</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 15:49:39.978','2024-07-02 15:49:39.978',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:49:39.978',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d6f293e9-361b-42b4-8cf0-ee743aca42ed','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','c972a3d9-d06c-4c0c-9a05-5fe06761f12c','<p>成功的人生以首要的成就有关，是一种不在乎物质回报或现实处境。拥有良好品格的人往往可获得成功，因为大家愿意信任这样的人，他们的努力通常可带来一定程度的生活保障，有时候甚至是飞黄腾达。他们乐意服务的道德观，为他们赢得他人的爱与忠诚。这些都是首要成就自然而带来的结果。</p>','2024-07-02 15:50:05.333','2024-07-02 15:50:05.333',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:50:05.332',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3fa9eef6-cf23-4bbf-ad38-8dccaf9ad74d','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>不要为了无关紧要的事 而忽略了最重要的事</p>
<p>那么简单的道理 但很多人就是为了表象的成功而忽略了 后悔也来不及了</p>','2024-07-02 15:52:15.991','2024-07-02 15:52:15.991',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 15:52:15.99',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('77f8629d-7324-4d77-acd9-3fdc99ea3903','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<div>培养真正能带来满足感的人际关系的三部分练习：</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>1. 分配时间 - 确保每个小时都以最理想的方式利用。有效管理时间，专注于当下，珍惜与他人的每一个互动时刻。</div>
<div>2. 核心要务 - 爱的关系不分阶层制，而是互惠制。先给予他人所想和所需，而不是只考虑自己的方便。通过无私的付出建立更深厚的联系。</div>
<div>3. 聪明投资 - 在关系中注入真实、爱心和信念。这三者是建立长期、满意人际关系的基石。诚实待人，关心他人，并坚定地支持彼此，共同成长。</div>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 16:00:42.233','2024-07-02 16:00:42.233',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 16:00:42.231',NULL,NULL);
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<p>人际关系才是幸福的基础，不是物质成就。</p>
<p>外在目标的达成需要内在目标的实现。</p>','2024-07-02 21:24:15.646','2024-07-02 21:24:15.646',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 21:24:15.645',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('438c5897-d68b-447a-a2a7-604b01aa1cf3','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>品格是原则，普世价值，永不过时的幸福方程式。</p>
<p>做人做事符合这些原则，幸福是必然的结果。</p>','2024-07-02 21:25:04.234','2024-07-02 21:25:04.234',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 21:25:04.233',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f32b2ee8-6d3a-4fb6-b57a-63b57b7ffccd','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','025766ef-b121-4d39-a149-574dc9b57a6b','<p>内在目标： intrinsic goal 主要追求长远关系带来的满足感&nbsp;</p>
<p>-正面情绪：过得快乐</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>外在目标： extrinsic goal 赚大钱、拥有很多东西、获得权力、建立口碑、荣耀。</p>
<p>-负面情绪：羞愧与恐惧</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>长期努力&ldquo;外在目标&rdquo;不利于终究会走下坡的第一曲线。唯有换目标&ldquo;从爱出发、建立关系&rdquo;才能搭上第二曲线。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>当人际关系成为意义与满足感的来源，你获得的奖励将不可胜数。懂得爱人与被爱。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 23:00:38.67','2024-07-02 23:02:12.333',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-02 23:02:12.332',NULL,NULL);
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<p>林棲期 认识自己 往内心追求 追求性灵上的成长，老年才能充满智慧。</p>','2024-07-02 23:41:22.121','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7d7849a7-2d8b-4ba2-a5ad-7921745b38ae','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','bec627e8-6c89-459f-88b5-a8a8f48275ca','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day28</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">与人之间的沟通不仅仅是讲道理，更重要的是理解和感受对方的情绪。以前我总是习惯用自己的观点去评判别人的感受，结果常常让关系变得紧张。现在我明白，真正的交流需要倾听和共情，而不是单纯的说教。比如，朋友有烦恼时，我以前总想给出建议，结果反而让他觉得我不理解他。现在我学会先倾听，试着站在他的角度去感受，这样不仅能让他更放松，也让我们的关系更加亲密。生活中，学会闭嘴、放下自己的成见，才能更好地与他人相处。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day29</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">以前我总是急于表达自己的观点，结果常常忽视了他人的感受。现在我明白，学会倾听是多么重要。比如，和朋友聊天时，我开始努力不打断他们，真正去理解他们的想法和情绪，这样我们的关系变得更加亲密。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">同时，我也意识到赞美的力量。以前我很少主动赞美别人，觉得这没必要。现在我发现，真诚的赞美不仅能让对方感到被认可，也能让自己心情变好。比如，看到同事的努力，我会主动夸奖他们，这样不仅能增强团队的凝聚力，也让我感受到更多的快乐。</span></p>','2024-09-15 09:59:23.907','2024-09-15 09:59:23.907',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 09:59:23.906',NULL,NULL);
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<li>发愤忘食，乐以忘忧，不知老之将至。。。</li>
<li>甘愿做，欢喜受</li>
<li>心真事实，愿广行深</li>
</ol>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-19 15:12:09.054','2024-09-19 15:12:09.054',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 15:12:09.054',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f909a10b-2fea-4594-8327-e20433bcae0f','3df88f40-bb88-49db-b5ae-05ce4fdcc4f6','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>看懂自己。才能看懂别人。</p>
<p>优点是老天爷赏饭吃。</p>
<p>缺点则是人生的功课，如果不好好做，人生如何圆满落幕。</p>','2024-08-27 05:43:35.672','2024-09-01 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-09-01 00:00:00.023','2024-09-01 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3a2a0823-a2eb-4970-9a76-0a41ff13425f','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>母爱是伟大的，出于要孩子成才，会用心良苦，用各种方式让孩子学好，以便有益于他日后的发展。我们做任何事情，也要想好会对别人及自己产生的影想力，而不是虎乱行动。</p>','2024-09-07 10:24:23.739','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('09364310-64d9-4575-8b21-04f2d5d4814a','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">重启人生</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">_</span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">盧水清</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - </span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">序号</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY </span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">33</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> &ndash; </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">3/7</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">三）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">- </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">p.1</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">75-180</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">University of Rochester (2009) </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">跟踪研究</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">147</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">名大学毕业生毕业后的目标的结果显示：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">整体而言，追求长远关系帶來的满足感（內在目标，</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">intrinsic</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">）和追求賺大錢、拥有很多东西、获得权力、建立口碑或出名（外在目标，</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">extrinsic</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">），二者在一年后，都达成了目标，但是，</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">抱持內在目标的人，一年后过著更快乐的生活；而抱持外在目标的人则走过更多的负面情绪，例如羞愧与死惧。此外，他们更容易生病。</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">无他，追求外在目标者，逐渐受困于下行的流体智力曲线，且其惯性思维迫使他难以转換到內在目标，跳上第二曲线。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">人际关系是人生下半场的重点。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">当人际关系成为意义与满足感的</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「正式」來源，你获得的奖励将不可勝数，有人比喻为挖到宝藏。</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">&ldquo;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">与其死命抵抗职涯衰退的趋势，不如抓住美好的机会，走向喜悅的泉源，懂得愛人与被愛，从第一曲线转換到第二曲线。</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">&rdquo;</span></p>','2024-06-27 02:20:10.941','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>向内求,向外修😁.</p>
<p>从内而发,容易从第一曲线到第二曲线.培养健全的家庭关系</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-30 06:18:22.616','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8b665004-2f8a-4d2d-a18f-4611fe616ce6','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>内在目标追求长远关系带来的满足感，追求这个的会过着更快乐的生活。嗯</p>
<p>外在目标拥有很多东西权利。出名，赚大钱等等，追求这个的却产生很多负面情绪，更容易生病。</p>
<p>转换跑道吧。从爱出发，从心出发，建立关系，分享智慧。</p>
<p>悟吧（ubah）,当我们越来越老的时候，以其使命抵抗职涯衰退的趋势。不如抓住美好的机会走向喜悦的泉源。懂得爱人与被爱。转换跑道</p>
<p>只看自己愿不愿意。</p>','2024-07-01 23:17:04.543','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('991ec911-f377-4635-9316-b9c80222949f','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','810477ff-79c3-424f-8ea1-4dcb74aef362','<p>内在目标主要追求长远关系带来的满足感。唯有转换到内在目标，才会获得真正想要的，做好跳上第二曲线的准备。第二曲线需要你从爱出发，建立关系，分享智慧。</p>','2024-07-02 13:58:25.903','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1cebd707-9892-4584-909f-2e95518aedeb','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>品格教育是成功商數, 提升的關鍵所在., 而非智商.</p>
<p>原則就有如槓桿一樣, 当我們沒有能力, 移動一塊石頭., 能夠借助槓桿之力, 就能輕易完成任務.</p>','2024-07-02 07:06:15.74','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f633dd29-a36a-4f97-b919-31c2308b09fc','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>你希望人生有什么,八成会心想事成</p>
<p>抱持内在目标的人会过着快乐的生活,相反的,抱持外在目标的人则走过更多的羞愧与恐惧,人生满意度下降</p>
<p>唯有转换到内在目标,做好跳上第二曲线的准备,从爱出发,建立关系,分享智慧,重启下半场人生！</p>','2024-07-02 14:20:11.314','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ddb1ceb7-5c91-4d55-9ce5-973241fcb71c','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>探讨自己的内在目标，找到自己真正想要的。从爱出发，建立关系，分享智慧。相信有了爱自己的能力就能给予爱。</p>','2024-07-02 14:34:42.615','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('466e7256-301e-42b0-8fc3-28dd1cbbe653','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','41f959d3-c932-4657-84ab-137317e3a989','<p>To rather die trying to fight the inevitable downfall of the first curve, why not take the sweat opportunity (paradigm shift) to jump to 2nd curve.</p>','2024-07-02 15:04:51.553','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('230f6fcd-49e4-46a2-b1e5-13f7d79b2748','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>品格决定成败</p>
<p>品格教育才是使（成功商数）获得显著提升的关键所在,而非智商</p>','2024-07-02 15:11:26.405','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('93b796b0-76f8-4e9a-b38b-653d6784c4bc','e4648b91-0e1e-47c6-a0cb-06f7abb5b725','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>只要思維方''式正確不打折扣， 和熱情努力不間斷，人人都可以活得百萬人生。</p>
<p>要不要快樂這個决定，超越其他一切的决定，快樂是可以自已做主的， 不管發生什么事，都可决定自己快樂的事，只要發現自己不快樂，就直接 和不快樂的根源說再見，快樂很简單，只是要坚守這個决定 是要用一輩子的時間來修正。</p>
<p>「改個性」 是人生最重要的功課，不分年齡 和天份無論成敗，都列為第一要務，改個性需要逆游而上，由內而外順着习惯行為、 語言、 思想回到源頭「心念」。 心念自轉，心念轉变、 思想、 語言、 行為习惯，個性假以時日皆依序轉变，最后連命和運都能改。&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-27 05:59:50.421','2024-08-28 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-08-28 00:00:00.005','2024-08-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f873fac1-8290-4760-bf7b-d26599f4b014','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<p>外在目标：想着等终于拥有这个，或是终于达成那个目标，就会心满意足</p>
<p>内在目标：从爱出发，建立关系，分享智慧</p>
<p>在前面章节还不觉得自己工作成瘾，但今天这一篇让我确信自己真的就是个瘾君子！ 还好读了这本书，让我有个机会重新调整自己，重新出发。&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-03 01:07:30.564','2024-07-03 01:07:30.564',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 01:07:30.563',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('74c7ad20-7e07-412d-81c9-49592d9770dc','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>一切都是最好的安排。没有经历就没有成长。有了觉悟也就长了智慧。</p>
<p>活着就要感恩，人生中的每个际遇都能使我们成长，变得更强大。</p>
<p>遇人遇事感恩，是一种知足。但要对不喜欢的人表达感恩，需要很大的肚量与修行。</p>','2024-09-07 10:50:03.543','2024-09-07 10:50:03.543',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 10:50:03.542',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('53d45783-4b86-4e39-adc5-94af7927cb47','290fa633-6870-4ef2-9cde-6a1ee2e397d3','0e562b75-3f9f-4c9f-bbda-b896493a717b','<p dir="ltr">Day 4 9月19日 (星期四）📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;</p>
<p dir="ltr">😇第一章 041页 - 045页</p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">读后感悟 ：</p>
<p dir="ltr">思维转换可以带来突破，但思维转换，也分从不正确到正确 （这是正面积极的），和从正确到不正确 （这是负面且偏离的）。如何分辨，就得依靠原则。以原则为中心，发展思维，思维带动性格，态度，行为，便能正向的影响生活。</p>','2024-09-19 15:18:15.035','2024-09-19 15:31:03.791',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 15:31:03.791',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d6942857-2249-455d-9523-1f7d517ce926','8339f16e-03cd-4d3a-9230-ce25708648b7','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>关系又很多种。但是，如果愿意在梳理自己的私密花园，关系的建立不止是建立于在任务、目标上。而是，透过关系，看见内在的动机、渴望，认识自己。这也是建立品格的过程。</p>
<p>作者提出可以通过360&deg;意见调查，让自己了解自己的品格和能力。</p>
<p>在非常传统家庭长大，过去的我会蛮崇拜那些有非常强的个人主意的人。我一直以为这是自我成长的展现。后来，我才理解，自我的成长是有阶段性的。当一个人的自我从个人的喜好升华到精神层面，他就不再在意去展现自己，反而能够变得谦卑。这也许是一个人需要经历的整合过程。犯错，也是帮助自己自我整合的&rdquo;资粮&ldquo;。</p>','2024-07-03 01:54:49.245','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5d4bbc84-1556-420e-883b-a9214a48d8ca','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>4.10 一切都是最好的安排</p>
<p>要坦然接受自己的过去，才可以找到修炼的起点。今天的自己是过去的经历和选择所造就。</p>
<p>4.11 感谢的力量</p>
<p>学习感恩，可以改掉自大。要明白所有的成就一定是得到众多人的成全和帮组才可以实现。要养成感恩的习惯。</p>','2024-09-07 12:05:47.311','2024-09-07 12:05:47.311',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 12:05:47.31',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cfe26fce-c941-4af4-aa51-06df7e0d823d','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>（补）Day 2 ：7月2日《成功哪有那么难》</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>前言。成功的首要 - 追求表象的成功，逃避自己的本质（Page 13- 18）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>人总是很在意外在形象，却忽略了实质的重要。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>次要成就（如地位）没有比首要的成就（真正的收获）重要，但很多人还是很重视次要成就。首要成就与品格有关，所以我们的道德观念一定要正确，遵守自己的原则，才能取得成功。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Day 3 ：7月3日《成功哪有那么难》</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>品格决定成败&ndash;十二槓桿（Page18 - 23）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>内在品格比才能、智力和环境更能决定一个人是否成功。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>想要成功，就必须检视自己的品格与目的是否符合原则。</p>','2024-07-03 01:43:31.594','2024-07-03 01:43:31.594',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 01:43:31.593',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c4371bc1-41f9-4d6f-9542-a285ce50dffd','f4cba9bd-a131-47fa-9a1f-8999067de7c2','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>错了，就认错。</p>
<p>但不能成为管理工具使用。</p>
<p>做最坏的打算，尽最大的努力。</p>','2024-08-27 06:19:26.53','2024-09-02 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-09-02 00:00:00.016','2024-09-02 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b789807b-6bd8-424c-b300-3edb11a1bd1e','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>人勿忘初心，如果心不好后面即使成功了最终也会失败<br>人的品格决定了是否可以走更高，更远</p>','2024-07-03 02:41:14.443','2024-07-03 02:41:14.443',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 02:41:14.442',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('78f3a9fd-c949-4d05-be51-b08886e77c38','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>内在目标追求长远关系带来的满足感，享受爱与被爰，美满快乐的生活。</p>
<p>外在目标则主要赚大钱，擁有很多东西，獲得权力，建立口碑或出名。让自己的欲望暴增，人生满意度则下降。随蓍歲月的流逝，就会发现一切是鏡花水月，外在的獎勵是可笑的目標。</p>','2024-07-03 06:12:11.072','2024-07-03 06:12:11.072',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 06:12:11.071',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('73072f80-be94-4dce-89ab-f1ee5e760aeb','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','478843b9-e4b4-4090-81ad-cee1b2c570e6','<p>不足的地方 就靠后天努力去弥补</p>','2024-07-03 14:37:20.318','2024-07-03 14:37:23.136',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 14:37:23.135',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('18900841-33c8-4f74-acfb-1ef995fa5629','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>we can change because we have the power to choose how we will act. &nbsp;We are more lkely to succeed in life if we align ourselves to those principles and stop trying to ignore them.</p>','2024-07-03 14:39:58.067','2024-07-03 14:39:58.067',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 14:39:58.067',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('06f41214-8224-446d-a8b8-e7cfa9308ebe','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>人在脆弱时，宗教往往让人内心安住。</p>','2024-07-06 14:54:13.617','2024-07-06 14:54:13.617',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-06 14:54:13.616',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0982a4ff-3b93-4efd-8fe7-bb0078e8bda2','fe863a09-a43c-41df-8c10-cebc6a28d034','3bf587cc-973a-43cd-bcac-64b112cd922c','<p>实现信仰需要投入時間与精力， 也是最基本的付出。</p>','2024-07-07 15:20:34.739','2024-07-07 15:20:34.739',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-07 15:20:34.738',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('628ecec0-b127-4a56-ace1-0a6b733bb1f9','427944ca-335d-4f0b-b95a-8f4a5bfbf25c','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>面对弱点，接受弱点，你才会更强大。</p>','2024-07-09 01:16:41.508','2024-07-09 01:16:41.508',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-09 01:16:41.508',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cc93cce9-504b-4873-8181-c1eba0aab224','8339f16e-03cd-4d3a-9230-ce25708648b7','478843b9-e4b4-4090-81ad-cee1b2c570e6','<p>往往团队里面为了自己的利益而不顾团队</p>','2024-07-09 15:39:03.188','2024-07-09 15:39:03.188',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-09 15:39:03.187',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a098f55d-d5e6-46f8-a23f-ac61041efab9','906725a7-7a0b-4dbe-9746-547bbde4cace','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>我们的为人(品格)才是获得真正成功的关键因素</p>','2024-07-10 06:26:15.423','2024-07-10 06:26:15.423',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-10 06:26:15.422',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cae7771b-425c-49a2-a846-8fbfac0ffb9d','af3b3ccc-86d3-4f5e-b9b7-c45b68bfe593','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>承认及接受自己的脆弱才能开阔出新道路</p>','2024-07-10 08:59:27.93','2024-07-10 08:59:27.93',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-10 08:59:27.929',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dc24949b-cd02-4884-b3f9-44ef7863b0e5','906725a7-7a0b-4dbe-9746-547bbde4cace','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>时常提醒自己，不断更新，品格定命运</p>','2024-07-10 09:01:57.472','2024-07-10 09:01:57.472',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-10 09:01:57.472',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c294b803-471c-43f3-9904-e80d41dbeb70','906725a7-7a0b-4dbe-9746-547bbde4cace','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>成功需要内在德性与使命，否则易招来失败。</p>','2024-07-10 15:13:21.647','2024-07-10 15:13:21.647',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-10 15:13:21.646',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fe85609b-1c6b-490f-9bc4-ec222f3baab8','af3b3ccc-86d3-4f5e-b9b7-c45b68bfe593','9070d9da-6428-4328-8983-4c4a65d0a468','<p>放下自尊、面对弱点才能成长。示弱更易与人连接，坦诚弱点能获得他人关爱和共鸣。</p>','2024-07-10 15:20:07.766','2024-07-10 15:20:07.766',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-10 15:20:07.765',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0612f235-417c-469e-a1cf-c7ca530dd33e','9fb1f442-8e2e-4672-8718-cf1fa7cebf0e','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>生活以原则为中心。</p>
<p>永恒不变。</p>','2024-07-10 23:01:02.745','2024-07-10 23:01:02.745',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-10 23:01:02.745',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('317e88b5-0f83-46bf-bd85-e63955cd7937','2f505f70-db25-49ee-9524-3cf23b2d3cbc','51d2b0ec-c275-4372-b27e-2aefff3833d3','<p>过了这个坎，就是一个成长。</p>','2024-07-07 03:27:24.897','2024-07-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('593a17ab-a99d-45ba-9848-b81e293676e2','2f505f70-db25-49ee-9524-3cf23b2d3cbc','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>存在是礼物，而存在必有苦难。</p>
<p>如果感謝生命，就得全部都感谢，那怕是处在苦难中，不能只挑一部分感谢。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-10 01:08:15.78','2024-07-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6873f54a-dab4-4cb3-a8ea-ae8a85b026ad','9fb1f442-8e2e-4672-8718-cf1fa7cebf0e','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>作者谈的原则是自然法则。这些原则与人无关、建立在事实之上、是外在的、是客观的，而且不证自明。而价值观背后是有一把尺在操纵，它是是受环境影响、受人影响、会被扭曲的。</p>
<p>所以，我们只能掌控自己的行动，但无法掌控行动造成的结果。原则却是主宰一切的结果。</p>
<p>希腊哲学家赫拉克利特说&ldquo;世界唯一不变是变&rdquo;。这就是世界的规律，自然原则。自然原则是真理，因为它是&ldquo;普遍为真&rdquo;、&ldquo;永恒不变&rdquo;、不证自明&ldquo;。</p>','2024-07-03 06:35:29.405','2024-07-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('af72d125-596a-478e-bb52-361c5377dab3','1d3f5360-c219-4129-816c-a0c5b60c44de','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>不愿意的背后都有很深的习性，习性的背后有很顽固的執著。</p>
<p>把不愿意一一找出，修成我愿意，人生一大乐事啊。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-27 07:40:47.33','2024-09-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-09-03 00:00:00.007','2024-09-03 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0a47fa70-1f3f-4ac1-a83a-cdebffb01d0b','57297da1-b4a4-44a5-bf90-32db287e486c','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>对多数人而言，我们的双亲是我们启蒙教育的始者，由其是目睹了上一代如何在坚难的环境下努力为生活奋斗，带给我们辛福的生活及懂的珍惜的德行。可是到了下一代，也因为不希望孩子们经历太坚苦的生活，在过度保护下，反而令下一代会轻易因为不想吃苦，而很容易在遇到困难时轻易放弃。</p>','2024-09-07 12:19:26.425','2024-09-10 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-09-10 00:00:00.008','2024-09-10 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('10a70ee2-4ca5-49fd-9719-f2ce0e2e542c','26118367-caec-408b-bb9b-0ff103fca063','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p><strong>现买现吃，打造极致体验</strong></p>
<p>去理解客户的顾虑，想办法消除顾虑。</p>
<p>站在客户立场，无条件接受退货，增加客户的信心。</p>
<p>帮客户的海鲜加工，确保海鲜的新鲜度。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>明确的目标：线上销售必须要高于线下销售。</p>
<p>培养客户使用自家的应用程序付费。也同时培养客户的购买习惯。把客户留在盒马，就在线上。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-15 10:02:09.968','2024-09-15 10:02:11.193',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 10:02:11.193',NULL,NULL);
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<p>你好我好，双赢思维，知彼解己，统合综效。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-03 06:47:11.928','2024-07-08 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('58042a68-85a2-4b00-ac07-c7007e8fea25','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>品格可以被教导也是决定首要成就的成败的主因。主宰世界的基本原则，也是主宰一个人的成败。柯维也说明了成功人士遵循的12原则：</p>
<p>正直、贡献、优先目标、牺牲奉献、服务、责任、忠诚、相互性、多元性、持续学习、自我更新、教学相长。</p>','2024-07-03 13:58:55.707','2024-07-03 13:58:55.707',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 13:58:55.706',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cb6971e1-f5ef-4027-a739-8f75d534dc3f','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>外在目標不會滿足心靈，反而會讓我們越發空虛。那些外在的我們只有使用權，但沒有擁有權，它可能隨時失去，這是讓我們難以心安。和親人朋友的關係就不一樣，大家都心系彼此，就算其中一方不在這感情也得以延續，真情可貴，這些才能帶來喜悅心安。</p>','2024-07-03 14:06:58.954','2024-07-03 14:06:58.954',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 14:06:58.954',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('04c574f4-55df-4405-80d8-1ab903c83a77','d318d0b8-590e-401c-a41c-a61489536fa9','bec627e8-6c89-459f-88b5-a8a8f48275ca','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day28</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">作为管理者，真正的关键在于尊重和信任团队成员。总是想要亲自掌控一切，结果反而让团队的潜力没有得到充分发挥。然而放权和鼓励下属参与管理，不仅能提升他们的能力，也能让整个团队更加高效。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">比如，在工作中，开始尝试让团队成员自己决定解决问题的方法，而不是直接给出答案。这样一来，他们不仅更有参与感，也能更好地发挥自己的才华。通过这种方式，团队的氛围变得更加积极，大家都愿意分享自己的想法和建议，工作也变得更轻松愉快。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day29</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">管理者要给员工空间和支持，而不是自己做他们的工作。发脾气解决不了问题，重点是帮大家找到方法一起进步。带领团队要让员工开心工作，而不是让他们拼命加班。</span></p>','2024-09-15 10:06:04.378','2024-09-15 10:06:04.378',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 10:06:04.377',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dc181113-6266-486b-9b97-a6e4b25fb28d','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','3bf587cc-973a-43cd-bcac-64b112cd922c','<p>当人际关系成为意义与满足感的正式来源，我们获得的奖励不可胜数, 有人比喻挖到宝藏.<br>人际关系本质上带来有超越的力量, 从爱出发.</p>','2024-07-03 14:45:49.047','2024-07-03 14:45:49.047',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 14:45:49.047',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d1e4b875-5f62-4eda-9508-17195cfa5988','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>美好的人家关系是建立在&ldquo;爱&rdquo;之上。<br>常常要提醒自己：当你从高位退下来以后，可以跟你坐在一块兴高采烈闲聊喝茶的朋友最为可贵。</p>','2024-07-03 14:56:52.801','2024-07-03 14:56:52.801',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 14:56:52.801',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a039e71b-ea74-4cf7-b99d-3a1b829cff93','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>品格教育才是成功商数获得显著提升的关键所在，而非智商。</p>
<p>要想成功，就得修正自己的缺陷，例如拖延、嫉妒、自私等。</p>','2024-07-03 15:20:04.119','2024-07-03 15:20:04.119',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 15:20:04.118',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('89e58dba-bc84-40a1-b24e-ae2e97d255bf','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>追求内在目标的人比那些追求外在目标的人更容易感到真正的幸福和心满意足。</p>
<p>培养人际关系，可以得到超凡的力量。</p>','2024-07-03 15:26:56.808','2024-07-03 15:26:56.808',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 15:26:56.807',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d29f116c-a159-4951-bf6b-324be3caa8d3','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','17135195-d32a-47cb-8da2-1ef2be7642e5','<p>-品格才是决定成功的关键，而非智商</p>
<p>-必须为自己定下良好的原则，并持续地遵守</p>','2024-07-03 15:45:55.092','2024-07-03 15:45:55.092',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 15:45:55.091',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ff51d5f8-14f1-4896-a5c9-212a37d9d5a5','2c0de07f-f196-4319-afe2-52ddaecebad6','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>每一次专注的呼吸，每一个专注的步伐，全都提醒着我们，我们活在这个美丽的星球里。</p>
<p>微不足道的不是我的人生，而是世俗的纷纷扰扰。</p>','2024-07-03 06:54:56.473','2024-07-08 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7f234c93-9852-474f-95c5-61683e9275b9','af3b3ccc-86d3-4f5e-b9b7-c45b68bfe593','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>分享脆弱，才能带来深度连结。</p>
<p>防卫心强不是什么可爱的人格特质，永远帮不了我们。坦诚展现脆弱，才是正确的人生策略。</p>
<p>想和某个人建立深入的人际连结，就必须坦诚示落。你的长处或你在世俗层面有多成功，那一类的事不会让人和你交心。</p>','2024-07-03 14:01:28.499','2024-07-10 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-10 00:00:00.022','2024-07-10 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c1a7efb4-c15c-4238-b110-c4e50d0b28b3','a904e147-bc6a-4807-86ca-bfc40db264af','b39b0560-2afe-40f2-bd69-0114180ed19e','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">Day 19&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3/7/24&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Onion Marketeology - Chapter 5&nbsp;&nbsp;Conversion Rate</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">Stock in Hand (Page 095-100)</span></p>
<p><span lang="EN-US">🎯</span><span lang="EN-US">Thoughts after reading</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：<br><br>- Important to have readystock as some customer wants to do purchase ASAP<br>- No stock = losing sale<br>- REMEMBER - follow up at least 3 times before calling it quit on the lead<br>- can try to create suitable packages for target market (sales and mkt team need to work tgt closely)<br>- its always good to be transparent with pricing, customer appreciate that&nbsp;<br>- Smile is the best customer service staff can give<br></span></p>','2024-07-03 08:02:51.639','2024-07-03 08:02:51.639',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 08:02:51.638',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ed653ad0-242c-4c45-b4f6-5d4ee3867cfa','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','fb681b37-b86f-49b7-8f27-422ffefb81b6','<ul>
<li style="text-align: justify;">最简单但也是最有效的3句咒语：对不起！我爱你！谢谢你！但是我们往往对越亲密的人越忘了要说这3句话。</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">在必要时按下暂停键，可以避免事态变得更糟也可以让我们理清我们的思路与调整方向。</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">先学会爱自己，才有能力去爱别人。</li>
</ul>','2024-08-27 07:59:57.276','2024-08-27 07:59:57.276',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 07:59:57.275',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9556070e-a49c-42c8-9b23-c8b6e1ac82c4','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>感恩之心可以改变心性，面对任何困境，都不容易被克服。</p>','2024-09-07 12:48:59.592','2024-09-07 12:48:59.592',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 12:48:59.591',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eefc1c2e-f1e7-4e61-8c8d-91d437454b37','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>一切都是最好的安排，跟臣服的概念是一樣的。接受，相信以後會更好。</p>
<p>以感恩的心跟我的父母溝通的時候，話題可以延續的比較長。如果能夠常溝通，我覺得感情也會比較好，所以現在我在訓練自己多打電話給我爸媽。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-07 12:56:13.206','2024-09-07 12:56:13.206',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 12:56:13.205',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d7edecf6-4dc9-4329-88fa-076ba9413f00','092b46a7-71e8-4be1-b11e-1c4a34b10fea','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>培养独特天赋的四种方法：</p>
<p>1）透过写日记培养自觉力&nbsp; -&nbsp; 培养自觉自我反省的习惯。在回溯一天的事件，也是一种自我整顿。</p>
<p>2）透过学习、倾听与做出回应，培养良知 - 透过学习、他人的反馈，我看见了自觉，看见深层的内在指引系统。</p>
<p>3）兑现承诺，培养独立意志 -&nbsp; 不断看见自己的行动力，言行一致的能力，让自己对自己多一份信任感。有了这份安全感，自己才会保持对自己忠诚，不会选择那些&ldquo;权宜之计&rdquo;、&rdquo;在商言商&ldquo;或者去合理化那些反原则的行为。那么自己才有勇气去培养自己成为正直的人格。</p>
<p>4）透过视觉化开放创造性想象力 - 这是通过视觉化的想象力按照原则做出反应，而非依照平常习惯做出反应。这样做其实是s去反转潜意识里的负面惯性。</p>
<p>每天一小步，信心就建立起来。</p>','2024-07-03 07:39:07.811','2024-07-13 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-13 00:00:00.003','2024-07-13 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a7dc2cf2-01ef-4874-bfb5-85cad80217d6','d28e5036-c4f8-42d5-bf66-6920a6791b2d','b39b0560-2afe-40f2-bd69-0114180ed19e','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">Day 20&nbsp;&nbsp;4/7/24&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Onion Marketeology - Chapter 6&nbsp;&nbsp;Repeat Transaction</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">Repeat Transaction (Page 102-106)</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">🎯</span><span lang="EN-US">Thoughts after reading</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：<br>- After customer pay its good to have after sales services so they feel more appreciated<br>- creating a convenient and beneficial recurring plan is good<br>- can attract potential or already client into purchasing more with top product offer = hook them with offers</span></p>','2024-07-03 08:07:54.814','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('960028c3-dd39-4668-8443-4cf7ee8c6d22','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>人生可以分成4阶段：学生期、家居期、林棲期（第二曲线的形而上背景）和遁世。</p>
<p>认识你自己，那是获得解脱的唯一办法。往内心寻求～当你的心平静下来后，你就会发现里头一直等着你的宝藏。</p>','2024-07-03 09:02:29.131','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6f6d39c0-4e49-4ff5-81dd-1735d5c5ad05','26118367-caec-408b-bb9b-0ff103fca063','818bb03e-4271-4e7a-a918-07cdd48a8614','<p>现买现吃，打造极致体验。让顾客安心，增强顾客的信任，就能把顾客留住。</p>','2024-09-15 10:39:21.456','2024-09-15 10:39:21.456',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 10:39:21.455',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1bb1fe5c-6c85-4344-9e13-0ff42eac459b','5da7e621-68d1-4f28-9636-630c86d9d4e5','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day33：9月19 日 《活学》Part3 &nbsp;跟人在一起<br>第七章： 职场的修炼 &nbsp;1. 发愤忘食 乐以忘忧 &ndash; 3. 离苦得乐的药方（Page204-209）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>发愤忘食 乐以忘忧</strong><br>甘愿受，欢喜做。找到"做"的意义，欢喜自然在其中。人的念头决定是否找到"做" 的意义。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>心真事实 愿广行深</strong><br>对自己和周边的人也意义的事物/时光，都是白活的时光。只有心真占愿广，才算没有错过。</p>
<p><br><strong>离苦得乐的药方</strong><br>苦是来自内在的妄想和執著。要从苦中解脱<br>* 先从事里抽离，回到內在跟自己在一起<br>* 再从自己的念头中抽离</p>
<p>* 才可找到真实而平常心的自己。</p>','2024-09-19 15:31:57.2','2024-09-19 15:31:57.2',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 15:31:57.199',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3937edc2-1728-491c-8e61-02fab6120e96','290fa633-6870-4ef2-9cde-6a1ee2e397d3','bcc468e8-cdbd-4165-9224-c47216af9af6','<p>思维的方式决定我们看待事情的角度。</p>
<p>不同的思维碰撞，与互相了解，最终会引导到一种新的看待事物的方式。</p>
<p>当然思维可以让结果变好，也同样可以导致我们偏离好的结果。</p>
<p>原则会让我们的思维有一个不动摇的法则，如果我们强行创它，最终会头破血流。</p>
<p>这种灯塔，可以包括诚信，正直，公平，等</p>','2024-09-19 15:39:31.251','2024-09-19 15:39:31.251',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 15:39:31.25',NULL,NULL);
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<p>你不是为了满足他人的期待而活，同样，他人也不是为了满足你的期待而活。当别人的行为不符合自己的想法时，也不可以发怒。</p>
<p>2，把自己和别人的&ldquo;人生课题&rdquo;分开来</p>
<p>一切人际关系矛盾起因于对别人课题妄加干涉或者自己的课题被被人妄加干涉。</p>
<p>3，只要能进行课题分离，人际关系就会发生巨大改变</p>
<p>[向右R]辨别究竟是谁的课题只需要考虑一下&ldquo;某种选择所带来的结果最终由谁来承担？&rdquo;</p>
<p>可以把马带到水边，但不能强迫其喝水。</p>
<p><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span></p>
<p>[三R]即使父母也得放下孩子的课题</p>
<p>孩子的学习、工作、结婚对象或者哪怕是日常行为举止都不会完全按照父母所想，孩子不是为了满足父母的期待而活。</p>
<p>[栗子R]孩子总是系不上鞋带，对于繁忙的母亲而言，直接帮孩子系上要比等孩子自己系更快。但这种行为是一种干涉，是在剥夺孩子的课题。反复干涉的结果会是孩子什么也学不到，最终失去面对人生课题的勇气。</p>
<p>[向右R]干涉甚至担负起别人的课题会让自己的人生沉重而痛苦。</p>
<p><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span></p>
<p>[四R]放下别人的课题，烦恼轻轻飞走</p>
<p>选择自己认为最好的道路。别人如何评价你的选择，那是别人的课题，你无法左右。</p>
<p>3，上司蛮不讲理乱发脾气，那都不是&ldquo;我&rdquo;的课题。是上司自己应该处理的课题，我既没必要去讨好，也没必要委曲求全，我应该诚实面对自己的人生、正确处理自己的课题。</p>
<p>4，不去干涉别人的课题我不让别人干涉自己的课题。<span style="white-space: pre;"> </span></p>
<p>5，砍断&ldquo;格尔迪奥斯绳结&rdquo;</p>
<p>构筑良好人际关系需要保持一定的距离。</p>
<p>父母一味训斥孩子，心会疏远。孩子甚至不愿与父母商量，父母也不能提供适当援助。伸伸手即可触及，但又不踏入对方领域，保持适度距离非常重要。</p>
<p><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>自由就是被别人讨厌</p>
<p>毫不在意别人的评价、不害怕被别人讨厌、不追求被他人认可，如果不付出以上这些代价，那就无法贯彻自己的生活方式，也就不能获得自由。&ldquo;是否讨厌我&rdquo;是别人的课题，我不能干涉。</p>
<p>[向右R]获得幸福的勇气也包括&ldquo;被讨厌的勇气&rdquo;，一旦拥有了这种勇气，你的人际关系也会一下子变得轻松起来。</p>
<p>人际关系&ldquo;王牌&rdquo;，握在你自己手里</p>
<p>当我下定修复关系之&ldquo;决心&rdquo;，父亲拥有什么样的生活方式、对我主动靠近他这件事持什么态度等，这些与我毫无关系了。即使对方根本不愿意修复关系也无所谓。</p>
<p>既不可以去操纵他人，也不能操纵他人。人际关系里首先是自己。</p>','2025-07-10 13:43:57.546','2025-07-10 13:44:39.596',NULL,'f',NULL,'2025-07-10 13:44:39.594',NULL,NULL);
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<p>往往人越来越成熟,也越明白自然规律,人性.当有了宗教信仰,人会感到更充实,有底气🙏</p>','2024-07-03 13:13:15.713','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
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<p>我们能改变自己，有能力选择要采取什么行为。</p>
<p>自己都不能管好自己，即使得到次要的成就，当然也守不住自己的次要成就。</p>','2024-07-03 11:13:41.415','2024-07-03 11:14:35.223',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 11:14:35.222',NULL,NULL);
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<p>follow up script - to help you stay engaged and proactive,showing good customer service and making clients feel taken care of.</p>
<p>offer variable packages- making clients never feel bored to your product or service&nbsp;</p>
<p>visible product price- client can estimate their budget&nbsp;</p>
<p>smile always- making clients like what you are selling&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-03 10:04:53.335','2024-07-03 10:07:44.329',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 10:07:44.328',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2386df3a-ecc1-4a5c-8b06-388972b5422e','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>与其死命抵抗职业衰退的趋势，不如抓住美好的机会，走向喜悦的泉源，懂得爱人与被爱，从第一曲缐转到第二曲缐。</p>','2024-07-03 10:30:00.469','2024-07-03 10:30:00.469',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 10:30:00.469',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ac10e6e8-7d6c-4ab3-891c-10d5101d61fb','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>美好的事情永远是最简单而容易达成的内在满足感，如同与家人朋友，爱人的关系，好的关系，是双方一起奔向对方，一起努力维持交流，并逐渐升温的！</p>
<p>外在的满足感，是自己内心的三毒驱使，但结果多数是自己偏体磷伤！</p>','2024-07-03 11:24:25.589','2024-07-03 11:28:11.869',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 11:28:11.868',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4b91fcf0-5db7-4324-bb55-2300183d38b2','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 33 ：7月3日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 美好人际关系带来源源不断的奖励（Page 175-180）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>内在目标才能获得真正想要的。做好跳上第二曲线的准备，需<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">要从爱出发，建立关系，分享智慧。</span></p>
<p>需要更公开放式，陈述你内在的价值观。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-03 11:47:45.938','2024-07-03 11:47:45.938',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 11:47:45.937',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eb125d3e-f69a-46b0-9a1a-8dbdbb827a67','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>第二曲线，从爱出发， 建立关系，分享智慧。爱与被爱，迈向喜悦泉源</p>','2024-07-03 13:08:18.873','2024-07-03 13:08:18.873',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 13:08:18.872',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5a904336-1852-4ef7-89be-703703bed3b3','fe863a09-a43c-41df-8c10-cebc6a28d034','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>什么障碍让人为信仰转身而去？</p>
<p>1）在自我概念里没有宗教信仰 - 自我概念出现在九岁危机，然后就大量的建立是在青春期。如果能够在这些时期种下埋下信仰的种子就非常好。人生旅途不易，信仰是个照明灯塔。这是一份非常重要的礼物给孩子。</p>
<p>2) 把宗教和童话或神话故事混合，让理性的大人无法去接受宗教信仰。如果一个人从小就读很多童话故事和神话故事，应该不会有这个困扰。童话故事和神话故事带给孩子的内在力量是非常大的。</p>
<p>3）时间的限制，生活太忙碌， 没有安排时间给宗教信仰 - 这尤其难。现代人的生活有太多事情和干扰。持续保持信仰或灵修的实践，真的需要很清楚这是内心的一种需求，才能持之以恒。</p>','2024-06-29 01:06:55.552','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
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<p>透过小事，去看见自己的不愿意。</p>
<p>每个人都会畢业，有人开心的面对，有人恐惧的面对。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-27 08:12:02.168','2024-09-04 00:00:00.028',NULL,'f','2024-09-04 00:00:00.027','2024-09-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('96fd0f29-e333-4d7c-9988-d4aec0a0be45','af3b3ccc-86d3-4f5e-b9b7-c45b68bfe593','0ba622c5-da0b-42e9-8968-0d6797029f3c','<p>衰退虽然痛苦，但那是必经之路，坦诚自己的弱点，维持信仰，相信爱的力量，开辟出新的道路。</p>','2024-07-03 09:24:09.599','2024-07-10 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-10 00:00:00.022','2024-07-10 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4019776f-25a6-4cdb-b6b4-7acf3a85c43d','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 33 ：7月3日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 美好人际关系带来源源不断的奖励（Page 175-180）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：<br>内在目标 VS外在目标</p>
<p>内在目标主要追求长远关系带来的满足感，会过得快乐生活。</p>
<p>外在目标主要赚大钱、拥有很多东西、获得权力、建立口碑或出名，不一定会快乐，在让自己欲望暴增，人生满意度下降，一路在流体智力的曲线上，满足自己的瘾</p>
<p>转换到内在目标，才会获得真正想要的，做好跳上第二曲线的准备。第二曲线需要从爱出发，建立真诚的关系，分享智慧。</p>
<p>当人际关系成为意义与满足感的正式来源，你获得的奖励将不可胜数，有人比喻挖到宝藏。</p>
<p>亲密友谊胜过任何事业上的功成名就，在步入职业衰退时将带给你最大的安慰。</p>
<p>人际关系本质上带来有超越的力量，只要我们愿意，关系能神奇让我们上升到更高的境界，脱离柴米油盐醋茶。</p>
<p>与其死命抗职涯衰退的走势，不如抓住美好的机会，走向喜悦的泉源，懂得爱与被爱，从第一曲线转换到第二曲线。Agape的这种爱视为最高等级与最喜乐的爱。</p>','2024-07-03 11:35:32.62','2024-07-03 11:35:32.62',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 11:35:32.618',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('308df0fc-52be-4f3e-8dce-75a28bc29fb5','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>品格是决定成败的主因。在还未发展成功商数前，智力发展是整个行业评估成功的标准。但内在的品格远比才能或智商更能决定成功的持久性。</p>
<p>培养良善的品格是前往成功的不变原则。遵循着这个方向，不断检视自己的行为以避免背道而驰或&ldquo;脱轨&rdquo;。</p>','2024-07-03 12:04:06.159','2024-07-03 12:04:06.159',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 12:04:06.158',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('43bac318-1ec0-43a6-8bf6-fcd51927665d','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','77c4137c-93ad-42c0-8165-382807fec821','<p>叫停制度可以让我们平心静气，理清思路。</p>','2024-08-27 08:45:56.521','2024-08-27 08:45:56.521',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 08:45:56.52',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('82555ed0-3c6e-4365-bb7d-c4c9cffb41d8','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>以终为始。追求怎样的目标就会实现怎样的结果。目标分为内在与外在，内在目标追求的是人生的价值包括关系、身心健康，而外在目标追求的是财富、功名等。</p>
<p>从巴哈的例子见证了美好的人际关系可以为人生带来更深层的满足与对富足生活的实现。</p>','2024-07-03 12:19:04.202','2024-07-03 12:19:04.202',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 12:19:04.202',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0a282991-0f44-4708-ab5b-e4d72c11d84b','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<ul>
<li>品格才是决定成败的主因,柯维博士坚信，内在品格远比才能、智力或环境，更能决定人们的成功与否</li>
<li>虽然一个人的特质部分由出生时的基因决定，但我们能够通过选择和行为来改变自己。</li>
<li>正直会赢得信任，真心服务会赢得人心，而把优先目标放在第一位可以避免浪费时间和生命。</li>
</ul>','2024-07-03 12:32:02.609','2024-07-03 12:32:02.609',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 12:32:02.608',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a91ea583-160a-43e1-94ae-0f9f63d756b4','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','5e3f10f7-6730-45c8-bdb1-ff31e3f024ba','<p>保持内在目标的人，一年后过着更快乐的生活。这句话有感动到我。。。。</p>
<p>第二曲线需要你从爱出发，建立关系，分享智慧。</p>','2024-07-03 12:35:28.79','2024-07-03 12:35:28.79',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 12:35:28.79',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('47f9c993-23f8-453b-a2c4-bb28e06b687a','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','be5b7e97-d65c-43f6-ba7f-0ffd13533f1a','<p>一切都是最好的安排～只有经历过，敖过来了，在当下回首当时方能感悟这句话的意境。如还在当时挣扎着，可以有这句话免励自己同时臣服于此。</p>
<p>感谢你在今生让我遇见你，为我带来看见和学习，成为我人生的一面镜子，感谢你认真的扮演了自己的角色。</p>','2024-09-07 13:00:29.633','2024-09-07 13:00:29.633',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 13:00:29.633',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('95f2191e-c299-481b-a2b8-c53b359c0193','52a4bc58-f6a7-4154-8a07-a342f3a28e74','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>Miniso concept -从大M到小b.</p>
<p>以价格, quality, new trending取胜.</p>','2024-09-23 12:55:10.086','2024-09-23 12:55:10.086',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 12:55:10.085',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ee81dde5-d6e1-46ee-a88b-9d62ad862452','a904e147-bc6a-4807-86ca-bfc40db264af','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 19 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Onion Marketeology - Chapter 5 &nbsp;ConversionRate</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Stock in Hand (Page 095-100)</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯Thoughts after reading：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">21 stock in hand - yes and no &hellip; yes means client can get stock , however your money is in<span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp; </span>inventory .</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">22.follow up script and consistent follow ups - Yes ! This I totally agree - keep warm and build relationships with prospects and clients </span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">23 .Offer variable packages- offer 3 types of packages to choose from ..: </span></p>
<p class="p2"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">24 Visible product price / list</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Label with a product price tag.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I saw one shopping mall in China - label the instruction how to do use the product.. pro and con.</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">25.Smile always - yes smiling is a magic for building in relationship .</span></p>','2024-07-03 12:47:41.756','2024-07-03 12:47:41.756',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 12:47:41.756',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8b32848e-9afb-41ef-9ab9-a45fa13c51f0','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>正面的品格决定一个人的成败。若是他只是偶尔侥幸成功了，他的成功是不会持久的。<br>宇宙自然有它的法则，那些恒久不变的宇宙原则不容我们争辩，它主宰着我们的成功。</p>','2024-07-03 12:54:11.02','2024-07-03 12:54:11.02',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 12:54:11.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('652f542f-813a-4bf5-abee-0c62affb72c4','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>在这一篇章复里谈到了信仰。作者有分享，他小时候到中年一路上换了几个不同的宗教。作者也分享关于他太太的信仰，好像时间一到，或者说是缘分来了，他太太也开始了信仰。</p>','2024-07-03 12:33:20.776','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('274aed7d-89bb-4f48-a380-e9308b43c5e6','fe863a09-a43c-41df-8c10-cebc6a28d034','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>在这一篇学到了什么是尼苛德摩症候群。我们会抗拒任何不符合自我概念的事，因为那会引发不安的感受。然而事实上，自称无宗教信仰也是一种归宿，一种身份认同，所产生的影响力和自认是犹太教徒或佛教徒一样大。</p>','2024-07-03 12:36:59.761','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2101e7ae-5be7-41fb-bd8e-9fd3a9c788e4','e6cd9495-df01-4883-94f2-66c1471c447e','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>品格比能力更加重要，是首要成就的根本。</p>
<p>成熟稳定的情绪是决定人际关系好坏与否的基础。情绪成熟稳定的人同时也是高效率的人士。</p>','2024-07-03 12:13:45.886','2024-07-08 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2bc9207c-2e0b-4cea-903c-80ca32799145','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 34 ：7月3日 星期三&nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第七章 ： 展开你的林棲期（Page 183-188）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第一阶段是「学生期」（brahmacharya），也就是致力于学习的青春年华与成年早期。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第二阶段是「家居期」（grihastha），你开始建立事业，累积财富，成家立业。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">这个阶段是人生最常见的陷阱：人会变得太执着于金钱、权力、性爱、地位等世俗的报酬，试图让这个阶段持续一生。听起来很耳熟吗？</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">换句话说，我们必须放下功名利禄，走过人生的转换，在新阶段觅得智慧，借此打败执着造成的痛苦。如果有心努力，这种转换一般发生在50岁左右。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">那么新阶段是什么？新阶段是「林栖期」（vanaprastha），词源是梵文的「退隐」与「进入山林」两个词汇。是指重新调整人生目标。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">最后一站是遁世（Sannyasa) 了解自己。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">总结了解自己，一切往内修，心里的富足才是重点。</span></p>','2024-07-03 13:15:01.588','2024-07-03 13:15:01.588',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 13:15:01.587',NULL,NULL);
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<p>学习对重要的关系付出爱与被（接受）爱，为彼此留下的美好回忆将是永恒的满足感。</p>','2024-07-03 13:35:38.078','2024-07-03 13:35:38.078',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 13:35:38.077',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6b7ee120-9501-45f5-9309-283fde566b4d','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>当人际关系成为意义与满足感的正式来源，我们将获得的奖励不计其数，这就是为什么经营企业其实就是一个经营人的企业。以人为本，企业少了人就变成止业。</p>
<p>再来就是要懂得爱人和被爱，我认为还需要爱自己。</p>','2024-07-03 13:38:05.822','2024-07-03 13:38:05.822',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 13:38:05.822',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4345bbfd-66b2-4274-8d89-c9227e142830','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>&nbsp;- 品格教育才是使「成功商数」获得提升的关键，而不是智商</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 我们可以改变自身的特质，因为我们有能力选择要采取什么样的行为</p>','2024-07-03 13:38:51.8','2024-07-03 13:38:51.8',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 13:38:51.799',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a9e5013d-1279-414d-8143-5f940b6a81e4','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','eae33eae-de50-4837-bc3d-f47b0e4b5d76','<p>如果我的&ldquo;内在目标&rdquo;不清晰，那麽第二曲线將很难被實現，需要以愛做為出發點，积极去建立關係，在不久的将来我定能过着更快樂的生活.....</p>','2024-07-03 13:42:11.211','2024-07-03 13:42:11.211',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 13:42:11.21',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bf7c2195-ac60-4933-8dba-5eefede7da6a','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 3 ：7月3日《成功哪有那么难》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">品格决定成败&ndash;十二槓桿（Page18 - 23）</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">🎯今日读后感悟</span></p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">我们能改变自己，是因为有能力选择要采取什么行为。自己要有意愿去改变，别人真的不能夠改变了我。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">原则就像杠杆一样。我们或许无法靠自己的力量，移动一块巨石，但若借助杠杆之力，任务就变得相对容易。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">当把目标放在第一位，我就不会浪费宝贵的时间与人生。学习尊重，学习接受对方不一样。向善、行善。</span></p>','2024-07-03 13:43:06.536','2024-07-03 13:43:06.536',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 13:43:06.535',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('67fcbe8f-a1e2-4bd7-8579-232d867571a8','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','0a08fea5-5f22-4ee8-a6b0-7c46e27899cf','<p>Day 33 ：7月3日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 美好人际关系带来源源不断的奖励（Page 175-180）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>转到内在目标，才会发现真正想要的，做好跳上第二曲线的准备。第二曲线需要从爱出发，建立关系，分享智慧。</p>
<p>当人际关系成为意义与满足感的「正式」来源，获得的奖励不可胜数。</p>','2024-07-03 13:45:40.321','2024-07-03 13:45:40.321',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 13:45:40.32',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1a34f841-5d0c-47ce-9f23-60c673b1c779','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','be5b7e97-d65c-43f6-ba7f-0ffd13533f1a','<p>慈悲心～帮助人放下对道理和利害的执着。人生是所大学，我们都是来做功课的，逆境带来的苦，只是比较难修的功课，修完了，得的学分也比较多。</p>
<p>爱自己是结果。面对每件事的作为，让自己更满意，更喜欢。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-27 08:47:25.256','2024-08-27 08:47:25.256',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 08:47:25.255',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9cecb32f-a053-4b0f-b34e-a402e107518b','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<p>准备迈向第二曲线，以爱出发，建立关系，分享智慧。学习爱与被爱，维持良好的人际关系而不过度依赖外境提供的喜悦感。</p>','2024-07-03 13:56:06.408','2024-07-03 13:56:06.408',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 13:56:06.407',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('637f2835-ddfe-4fd3-8cb3-c691b00a04f4','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day21：9月 7日 《活学》Part 2 最高效能的人生<br>第四章： 更好的自己 &nbsp;10.一切都是最好的安排！ - 11. 感谢的力量（Page132-135）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>一切都是最好的安排！&nbsp;</strong><br>要学会接受身边发生的事物，并相信那是最好的安排。那一天回首时，角度看法不一样了就会发现所经历的都是最好的安排。</p>
<p><br><strong>感谢的力量</strong><br>感恩不仅最能收到，也让人想给更多。</p>','2024-09-07 13:21:13.377','2024-09-07 13:21:13.377',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 13:21:13.376',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('887b2101-2b8a-47ce-be74-06a46b4e06da','892a8813-7a5b-49d6-bfdc-f153249b9364','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>自我肯定可以是：「 藉由預先規劃, 根据計畫行事, 以及分派工作給他人, 我自己主宰了自己的行為 , 這是一件令人形振奮的事, .</p>
<p>情緒是具有強大的力量, 但卻經藏被忽略 , 而自我背定可以幫助我們釋放.這股力量.</p>','2024-07-03 13:48:28.123','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('883393ea-ed3b-4f23-ad9b-8141de8dbb37','427944ca-335d-4f0b-b95a-8f4a5bfbf25c','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>在这一篇章作者分享了基督徒所认识的圣保禄。圣保禄让基督教成为有组织的宗教並在未来二千年持续发展。圣保禄，根据历史记载，承受着某些身体病痛。这些病痛将带出下一节的重点。</p>','2024-07-03 13:56:36.97','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4e6d5c43-7d67-4aeb-a242-e97f861c3699','2f505f70-db25-49ee-9524-3cf23b2d3cbc','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>最有意义的人生经验，往往很痛苦。这章节里提到了心理学家弗兰克的经典名著「活出意义来」，说人能在各种苦难中，找到人生的意义与个人成长。</p>','2024-07-03 14:05:58.309','2024-07-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dc24143b-e1e6-4873-be77-e60276035934','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>品格是决定一个人终极成就的&ldquo;道&rdquo;，智力与才能都只是&ldquo;术&rdquo;。我们每个人都有能力改变自己，只要我们愿意，因为我们都有选择的自由。就是面对外部刺激的时候，我们究竟要如何反应？</p>
<p>要想成功，我们就必须时刻检视自己的品格与目的，是否符合自然的基本原则？若有缺陷则开始进行修正，确保按照正确的原则行事。</p>','2024-07-03 15:34:48.945','2024-07-03 15:34:48.945',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 15:34:48.944',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('17483e01-028b-41b6-b4e8-6056350cb42f','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>前言：<br>成功的首要<br>要清楚知道首要的成功定义与次要的成功定义。<br>只有真正用心做好首要的事，次要的成功自然会尾随到来首要成功条件是内在的良好品格，愿意不在乎回报，，自我牺牲，服务他人,有责任感，正直，坚忍，才可以长久性的。<br>反之，次要成功就是名利地位，自我利益，都是外在而无法恒久的。<br>铁达尼号是可以让我们反省的题材电影故事。把最不重要的事摆出第一位，结果是无法达成目标，事业不顺，家庭破碎，健康问题，朋友离开，公司营业岌岌可危，人生就因为这样的错误决定给连累了。</p>','2024-07-03 15:37:51.263','2024-07-03 15:37:51.263',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 15:37:51.262',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('883e2015-323d-4781-b796-570249e39e55','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','c972a3d9-d06c-4c0c-9a05-5fe06761f12c','<p>品格才是决定成败的主因，内在品格远比才能、智力或环境，更能决定人们成功与否。</p>','2024-07-03 15:38:48.423','2024-07-03 15:38:48.423',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 15:38:48.423',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5ec78bcf-12fe-4456-9df1-aa623c1eb96b','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>内在目标：追求长远关系带来的满足感</p>
<p>外在目标：物质相关，身份地位名利等</p>
<p>不管是内在或外在目标，一旦有了目标，只要有去做，都能成功达到目标。</p>
<p>不同的是，抱持内在目标的人，过着更快乐的生活。</p>
<p>而抱持外在目标的人，则有更多的负面情绪。</p>','2024-07-03 15:41:06.091','2024-07-03 15:41:08.472',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 15:41:08.471',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e7342b88-50ec-49f7-b206-38f532dd685d','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>把外在目标转换成内在目标，</p>
<p>可能就会避免我们说的 &ldquo;内卷&rdquo; 内耗</p>','2024-07-03 15:52:08.71','2024-07-03 15:52:08.71',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 15:52:08.709',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c1069199-b5ca-4a49-b205-695ff1761552','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>抱有内在目标的人，一年后会过上更快乐的生活。而追求外在目标的人，往往会经历更多的负面情绪，更容易生病。准备好进入第二阶段，从爱出发，建立关系，分享智慧。</p>
<p>选择内在目标的人，人际关系会成为他们意义和满足感的主要来源，获得的奖励将无数，就像挖到宝藏一样。</p>','2024-07-03 16:00:37.216','2024-07-03 16:00:37.216',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 16:00:37.215',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1573d576-066b-4f63-8709-1e3d11882a8f','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>原来在第三人生的后面还有第四人生，这是新发现！</p>
<p>只有往内心寻求才能找到解脱之道，它一直在哪里等我们。</p>','2024-07-03 21:03:41.633','2024-07-03 21:03:41.633',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 21:03:41.632',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('980a91af-8f05-40bc-b863-ae76d320a48b','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>柯维提出的原则其实是26个，而教学相长不在其中。这是成功的方程式。</p>
<p>聚焦在品格，成绩自然会来</p>','2024-07-03 21:11:09.188','2024-07-03 21:11:09.188',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 21:11:09.187',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b3670a44-d9cb-41d6-9c1d-d99826c92b1b','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>12杠杆</p>
<p>原则就像杠杆。借助杠杆之力，任何任务就变得相对容易。</p>
<p>12个原则。正直、贡献、优先目标、牺牲奉献、服务、责任、忠诚、相互性、多元性、持续学习、自我更新、教学相长。</p>
<p>以上是基本且必然的。而且有高低顺序。</p>
<p>接下来让我们好好细读 学习。</p>','2024-07-03 23:02:00.89','2024-07-03 23:02:00.89',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 23:02:00.889',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('914fa7b3-1761-4c9f-bb4a-ff59c9d92bbb','7c5848d5-a834-4b49-9612-226a7c0be88c','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>Online 可以货比10家 Vs offline 费时货比3家.</p>
<p>Offline 无法取代的体验性.</p>','2024-08-27 10:17:04.163','2024-08-27 10:17:04.163',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 10:17:04.162',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('38f79c8f-803a-4c9a-80b4-2811ff2eec7d','a4e05cbf-f836-4ea8-8fe9-e8be7e5a66fb','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>真是需要活到老学到老，经商更是如此。个人今日才知有坪效的计算方式。</p>','2024-09-07 13:52:42.609','2024-09-07 13:52:42.609',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 13:52:42.609',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4cbf8139-f2ab-40fb-9d44-7e985fb70318','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>人生会有好几个阶段，不同的阶段会有不同的经历，历练，生活精彩，或许甚至因为被发掘而被仰望，但是在该放下过往云烟时，需遵从内心真实寻求的阶段时，就不要再执着追求！</p>','2024-07-03 23:54:21.387','2024-07-03 23:54:21.387',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-03 23:54:21.386',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9b13981b-2239-47d2-ad98-622b9e8a614b','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>内心深处我们真正的目的就是我们终极渴望。</p>
<p>我们才是自己的主人，决定自己要什么。</p>
<p>学会积极主动。就可以启动自我觉察，想象力和良知。然后去运用自由意志，选择自己的目的。</p>
<p>拥有服务的心，处处为人着想。因为我们经常探索自己的内心和俭视自己的人生目的。这样就能看见他人的内心，应用同理心，授权他人，并且肯定他人的价值和身份。</p>
<p>如果以自我的出发点来去服务的话，就经不起别人的冷言冷语，结果自己受伤害。所以自己的首要目的非常重要。</p>','2024-07-03 23:20:39.75','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('733831f2-a665-42cd-a648-f88b2b43fbe6','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 36 ：7月6日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第七章 ：我的信仰与我的良师（Page 191-196）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>＜她是你的老师＞，这句话让我想到每一出现在我们生命中的人，都是老师。</p>','2024-07-03 23:48:36.642','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('63243996-c9a2-4c74-8873-67e5853b0017','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>看完了学听话这一课，我还真惭愧自己的病症还蛮严重的。总是抢着说自己的看法和自己想的事情，原来这是多么的自我。学习听，不插嘴，不枉断，不心不在焉，把别人说的每一句话，结结实实的给听进去，我真的应该认真的好好在这一方面学习。赞美的意义也原来不是那么简单，不是只是随便几句好听的话，他是需要真心，无我，需要爱和支持力的。</p>','2024-09-15 10:58:52.561','2024-09-15 10:59:26.14',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 10:59:26.139',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7f51544d-f23b-43b7-aef1-a280746793df','cdd2f109-a463-4771-9940-51b35d536e39','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>原来好好说话不是一件简单的事。</p>','2024-11-07 14:31:18.62','2024-11-09 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-11-09 00:00:00.022','2024-11-09 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7f010f74-a216-4797-9d41-bb981e0083d0','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>知人性,知利害.知自己,知他人.</p>
<p>道德是反人性.法律是道德的底线.</p>','2024-12-02 00:25:04.226','2024-12-02 00:25:04.226',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 00:25:04.224',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('61f77603-78e5-4819-b4b7-192a8253892f','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>若你想拥有幸福的婚姻，就要设法激发正能量。</p>
<p>若你希望青春期的孩子变得更开心，配合度更高，你要成为更体谅他人，富有同理心、标准一致的慈爱父母。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>若你想在职場獲得更多自由与权限，那先成为更负责任，更乐于助人，願意贡献更多的员工。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>若你希望獲得信任，先当个值得信赖的人。</p>
<p>若你想要找到Mr 或Ms right ，那你就先当个Mr 或Ms right 😄</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 02:13:34.678','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aedbd677-ab3a-4de5-b45f-4d16cc997719','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','9ec019e3-2781-4206-be53-c483ae61a027','<p>根据古印度的学说，人生分为四阶段。理想上，每个阶段是25年。</p>
<p>（一）学生期，致力于学习的青春年华与成年早期。</p>
<p>（二）家居期，开始建立事业，累积财富，成家立业。</p>
<p>（三）林栖期，必须重新调整人生目标，刻意退出原本的公私责任，投入性灵、深度智慧、晶体智力、教导与信仰。</p>
<p>（四）遁世期，完全投入开悟。</p>
<p>要很好地过渡每一个阶段，必须要往内心寻求，认识自己！</p>','2024-07-02 04:56:59.522','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fa8bfa97-4f72-4339-94d0-8279cc120e38','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>成功人士遵守的12个杠杆：<br>正直，贡献，优先目标，牺牲贡献，服务，责任，忠诚，相互性，多元性，持续学习，自我更新，教学相长。<br><br>正直很重要，成功需要表里如一，没有不可告人的私心.</p>','2024-07-02 12:18:54.398','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('38f0bce9-7ddb-41c5-b799-a4e981260de0','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','e82c399f-31e2-4808-afd9-9cfa1e2fe798','<p>人生各阶段恰当生活方式：</p>
<p>第一阶段：学生期：致力于学习的青春年华或成年早期</p>
<p>第二阶段：家居期：开始建立事业、累计财富、成家立业（人生最长见的陷阱，变得太执着于金钱、权力、性爱、地位等世俗的报酬</p>
<p>第三阶段：林栖期：刻意退出原本的公私责任，愈来愈投入性灵、深度智慧、晶体智力、教导与信仰（性灵发展）</p>
<p>第四阶段：遁世期：老年时的最后性灵阶段（畅饮杯中最深沉的人生秘密）</p>
<p>认识你自己，当心平静下来后，你就会发现里头一直等着你的宝藏</p>','2024-07-02 08:09:42.668','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e2199c96-1c20-4e4f-8467-48666d3cbbc9','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>年纪小的时候会遇到一些状况需要做选择。我到底是为自己着想，<wbr>还是奔向去做对的事的方向去做？如果去做对的事情，<wbr>我会遇到挑战、甚至失去一些东西、暴露自己的脆弱。后来，<wbr>我发现只有去做对的事，心里才会舒坦，收获反而更多。慢慢地，<wbr>在过程中让年纪小的我慢慢累积自信，也让我相信自然法则。<br><br>我希望自己这辈子在遇到任何困难的选择，<wbr>我能够依然相信自然法则，相信善良，相信爱，<wbr>勇于面对人性的底层阴暗的情绪，勇于承担自己的责任。<br><br>看到今天读的这段，让自己获得更大的鼓励。一辈子活得心里舒坦，心安很重要。</p>','2024-07-02 13:05:05.085','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eb7e0951-e45e-4fd8-9f88-562d4965f2c2','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>十二槓桿是成功人,遵行的十二個原則,指引 我們真心接納： 正直、 貢獻、 優先目標、 牺牲奉獻、 服務、 責任、 忠誠、 相互性、 多元性、 持續学习、 自我更新、 教学相長.是擺脫對次要成功执著,着, 轉而聚焦於首要成功.</p>
<p>要分辨一個人追求的是首要, 還是次要的成就,在 事情發展不順時, 最能看清.</p>
<p>期待作者引領,更深 入了解, 槓桿所進行的思考, 誏人生能煥然一新, 更上一層樓.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-02 15:18:41.438','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3b11ea06-b757-48e1-97c6-02b76387309c','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>这几页真的很好.人生4阶段.</p>
<p>Brahmachaya-grihasta-vanaprastha-Sannayasa.</p>
<p>我本人也是在grihasta中努力.这给我提供很好的人生阶段分图.</p>
<p>修向内求,心静.</p>
<p>淡定从容自在人生🙏</p>','2024-07-03 13:03:47.634','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5794ab7b-b9a3-41fe-9e76-857c324d7bda','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>我在读这篇的时候，仿佛是大师acharya 在和我说话一样。把人生分成四个阶段，学生期，家居期，林妻期，还有最后一个是循世期。每个阶段都有他必须学习的功课，才能阶段性的成长。灵性是我一直没做的很好的部分，有待加强。</p>
<p>大师说，你就是&ldquo;我&rdquo;。我们有了解自己吗 ？ self 是什么？我是谁？ 大师给我们的建议，&ldquo;认识自己，往内心寻求&rdquo;。我感谢大师。</p>','2024-07-03 14:12:19.93','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8f205363-494f-4c6e-a8e8-8d7c4a832c48','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>成功人士遵守的十二个有效原则：</p>
<p>正直、贡献、优先目标、牺牲奉献、服务、责任、忠诚、相互性、多元性、持续学习、自我更新、教学相长.</p>
<p>善用这十二个槓杆,强化你的品格和影响力,人生可以变得更轻松,更丰富,这是成功不可缺少的基石.</p>','2024-07-03 15:01:59.868','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('94629d3c-a8e3-4caa-a6d1-d1e19d268455','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>十二个有效原则：正直、贡献、优先目标、牺牲奉献、服务、责任、忠诚、相互性、多元化、持续学习、自我更新、教学相长。</p>
<p>善用这十二个杠杆强化自己的品格和影响力。</p>','2024-07-03 09:36:35.552','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cbc785eb-d399-4321-9247-f8a2bc0bf516','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 34 ：7月4日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第七章 ： 展开你的林棲期（Page 183-188）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>人生的4个偕段:</p>
<p>学生期(brahmachanya) - 学习，成年<br>居家期(grihastha) - 建立事业，财富<br>林棲期(vanaprastha) -放下, 调整目标, 运用智慧，分享，人际关系，信仰佛学，认识自己，往内求<br>遁世(sannyasa) - 性灵</p>','2024-07-03 14:13:09.363','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d062d432-0759-4a36-bf4c-a0845e49e223','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','0a08fea5-5f22-4ee8-a6b0-7c46e27899cf','<p>Day 34 ：7月4日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第七章 ： 展开你的林棲期（Page 183-188）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>别做困兽之斗，那只会使心情沮丧，加倍捉着无法带来满足感的执著不放。要开始注重晶体智力、运用智慧与他人分享。</p>','2024-07-03 13:50:33.174','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('38f4a602-46dc-42fe-9f5c-f05060ce86d3','06b3b4a3-afaf-4176-b42f-2e00a97827b7','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>摆地摊：专注做一件事，做得极致</p>
<p>跑江湖：出门见人，看众生相。</p>
<p>两者做的好，既有自律要求，又懂得做人，</p>
<p>怎叫人不疼。</p>','2024-10-05 15:47:15.927','2024-10-05 15:47:15.927',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-10-05 15:47:15.926',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8309b299-2a2f-4a67-a9d6-d25d073b6906','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">印度上师的智慧</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">正当生活可以分为四个阶段，理想上，每个阶段25年，不过这个概念的重点不是活到严格意义的100岁，而是在人生的四个阶段都待上充分的时间。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第一阶段：学生期</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">致力于学习的青春年华与成年早期</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第二阶段：家居期</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">开始建立事业，累积财富，成家立业。这个阶段却是人生最常见的陷阱，人会变得太执着于金钱、权利、性爱、地位等世俗的报酬，试图让这个阶段持续一生。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第三阶段：林棲期 Vanaprastha</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">词源是梵文的&rdquo;退隐&rdquo;与&rdquo;进入森林&rdquo;两个词。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们刻意退出原本的公私责任，越来越投入性灵、深度智慧、晶体智力、教导与信仰。林棲期的意思不是完美的生活需要50岁退休，住进山林，而是指你必须重新调整人生目标，</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第四阶段：遁世 Sannyasa</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">完全投入开悟的果实。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">在你了解&rdquo;我&rdquo;的那一刻，你就知道你是&rdquo;我&rdquo;，你不是肉体。你知道你是无穷的真理。那样的领悟，那样的开窍，是遁世。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">对成功成瘾的人的建议</span></p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">认识自己，这是获得解脱的唯一办法。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">当你的心平静下来后，往内心寻求答案，你就会发现里头有一直等待着你的宝藏。</span></li>
</ul>','2024-07-04 00:18:25.113','2024-07-04 00:18:25.113',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 00:18:25.112',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c1e7f445-3345-484c-b413-d83a35e050d3','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>逆境的三个咒语</p>
<p>能带我转化心性，走出逆境的，只有三种心：惭愧心，慈悲心和感恩心。我本人非常认同作者说的"逆境越大，突破越大"，因为每当我经历任何不顺心的问题，总是可以从中学到很多有意义的道理，使得内心更加强大。小小的逆境，突破的事见识和能力；从大逆境中突破的，则是心灵的转化。惭愧心让人反求诸己，看到有所不足；慈悲心让人体悟到自己正在受苦。感恩心能把逆境变成逆增上缘，逆境中精进。</p>
<p>叫停的机制</p>
<p>遇到意见不合，无法解决问题的时候，永远给自己喊停，搞好自己的思绪，安抚情绪稳定后，才从新出发。</p>
<p>爱自己的方式</p>
<p>爱别人之前，先好好学会爱自己。</p>','2024-08-27 10:19:02.159','2024-08-27 10:19:02.159',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 10:19:02.158',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('292c3e89-faa7-4ec8-9456-87e099f8f744','8339f16e-03cd-4d3a-9230-ce25708648b7','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>谦卑是美德之母。</p>
<p>勇气是所有美徳之父。</p>
<p>我们要经历很多磨难，挫折，走过许多冤枉路，才能獲得內在人格的整合。</p>
<p>吃得苦中苦 方为人上人。</p>','2024-07-04 09:08:38.388','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4e1259b0-de80-4a50-b2a0-2458b671bdb7','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>有些声音，在我们停止说话的时候才听得到；</p>
<p>一些情景，在我们停止东张西望的时候才看得到；</p>
<p>心里的宝藏（家），在我们停止外在的四处寻找，静下来才可以找到（回家的路）。</p>','2024-07-04 00:45:50.569','2024-07-04 00:45:50.569',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 00:45:50.568',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f4d43a1a-ff53-4b93-a772-410faed23c85','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>在人生的第二阶段会让人忘我，好像中毒似的，不断追求更多更多以至于在衰退后难以接受自己</li>
<li>对功成名就不执着或迷恋，那不过是泡影</li>
<li>认识自己，向内探索，这是唯一解脱方法</li>
</ul>','2024-07-04 01:05:29.206','2024-07-04 01:05:29.206',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 01:05:29.205',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('db5a0836-e019-45c4-97c7-4a64c1831b9f','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>认识你自己，往内心寻求，当你平静下来后，你就会发现里头一直等着你藏。</p>','2024-07-04 01:45:09.318','2024-07-04 01:45:09.318',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 01:45:09.317',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5ff84e7e-3acb-4056-ac9b-f204b28a9442','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','9070d9da-6428-4328-8983-4c4a65d0a468','<p>我认为，第三阶段是林栖期，注重性灵和智慧。遁世期则专注开悟和自我了解。向内心寻找才能获得解脱，平静后会发现内心宝藏。</p>','2024-07-04 03:04:32.005','2024-07-04 03:04:32.005',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 03:04:32.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c60f71cd-f0e9-4b87-8d2e-4b6577a49d51','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p>第七章：展开你的林棲期。我们不需要别的。光是能活着，光是能呼吸，光是能踏出一步，就够美好。</p>
<p>上师文卡塔拉曼说，正当生活分为四阶段，理想上，每个阶段是25年。第一阶段是学生期，也就是致力于学习的青春年华与成长早期。第二阶段是家居期，开始建立事业，累积财富，成家立业。这个阶段是人生最常见的陷阱，人会变得太执着于金钱，权力，性爱，地位等世俗的报酬，试图让这个阶段持续一生。所以这阶段时，人必须学习放弃世俗的眼光定义我们的方式，走过人生的转换，在新阶段觅得智慧，借此打败执着造成的痛苦。新阶段是指林棲期，必须重新调整人生目标，退出原本的公私责任，愈来愈投入性灵，深度智慧，具体智力，教导与信仰。</p>
<p>最后一站是遁世，也就是老年时的最后性灵阶段。在你了解我的那一刻，你知道你是我，你不是肉体。你知道你是无穷的真理。那样的领悟，那样的开窍，是遁世。不过有的人极力抵抗这样的变化，向衰退怒吼，拒绝承认改变的事实，阻挡自身对于形而上的需求。大师建议获得解脱的唯一办法，就是认识你自己，就那样而已，没别的；往内心寻求，当自己心平静下来后，你就会发现里头一直等着你的宝藏。</p>','2024-07-04 03:27:34.881','2024-07-04 03:27:34.881',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 03:27:34.879',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('38f7fd5e-4cb4-461b-bb2f-c8ca78dfcf53','50df68a4-e707-498c-9585-1afea5c7dbfa','fd00afa6-39f6-4b3c-95b4-4d413e535fb9','<p>1.莫忘初心，恢复正常，别忘了自己是谁。</p>
<p>2. 在有生之年将自己捐出去，做有意义的传承，利人利己。</p>
<p>3. 不用寻寻觅觅，若是问题一直存在，不妨从自身找出答案。</p>','2024-09-23 12:56:05.306','2024-09-23 12:56:12.664',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 12:56:12.663',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('47235327-e659-4243-ab60-fb93ce28eaf3','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>很多时候其实人生的矛盾点就在于过于放大对方的缺陷，而隐藏自己的过错</p>
<p>当我们学会看见天空的星星，而非地上的烂泥时，我们的人生就是取决于我们对待这世界的观点</p>','2024-07-04 03:52:50.44','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ecd79956-b969-43ea-a904-dab6a3496304','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>丧失正直的人，不论工作或生活都处于似是而非的世界里。唯有全然的正直可为你除去重担。正直两大特点：谦卑与勇气。谦虚的企业领导，言行一致确保公司的言论（也是公司的价值体系）建立在原则之上，是非常重要的事。怀抱谦卑与勇气，自然成为一个正直的人，你的安全感来自内在而非外在，意味着你在人际关系中，展现了最高水准的诚实与可信度。你越了解自己的本质，就越洞悉适用于所有人的真理。</p>','2024-07-04 03:53:58.121','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('09679c28-2046-4920-be9c-f03d97a6aece','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>古印度的學説，認為正當生活分為四階段：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>学生期：致力於學習的青春年華与成年早期。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>家居期： 開始建立事業，累積财富，成家立业。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>林棲期： 放下功名利祿，破除對這些偶像的依附，在新階段覓得智慧，走向人生新階段。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>遁世： 追求性靈上的成長。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>上师說： 往內心尋求，當你的心平靜下來後，你就會發現裡頭一直等著你的寶藏。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>有過林棲期的發展，才有遁世期的喜樂。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>認識你自己，是獲得解脫的唯一辦法。</p>','2024-07-04 03:46:41.996','2024-07-04 03:51:45.934',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 03:51:45.933',NULL,NULL);
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<p>4/7 古印度學說正當生活分4階段。pg 185</p>
<p>學生期，家居期（奮鬥），林棲期（第二曲線準備）</p>
<p>最後一站， 循世期（靈性）找到內在自性</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-04 04:02:23.528','2024-07-04 04:02:23.528',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 04:02:23.527',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2dc491b8-5350-4899-9c77-df4559d14707','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>若你希望获得信任，先做一个值得信赖的人。</p>
<p>都是从自己开始。相信。</p>','2024-07-04 05:22:46.513','2024-07-04 05:22:46.513',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 05:22:46.512',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('082e871d-1e9c-4cb2-b69a-e72ebcfa1fd4','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 4 ：7月4日《成功哪有那么难》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">为什么是这十二槓桿？-&nbsp; 不只是与成功有约（Page 24 - 29）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">聚焦是首要的成就。看似简单，我有许多想要做的活动，想要学的东西这么多，这本书真好提醒我要聚焦。放慢脚步😂要懂得槓桿。</span></p>','2024-07-04 05:41:03.764','2024-07-04 05:41:03.764',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 05:41:03.763',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('08a9b757-9b6f-4384-a874-673dd119f8f6','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>在追求名利的同时也要学会抽身，能想一想除了名利在自己的生活里还能活出怎么样的自己。</p>
<p>每个人都会经历书中的四个阶段， 要怎么样让自己的的生活活出自己想要的样子一切取决于我们的行动。</p>
<p>（ 认识自己）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-04 09:30:46.264','2024-07-04 09:30:46.264',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 09:30:46.263',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0514b8e7-3143-4498-b9d3-847fc19655d4','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','a1b3cb7c-f3c4-4ffb-82dc-fe72e7a3628c','<p>當年長時，投入信仰，參加宗教活動，生活方式健康， 幸福感增加促使有有信仰的人比較快樂，憂鬱程度也較低。</p>','2024-07-04 04:11:32.351','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('34ebfa77-27a1-4994-b6cd-73f923c7646d','a83de9e4-af47-4da9-b850-9c6d3880cef8','539803dd-b433-42a0-bcbb-3fef5b3a20fe','<p>Paid membership is a good way to make our client come back to spend especially for F&amp;B business, customer can try a lot of food/product to make them fall in love with our service/product.</p>','2024-07-04 04:21:43.248','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e2ae6d14-f950-44cc-a32b-47bf02cf1b33','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','a1b3cb7c-f3c4-4ffb-82dc-fe72e7a3628c','<p>步入人生下半場，這時人們會傾向尋求內在平靜， 苦苦掙扎一番展開靈性之旅，到底要選擇哪一派宗教，各自隨緣。</p>','2024-07-04 04:28:38.005','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d3a4477e-3a0c-488b-99c4-b8d51d27ae9e','df201350-b7cc-4d0c-bfad-4bbdb8405a52','539803dd-b433-42a0-bcbb-3fef5b3a20fe','<p>Reminder system /Customer relationship management system is a good way to make our clients return more often. Close door sales event also a good way for my business to promote some product to our customer</p>','2024-07-04 04:30:48.923','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5b429477-e64d-468e-bf7d-711fa97338c7','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>信仰是很个人的，可以洗涤灵魂，带来心灵的平静。</p>','2024-07-06 14:55:16.5','2024-07-06 14:55:16.5',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-06 14:55:16.499',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b9b7144b-c8e0-4ab7-8ecc-c31dfc86d684','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>信仰不一定是宗教，也可以是一种信念，一种坚持</p>','2024-07-06 15:01:12.551','2024-07-06 15:01:12.551',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-06 15:01:12.55',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e2515006-e9b1-4c43-9ed8-3d57bc8dc11a','fe863a09-a43c-41df-8c10-cebc6a28d034','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>性灵发展是人生头等大事，必须挪出时间，按时冥想、祷告、阅读与修炼，每天都不能懈怠。</p>','2024-07-07 15:26:30.995','2024-07-07 15:26:30.995',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-07 15:26:30.994',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3e76e0e8-8780-4a10-94d2-2cc4b99c7393','fe863a09-a43c-41df-8c10-cebc6a28d034','41f959d3-c932-4657-84ab-137317e3a989','<p>To build strong lasting faith is not to just have spiritual practices as a hobby but a priority, a commitment, the biggest most important thing in life to cultivate the faith&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-07 15:38:00.955','2024-07-07 15:38:00.955',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-07 15:38:00.954',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eb385447-ea73-4e36-87fe-53e7f7c23d4c','76b8b8f2-1324-4b60-905e-290a9f875acb','539803dd-b433-42a0-bcbb-3fef5b3a20fe','<p>Include coupons in marketing material with time limited can encourage our client to come again</p>','2024-07-04 05:07:37.567','2024-07-08 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('30f28088-76c9-4d2d-8a56-80c0c916a22d','8339f16e-03cd-4d3a-9230-ce25708648b7','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>平衡。</p>
<p>反省。持续不断地学习。</p>','2024-07-09 02:42:25.929','2024-07-09 02:42:25.929',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-09 02:42:25.928',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('114dc4ac-a4c0-4d49-8f2e-471f628a4529','af3b3ccc-86d3-4f5e-b9b7-c45b68bfe593','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>示弱会让你更强</p>','2024-07-09 21:42:21.101','2024-07-09 21:42:21.101',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-09 21:42:21.101',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2ec140a1-43f3-4023-b3d3-05736b29c018','af3b3ccc-86d3-4f5e-b9b7-c45b68bfe593','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>勇于接受自己的弱点 不但能进步还可能有更好的机遇。</p>','2024-07-10 10:08:55.33','2024-07-10 10:08:55.33',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-10 10:08:55.33',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('861be1be-8b8b-4118-a708-e7bd96808837','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>确保自己是否被情绪勒索，被标签而感到情感低落。勇于面对并且认错改进，可以跳脱一直逃避的思维</p>
<p>对于重要人的事也视为自己重要的事，让失衡中的生活在长远的未来不会因为不重视而导致未来也失衡</p>
<p>在乎长期达成的首要成就，那短期的失衡就会显得值得</p>','2024-07-04 03:59:13.236','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人们在前面两个阶段是学习，然后冲。在50岁左右，第三个阶段就要退出原本的公私责任，开始对性灵方面的人生转变。人生最后阶段的目标，就是完全投入开悟的果实。</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3/7</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">研究显示抱持有内在目标的人，一年后过着更快乐的生活。而保持外在目标的人，则走过更多的负面情绪，而且更容易生病。而且抱持外在目标的人就是就是不断追求报酬的瘾君子。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">唯有转换到内在目标，做好跳上第二曲线的准备，才可能重启下半场的人生。以其使命抵抗职涯衰退的趋势，不如抓住美好的机会，走向喜悦的泉源，懂得爱人与被爱，从第一曲线转换到第二曲线。</span></p>','2024-07-04 05:39:18.845','2024-07-04 05:41:16.76',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 05:41:16.759',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第二章： 可以不一样 &nbsp;7. 逆境的三句咒语 &ndash; 9. 爱自己的方式（Page066-071）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">逆境越大，突破越大</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">走出逆境的三种心；惭愧心，慈悲心和感恩心。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">面对苦，有三种境界；心随境转、心不随境转、心能转境。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">【知止】对个人、对组织、必备的机制</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">想要爱别人先懂的爱自己。爱自己的方式，是不轻易把一切会伤身体的情绪所困。例如轻易发脾气、抱怨、妒忌、爱比较。</span></p>','2024-08-27 10:58:51.061','2024-08-27 10:58:51.061',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 10:58:51.061',NULL,NULL);
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<p>Though the change is tormenting, the sooner we accept it, the faster we''ll achieve new found happiness.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-04 07:53:57.415','2024-07-04 07:53:57.415',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 07:53:57.414',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal">Day 4 <span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>7<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>4<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">为什么是这十二槓桿？</span>-&nbsp; <span lang="ZH-CN">不只是与成功有约（</span>Page 24 - 29<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">十二杠杠可以帮助我们抛开表象的成功，得到真正的成功：抛开内心深处的不安全感，获得以自然法则为主轴的人生所带来的自信。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">追求首要成就的人绝不怪罪他人，总是坦然勇于承担。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">忠诚是服务他人自然带来的结果。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">己所不欲，勿施于人</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">当我们学会重视与善用不同个体的多元优势，就拥有较大的成功机率。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">持续自我学习与更新。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">首要成就是我们启用这些杠杠后，自然会得到的的东西。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">宽厚待人的行为会产生惊人的力量。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">善体人意的朋友具有超乎想像的影响力。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">负责人的工作者会获得越来越大的职责。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">正直的人拥有强大的道德的力量。</p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>','2024-07-04 08:54:09.001','2024-07-04 08:54:09.001',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 08:54:09',NULL,NULL);
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<p>Thus being sincere and transparent, would harmonise the situation.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-04 08:39:01.735','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
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<p>再来，成人出现性灵的渴望时，不要参照童年时期的天真想法。我们应该做的，是向这个领域的厉害人士看齐。</p>
<p>实践信仰将需要投入时间也精力，会和日常事务竞争。如果你阅读、祈祷或冥想，希望从中获得心得，那么每天都得花时间投入。</p>
<p>性灵发展和治病一样重要，必须挪出时间，按时冥想、祷告、阅读也修炼，每天都不能懈怠。</p>','2024-07-04 09:02:03.771','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
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<p>自我疗愈的第一个，也是很重要的一点，唯一𠄘认，接受，接纳自己的不足，才能让情绪转换。</p>
<p>脆弱带给人力量，当我们愿意接受自己的脆弱。</p>
<p>负面情绪不会凭空消失，但是可以转换。</p>
<p>明白自己的弱点，反而是越来越强大的秘诀，失去的，衰退的，或许就会是自己和他人的礼物。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-04 08:54:40.95','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
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<p>愿意示弱，本人也会快乐。</p>','2024-07-04 08:59:56.398','2024-07-10 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-10 00:00:00.022','2024-07-10 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
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<p>英雄的特质：自觉丶才智丶爱心丶英雄豪气。</p>','2024-09-28 13:28:28.925','2024-09-28 13:28:28.925',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-28 13:28:28.924',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('903d4080-361e-4a1d-9d6c-4148b64e43ca','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','eae33eae-de50-4837-bc3d-f47b0e4b5d76','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">印度上师把生命分成四个階段。前面階段的學</span>生期(brahmacharya)及家居期(grihastha)相等于<span class="s1">流體智力，而後两個階段</span>林棲期(vanaprastha) 及遁世 (sannyasa) 就如<span class="s1">晶體智力. 然而每个個人所經歷會有所不同，無論是實現的時間或成就，但可以拿50 歲左右来做一個衡量去評估自己的状態. 而我也有幸在這50 年齢分水嶺翻閱這本書與大家在這平台上共修. 雖然此時還在探索，盼能领悟大师所说的&ldquo;往內心尋求，當你的心平靜下來後，你就會發現裡頭一直等著你的寶藏</span><span class="s1">。</span><span class="s1">認識自己，是獲得解脫的唯一辦法&rdquo;.</span></p>','2024-07-04 10:42:47.798','2024-07-04 10:43:06.367',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 10:43:06.366',NULL,NULL);
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<p>贡献、优先目标、牺牲奉献、服务、责任、忠诚、相互性、多元性、持续学习、自我更新、教学相长</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>这些说起来简单，做起来却难。</p>
<p>若能做到这些槓桿，我们就会离首要成就不远了。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>期待能够从这本书中了解这12个槓桿！</p>','2024-07-04 11:28:49.793','2024-07-04 11:28:59.992',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 11:28:59.991',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">02&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN">资讯流：高效性</span><span lang="EN-MY">&nbsp;vs</span><span lang="ZH-CN">体验性（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page076-079</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟:<br>網路資訊流：又快、又全、又便宜。缺點：體驗性無。<br><br></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">Day 12</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：</span><span lang="EN-MY">8</span><span lang="ZH-CN">月</span><span lang="EN-MY">26</span><span lang="ZH-CN">日《新零售狂潮》第二章：数据赋能</span><span lang="EN-MY">&ndash;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN">线上，线下都不能代表新零售</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">谁该为资讯流卖单（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page069-075</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">补</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：<br>資訊流、現金流、物流在網路的幫助下，以線上數據強項，賦能線下的體驗優勢。以&ldquo;不賣貨的體驗店&rdquo;，成就了新零售。<br></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">&nbsp;</span></p>','2024-08-27 11:43:06.833','2024-08-27 11:43:06.833',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 11:43:06.832',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('310df2ae-9bf6-4c6e-95b1-ea64ea4e7484','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>人生不同階段就應該有不同的角色和任務，對某個階段的成就癡迷會讓人迷失。找到自己的心，把心安下來，就會看到你到底要的是什麼。</p>','2024-07-04 11:56:32.189','2024-07-04 11:56:32.189',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 11:56:32.189',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;Provide service packages to secure sales over period.</p>
<p>featuring the top product to get customers attention.</p>','2024-07-04 12:37:10.427','2024-07-04 12:37:17.305',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 12:37:17.304',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b18347cc-da90-42fe-a5c1-f5af54de5a82','a4e05cbf-f836-4ea8-8fe9-e8be7e5a66fb','818bb03e-4271-4e7a-a918-07cdd48a8614','<p>营销漏斗: <span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">销售 = 流量 x 转化率 x 客单价 x 复购率</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">人</span><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">效 = （流量 x 转换率 x 客单价 x 回购率) / 人数</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">坪效 = （流量 x 转换率 x 客单价 x 回购率) / 店铺面积</span></p>','2024-09-07 14:04:18.69','2024-09-07 14:04:18.69',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 14:04:18.689',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c1f484a4-1590-4633-9cf1-daef1595831c','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>人品格太重要了，无论在家人，事业或者感情上，他就像人生的基础。</p>','2024-07-04 13:10:01.786','2024-07-04 13:10:01.786',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 13:10:01.785',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1cc0df6c-7b52-462f-b137-7fb30580fdc7','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>认识自己，了解自己，接受自己，是唯一获得解脱的唯一途径。</p>','2024-07-04 13:17:01.983','2024-07-04 13:17:01.983',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 13:17:01.982',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('48d1ad0f-cca4-42ff-92a8-39c6ce9fa512','8339f16e-03cd-4d3a-9230-ce25708648b7','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>在勇气与体谅之间保持平衡，有助与我们获得更好的结果与人际关系。</p>','2024-07-04 12:41:20.437','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('143dc436-3362-4fdf-bb53-627433b9be73','427944ca-335d-4f0b-b95a-8f4a5bfbf25c','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>明白自己的弱点，让自己看见自己的脆弱，反而是让自己变强大的秘诀。衰退、失去，可能是人生里的礼物。</p>
<p>我想起之前读书会读过的一本书：布芮尼．布朗的《脆弱的力量》书中提出脆弱的四大迷思：</p>
<p>迷思一：脆弱等於軟弱。</p>
<p>迷思二：我不展現脆弱。</p>
<p>迷思三：脆弱就是毫無保留</p>
<p>迷思四：我們可以「一個人」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-04 13:37:01.721','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('16184869-bf2f-4fd2-b406-7f8567d08343','af3b3ccc-86d3-4f5e-b9b7-c45b68bfe593','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>人与人交心，是因为能坦诚示弱。分享脆弱才能带来深度连结 (<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Evwgu369Jw">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Evwgu369Jw</a> ) 同理他人，才能建立连接。</p>
<p>作者用保禄的例子做了总结：</p>
<p>1）无论是谁，只要活得够久，流体智力必然会下降。进入第二曲线是个新的起点。</p>
<p>2）在第二曲线上获得的成长和成就，你永远不会知道，你的努力将带来什么样的影响。</p>','2024-07-04 14:13:42.338','2024-07-10 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-10 00:00:00.022','2024-07-10 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
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<li>成功人士遵循的十二个有效原则：正直、贡献、优先目标、牺牲奉献、服务、责任、忠诚、相互性、多元性、持续学习、自我更新、教导与学习。这些原则如同杠杆，可以帮助我们获得真正的成功和内心的自信。</li>
<li>善用十二个原则能强化品格与影响力，这些原则是成功的基石，少了它们就无法获得真正的成功。</li>
<li>如果想要幸福、成功的关系或职业，需要先从自身的正直、责任和贡献做起。</li>
</ul>','2024-07-04 13:31:12.827','2024-07-04 13:32:19.011',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 13:32:19.01',NULL,NULL);
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<p>若不持续学习与自我更新，我们将落入停滞不前与被边缘化的境地，我们透过运动，阅读，陪伴家长，以及静心冥想，使自己焕然一新</p>','2024-07-04 13:49:24.418','2024-07-04 13:49:24.418',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 13:49:24.417',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8ad24081-1e77-4791-98ca-ab648a888ca2','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>平静下来，往内心寻求自己，内在的自己。相信大部分人很长的时间会在家居期，展开自己的林棲期。</p>','2024-07-04 13:51:00.512','2024-07-04 13:51:00.512',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 13:51:00.511',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4162af59-cba1-4c65-87b7-372b1c219be2','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">68</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">今年在工作上我也叫停。多年的創業之路，讓我身心疲憊。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">現在要把睡眠，皮膚過敏，肩膀酸痛，蛀牙，全部矯正好。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">70</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">愛自己，就是把自己活得更好，更喜歡自己。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">把自己活好，不麻煩別人，也是愛別人的方式。</span></p>','2024-08-27 12:02:13.566','2024-08-27 12:02:13.566',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 12:02:13.566',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c23d092d-46e4-4369-818f-6507d8e012f1','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','810477ff-79c3-424f-8ea1-4dcb74aef362','<p>信仰</p>
<p>我一直以来都是无宗教信仰的人，直到5年前，发生了某事，突然踏上皈依，修行这条路</p>
<p>这种感觉是很奇妙的，只能亲身体验。</p>','2024-07-04 13:42:24.533','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('11cd0523-4f67-4452-98ae-86f2f6858386','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<p>人生路上追求的4尊偶像-财富，享乐，权利以及荣誉导致自我物化，永远追求然后永远无法满足。破除偶像就是建立新能力-灵性。认识自己，往内寻求，达到顿悟觉悟。</p>','2024-07-04 13:57:00.631','2024-07-04 13:57:00.631',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 13:57:00.63',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('25c08615-9c30-45aa-a93e-f54f55062f3c','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>聚焦于首要成就～「若想拥有幸福的婚姻，就要设法激发正能量，远离负能量。若希望青春期的孩子变得更开心、配合度高，要先成为更体谅他人、富有同理心、标准一致的慈爱父母。」不要去期待或只等待他人作出改变，一切由自己做起。</p>','2024-07-04 14:02:33.824','2024-07-04 14:02:33.824',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 14:02:33.823',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1de750e8-4126-4a0c-8873-04e1bf5694ab','78b52e5c-7a06-49f1-b767-d719b1a31045','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>在这一章节了解到贝多芬如何跟命运抗争。也会抽岀时间来听Misa Solemnis 和第九号交响曲。</p>
<p>当你诚实虑心面对自己的弱点, 我们将更能自在做自己。</p>','2024-07-04 13:56:38.318','2024-07-12 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c053f9df-a99b-49d1-a3d9-5d449b9ef670','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','025766ef-b121-4d39-a149-574dc9b57a6b','<p>第一阶段 【学生期】 Brahmacharya&nbsp;</p>
<p>第二阶段 【家居期】 Grihastha</p>
<p>第三阶段【林凄期】 vanaprastha&nbsp;</p>
<p>最后阶段【遁世】 Sannyasa&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>这本来是最自然不过的人生阶段，而很多人沉迷在【家居期】太执著于金钱、权力、性爱、地位等世俗的报酬； 加上内心抗拒踏入 【林凄期】觉得那是可笑的迷信。</p>','2024-07-04 14:04:13.21','2024-07-04 14:04:14.038',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 14:04:14.038',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b7416937-9549-4063-b7b1-da0c03019bcc','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>柯维的12个杠杆体现自然法则，是成功路上不可或缺的基石。帮助我们抛开表象的成功，可以坦荡荡，没有不安。</p>
<p>先有正直的内在心态，贡献（留给世人有意义的东西）、遵循人生优先目标，有贡献就有牺牲、服务他人、勇于承担责任，忠诚随着而来、相互性。要更大的成就，就要善用和接纳多元性。还要持续学习，自我更新，最后，教学相长，身体力行。</p>','2024-07-04 14:06:16.854','2024-07-04 14:06:16.854',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 14:06:16.854',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5ed8ce3d-43af-41f2-a459-c11d248abdd2','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>很多人一辈子都是工作狂与成功成瘾者。尽管出人头地了，却不快乐，而且想到要离开家居期。大师给我们这种人一个建议。认识自己，往内心寻求，当心平静下来后，我们就会发现里面一直等著我们的宝藏</p>','2024-07-04 14:12:07.49','2024-07-04 14:12:07.49',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 14:12:07.489',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d074b4e9-b33e-40ec-9c38-c301b67d1240','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<p>最后一段话很棒，认识你自己，往内心寻求。</p>','2024-07-04 14:21:11.811','2024-07-04 14:21:11.811',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 14:21:11.811',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7072f20b-3cd1-4285-ad0e-a7ed1d1e0784','3b2990e1-0c0e-47de-892b-6be51ad350d0','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>三种自我肯定的练习：<br>1）运用放松技巧，种下肯定种子。<br>2）运用重复性确保目标顺利达成<br>3）运用想象或视觉影响，看见改变成功。让成功先在脑子走过一遍。<br><br>我们花太多时间回忆过去，却花很少时间来想象成功自己的模样。</p>','2024-07-04 14:00:10.112','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4840f1df-5abb-4f95-bdd2-f5156c530b03','0107441d-ad92-4023-b1db-5e65481df3ad','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>在这章节里学到钓鱼的最佳时间点，即是落潮时当浮游生物与鱼儿兵荒马乱的时刻。作者将之比喻人生的落潮是从流体智力过渡到晶体智力，这将是生产力极高的大丰收时期。充满恐惧的中年转换期，在心理学的专有名词是阈态 (liminality)，诸行无常，是生灭法。佛陀感到最讽刺一点在于变动是宇宙最主要的特性，却也是我们最难接受的事。</p>','2024-07-04 14:05:07.949','2024-07-13 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-13 00:00:00.003','2024-07-13 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('06821d7a-7c8e-4859-b051-c5e60c515bbb','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>即便是不受欢迎的转变，事后回想起来，通常会和当下的看法不同。</p>
<p>几乎每一个转变，即便是最不容易的，也会带来某些正面的果实。</p>
<p>艰辛的转变其实能让我们了解人生最重大的目的，因为暂时不快乐的痛苦挣扎时期，其实有其必要性。</p>
<p>痛苦时期能激发旺盛的表达欲望。</p>','2024-07-04 14:12:10.447','2024-07-14 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d6806846-0e47-475e-a215-8bf612fb9751','7c5848d5-a834-4b49-9612-226a7c0be88c','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 13：8月27日《新零售狂潮》第二章：数据赋能&ndash; 线上，线下都不能代表新零售</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">02 资讯流：高效性 vs体验性（Page076-079）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">网络路电商相对于传统零售,是提升效率的典范；但是提升效率的同时也损失了体验性。所以体验性很重要，线上线下都重要。</span></p>','2024-08-27 12:09:43.95','2024-08-27 12:09:43.95',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 12:09:43.949',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cfc2eb7f-f165-4530-83a2-faa8304d00d4','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 34 ：7月4日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第七章 ： 展开你的林棲期（Page 183-188）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>人生四个阶段</p>
<p>第一阶段是学生期（brahmacharya)<br><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">第二阶段是家居期（grihastha)</span></p>
<p>第三阶段林棲期（vanaprastha)</p>
<p>第四阶段遁世期（sannyasa)</p>
<p>根据印度哲学家，很多人的人生跳入家居期的陷阱，人会变的太执着于金钱、权力、性爱、地位等世俗的报酬，试图让这个阶段持续一生。</p>
<p>很多人尽管出人头地，却不快乐，而想到要离开家居期，大师建议往内心寻求，当心平静下来，我们就会发现里头一直等着我们的宝藏。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-04 14:53:34.35','2024-07-04 14:53:34.35',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 14:53:34.349',NULL,NULL);
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<p>期待深入了解成功十二杠杆！</p>','2024-07-04 15:04:34.976','2024-07-04 15:04:38.058',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:04:38.057',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('67fd40b3-3902-475a-a445-2a39170f65ff','7c5848d5-a834-4b49-9612-226a7c0be88c','818bb03e-4271-4e7a-a918-07cdd48a8614','<p>通过网络，线上的［货比三家］更省时，省钱省事，提升效率。</p>
<p>线下的货物比较相对更费时费力，但也大大地提升消费者的体验度。</p>','2024-08-27 12:15:00.741','2024-08-27 12:15:00.741',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 12:15:00.74',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dbc74026-a9ad-4f42-bbba-d340733bb484','2f505f70-db25-49ee-9524-3cf23b2d3cbc','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>&ldquo;人能在各种苦难中，找到人生的意义与成长。&rdquo;</p>
<p>走入人生下半场，的确认同这句话。天下没有白吃的苦，只有自己没有在吃苦中领悟到该领悟的智慧。那么，这就浪费了，该吃的苦还会再来，直到自己跨越了该学会的事。</p>
<p>我们应该在逆缘中，找到正因。那么一个看似不怎么好因缘，却变成正因、创造下一个正缘。</p>','2024-07-04 14:22:35.885','2024-07-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ca65e2bd-9cba-4589-9497-3959d42bee09','a4e05cbf-f836-4ea8-8fe9-e8be7e5a66fb','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day 24：9月7日《新零售狂潮》第三章：坪效革命：从人的角度理解新零售</p>
<p>01 销售漏斗公式（Page131-136）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>坪效极限制约了传统零售业的扩张实力。</p>','2024-09-07 14:48:38.214','2024-09-07 14:48:38.214',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 14:48:38.213',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('588ad72f-7a07-4e7c-ad98-4b8a7b8a951f','a23c7b3f-a790-47ec-8808-c53feb120d20','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>努力无極限，普通努力才会让人累，超级努力就不累，这里我的理解是专注，投入，认真会让人的潜能超乎自己的理解。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>做对的事，比努力更重要。<br>智慧第一优先，智慧＝成就＝幸福</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>找到所需要的巨人，站上巨人的肩膀，有願望，不执着，就是前提</p>','2024-09-07 14:18:28.375','2024-09-08 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-09-08 00:00:00.021','2024-09-08 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4b73a758-70de-4d94-91ef-747fa7468154','26118367-caec-408b-bb9b-0ff103fca063','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">从电商买海鲜其中一个痛点就是怕不新鲜。消费者缺乏的是一份信任感。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">盒马鲜生的第一个策略是无条件退货，只有这样才能把不确定性的风险从消费者手里转移到商家手上，建立信任感。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">除了无条件退货，如果能够打造个更好的体验如现买现煮，那就能提高对品牌的好感和信任感。但他们并不是想在现场加工上赚钱而是为了从线下往线上导流做准备。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">他们也因为顶层设计，做了一些很大胆又可能会减低客户体验的事项。他们不受现金、不刷银行卡，甚至不能直接用支付宝更不用说微信支付，只能用盒马App付费。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">此举也把他们推到风口浪尖上，到了2024依然遭一些消费者和媒体吐糟。但按照新闻来看，有一些门店只要下载app，还是可以用现金或微信支付。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">这一切做的都是要消费者从线下继续往线上消费，提高黏着度，实现线上销售额比线下多。</span></p>','2024-09-15 12:11:36.377','2024-09-15 12:11:36.377',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 12:11:36.376',NULL,NULL);
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<p>改变之门，改变自己是神，改变别人是神经病。我要做神！</p>','2024-09-23 13:30:03.375','2024-09-24 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-09-24 00:00:00.013','2024-09-24 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5be1a6ee-dbf1-467d-b963-de91cd5413d8','d9d04546-5364-4033-b6d5-84c818816a2f','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 11&nbsp; 9月26日 (星期四）📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">😇第二章 075页 - 078页</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">读后感悟 ：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">修练7个习惯是有顺序的。是从内到外，个人领域的成功（习惯一，二，三）然后才能获得公众领域的成功（习惯四，五，六)</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">低效能人士的7个习惯</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">习惯一 消极被动</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">习惯二 漫无目的</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">习惯三 要事最好</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">习惯四 你输我赢思维</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">习惯五 先谈论，再倾听</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">习惯六 成为一座孤岛</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">习惯七 耗尽一切</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">你的选择！你自己负责任！</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">这是我的借镜，要时常提醒自己！不要追求错的习惯！</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">7个习惯是一个架构。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">最重要的习惯是习惯一，因为掌管一切，才能开始培养其他习惯。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-25 13:48:23.455','2024-09-25 22:54:28.595',NULL,'f','2024-09-25 16:00:00','2024-09-25 22:54:28.594',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('91514633-cfb9-4943-8688-9d8d462bc8a2','5c91ae35-fe25-4058-bc23-efb07e06d81b','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>积极主动可以制造空间；消极主动没空间。</p>','2024-09-28 13:37:01.859','2024-09-28 13:37:01.859',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-28 13:37:01.859',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6e48a7fb-212c-4bb9-bde6-6dc0020b0297','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则是不变的，成功人士所遵行的这十二个有效原则，将指引我们真心接纳：正直、贡献、优先目标、牺牲奉献、服务、责任、忠诚、相互性、多元性、持续学习、自我更新、教学相长。</span></p>','2024-07-04 14:30:41.86','2024-07-04 14:30:41.86',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 14:30:41.859',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1746a1f1-9604-4e37-a904-312c52f7ffdf','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>人要能体验人生不圆满，才会愿意或兴趣哲学并设法从中受益。</p>','2024-07-04 14:31:49.697','2024-07-04 14:31:49.697',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 14:31:49.696',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f2b7efa6-12d7-4182-a763-46cf6fd61085','e4648b91-0e1e-47c6-a0cb-06f7abb5b725','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day11：8月28 日 《活学》Part 1 人生最重要的事</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第二章： 可以不一样 &nbsp;10. 一百万分的人生 &ndash; 12. 人人都该改个性（Page072-078）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">我也喜欢稻胜和夫的成功方程式，思维不对，热情和能力再好也是无用。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">不快乐，问自己在想什么？找到原点就跟他说&rdquo;Hi , bye bye &ldquo;</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">快乐很简单，只是一个决定，但是坚守这个决定,却要用一辈子来修正和实践，这个过程並不简单。要不要快乐，你决定了吗？</span></p>','2024-08-27 12:27:06.383','2024-08-28 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-08-28 00:00:00.005','2024-08-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f06a12e9-5bed-4466-8454-f07bf6a7662f','4a69556e-3f44-4b9c-9509-ce5de06ba25f','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>工作不应该只是为了做而做，应该是因为喜欢而做，这样的工作效率才会高。若真诚地努力还是没有喜欢的感觉，要果断地放弃，不要浪费时间在自己不喜欢的事件。</p>
<p>因为喜欢，所以才对它认真，努力地完成任务，用好的结果证明自己的真心。</p>','2024-09-07 14:21:13.326','2024-09-07 14:21:13.326',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 14:21:13.325',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3c516840-053d-4453-9bdd-c1d7a42f2805','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>一切都是最好的安排，要学会接受自己所经历的一切，并从中觉察、修炼自己，活得更精彩。</p>
<p>学会感恩非常重要，只有在感谢的时候，人们才会学会珍惜。越感恩的人，得到的会更多。</p>','2024-09-07 14:27:20.096','2024-09-07 14:27:20.096',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 14:27:20.095',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('115e047a-b3a8-4374-b701-6f8c17502cae','77552dc0-d25b-47c4-a345-b948e704f433','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day 8 &nbsp;9月23日 (星期一）📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;<br>😇第二章 063页 - 067页<br>&nbsp;<br>读后感悟 ：</p>
<p><br>七个习惯符合"产出/产能平衡 (P/PC Balance)&nbsp;</p>
<p>* P: 希望获得的<strong>产出</strong> (Production of desired result)</p>
<p>* PC: 生产的<strong>资产</strong>或能力(Production capacity, the ability or asset that produces result)</p>
<p>PC 资产 (Asset)可分为3类 : 物质资产，金融资本，人力资本。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>P / PC 平衡的原则就是效能的精髓。取得平衡，才能实现真正的效能。真正的效能是取于 :&nbsp;<br>* 短期利益和长期目标之间的平衡<br>* 好分数与刻苦努力之间的平衡</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>鹅生金蛋的故事清楚说明了当违背自然法则，失去平衡， 出现重蛋轻鹅或重鹅轻蛋的情况，就无法达到所以的效能，甚至失去资产。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>平衡点会受人，事，物和当下的情况影响。需要继续探索如何找到该有的平衡点。💪</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>🌹让我们一起在《7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯》里培养杰出的自己！</p>','2024-09-23 13:26:01.857','2024-09-23 13:27:54.318',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 13:27:54.316',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('95df22f0-d198-4b8b-beba-76596774ce7f','5d374a99-83c4-4df9-82fe-fa9a6088aa50','224ada56-b4c4-4cee-9baf-0badc4b884c6','<p>任何一种零售都必须跟消费者有个触点，而通过触点进入销售漏斗的人都被成为流量。</p>','2024-09-07 14:46:54.923','2024-09-08 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-09-08 00:00:00.021','2024-09-08 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('30e25909-7331-4594-ad2c-a493771e00d9','26118367-caec-408b-bb9b-0ff103fca063','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>将客户从线下往上引。个人第一次接触到此讯息，真是了得。其实不简单，要让客户接受以App付款，这得给客户绝对的信任以及让他们非常喜爱自家产品才能做到，但值得学习与参考。</p>','2024-09-15 12:26:06.983','2024-09-15 12:26:06.983',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 12:26:06.983',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8ee246a0-3c18-4d02-99fa-e517c26071a3','05566191-e261-4871-9aca-8bb3f945ac17','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p><strong>定倍率</strong></p>
<p>定倍率 = 商品的零售价/商品成本价</p>
<p>500元的商品，成本价是100元。</p>
<p>定倍率是5，400元的差价就是交易成本。</p>
<p>在消费者的角度，交易成本就是找到商品的成本。</p>
<p>对商家而言，交易成本就是怎么找到消费者，彼此发现的成本。</p>
<p>零售业要分钱，是从交易成本里分钱。</p>
<p>交易成本是必要的，但高或低则有多种因素。其中就是该商品是高频或低频消费，宣传方式。是自产自销？还是租借商场场地销售？等原因都会影响商品的定倍率。</p>','2024-09-19 15:43:53.233','2024-09-19 15:43:54.182',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 15:43:54.181',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f15df0ea-58cb-4b2a-b1a3-c99bc787e4d2','aafc9fc0-d77b-47f0-81d1-625dc44ea49e','9e7d5703-4213-4a84-8d5d-7a5acf2a9891','<p class="Nb h_n"><span>Day 4&nbsp; </span><span class="Lg honor-time">9月20日 (星期四）</span><span>📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>第一章 046页 - 50页 由内而外全面造就自己。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>读后感悟：-</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>《成长和改变的原则》</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>个人魅力论 给人一种错觉和幻觉，妄图一步登天。都是以结果导向。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>没有在原则自然法则下功夫。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>心理学家艾瑞克.费洛姆对个人魅力论的根源见解是，有这么一种人是他们不了解也不理解自己，他们只知道别人眼中的自己。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>他们不再健谈，只是闲聊，他们不在开怀大笑，而是挤出笑容，他们抛却真切的痛苦，他们以无聊绝忘带之。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>这些缺陷导致丧失了天性与个性。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>简单的说活在别人的眼底和嘴里，找不到自己而失去了发掘自己的天性与个性的能力。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>人的一生包含了许多成长和进步阶段</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>而&ldquo;循序渐进&rdquo;是自然成长与发展的过程原则。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>简单的了解是一步登天，急于求成，都是拔苗助长也是近这150年来被个人魅力论所影响</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>成功论，都在拔苗助长。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>成功论只会告诉你脚踏实地和一步一脚印太慢了。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>导致社会的比较，家庭比较，学业比较，职场比较，生意比较。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>大家忘了往内看。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>忘了在本质，原则，自然法则下功夫。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>停留在术上下功夫，所以越走越累，越走越迷失。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>人们越是依赖立竿见影的解决方法越是加剧了问题潜在的隐患。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>解决问题的方式是找到问题的根。！！</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>那些坚守原则的个人，家庭，公司，团体</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>一旦有好事发生，总会有人好奇不已，会被问怎么做到可以教一些技巧吗？？</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>这是普通人的基本思维方式，实际想问的是有没有快速让自己脱离现状，摆脱痛苦的诀窍。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>是会找到教他们方法的人，但治标不治本，短期来看管用，有如头疼找Panadol 阿司匹林。缓解一时之痛。。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>总结：不要在果上下功夫，要在因下功夫，而在因下功夫需要有自然发则与原则的基础。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span> 4&nbsp; </span><span class="Lg honor-time">9月20日 (星期四）</span><span>📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>第一章 046页 - 50页 由内而外全面造就自己。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>读后感悟：-</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>《成长和改变的原则》</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>个人魅力论 给人一种错觉和幻觉，妄图一步登天。都是以结果导向。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>没有在原则自然法则下功夫。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>心理学家艾瑞克.费洛姆对个人魅力论的根源见解是，有这么一种人是他们不了解也不理解自己，他们只知道别人眼中的自己。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>他们不再健谈，只是闲聊，他们不在开怀大笑，而是挤出笑容，他们抛却真切的痛苦，他们以无聊绝忘带之。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>这些缺陷导致丧失了天性与个性。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>简单的说活在别人的眼底和嘴里，找不到自己而失去了发掘自己的天性与个性的能力。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>人的一生包含了许多成长和进步阶段</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>而&ldquo;循序渐进&rdquo;是自然成长与发展的过程原则。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>简单的了解是一步登天，急于求成，都是拔苗助长也是近这150年来被个人魅力论所影响</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>成功论，都在拔苗助长。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>成功论只会告诉你脚踏实地和一步一脚印太慢了。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>导致社会的比较，家庭比较，学业比较，职场比较，生意比较。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>大家忘了往内看。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>忘了在本质，原则，自然法则下功夫。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>停留在术上下功夫，所以越走越累，越走越迷失。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>人们越是依赖立竿见影的解决方法越是加剧了问题潜在的隐患。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>解决问题的方式是找到问题的根。！！</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>那些坚守原则的个人，家庭，公司，团体</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>一旦有好事发生，总会有人好奇不已，会被问怎么做到可以教一些技巧吗？？</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>这是普通人的基本思维方式，实际想问的是有没有快速让自己脱离现状，摆脱痛苦的诀窍。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>是会找到教他们方法的人，但治标不治本，短期来看管用，有如头疼找Panadol 阿司匹林。缓解一时之痛。。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n"><span>总结：不要在果上下功夫，要在因下功夫，而在因下功夫需要有自然发则与原则的基础。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n" data-h-fragment="[encoded data, 25384 characters]"><span>多听读写可以训练基础。</span></p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="Nb h_n">&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-20 04:55:16.315','2024-09-20 04:55:16.315',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 04:55:16.312',NULL,NULL);
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<p>担当到哪里，成就也就到那里。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>修正自己，随缘而遇，反求诸己，等待因缘具足的人缘。</p>','2024-09-25 23:35:45.089','2024-09-25 23:35:45.089',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 23:35:45.088',NULL,NULL);
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<p>好好的做自己，往內求往外修，以真心處理事情最后都能取得好的效果。倘若不能以真心處理事情，难以得到圓滿的结果。</p>','2024-10-06 01:14:34.485','2024-10-06 01:14:34.485',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-10-06 01:14:34.484',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-28 13:42:09.27','2024-11-05 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-11-05 00:00:00.031','2024-11-05 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Repeat Transaction (Page 102-106)</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">🎯Thoughts after reading：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Strategies to Get your customer keep coming back </span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1） after sales service opportunities -do your good Service, people will refer clients to u </span></p>
<ol class="ol1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">offer a recurring purchase plan /contract - offering a recurring sales / service contract to secure sales over a period of- obvious like Gym membership for renewing members </span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Top product of the week / month - featuring the top product or services 。</span></li>
</ol>','2024-07-04 15:02:20.179','2024-07-04 15:02:20.179',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:02:20.178',NULL,NULL);
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<p>自觉能力就是进入秘密花园的钥匙🔑c</p>','2024-07-04 14:46:05.057','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
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<p>先相信，后看见。</p>
<p>7习惯，它是一个&ldquo;方法&rdquo;，这方法能让我们向往高效能，成为一位更有用的人。</p>','2024-09-23 13:42:08.053','2024-09-25 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-09-25 00:00:00.003','2024-09-25 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
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<p>通过不断修正和觉察，一切尽力了。原来当时就是那么一回事。</p>
<p>感谢的力量，我们要学会感恩。因为能成就我们的都是许许多多的姻因缘成就的。</p>','2024-09-07 14:24:19.108','2024-09-07 14:38:38.649',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 14:38:38.648',NULL,NULL);
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<p>背后隐藏着做人的大学问。</p>
<p>听话的用心，说话的用意，往往都是因为自我而忽略的小样大事。</p>','2024-09-15 12:59:15.512','2024-09-15 12:59:15.512',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 12:59:15.511',NULL,NULL);
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<p>前提他的东西要好先</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-20 05:04:20.051','2024-09-21 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-09-21 00:00:00.01','2024-09-21 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
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<p>要把钱花到生生不息，花到利益众生。</p>','2024-09-23 13:42:46.546','2024-09-23 13:42:46.546',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 13:42:46.545',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b67030cf-991e-454d-8018-555bbd1e42b6','c176d961-5acb-4135-aede-d960ce4b556c','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「網路資訊流的特徵就是高效性。把想出售的商品或者想入手的寶貝發布在閑魚上，就能很好地解決資訊仲介的問題。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-25 04:17:29.12','2024-09-26 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-09-26 00:00:00.006','2024-09-26 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dafdacb3-3274-4cd0-9591-d688f1853a71','d9d04546-5364-4033-b6d5-84c818816a2f','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>这是负能量的习惯,底成效人士<br>1。消极被动<br>2.漫无目的<br>3.要事最后<br>4.你输我赢<br>5.先谈论，后倾听<br>6.成为一个孤岛<br>7.耗尽一切</p>','2024-09-22 09:53:41.041','2024-09-26 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-09-26 00:00:00.006','2024-09-26 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6ff58d57-ccfd-487d-9465-65406e452144','22dde74b-cfec-487c-97ee-003e8618eb07','ebc94826-5eca-4369-a4c8-7941d6ce1957','<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">传承之道-要把企业给传承发扬，必须找到重道予利之上的人。只有心中对于企业价值追求大于收益的人才能持续的带领企业发展，也不是见利思迁。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">向禅宗五祖学交棒-传承需要靠心，也不是一味地灌输，教导方法。合适的人才，只要认出此人、给予信任、托付于他、并保护他的作为，仅此而已。</span></li>
</ul>','2024-09-29 14:26:30.398','2024-09-30 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-09-30 00:00:00.013','2024-09-30 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f861a46a-391c-4cab-9bdf-d889ef3c7a05','a98a2ff4-2603-4c39-beac-3bd0d10be580','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day 52：10月5日《新零售狂潮》第五章：未来已来</p>
<p>01 变革时代的思维模式（Page258-264）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>新零售，只会不断进化，永不停止。</p>','2024-10-05 15:52:45.542','2024-10-05 15:52:45.542',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-10-05 15:52:45.541',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a402ccab-ba46-4c9d-8de3-d4b3313f65cd','832598a0-05a5-4775-a54c-7fb6975b98f7','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>从小事开始，许下承诺并于兑现。<br>学会成为照亮他人的蜡烛，而不是批判对错的判官。<br>以身作则，而不是吹毛求比<br>解决问题，而不是制造事端。</p>','2024-09-30 06:27:22.421','2024-10-01 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-10-01 00:00:00.007','2024-10-01 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('72c66609-a816-4d4c-9f48-8663c65256c0','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>十二杠杆：</p>
<p>正直、贡献，优先目标，牺牲奉献，服务，责任，忠诚，相互性，多元行，持续学习，自我更新，教学相长</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>想要获得的次要成就，就得关注于首要成功</p>','2024-07-04 15:11:51.511','2024-07-04 15:14:19.486',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:14:19.485',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ef5a9aa3-087a-4ab7-b307-153c85b95544','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>在什么时间段，就专注于那个时间段的作业。</p>
<p>如第一阶段的学生期，第二阶段的家居期。</p>
<p>前者致力于&ldquo;学&rdquo;。后者则专注于成家立业，建立事业累积财富。</p>
<p>第三阶段是林棲期。现阶段就是为隐退，重新调整人生目标。</p>
<p>第四阶段为遁世期。专注内在性灵的觉悟，个人内在的修行与开悟。</p>','2024-07-04 14:48:29.619','2024-07-04 14:48:44.38',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 14:48:44.38',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2adc96a6-38e1-4b3e-a8eb-7be3d8aebe99','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>Principls are like levers. &nbsp;The 12 levers are Integrity, Contribution, Priority, Personal Sacrifice, Service, Responsibility, Loyalty (natural consequence of serving others), Reciprocity, Diversity (nature kills off sameness and celebrates differences), Continuous Learning, Renewal (without continuous learning and self-renewal, we face natural consequences of stagnation and irrelevance) and Teaching to learn (similar to Richard Feynman''s teaching?)</p>','2024-07-04 14:55:06.67','2024-07-04 14:55:06.67',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 14:55:06.669',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('af4f2ab3-585c-4fda-90a9-8bf843055854','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 35 ：：7月4日 星期四 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第七章 ： 灵性觉醒的快乐（Page 188-191）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">什么是信仰？信仰决定生命的方向和生活的方式与方法。是一种行为，它只有被实践的时候才有勇意义。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">爱自己、爱家人、爱员工、爱顾客、爱社会，懂得爱自己、爱别人、爱万事万物！不违背自己的内心，做自己喜欢的事情，学会释放自己的爱，发挥自己的智慧和价值。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">有信仰的生命是热情、大爱、坚定、从容、自由、勇敢和阳光。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">风雨教给我的永远是沉静、理智和智慧，因为有信仰的生命本身就是一束光！</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">利他思维。</span></p>','2024-07-04 14:57:20.218','2024-07-04 14:57:20.218',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 14:57:20.217',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('381fd4e1-ea63-4cc3-8885-c36483684ba0','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>我们在人生的各个阶段都有着不同的角色与使命。认识自己、往内心寻求与探索自己的需要，既能把下半段的人生过得美好。</p>','2024-07-04 15:00:39.943','2024-07-04 15:00:39.943',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:00:39.942',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('38e38ac9-8da6-4f7a-8ee9-befe407def39','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','5e3f10f7-6730-45c8-bdb1-ff31e3f024ba','<p>看了这篇章，虽然我还没到第三阶段林棲期（vanaprastha)，但我的思维已经在这里了。 我在18岁时候，我的状态像40岁那样。那时候心灵很苦，一直在追求，后来往内探索时候，慢慢又把自己调回比较原来的年龄层，但思维还是超越。</p>
<p>就很早就被痛折磨，所以很早往身心灵里走，近期都在探索静。。。却发现这力量非常无穷。</p>','2024-07-04 15:04:28.21','2024-07-04 15:04:28.21',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:04:28.209',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('356642ae-ce4f-429f-ae65-8aa8c4fc2d37','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>人生的四个阶段</p>
<p>1⃣️学生期</p>
<p>2⃣️家居旗</p>
<p>3⃣️林棲期</p>
<p>4⃣️遁世</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>随着我们逐渐年长，成熟，心灵上的成长越来越重要</p>','2024-07-04 15:04:48.212','2024-07-04 15:04:48.212',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:04:48.211',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('60594c17-f4ae-43aa-9bae-9c6b0c62d47b','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>首要成就才是我们一生锁定的目标，而不是那些外面的权位。<br>恒久不变的宇宙法则才是我们做人处事的原则，在这里没有偏颇，这些&middot;才是帮助我们成事的关键。<br>记得，即使在最难时刻，也要守着这些宇宙法则。</p>','2024-07-04 15:18:10.485','2024-07-04 15:18:10.485',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:18:10.484',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a202dee6-6129-4210-89a3-83141f699d84','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>在家居期间就开始看林栖期的大家怎么学习放下，</p>
<p>我想到 soft landing 这个词汇。</p>
<p>前面往前冲上云霄的同时，要准备好接下来怎么样做 soft landing，而不是harsh landing 甚至坠机。</p>','2024-07-04 15:13:05.724','2024-07-04 15:13:05.724',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:13:05.723',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5f833095-e967-4c4b-9a26-16051888bea6','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>将原则内化，通过十二杆杠提升品格与影响力让人生变得更丰富。</p>','2024-07-04 15:14:02.887','2024-07-04 15:14:02.887',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:14:02.886',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('29288828-10c3-4dd2-9f11-0b61478dddbd','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>活着就是人生的意义。因为人生只有生死，只有绵延。能活下来，能传下去。就是意义。</p>
<p>勤劳朴实，善解人意。这个就是安身立命的好方法。</p>
<p>做才有影响力。但是是要身体力行不是只会说不会做。带着爱的能量去做，和说完全吻合，这个说才能有真实的影响力。</p>','2024-09-07 14:47:27.527','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c9d44dd7-ce63-47c7-93de-f4af2413879e','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>印度学说认为正当生活分为四阶段：</p>
<p>学生期</p>
<p>家居期</p>
<p>林棲期</p>
<p>遁世</p>','2024-07-04 15:23:17.793','2024-07-04 15:33:39.022',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:33:39.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d473921a-f8ff-4583-a4f0-90ca79a532a4','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>寻求内心真正的宁静。只有回到自己，诚实面对自己，才可以&ldquo;隐退&rdquo;到自己的内在，重新调整自己的目标，让灵性的修为来带领自己的50岁。</p>','2024-07-04 15:34:19.427','2024-07-04 15:34:19.427',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:34:19.426',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('334cf3bb-04af-48f6-8906-54de1253e7c5','78b52e5c-7a06-49f1-b767-d719b1a31045','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>&ldquo;我们全都会有那么一天，而且脆弱将以许多形式展现。知道必然有那一天，知道后面将接着失去，令人不安，但也是机会。&rdquo;</p>
<p>人，需要有这样的信心和勇气。这是人在一次又一次的挫折中，体会和理解到的一个法则.。天下没有白吃的午餐，天下也没有白吃的苦。</p>','2024-07-04 14:47:41.234','2024-07-12 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('326c5013-275e-43bd-84be-3c869169cd31','edd95530-41e4-42a4-833d-ebd3b924a847','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>以始为终，一切归零，心态和看法都会比较正面。</p>','2024-09-28 13:46:43.265','2024-09-28 13:46:43.265',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-28 13:46:43.264',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('13423f48-9281-4b52-8a81-f17ab3063482','5cd3184b-4a1e-4da9-b7e4-dd0070addfc7','224ada56-b4c4-4cee-9baf-0badc4b884c6','<p>欢喜做，甘愿受。愿意，让事情变得简易，即使不顺利，也是愿意受的曲道</p>','2024-09-29 14:40:17.683','2024-09-29 14:40:17.683',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-29 14:40:17.682',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c7f9e027-b6c7-4888-a289-494afb2e9aff','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>&nbsp;- 成功人士遵守的十二个有效原则：</p>
<p>正直、贡献、优先目标、牺牲奉献、服务、责任、忠诚、相互性、多元性、持续学习、自我更新、教学相长</p>
<p>(这十二个杠杆并非成功的方程序，但却是获得成功最不可或缺的基石)</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 在事情发展越不顺利的时候，就越能分辨一个人追求的是首要成就还是次要成就</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 如果有两个人的想法相同，其中有一个一定是多余的</p>','2024-07-04 15:54:13.376','2024-07-04 15:54:13.376',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:54:13.375',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ac82503d-9e31-437a-9f8b-58fa72323a6c','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<div>1. 认识自己，就能获得解脱。</div>
<div>2. 向内心寻求平静。</div>
<div>3. 当心平静下来时，会发现内心一直存在的宝藏。</div>','2024-07-04 15:55:48.377','2024-07-04 15:55:48.377',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-04 15:55:48.376',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a993595f-34d6-4ead-9139-0c0b500cc16b','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>私密生活是个人内心只有自己知道的事情，但勇敢面对这个秘密花园绝非易事。例如童年最黑暗的一面，职场上做了哪些羞耻的事，婚后不可告人的秘密，哪些伤天害理的事等等是只有自己知道。</p>
<p>面对这些私密生活的镜子，需要转换思维模式。我们为何要这么做，做的目的是什么，最终会带来什么结果，如果要改变要怎么开始，开始后该怎么持续，持续中会面对什么问题，如何解决这些问题等等...</p>
<p>透过检测自己的目的来探索自己人生方向，这就慢慢引领我们走向首要成就的终点。</p>','2024-06-27 02:08:34.324','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ef9ae97f-d0a0-4963-9996-a3a1f3821a8f','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>作者说许多人在中年过渡期，出乎意料地对宗教与性灵产生兴趣，开始对信仰，宗教，性灵感到好奇或单纯想了解超越。箇中原因就是年纪大了就会明白，人生不是那么黑白分明，人们会开始容忍宗教模棱两可与不一致的地方，也开始看见信仰与性灵的美好与超越。</p>','2024-07-01 00:49:12.827','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('785312ae-3b2b-4e3a-9890-3d6bb14790cc','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>健康的私密生活是獲得首要成就的關鍵</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 07:55:16.895','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('063f248d-9cdb-456c-9da4-5d564b218f4e','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">Day 5: 5/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">五）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - p. 34~39</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">这里说的三重生活，我譬之为</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">V. </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">Satir</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">说的</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">peace within</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">（私密生活）；</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">peace between</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">（</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">私人生活）；</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">peace among</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">（</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">公众生活）。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">私密生活</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&rdquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">指的是自我觉察的能力，反省修己的能力，是</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;</span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">与己和</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&rdquo;</span></strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">的能力。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">简言之，与己和的终极目的是：明了自己的心性，拓展自己的抉择空间，达成自我人生的意义，兼及亲友与众生的福祉。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;</span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">当我学会乆积极的态度探索私密生活，我就启动了自我觉察、想像力与良知，同时开始练习运用自由意志，选择我的目的。</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&hellip;&hellip;</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">你拥有决定自己要什么的能力。唯有决定你的目的，你才算是真正开始生活。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">健康的私密生活是获得首要成功的关键</span></p>','2024-07-02 02:38:35.831','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('188924cc-9602-477b-b4d5-7b01755ef6bf','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>作者提出人有三重生活：公众生活、私人生活和私密生活。前两个是受到社会镜像、环境、周围人的主宰。而私密生活是需要放下社会镜像，进入自己的私密花园自我探索。有了这个能力，自己才能决定自己要什么，了解自己的深层渴望的根源。探索这座花园是要通过自我觉察、想象力和良知，开始锻炼运用自我意志，为自己做选择。而不是让自己处在&ldquo;自动驾驶&rdquo;的状态里。</p>
<p>最近在翻看一本薄薄的书&ldquo;The Shadow Effect, Illuminating The Hidden Poer of Your True Self" by Deepak Chopra. 我觉得这还是蛮不错的书。私密花园里有很多自己不愿意去看到的角落，自己不愿意去修剪的花卉。自己不动手，谁来动手？我相信修好自己的私密花园，外在的生活会更精彩。</p>','2024-07-02 13:29:59.184','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a566115a-68dc-4f99-9d7b-384580fc27ab','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','5c338adf-cc96-40a4-afe9-8fb6eae2e776','<p>信仰则可以让我们不得不进入宇宙，思考起真理的源头、生命的起源，以及他人的益处，</p>
<p>信仰也让我步入中年后，有了一个前行的方向，活得更踏实一些。</p>','2024-07-03 01:34:59.335','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('157778f9-0f49-478d-a5e3-13e50c51deb3','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>我們只會注重追遂利, 而忽略了自己內心深處, 還有一個真正的自己, 而這個我真需要的是什麼？&nbsp;</p>
<p>真正能深探自我人生的, 自然也能去体會,他人的內心,而能有同理心, 能達到同理會更忠于自己.</p>','2024-07-03 12:46:43.944','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fab9da92-36da-4cfb-b1c9-5cc2c4eaa054','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','0a08fea5-5f22-4ee8-a6b0-7c46e27899cf','<p>Day 35 ：7月5日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第七章 ： 灵性觉醒的快乐（Page 188-191）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>随着年龄的增长，经历了起起落落，发现快乐其实很容易获得，却不易保存，当达成了一个目标，得到了自己想要的，会很快乐，甚至买到自己喜欢的一件衣服、听到一句被称赞的话，也能让自己快乐，但同时也会发现好像这也没有想象中的那么快乐，快得有时甚至都来不及发现，他们就不见了。为了让自己的人生更精彩，于是不停的制定计划，达成目标&hellip;&hellip;似乎需要这样一个轨迹去记录人生。</p>','2024-07-03 13:56:53.1','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('23bd23b3-a6da-4a7f-b5cb-3eab51f769a5','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','810477ff-79c3-424f-8ea1-4dcb74aef362','<p>成年后找到信仰的好处，不仅是对人生感到满足，也与健康状态有关。</p>
<p>信仰让我们进入宇宙，思考真理的源头，生命的起源，他人的益处，不再只关注自己。</p>','2024-07-03 23:25:02.892','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('afe5166f-8adf-47df-9e32-295b8713a8ca','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 35 ：7月5日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第七章 ： 灵性觉醒的快乐（Page 188-191）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>信仰可以帮助人得到灵性的快乐，始终相信但不迷信。</p>','2024-07-03 23:47:35.802','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f8a2ad2e-aaf5-497e-8768-dd8a896a0562','7c5848d5-a834-4b49-9612-226a7c0be88c','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>线上、线下各有优劣，需进一步了解与突破。</p>','2024-08-27 13:25:10.269','2024-08-27 13:25:10.269',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 13:25:10.268',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6846b13c-963a-42f5-a1b3-c6bee9f272dd','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">大量的研究显示，相较于没有信仰，信仰宗教与追求性灵成长的成人，一般比较快乐，忧郁程度也比较低。幸福感增加也是最好的证明，当你认真花时间，把心思花在与超越有关的事物，此时你的目光将不再放在自己的小小世界，不会只关注自己。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">除了宗教外，对其他种类例如哲学也是可以的。发现那些作品藏着人生意义的秘密，可以带来快乐。</span></p>','2024-07-04 00:43:12.231','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('84e8f01f-da5f-4db7-90da-e5dd1008604c','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','9ec019e3-2781-4206-be53-c483ae61a027','<p>信仰、宗教、性灵、哲学等可以让我们不得不进入宇宙，思考起真理的源头、生命的起源，以及他人的益处，开始看见其美好与超越。</p>
<p>即便你过去忽视人生这部分，如果你处于人生的转型阶段，开始对超越方面的成长感兴趣，这其实符合人类发展阶段的走向，没必要抗拒。</p>','2024-07-04 01:05:10.327','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('939f918b-25b3-4c06-90d2-bef03630d4ca','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>当你认真花时间，把心思花在与超越有关的事物，此时你的目光将不再放在自己的小小世界，不会只关注自己。</p>
<p>信仰可以让我们不得不进入宇宙，思考起真理的源头、生命的起源，以及他人的益处。</p>','2024-07-04 03:27:40.869','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7574304c-52ff-44e0-847b-4165751482c4','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>健康的私密生活是获得首要成就的关键。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>想要探索私密生活，我们要放下社会镜像（= 社会让我们看见的自己，但可能与内在的自己没太大关联）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>我们是可以自己选择要做什么的能力，我们可以以积极主动的态度去探索自己的私密生活。</p>','2024-07-04 11:29:30.623','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7e7c449b-27bb-48a0-877b-8f1d025bb75e','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>我们有三种的生活面貌：<br>公众生活，私人生活，私密生活（心之所在）就是你这一生真正的目的.<br>然而我们常常最在意的是&ldquo;社会让你看见的自己&rdquo;，而这种自己却最不真实。<br>要真正探索私密生活，那就要先放下自己。<br>&rdquo;我是怎么想的？什么才是对的？我的目的应该是什么？&ldquo;<br><br></p>','2024-07-04 13:10:43.851','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
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<li>我们有三种生活：公众、私人和私密。私密生活是心灵所在，是人生的终极渴望和首要成就的源头。</li>
<li>许多人从未探究私密生活，受制于社会镜像，难以自我反省，导致生活空虚。探索私密生活需要放下社会镜像，从而找到真正的自我、安全感和归属感。</li>
<li>
<p>反思自己内心的真正目的和动机，意识到自己拥有选择和决定生活方向的自由。只有明确了自己的目的，才能真正开始生活。</p>
</li>
</ul>','2024-07-04 13:55:13.696','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0448a2c9-6662-4f72-a802-f26a3fe6832c','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>在人生的不同灵魂阶段，我们的第一第二曲线难免会有些曲折。有信仰的人相较于其他，比较没那么容易忧郁，一般比较快乐。</p>','2024-07-04 15:27:22.906','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9cedd4ab-d071-4a5a-a805-fe5b37be34c5','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>探究自己的内心深处，好好监视你的目的；</p>
<p>问问自己你的终极渴望是什么？ 勇敢的说出来，</p>','2024-07-04 15:21:29.419','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e1fb2a17-55bb-48f4-bcf3-c34aebf1707f','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>如果你过去忽视人生这部分,如果你处于人生的转型阶段,开始对超越方面的成长感兴趣,这其实符合人类发展阶段的问,没必要抗拒！</p>','2024-07-04 15:32:54.009','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d0ee26c9-d894-4a27-9722-01e963cc2428','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>信仰和哲學可以幫助我們發掘生命的意義，在人生第三階段，注重心靈成長。</p>','2024-07-05 00:19:22.821','2024-07-05 00:19:22.821',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 00:19:22.82',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5dacb70f-90fb-4e80-bf22-3b24f9acec6b','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>对宗教与性灵感兴趣，是觉得形而上的东西很真实，出现自己无法解释的变化。有宗教信仰的人会觉得比较快乐，患上忧郁症的几率比较低。</p>
<p>除了宗教信仰，也可以对其他自己感觉有兴趣的知识去投入，去了解。只要符合人类发展阶段的方向，没必要抗拒。</p>','2024-07-05 00:22:52.336','2024-07-05 00:22:52.336',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 00:22:52.335',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ff6e5270-8cbb-4995-8f6d-da35cecb86b4','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>探索灵性部分，我认为自己是一个零灵性者。直到两年前才开始往这方便探索，开始尝试认识自己。作者说到的探索灵性就是开始接触宇宙，开始思考人类的起源，这个我到感到很有趣。曾经有个人和我说，佛陀谈的三千大世界，就是宇宙以外的千千亿亿个星星，这个很神。</p>','2024-07-05 00:29:57.022','2024-07-05 00:29:57.022',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 00:29:57.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1a67c135-0561-4d18-a4ab-7cb0192ddbb3','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>有宗教信仰或接触心灵活动的人比较快乐。他们的关注不在于自我，更多是在思考生命的起源与意义。</p>','2024-07-05 00:50:44.373','2024-07-05 00:50:44.373',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 00:50:44.373',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2864f3b1-5e87-4558-b750-8fe1ce455ae6','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>对宗教与信仰产生兴趣，确实会开始关照自己内在、多接触人群，不会只想着要更多名与利。</li>
<li>身心灵健康，生活也跟着健康起来</li>
<li>对于衰退这回事，也能更明白是个常态，可以坦然接受</li>
</ul>','2024-07-05 00:53:18.142','2024-07-05 00:53:18.142',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 00:53:18.141',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('05f49149-9630-46da-9373-7b036ca29c11','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>自我反思，看看自己生活的目标和优先事项，重视个人隐私和空间。它还教你如何设定清晰的目标，并在实现这些目标时保持生活的平衡和和谐。</p>','2024-07-05 00:52:58.929','2024-07-05 00:53:17.001',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 00:53:17.001',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('378c54b4-45af-4710-8cb3-8bee9c8b7b8d','46d25138-8e19-4278-bc6a-95b10ed0c564','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>如同孩子一样天真，无邪，没有权利，地位，头衔的斗争。不穿戴太多的华服，把它们卸下，才能把内在的小孩放出来。</p>
<p>培养洞察力，与童年经验有关，越能自主体验多样环境变化的孩子，越能养成洞察习惯。</p>','2024-09-20 06:23:35.985','2024-09-20 06:25:40.447',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 06:25:40.446',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8d424406-a09b-46eb-91f9-24b3cfabf5b8','7ba9697c-c804-4352-86a2-8e8ad55ef6d1','224ada56-b4c4-4cee-9baf-0badc4b884c6','<p>通过大数据，找到对的客户群，就能够大大提高转换率。方向不对，努力白费</p>','2024-09-07 14:39:37.348','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('91e8f8b7-735d-4358-86be-3171368a4652','092b46a7-71e8-4be1-b11e-1c4a34b10fea','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 13: 13/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">六）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.72~76</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">培育四种天赋的方法：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">透过情绪日记培育自觉力。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">透过学习、倾听与做出回应，培育良知。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">由做出並兌现承诺，培育独立意志。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">透过视觉化（冥想）开发创造性想像力。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">我们可以藉由以下的方法，让自己始终秉持以原则为中心的生活方式：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: 21.0pt; text-indent: -21.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">一、</span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">确立自己生命中真正重要的事，写下你生命中的优先目标，分成重要和次要兩类，然后，擬订计划，确保你把最多精力与精神，放在最重要的目标上。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: 21.0pt; text-indent: -21.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">二、</span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">藉由创造性想像力赋予我们能力，靠自己创造未來。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: 21.0pt; text-indent: -21.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">三、</span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">坚守和兌现承诺，以培养正直的人格。</span></p>','2024-07-05 01:12:15.269','2024-07-13 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-13 00:00:00.003','2024-07-13 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('877cd5ff-a649-4966-bd29-72b9846d2305','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>喜欢这句&ldquo;人天生要战斗，而不是休息。人在行动中展现力量；人之所以伟大，不是目标伟大，而在于转变。（爱默生）&rdquo;</p>
<p>转变的过渡时期是有阵痛的。但是，九成会成功转换，让自己没有造成永久的挫败。人生里，所发生的重大事件都是正面的。</p>
<p>人一旦找到意义，生活会更安定，转换期的矛盾、痛苦，将创造出新的生活意义。</p>
<p>第二曲线好像也是让自己准备面对年老和死亡。</p>','2024-07-05 01:11:39.667','2024-07-14 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f0d1aebf-d2bb-4717-be69-77b8daffbd2c','923a66fc-40ff-4d11-8283-4c53bcfe4234','224ada56-b4c4-4cee-9baf-0badc4b884c6','<p>回购率是销售最后的环节，却是最重要的环节。因为在流量、转换率、客单价之后，能不能持续回购，才是生意能不能继续的主因。</p>','2024-09-07 14:44:29.975','2024-09-10 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-09-10 00:00:00.008','2024-09-10 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d221f353-d517-461e-8e9f-6efd2d1dc5ab','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day10：8月27 日 《活学》Part 1 人生最重要的事<br>第二章： 可以不一样 &nbsp;7. 逆境的三句咒语 &ndash; 9. 爱自己的方式（Page066-071）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>[逆境]的三句[咒语]</strong><br>可带我转化心性，走出逆境的三种"心" : 慚愧心，慈悲心，感恩心。(对不起-我爱你-谢谢你)</p>
<p>面对逆境的三种境界 : 心随境转，心不随境转，心能转境。修出惭愧心或慈悲心，才可以达到心不随境转。加上感恩心，才可以达到心能转境的境界。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>[叫停]的机制</strong><br>叫停让自己不再亏下去和有机会把自己[弄好]。<br>需要用深呼吸让自己平静下来，和自己的身体在一起，察觉自己的情绪，放松后才继续。</p>
<p><br><strong>[爱自己]的方式</strong><br>爱别人来自爱自己。<br>爱自己来自修行。<br>爱自己不是念头，而是结果。</p>','2024-08-27 14:01:37.775','2024-08-27 14:08:23.916',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 14:08:23.915',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">第四章： 更好的自己 </span><span lang="EN-MY">&nbsp;10.</span><span lang="ZH-CN">一切都是最好的安排！ </span><span lang="EN-MY">- 11. </span><span lang="ZH-CN">感谢的力量（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page132-135</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">一切都是最好的安排，不是指发生但是那些事，而是指当事人透过不断修正和觉察后，驀然回首时内心发出的那一句：啊，原来如此！</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">学习稻盛的认真修行态度；乐于分享、让自己持住感恩之心。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">稻盛和夫哲学的敬天爱人，就从感恩开始。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">人活着，就要感谢。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">感恩不仅是人生幸福的最重要元素，同时也是宇宙中最大的能量。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">人只有在感谢的状态下，才能真正的得到，否则别人给得再多，也收不到。约感恩的人得到越多，因为他不仅最能收到，让别人想给更多，连上帝也给更多。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">凡事存感恩，特别是对自己过不去的人说感谢，才是真正的突破。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">感谢你在今生让我遇见你</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">感谢你为我带来的看见和学习</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">感谢你成为我人生的一面镜子</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">感谢你认真扮演了自己的角色</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">感谢是宇宙间的大能量，是人生解脱和突破的钥匙，也是必修的日课！</p>','2024-09-07 14:52:34.27','2024-09-07 14:52:34.27',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 14:52:34.269',NULL,NULL);
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<p>以阿里巴巴集团副总裁侯毅，如此丰富的经验；综合运用了大数据、行动上网、智慧物联网、自动化等技术及先进设备，实现人、货、场三者之间的最优匹配。从供应链、仓储到配送，<em>盒马鲜生</em> 都有自己完整的物流体系，大大的提升了物流效率。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h2>祝愿大家＂马来西亚日＂快乐</h2>
<h2><strong><em>国泰民安 社会和谐 外资增加</em></strong></h2>','2024-09-15 13:06:08.388','2024-09-16 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-09-16 00:00:00.016','2024-09-16 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>重新排序商业利益？缩短一些环节，或者颠倒东西<br><br></p>','2024-09-20 07:03:30.425','2024-09-20 07:03:56.668',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 07:03:56.668',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>03 名创优品：M2B让实体小店拥抱春天（Page207-211）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>名创优品感觉有点像我们这里的99speedmart,店面不大，品类不多但配合日常生活所需，选址大部分靠近住宅区，服务当地居民。方便，不需要去大商场，先停车，再进去商场内；而是直接车停在商店门口，下车拿货付款上车。而部分货品售价比一半商家卖得低。</p>','2024-09-23 13:51:21.591','2024-09-23 13:51:21.591',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 13:51:21.589',NULL,NULL);
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<li class="li1"><span class="s1">一百万分的人生-我常常发现，我们的人生都在给别人打分数。如我们光顾了一些店、用了一些产品和服务，通常都会受到要求反馈的文券，那我们呢？是否也试过给自己打分呢？很多时候，事情的成败，就在于我们的思维，这思维将直接影响我们的行为。所以，只要思维正确，我们必能提升能力，把事情圆满。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">决定要快乐-快乐是个人的决定，与成功、地位无关。当有不如意事时，我们都应该关照内心的感受及念头，并选择对让我们不爽快的事情不加理会，选择快乐。</span></li>
</ul>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">人人都该改个性-心念在一系列的演变将成为个性，并主宰我们的命运。往往都听人说三岁定八十，命运不敌天意。其实，命运是由我们想发和行为定的。所以，要有好的命运，得从观照心念、进修个性做起。人生的路，我们一直都在修行、修性。</span></li>
</ul>','2024-08-27 14:23:05.981','2024-08-28 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-08-28 00:00:00.005','2024-08-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>心灵的宁静是让人感觉舒服的，宗教的修持有助这点。</p>','2024-07-05 02:59:30.752','2024-07-05 02:59:30.752',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 02:59:30.751',NULL,NULL);
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<p>探索内心世界需要勇气，因为需要面对不完整的自己、面对内心的黑暗面。一切始于我们自己的选择，我们可以是打造美丽花园的创意园丁。</p>','2024-07-05 05:22:32.753','2024-07-05 05:22:32.753',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 05:22:32.753',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('62326909-2ba0-4ab7-b697-ea09937a2058','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 15: 15/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">一）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.85~89</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">我们的观点会大大影响自己在当下的处境中看见了什么。因此，我们的信念局限了我们的视野，形成心灵的牢笼。其根源有四个：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">情感牢笼</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&mdash;自动反应导致情绪失控，造成人我之间因误解而起冲突，坏了人际关系。唯有承认自己犯的錯，並寻求对方的原谅，我们才能走出牢笼。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; letter-spacing: -.25pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">吹毛求疵的毛病</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&mdash;我们必要紧记</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">己所不欲，勿施于人；行有不得，反求诸己</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&rdquo; </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">这句古语，自觉地搞好人际关系。</span></p>','2024-07-05 01:48:16.785','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
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<li class="li1"><span class="s1">学听话-听话，是从小我们被灌输的教养，但真正的听话，是把别人的话、感受给听进去。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">学说话-只要没生理缺陷，说话就是人与身俱来的本领，但真正会说话的人，是怎样的呢？作者提出几个要点给要学说话的人甚是有效。一：别人不问，不轻易说，二：必要时只说重点，三：说的时候，要用心于聆听者，四：说话要给聆听者留有消化的空间，五：言出必行、以身作则。</span></li>
</ul>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">学赞美-口说好话，绝对没错。对身边人时时保持赞美之心，时时给予赞美，是给人最好的养分。</span></li>
</ul>','2024-09-15 13:18:34.734','2024-09-15 13:18:36.992',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 13:18:36.991',NULL,NULL);
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<p>光有技巧也还是不够。心存善念。才能有更好的人际关系。</p>
<p>思维方式才是最重要的。身 口 意&nbsp;</p>
<p>思维方式是行为和态度的源头，立场决定观点。</p>
<p>对自己的思维方式负责，懂得审视他，检验他。</p>
<p>能够聆听接受别人的看法，从而获得更广阔的视野和更客观的看法。</p>','2024-09-15 13:19:59.978','2024-09-18 00:00:00.016',NULL,'f','2024-09-18 00:00:00.015','2024-09-18 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('062722b0-b4dc-4234-b180-b66f2cdf9e32','50df68a4-e707-498c-9585-1afea5c7dbfa','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day 37：9月 23日 《活学》Part 3 跟人在一起<br>第七章： 职场的修炼 11. 恢复正常就对了 &ndash; 13. 人生实业家（Page228-234）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>恢复正常就对了</strong><br>许多人活着活着，角色扮演太投入甚至忘了自己是谁。要时常回到本心和初衷。找回/恢复自己，</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>把自己捐出去</strong><br>把赚到的钱捐出来做小小的公益。希望可以有更多的贡献。出力出钱。</p>
<p><br><strong>人生实业家</strong><br>遇到困境，改变自我。<br>专注改变自己能控制的那部分</p>','2024-09-23 14:05:08.962','2024-09-23 14:05:08.962',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 14:05:08.961',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b12d3d6c-5a9b-4620-b613-3f7fca25f7ad','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>如果把佛教当作是一种教育，而不是一种信仰，相信会有更多人可以接受和受益。</p>
<p>＂身，心，灵＂各占3分之一，失去平衡的修炼，就会出问题，不是吗？</p>
<p>为何动物无法被复制成功？</p>
<p>相信<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">关键在于＂有没有灵魂＂？</span></p>','2024-07-05 05:26:28.925','2024-07-05 05:26:28.925',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 05:26:28.924',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('39a7a8ac-de84-4217-a052-858fa7e4c201','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p>第七章：灵性觉醒的快乐。许多人在中年过渡期，开始对信仰，宗教与灵性产生兴趣，或单纯想了解超越，开始感到形而上的东西很真实，出现自己无法解释的变化。大量的研究显示，相较于没有信仰，信仰宗教与追求性灵成长的成人，一般比较快乐，忧郁程度也教低，也与较理想的健康状态有关。我们大多数的时候，脑中都只有我，有如一天之中一遍又一遍，看着一模一样的无聊电视节目，实在太无情了。信仰则可以让我们进入宇宙，思考起真理的源头，生命的起源，以及他人的益处。</p>','2024-07-05 05:47:08.386','2024-07-05 05:47:08.386',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 05:47:08.385',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4bf264ac-97a4-4a4f-bca5-42919ec4edfc','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>很庆幸步入中年，这么机缘巧合遇到了PK校长引导我参与佛光读书会，重新和深入认识佛法。宗教不是迷信，它让我们追本溯源，探索生命真谛，在生命终结之前，尝试搞懂生命。</p>','2024-07-05 08:17:28.803','2024-07-05 08:17:28.803',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 08:17:28.803',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('26674df9-7575-4f84-a2b7-5453e545d02c','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>信仰能让一个人更有规律和方向清楚该怎么样生活。人如果少了信仰也可能如同少了依靠，会做出一些超越道德底线的事。</p>','2024-07-05 10:05:45.659','2024-07-05 10:05:45.659',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 10:05:45.658',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e123dee3-f693-4d97-97c2-b0132ec198a6','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>各个宗教都提倡为善最乐、孝顺，奉献等良好品德。信仰让人心灵满足。有着奉献的心，相信人生会快乐很多。</p>','2024-07-05 10:27:24.614','2024-07-05 10:27:24.614',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 10:27:24.613',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e13845d0-3b91-417e-8f88-6faf7c60f977','059ea9bf-8955-4087-a6b1-dc9bd90deaaa','2873165e-9cfb-4c47-b7a9-c94e7f96e55d','<p>Addressing customers by name adds a personal touch that makes them feel special and valued. We should encourage all staff to practice using customers'' names, ensuring every customer feels welcomed and appreciated.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-05 10:37:53.527','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c96cf288-bd0d-4f8b-90dc-2e70ba204a6d','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>叫停，是一门学问。生意的叫停往往可以止损。个人情绪上的叫停可以防止情感恶化。适时的停顿调整，是对自己与他人负责。</p>
<p>爱别人，来自爱自己；爱自己，来自修行。</p>','2024-08-27 14:27:10.762','2024-08-27 14:27:10.762',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-27 14:27:10.761',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bab86822-01c4-4cdd-b724-48f3cde95e22','df201350-b7cc-4d0c-bfad-4bbdb8405a52','2873165e-9cfb-4c47-b7a9-c94e7f96e55d','<p>I personally like the idea of setting a reminder system as it can make customer remember you easily whenever they need your service or products</p>','2024-07-05 10:34:53.193','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
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<p>In our furniture business, we practice offering wholesale prices for customers who purchase in bulk. This approach ensures exceptional value, making large-scale purchases more affordable and convenient for our customer.</p>
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</div>','2024-07-05 10:49:38.812','2024-07-12 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fbd410ce-22e3-4330-81a4-3ac8e3f1feb3','a83de9e4-af47-4da9-b850-9c6d3880cef8','b39b0560-2afe-40f2-bd69-0114180ed19e','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">Day 21&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;5/7/24&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Onion Marketeology - Chapter 6&nbsp;&nbsp;Repeat Transaction</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">Frequent Buyers Program (Page 107-111)</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">🎯</span><span lang="EN-US">Thoughts after reading</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：<br>interesting how company can provide benefits in terms of several program/membership and pricing strategy targeted to hook on customers urgency of buying.<br>the front desk staff is important, no customer would want to handle a sour faced attitude when coming into a store.<br>surprise gift for 1000th etc is good for branding as well, more people would be willing to spend in anticipation&nbsp;</span></p>','2024-07-05 11:13:43.999','2024-07-05 11:13:43.999',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 11:13:43.998',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('373152b4-c8b9-4667-be0c-a33657116616','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 35 ：7月5日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第七章 ： 灵性觉醒的快乐（Page 188-191）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：<br>年轻时花更多外长的追求。人在年龄渐后，反而开始感到形而上的东西很真实，出现自己无法解释的改变。开始看见性灵的美好与超越。即便过去忽视人生这部分，如果你处于人生的转型阶段，开始对超越方面的成长感兴趣，这其实符合人类发展阶段的走向，没有必要抗拒。</p>
<p>信仰很个人，不必要争论。明白自己为何选择这信仰的以终为始。在我们的日常生活中行出上帝的品格和爱。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-05 11:15:55.362','2024-07-05 11:15:55.362',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 11:15:55.361',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('64b4b811-c05d-4401-985a-a876960dd196','9528f841-7269-4eb3-af6b-c4b5b670bd90','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>人不如鼠阿。</p>
<p>老鼠撞牆后，就会转弯，但人往往不会，只怪此牆挡我路，挡我者死？</p>
<p>人不如鼠不是智商问题．而是业力深重。</p>
<p>业力消了，人老实了，才有能力面对无常。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-20 07:06:25.638','2024-09-20 07:07:13.67',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 07:06:25.637',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">Include Coupons in Marketing Materials (Page 124-129)</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">🎯</span><span lang="EN-US">Thoughts after reading</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：<br>Coupons in mkt flyers can catch walk in customer<br>no 22 would require a strong base of staff who believes in the comp mission and vision<br><br></span></p>','2024-07-05 11:37:04.063','2024-07-08 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
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<p>1) After immersing myself in "Onion Marketeology," I''m passionate about transforming our business approach. Central to our strategy will be a customer-centric focus, where we prioritize understanding and meeting the needs of our customers. I also aim to develop innovative marketing campaigns that not only capture attention but also resonate deeply with their desires and aspirations. By leveraging insights from the book, we can craft engaging stories and experiences that foster stronger connections with our audience, ultimately driving growth and loyalty.<br><br>2) Joining a study group has motivated me to cultivate greater discipline in my learning journey. The structured sessions and shared accountability are helping me stay focused and make consistent progress toward my goals.</p>
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<p>covey运用了金蛋和金鹅的比喻。</p>
<p>金蛋比喻做产出，金鹅为产能。</p>
<p>重蛋轻鹅的人会保不住资产，反之，吃不饱。</p>
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<p>人有三类资产，物质资产，金融资产，人力资本。</p>
<p>物质资产需要定期维修，才可maximise efficiency。</p>
<p>金融资产，即需要保持本金的数额。</p>
<p>人力资本则需要关注人力的产出和产能的平衡，人与人相处的平衡。</p>
<p>如果用自身外力去达到目标，只看结果，金蛋，届时金鹅会透支而死亡。</p>
<p>团体里，领袖需要找到产出和产能的平衡点，让公司正常达到资本积累，也让出适当的分成给打拼的员工。</p>','2024-09-23 14:05:56.911','2024-09-23 14:05:56.911',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 14:05:56.91',NULL,NULL);
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